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Lol I'm not sure I understand what you mean by "please assist me".. We can't tell if she's lying neither can we enter her womb to assess the level of damage.. For the fact that you think she could be lying, then that comparison with the other lady who "said" she had 7 abortions but has 4 children now.. Smh I really do not know what to make of you.

Nope, you didn't offend him in any way.. I'm sure he has his reasons, do not let that bother you so much.. Just keep doing amazing okayy.

If you put in dedicated efforts, you can.

Congratulations Nonso, the sky is your starting point.

"She's a well-known person yen yen yen", ehen kilo tun ku, abeg abeg cut the crap.. She nur kee anybody na, na belle she carry.. It's pretty normal for her to get anxious, onkuu I tink you say you loff her bi eji owuro ehen marry her asap tabi ki o lo shey introduction papaapa, o pari.. mastermaestro has said it all on the 1st page gan.

If he sits at home all day doing nothing, waiting for you to come back from your shop to do basic chores, then that is not fair at all.. The least he could do when you're away is to keep the house clean & tidy, that's basic home training and then make something he'd eat, ofcourse something his younger brother "fit use hol' belle" after the day's hustle, even if it's just to show that he cares and is truly concerned..

I'll tell you what, even if you were to politely ask him to help out, even if you were to go on your knees to beg him, he will "intentionally misunderstand" you, things will go from 0-100 real quick.. He'll flip the respect coin on you and play the victim card "of him being at your mercy" for friends, family and whoever cares to listen; the society will pat him at the back for not allowing you "lord over" him.. Nobody will see it from your own point of view, nobody will understand, nobody will hear you out..

But then, if you feel you could talk to him, you could try yh but I'll be verrry hopeful that doesn't cause badblood between you two.. If you ask me, I'd say you should try to overlook it all instead, it's very frustrating I knoww this but anything for peace to reign please.. I do know that he would do the needful or make plans for it if he was in his own house, ofcourse without having anybody to tell him or beg him to do so.. It's hard juggling business with chores but you have been actively doing it, the best way you could yh before your brother came in the picture and so I believe you can handle this, I know you can.. Sure there is a limit to what a human being can take and I can only hope he doesn't push you to your limits.. All the best!

BareFacedLies:
You people want to run and leave the mess you helped create. You're not going anywhere!

Hahaha nur worry, na me stand gidigba for gate.. Na from im boxer I go drag am go back, he goes no where We die here ni

NONAME11223 If you ain't chasing clout here yhh... I breezed through your profile a while ago, there's just so many questions and I'm stumped for words.. Likeee wtf! Girrl, you are so unbelievable jeezz..

I honestly cannot for the life of me understand how you would be treading a very clear road path in broad daylight, with your eyes wide open yeah and consciously choose to walk right straight into a ditch.. Over and over and over again.. Why? Why would you do that to yourself? And to what end really? For love that do not care, that do not respect you, that do not support you so much so you're treated like a worthless leech.. And you're really waiting to have the marriage talk with this same person? Is this the love & life you truly want for yourself, the future you envisioned for yourself? Wow, just wow..

Aalll the while, the handwriting has been on the damn wall but you probably mistook it for some work of art that could fade off sometime, you didn't/don't want to take off the rose-colored love-shaped glasses you had/have on to see things for what they really were/are.. Just curious, do you still have those glasses on? Yeah cos after these past few years, I thought you would've snap those broken pieces stuck in your facial skin.. Or no you're waiting till you "lose your eyes"? Is that it? Why dear? Huh? Do you hate yourself that much?

Well, all I can say is this.. You do need help, serious help so please go get help as soon as you can.. And when this is all over, do see a therapist as well.

Ochendo, may your soul find rest.. Your legacy lives on, Chief.

Archie's got a baby sisterrr.. Congratulations on your new bundle of joy, Duke & Duchess of Sussex.

KAM3KAZI:
Bro,this thing happen for film abi you watch this thing happen real life?

E pain me sey I forget the title, dah feem open my eye wella.. If pesin help dem wahala o(dem go talk for back sey you no do am well, use bad-mouth & badbelle follow am), if pesin no help wahala(dem go talk sey you dey raise shoulder for dem, still use bad-mouth & badbelle follow am).. I tire oo.

Lol I'd seen some nairaland posts pop up on my Google search pages, read some & found 'em really insightful.. Few years later, I was probably just clicking away one fine Tuesday afternoon and thought to myself "I should check this out for real".. On & off but here I am, officially 2yrs & counting

JFiveX:
yes , it is only my face ,
Is there drug i can use because i don't have nough money to see doctor now .

I do not know how long this has been going on but what I can say is there are tiny creatures crawling beneath the surface of your skin.. They are nocturnal which means they sleep in all day & resume their activities at night.. If it's just your face, does it itch? I can't say for sure what insect burrows in & out of your facial skin as it could be bed bugs, mites, lice, etc.. You could go to a good pharmacy, ask to see the pharmacist.. I do hope you get the help you seek.

If it's just your face, I can't really say.. See a doctor as soon as you can.

Your heart rate isn't that scary but yeah it should be monitored closely..

As Ninejaywon said, you ought to watch what goes into your body(&out).. You sure need to maintain a healthy lifestyle.. Please do away with those junks & carbonated drinks, you can replace them with healthy alternatives & snacks, do this gradually, start little.. I know there will be lapses here & there, it's not so easy to get off esp when there's this addiction but baby steps baaby steps.. Keep your body hydrated, eat healthy, live healthy.. Exercise is good but I'm not gonna lie, keeping up the consistency is the hardd part and then that feeling like your heart is gonna jump right out of you is just so terrifying so going for evening walks is cool, hiking too..

Sorry about the panic attacks, you need to ease off some.. I feel there's so much anxiety and you're definitely overthinking stuff so I also agree with getting a blood pressure monitor, to be on the safe side.. Do fix your posture as well, learn to push your chest out a lil bit & hold your head up more, your legs straight maybe few inches apart.. Breathe dear, breathe, you'll be fine.. Seek medical help whenever the need arises.

Skyvexkent:
Sacked me twice but still took me back apologizing, I dey fear wetin him fit do small shaa

You've got another chance, he is a good man.. Not many people get this so don't blow it.. Listen attentively, be focused, do your job diligently, accord him respect & be polite at all times.. Do not push him to his limit.. All the best!

fuckingAyaya:
lemme shock you with a life story he get another guy man wey do the same thing he go see pastor for prayers pastor tell am say na him two uncle's wey dey village dey do,guy man go village go dey accuse those uncle's say them wan kill am na him the uncle's burst laugh say we no wan kill you stupid boy we just wan make u dey useless for life oya come inside make we show u mirror how u take come village even how u take go meet pastor and see all the things wey pastor tell you before coming to village see yourself for our monitoring mirror see the company wey u dey work for Lagos u just dey work in vain so no dey fear say we wan kill you.if we wan kill you we for don kill you long time again but we just wan make u come back to village empty handed u go just dey labour in vain.what am telling you is a life testimony,so in this life we can't be too careful or too wise we just pray Evil things don't befall us,na God dey guide and protect person

Omoooo ×1000

You don off me Fear don enter my body now now Baba God abeg ooo na your hand we dey o.

Barbiturate:
We planned getting married. She was living with me. I lost my job. Things became tough. Became broke. She couldn't cope. She started getting frustrated and abusive. She aborted our baby, packed her things and went back to her mom. Couldn't pay my rent, went back to my mom's.

Mom's neighbor disturbing her with Gen set and the fumes. Kept the Gen at Mom's window.
Confronted her and she refused to remove and resorted to verbal abuse. She called me "An old jobless fool, who lives with his mom at his age"

I am happy. I wait on God. If he likes it this way, so be it!

Move her generator away from your mum's window everytime she does that.. What rubbish! Do not exchange words with her henceforth, just do whatever you have to do to make sure you & your mum are living in good condition & a serene environment.. It will be well, God will come through for you and for all of us looking up to Him.

fuckingAyaya:
Because I no get money I go village them no poison my food

Hahahaha kaii you be case aswear kuku kee me

You jus make me remember wan feem wey I watch.. Guyman go park im motor for farrrrr place(I been think sey na their market square sef), change im clothes, comot im better shoe, put all of them for boot, con nack wan yeye slippers wey don tire for life with dirty jean & yamayama polo, carry bag like pesin wey dey hopeless.. Naso Guyman arrange himself as im dey enter im Villa with legedes Benz, just dey happy dey whistle dey go.. I been no know as things dey unfold for dah Villa until I see where 2 old men(na dem be the real monitoring evil spirits wey no like progress at all at all), dem call Guyman dey ask am "Mike, so you dey this village since?" Guyman say "Yes o, I jus come back 2wks ago sir" Dem say "So you dey here since 2wks?" Guyman say "Yes sir, I dey go back now sef" Dem con talk "Ehen which work you dey do for city sef"(smiling wickedly) Guyman say "na bread oo, I jus dey try hustle small small sir" Dem talk "So you mean you hawk bread around in the city, in traffic or where? Guyman say "Yes sir, I dey sell to all those people wey dey travel, I dey even enter street sell if e remain" Dem squeeze nose, look demsef for eye con talk "Wait, is it sliced bread abi the wan wey dem dey use hand tear?" Guyman say "the two both of dem oo but most especially the other wan" Dem still ask am "So no sliced bread?" Guyman say "Sometimes" Na dah time dem shake head(fake pity) con discharge Guyman but as dem turn dey go na their evil laff dem dey laff(e totori dem as nobody for their village dey progress) E sweet me die sey Guyman sef don too know dem wella and na why im dey always package imsef laidat anytime wey im wan go village.. As dem leave am sef, im sef dey laff dem say dis evil men dey look for pesin wey dem go spoil im future, dem no go see me sha.. Naso im reach dah place wey im park im motor, look front look back look right look left before im go for boot first of all comot the polo, slippers & then the jean, quickly squeeze himself for im better traditional outfit with correct shoe, rush enter steering, reverse fast fast and then he drove speedily without looking back.. Wahala for who no know oo lol

Hahaha shebi he will stand up to go na I'll wait to see how he does that, after a beautiful encounter with my pestle A day to remember

This is so hilarious

So you still need to be told to use protection while engaging in s.ex with your numerous partners, in this 21st century.. Tomorrow, you will develop amnesia on seeing another fresh babe

To stop having these recurrences, you should stay off sex for some time, take your medications judiciously, eat healthy, up your hygiene, do a complete overhaul of your underwear & beddings, I'm sure your doctor must've told you all these & more.. Also, I hope you're taking the right medications for it though.. It's not always about the money, it is how well it works to combat/alter the action of not just the type of the causal organism but also the organism itself, I do not intend to go into all of that.. Raw is sweet yh, do not forget how sweet those tiny demons feel as they ravage your body now, they sure enjoy it, to say the least.

Amen oo

In this month of June, may lines fall in pleasant places for us and may our reasons to smile be as plenty as the sand that covers the Sahara desert.

Billionsclub:
Thanks so much everyone, I am truely encouraged

It's good you feel better now..

I understand you perfectly.. I'll tell you the truth, people will always talk.. You can never please everybody, there will always be someone/people that'll come out to say negative things about you, even those you've never interacted with all your life.. Even if you decide to lay your life for their sake, they'll still have something to say, good & bad.. Do not let this bother you at all cos people will always always talk, know this & know peace.. Shalom!

It means that your request could not be processed at that time.. Maybe keep trying til it goes through, eventually it will.

It must've been tough.. May take some more time to heal but you will be fine

What if you hadn't found out everything & you had continued with the relationship, she would've probably fed you more & more lies(so as not to hurt you lol), strung you along the whole time & one day drop the bombshell on you.. She was "playing" him til he started pulling some strings, they both knew what they wanted.. Her family was very much aware, it was indeed very pleasing to them.. Nothing new, he only just came back for his beloved after expressing his love for her as well as her family when he was in the abroad.

May God bless you both IderadeAratumi & jabberjawz beyond measures, may He perfect all that concerns youuu.. Keep doing a great job!

Hahahaha nothing is wrong with your little boy.. Mine is running around, climbing all over everything, wants to do everything I & other members of my family do.. Children, so full of energy, they just want to play play play and play rinse & repeat.. This is just a phase, whatever he does, wherever he goes, alwayss beam your eagle eyes on him & keep him away from danger at all times.

Omuka:
Someone linked me to my state Fcc chairman and we are meeting very soon. Please, can he help me secure job among the A list agencies if i tender it to him?

Nice one.. I'd say shoot your shot and see how it goes from there.

May God comfort and strengthen your loved ones and may He grant you eternal rest, Amen.

E be things o, e be really things.

It is an age-long tradition, oh yes it is..

I do not think you are entirely out of line though but she should've at a time met/interacted with her soon-to-be inlaws atleast once either planned or by coincidence.. I do not know how long you both have been in a relationship but my deductions from this is that you just started seeing her in your future; you've now seen reasons why you should do forever with this person.. Here comes the big question: "Are you very sure about this?" And then "How sure are you?" These are the questions your soon-to-be inlaws want answers to and as they say actions speak louder than voice..

I do not know how you intend to go about this esp as your family do not live in the same state as you; and afaik her parents would never oblige to her going to see your family.. Here's what I'll say: think this through very very well, sleep over it, pray over it.. If you still have that strong conviction deep down, that she is the person you really want to spend the rest of your life with.. You should then call your family together, talk about it, let them hear you out, make your mum understand, go to her room later, sit with her, hold her hands, look into her eyes, tell her how much you need her blessings & support; do not leave without mum's blessings, make sure she's on the same page, your brothers may not really understand but I'm sure your mum will.. She will help talk to your older relatives, as well as talk them into accompanying you to your soon-to-be inlaws house, they'll then decide within themselves who & who would go with you, you will have to keep them informed on the arrangements & date..

It is just an introduction, your soon-to-be inlaws would want to know you in particular, what manner of person is their soon-to-be son-in-law?.. They're not giving out their daughter to you that day lol so don't be scared.. This is just where you & your people will say to them "we're here with our son to ask for your daughter's hand in marriage"(officially).. Remember you'll still have to come back for the list plus there may be other steps to take before that too..

Just ensure you think this through, it's your life and marriage no be beans, are you really ready for this? Do you truly love that lady & wanna do forever with her? Are you sureee? Your genuine answers to these questions will determine the next action to take, you'll be fine.. My 2kobo!

Simply means you can't follow more people as you've reached the limit.. Yes, there is a limit to your followings at any specific time; daily, weekly, etc and you have exceeded yours..

Just wait it out and try some other time, no cause for alarm.