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If it wasn't just a one-time or random thing, probably she was like an acquaintance or something, you could've chatted her up to ask what went wrong & why the 'sudden cold treatment' towards you.. Anyway, it doesn't matter as you've deleted the number now but maybe it won't hurt this much plus you'd have gotten answers to these questions you ask and then that closure.. Aii, we locomote!

Nope, your mum is not at fault.. The girl's mum is hurt say heartbroken cos "she never experred it" and thinks putting the blame on your mum or someone else would help her not lose her sanity.. Her daughter was obviously having the best time of her life that she threw caution to the wind.

Clara16:
Just a few months ago, my younger brother beat my father not once not twice. What do you think I should do?
This will also help people are facing a similar situation.

Please sensible and godly advise.

He is a very angry person and has pride just because he was looking for the house key, and discovered that the key he was looking for was held by my dad. He started beating him. He has even destroyed some of our properties at home all in the name of anger.

This is not the first time nor the second maybe the fourth, and y'all just sit & do nothing.. Are you kidding me? What should you do?! Are you catching cruise here, no really.. You say your brother is a very angry person & has so much pride, that is no excuse whatsoever for his actions.. Pesin go vex break break everything wey dey house, use am give paale blue black, una dey der dey look am na wa oo.. Come my Villa, mek youths dem give am better mending lasan, im go dey alright.. Abeg who no dey vex as everything tek be for dis awa Nigeria?! Pssst tell dat your bros mek im try dey calm down oo, na mek im no go jam d wan wey pass am o.. Egungun be kiafu!

My godly advice: He needs to get his head checked.. He should see a psychiatrist asap.

My 1naira_

Sorry Shan.. May God grant her eternal rest.

doggedfighter:
Condolences, Shan

Sorry about your loss

I lost my father on Friday too.

It's still hurting but what can we do?

May he rest in the bosom of our Lord and may God comfort & strengthen you & your family.. Do accept my condolences.

kellyaa:
Based on this does it mean that Nimasa pays only this 180k and no upfront?

I think that's what was obtainable at the time Tammy posted the list.. Some changes may have been made, maybe someone who knows could help edit the list with recent info & figures or salary range.

*Sigh* I wish we could really teleport & see into the future orrr go back in time.. Just to reiterate what the doctor said "you only live once my dear".. Your boy & Kiishi needs their mummy more than ever; alive, strong and brave.. Alwayss remember that, don't ever give up.

ANON333:
Cream and mini crackers are my favourites because of their peculiar taste which has been constant for a while now. Of recent the company has altered their flavours(or whatever they're called). Though I don't have issues with the increment in price - everybody understands the economic situation at present but to the reduce the pack size and still alter the taste - that is arrant foolishness and it betrays the confidence of loyal patrons like myself.
Beloxxi cream crackers now tastes like cabin biscuit. It is so heart wrenching.

You don't mean it?! I remember buying cartons of Beloxxi crackers just cos I loved how it tasted in my mouth, how it didn't give my teeth so much work, how it melts on my tongue and I only have to savour and then swallow.. I haven't had it in a long long while though.. Parle Top buttery crackers may not be it but you could try it out orr veggie crackers as the commenter above me has suggested.

Awwwwn congratulations to the couple, may joy abound in your home and God's unlimited blessings be showered on you & yours.. Great job Mr. Phil tha sensational photographer!

Writing grocery list, cutting back on a lot just so you can at the very least survive but then getting to the market and still have to reluctantly forgo more stuff cos you've expended your budget + gbese.. O ti su mi gan

If 2021 is like this, I do not want to imagine how 2022 will be afi olorun yo wa.

It is indeed Ludwig angina.. Your sister needs immediate medical attention, please get your family involved before she starts having difficulty in breathing.. The earlier, the better

She has some skeletons in her cupboard.. You could tell her to meet you at the hospital bringing the baby along with her, also you could stick to your words "no dna test, no money" orrr you could totally ignore her.. Considering all you've put in, I do think you need some form of closure.. However, it's all up to you.

Lol.

As water no dey for Nigeria & d wan wey dey available sef dey itch you for body, how e go be nau? Actually illicit is right so mek you rush go troway dah soap o.

PeaceOfMind2:
Thanks for the info.
Were you able to treat it completely? Please tell me what to do

My pleasure.. I remember some time ago when I had an ulcer attack, it was so bad that I couldn't eat Eba or even drink garri, I had to make do with cornmeal which we call "Agidi" or "Eko".. That flatulence & diarrhea had me taking just pap all day yh and watery noodles.. Couldn't sit still/upright, it was so crazy, I thought I was already pooping my intestines, my mum was horrified.. After that incident, I was determined to find a lasting solution and then I was prescribed same drugs as you were but on second thought I ditched those drugs(well, partly cos I hate swallowing pills) sooo here's what I did(& still doing):

• I drank lots and lots of water, still do.. First thing when I wake up, before eating esp when I should have eaten something much earlier but for unforseen circumstances did not.. Also when I feel dehydrated & then last thing before I go to bed.. Sometimes when I wake up to pee, I go for 1-2 glasses of water
• I eat fruits & vegetables.. Fruits like banana, watermelon, cucumber have a kind of cooling effect on the stomach esp when you're still undecided on when & what food to eat at any time of the day.. Avoid fruits containing citric acid but if you must have oranges, pineapples, etc then make sure they are very ripe & sweet, no be dah wan wey dey slap slap pesin o
• I made sure to avoid fried foods, I still had my fried plantain though but not the oily & soggy kind
• I couldn't eat groundnuts, beans & other foods made from beans like akara, moi-moi, it was upsetting to my tummy and then the heartburn, flatulence & diarrhea.. But sometimes whenever I borrow liver to eat them with my coconut head, Gascol alwayss got my back lol
• If you love hot spicy meals like I do, you need to match brake on that one o, match am small
• You can have many small meals in a day.. Please do not load your plate with large amount of food in one sitting.. Instead of having 3 big meals, you can eat as much as 10 small meals & snacks at 1-2hrs interval each, moderation is the key
• Alcohol, match brake wella.. Self-medication, use the hand brake, you need to be extra careful about what goes through your mouth & into your body.. Migraines, on no account should you take aspirin.. If you start having diarrhea coupled with other ulcer symptoms, keep drinking lots of water, eat those fruits that are alkaline in nature with high water content, please & please do not take Flagyl.

I have been doing these and I can now comfortably eat beans, akara, etc as they do not cause me so much discomfort as they did before.. I hope this helps, take care.. Sorry for the delayed response.

chiomaxwell27:
please help I am also suffering from high range of bp it goes down and up uncontrollably. it start a month plus now when I moved from my serene job to go and work in ajah I started having migraines, my eyes would be seeing clouds and neck pains. I was rushed to the hospital and the reading was 148/100 they refuse to give me bp drugs saying am too young at 26 yrs. then I was later admitted for typhoid and malaria with bp reading of 128-133/80-100 sometimes. now am back to my base no more work always at home with my one year old baby but the neck, shoulder, chest, half of my body is still paining and I checked my BP yesterday it was 140/90 I can't sleep even at night. please help they are refusing to give me drugs because I am asthmatic and also breastfeeding.

I'm really sorry.. I sincerely hope you have a family relative helping you out with the baby.. In my own case, I can't quite remember but my mum was great help til I was able to ease off some with Aldomet.

Hmmmm, honestly it's really not just about pills..

There's a whole lot you need to know about ulcer, I expected them to help you understand what it is and not just prescribe these drugs

I do hope you know what triggers those symptoms, you really should avoid anything that triggers it.. Most importantly, make water your best friend, you need gazillions of it to neutralize the HCL acid that builds up which in turns causes you that heartburn & discomfort.. I can't say much about using native herbs as I didn't like it one bit when I initially tried some.. For the most part, basic knowledge of acidity & alkalinity in chemistry helped me figure it out on my own but that was after reading a lil more about ulcer.

My pikin omo mi toh sure ju, then mumsy tooto, sissy mi her excellency, olowo ori mi will then have me all to himself

Lmaoooo it's his facial expression for me

SoftP:
& he will refer you to the first and Second paragraph of ur application letter’

’I BEG TO APPLY ‘
‘I CAN WORK UNDER ANY CONDITION ‘

If he’s magnanimous enough before giving u a sack letter, he will explain to you how Buhari has destroyed the economy

Looking at my CV(#facepalm) 'I can prioritize tasks and meet deadlines'.. Me stuttering: Oga sir, ees nuh laik dat.. My husband just born 5twins and hospital manager is on my neck, even soldier aff already come my house.. Plis sir, no vex, jor mabinu, God loves you sir.

omolola100:
The load on my head is too much sir, please reduce it.

Hahahaha no be small load.. If it's cashew nut, I can help you reduce it but please don't report me to olopa or soja, tenkiu in hadfanse

DirtyGold:
Start singing that Kizz Daniel's song... "see this life I no like trouble o... no go dey do pass yourself... pemperipe pemperipepe..."

He'll get the gist

Most times, having work overload arises when you've hinted to your employed that you can over labour yourself by your own actions like foolishly working overtime unpaid, trying to impress by rushing through your work so as to appear competent, unnecessarily accepting multiple tasks at the same time etc

What's tha business?

iamyemiakins:
Tell him/her with ur full chest!

Emphasis on the "full chest" i.e if you get mind oo

24kmagic:
Say it this way "Boss, work too much for my table ooo! Una want kill me for this company. On top how much? I go soon leave this job for Una.

Buhahahaha "I go soon leave this job for una" no be lie

When I read your first post(which is this one), I'm sorry but I couldn't help the laughter.. I can't explain why but it somewhat tickled me lol.. Not the hearty cheerful laughter though

After reading your second post, I most definitely understand you better.. If you hadn't come back with that second post, I probably won't be here doing this..

Going with this very first post, I see the "introduction" you meant was just like officially letting your parents know that he is the man in your life.. The title made it seem like it was the one he comes with a few members of his family to say he wants to seek your hand in marriage.. Yhh I totally get you when you talked about those ethics that should guide us in whatever actions & decisions we take or make; that is essentially what makes us who we are, irrespective of religion or denomination or whatever.. I acknowledge your apology as this doesn't really have much to do with his denomination, it is an individual thing.. Salvation is a personal race, the clergy only teach you about the ways of God, how to have a good communication with Him and how to grow spiritually.. It is left for us to understand & imbibe the teachings in our everyday living.. I'll resist the urge to digress further

Of a truth, nobody likes to be cheated on, nobody.. Shit happens and people just try to whitewash it for reasons best known to them.. I can tell you are very ambitious and it is a good thing trust me, you don't have to dim your light, why can't we have it all in marriage? I do not know why he is averse to you reaching for the stars, he probably has his reasons yh I do not know what it is, most definitely do not want to know cos I know those sorry excuses are not good enough.. Take NOI for example, did you see how her husband not only understood her, he stood by her through & through, they both made it work.. A movement all by herself but then a powerful force with her husband.. She's just one of many women who have become really successful careerwise & otherwise..

My parting shot is this- I know it's been 3yrs of getting to know each other, not 3wks and definitely not 3days, it won't be easy.. Also, there's that pressure yunno cos your younger sister is married, started a family & all that but tbvh if you really really really cannot deal with these(like it's a deal breaker for you & you just cannot can) then I see no reason why you would want to go the long way with him.. Sometimes our parents don't really understand, they may not esp if they love the fact that he's a Catholic, ofcourse many many people will not understand.. You see, marriage is indeed a lifetime affair and forever is too long to stay unhappy.. Everybody deserves to be happy.

Change of environment & stress did a number on me, having to wait for lady red seemed pretty normal cos my cycle is like that sometimes.. Even the spike in my blood pressure wasn't worrisome to me cos I knew I was hypertensive a long time but I'd never wanted anything to do with those routine drugs so I stayed living in denial lol..

First & Second semester
• Loss of appetite
• Fatigue
• Increased sense of smell, even inhalation of air was a problem, my Rob/Vaseline was always with me everywhere I went.
• Frequent urination
• I thought the skin irritations & discoloration came with the stress, gosh so much stress at work & the environment wasn't even friendly.. Ahh my nose was big eh, my whole face sef.
• Constipation
• Hair loss

Quarter to delivery
• Olympics was going on inside awa belle
• Voracious appetite
• Insomnia
• Heartburn
• Throbbing headaches
• Dah kain heat wey na to dey lie down for ground sure pass; AC/fan be like wen pesin carry hand fan dey blow me breeze kaiii.

What I enjoyed
• The attention, love & care
• The backrubs
• When I woke up to new wears & accessories
• Going through baby list and ticking the boxes
• Laying in bed, tossing around lol yh

Bimilade:
I have done that... I already filled my acceptance form on sunday but I can't find it on my portal again. I almost did course reg on sunday but I decided to chill to be sure of the courses I would be offering, but now.

Oh okay, I do not know about that.. But keep trying, maybe they're working on the site.

Bimilade:
Hi guys, I paid my school and obligatory already but its show this and I can't print my acceptance form.... anyone experiencing this?

Refresh payment status

rex444:
Na egusi be that ? I think say na nkwobi ooo

Asin eh no be only you o

As advised, Canesten could help.. Better still, if you know somewhere you could get aloe vera plant, the gel is all you need.

Lmaoooo which tomato is N300, which fish N400, abi is it turkey that's N2300/kilo now? Guy behave! Even if na joke, e no funny at all.

Dear God,

Bless all the fathers in the world who have accepted the responsibilities of being a parent.. Guide them to be outstanding role models to their children, with patience, unconditional love and understanding.. Crown all their dedicated efforts with success.. Grant them wisdom, peace, grace, strength, favour, immeasurable happiness, sufficient wealth, excellent health of mind & body.. Guard them, protect them, furnish them with your most treasured possessions.. All these I pray Oh Lord, Amen.

Odogwu nna'm, I miss you, we all miss you.. Your demise was the biggest teardown of my entire life.. It hurts sooo much, the vacuum you left in my heart seems to get bigger and bigger, everyday.. Nna'm onye udo, onye nwere obi nwanne, onye nwere obi umeani.. Keep watching over us, beloved.. I pray for the repose of your soul & the souls of all the departed brethren.

Happy Father's Day to all responsible fathers(men'dem, the real mvps), soon-to-be fathers and prospective fathers as well.. Blessings upon blessings!

To join any WhatsApp group on here:-

Click the link & hold, on the pop-up box, click on " copy link text ".. Open a new tab & then paste it.. Before loading the page, make sure you edit the link.. This WhatsApp link for example, https:///ABeGAhhWanJoinDzzGroup will not go through but if it's edited this way, https// chat. whatsapp. com (without the spaces in between) /ABeGAhhWanJoinDzzGroup, it definitely will..

Hope this helps.

Lmaoooooo firebombers dey camdan o