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tanimola22:
@moderators

I tried modifying a post, but I got the message 'This topic is locked, you are not allowed to post or modify messages, '.

What is happening?

I'm afraid posts on the Jobs/Vacancies board are not editable.

Dubious vacancy advert.

1. St Mark's want a suitably qualified candidate . . . qualified in what? You fail to mention what they're looking for
2. 401(k) plan?? Guy sharp up, the 401K is the retirement savings plan in the US, in the UK its simply called pension.
3. OND/HND/BSc in what? Abi now hospital don dey accept ANY qualification?

Here http://www.nwlh.nhs.uk/contact%20us.cfm is the genuine contact of the hospital. Email: trust@nwlh.nhs.uk

So you have advertised a fake vacancy with a fake email, fake name, fake mobile number!     
STOP this fraud!!!!


Jobseekers apply at your own risk.

You got that right justwise. Jobseekers. . . shine your eyes

GEJ is a big disgrace to the office of national presidency. Presidents world over should be embarrassed to share the same title as someone of his calibre.

Goof after goof after goof after goof. . . he never stops making careless statements to make himself look stup[i]i[/i]d and clueless.

If his misyarns are chronicled it sure would be a long list. . .imagine the mor[i]o[/i]n apologized to diplomats in Nigeria for the disruption to normal activities caused by the January strike. Apologized to foreigners!! after he had terrorized his own citizens.

Whatever abuse he's getting is well deserved, if he can't stand the heat, he should gerrout of the kitchen tssch!

The 'report to moderator' link in all posts is the best way to inform the moderators of any problems on the forum. Please post a link to the topic so it can be treated. Thanks.

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I have not seen your job post and hence can not respond appropriately. It would be great if you can re-post and see what happens. If you have any issues please use the 'report to moderator' link in the offending thread. Such reports go direct to the moderators, rather than creating complaint posts on the board which are less effective.

Thanks.

Hi this has just caught my attention. Can you please post a link to the advert in question?

Thanks.

Obinoscopy has joined as co-moderator therefore this topic is now locked.

Thanks all for your interest.

So do something to stop the bombing stories and stop complaining to citizens, or are you not the individual occupying the post of President?

I tire o!

He said one of the measures currently being explored by the administration was to lay fibre optic cables within the CCTV network, to connect every residence in the territory to a telephone network through which they can reach security agencies, rather than employing security guards to guard their premises

This Minister is just laying ground for the coming award of CCTV and fiber cable laying contracts.

What has architectural design of roads and houses got to do with terrorism abi which kain olodo minister be dis ?

Justifying with many stupid reasons tells he's out to loot contract money.

As a jambite walking out of Awo buttery with a crowd at 1.30am after some rather explicit movie had been shown on the TV and heard a big voice shout over our heads

"No pocketing!"

One hilarious moment

lawmek:
JENEW CONSULTING: how genuine are they? i havin been selected for a day training that will take place in three states. Abuja, Lagos and Imo for a fee of 3,500. I need nairalanders assistance on this. Thanks. I await your prompt response.

I won't advice you to part with your hard earned cash for 1 day of training, and if you have doubts already I think you should follow your instinct. If its too good to be true it more than likely is.

And next time. . . post in the right section.

Sickening how these people carry on like the West is actually out to help without motive.

Home grown problems require home grown solutions Mr Counter-Terrorism Coordinator!

Poor fellow Lateef Sofolahan. People appear to have forgotten he was also convicted in this case.
Two people condemned to die and the news has simply neglected the other? Na goat?

fitnesswis:
they didn't sell the land genuinely to you guys and am sure there was no C of O issued or legit govt document for that land.
anyway visit any of ur relative at the Nigeria army barack.
take 2 vans of Army men and beat anyone u see at that land to death.

station 2 army Men there for 2 weeks and pay them.
then go and do your underground work and seek for court case. if you slow urself or ifyou get cold eyes about it am sure the land will be gone.

See sense asking to add kerosene to fire.

Hm poster I want to believe you can tell right your left from right?

Liking the new dimension this topic is taking  

From recent posts you can see that many here are carrying a lot of baggage that prevents them from reasoning objectively.
Kadarva abeg give it to them jare, don't let anyone put you down for being who you are and telling your story.

All the best!  

Happy to hear about your kid's misdiagnosis, better stubborn than autistic.

What does she think you (your family) are stup[i]i[/i]d? She has the nerve to send you a list of items?!

Even though its been mentioned I need to reiterate, DO NOT let your husband put you in the middle of him and his family stress, that simply creates an unhealthy situation and when the chips are down you're more likely to come out hurt because she (and the rest of the family) can only support her son at this stage.

It's become clear that for whatever reason your husband is not in the best position to take charge of the situation by him pushing you forward, so this is the time to have that likely long and uncomfortable discussion with him. Personally I see nothing wrong with you letting him know that you don't want to get directly involved because of the delicacy of the situation. What he ought to do is MAN UP and confront the problems. If you sense he needs your help on this matter, help him from behind the scene, play your part by encouraging him to take up such matters with his family but avoid getting directly involved lest you get labelled as the bad influence on their son/brother.

kadarva:
This woman is very educated. Her english is 10 times better then mine. There is so many more things that she has done that I cannot mention as people will know who I am. Its a small world.

Oh I see then a small portion of my analysis would be wrong.

Wish you luck in building your home!

Look poster, various opinions have been shared here. Right from the sound, positive and practical ones to the absurd, negative, offensive, primitive, prejudiced opinions and everything in-between! Therefore you need to be able to discern what's good from what's potentially more damaging to your situation.

Regarding her behavior when she was at your home I consider that it was her first time in the UK and have the feeling that she may have spent a lot of her time coming to terms with the environment she found herself given where she came from, and could have been overwhelmed by the distinct difference in the 'oyinbo' style of living/environment in comparison to what she had known ALL HER LIFE. Believe it or not your apartment/house may have appeared really luxurious to her and she may have found a lot of things strange. If in addition to that she unfortunately does not have a good command of English (the language you understand) [does she?] she may just have found it easier to keep quiet than embarrass herself trying to communicate with you.

It could have been challenging for her to translate her thoughts into words especially if she experienced a culture shock was in awe of her new surroundings.
If that was the case then I can also imagine the she and your husband would have communicated more in their native language, inadvertently excluding you from conversation which couldn't have been a good thing from your point of view. What I can not explain however is her low level of interest in her grand kids. With all said, I would still expect her to have been excited to see them.

I hope you realize what matters most is your happiness in your marriage (and by extension your husband's). You and him need to talk. It's a complex enough situation as it is and a lack of communication will only make it more so. Does he know how you feel? With tact let him know. Lay down all your concerns and hear what he has to say but don't be too quick to respond. He might know she did wrong but is willing to let her get away with it 'cos she's his mom.

Something I have noticed which you should bear in mind is that in general, many Nigerian-raised people may need words to be regularly 'hammered' into their ears before taking things seriously. In Nigeria we generally speak loud and repetitively thus the generally one-time, soft-spoken nature of communication of the typical European does not get our attention easily (from experience). This and a host of other cultural differences is the reason why I think a trip to Nigeria shall do your marriage a lot of good. If your plan is to make your marriage work you NEED to meet his family in order to understand the extent of the issues you will need to deal with now and in the future.

Like someone pointed out earlier, don't consider your case the worst because a great number of NIGERIAN wives in Nigeria have issues with their mothers-in-law, it's such a common situation that I've heard it referred to as the MIL syndrome.

**Pardon me and take this the best possible way but I think your husband may be rather selfish if he has not suggested mending fences with your own family because he knows that the marriage is the reason your family disowned you in the first place, and especially because he knows the critical role of a family approval in marriage where he comes from. He still has extended family ties for whatever it's worth but you don't - I would expect that to bother him a bit but who knows, maybe it's just a convenient arrangement for him.

Great stuff

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I dislike what the PDP stands for and therefore not greatly impressed by this governor or whatever he says.

He's only doing his job as a Nigerian politician in power.

hasyak:
I HAD TO SHARE THIS-Which I received now. In Nigeria when subsidy is removed on petroleum, people protest & the whole country shuts down every activity & some patriots even die during the protest, but when hundreds of people are killed by sects using bombs, nobody stages protest, comments vehemently against the act or insults the president, because it didn't happen in their vicinity & none of their relatives are affected or because they are afraid to speak & get bombed too,
Where is that "Occupy Nigeria"?
Where is El-Rufai?
Where is Mr Tunde Bakere?
Where are the Celebrities?
Where are the Opposition Parties?
Where are Nigerians?
Were they all in the blast?
Why is everyone mute now?
Is Kano State not in Nigeria?
Is this not a more serious issue/reason for all Nigerians to wear black rags & truly OCCUPY NIGERIA with peaceful protest against mass killings of innocent ones? How safe are you now where you are? Yes! you reading this status & feeling safe.
Do we have energy & strength only on subsidy removal issues? Everyone is afraid now Abi dem no go occupy Nigeria again?
What a BIG SHAME
My heart is filled with mountain of grief, all toothless bulldogs can't even bark any more 'cos money is not involved for them fight for.
I am really disappointed!

I'll refrain from giving you a short piece just because two previous posters have addressed your myopia already. But if you decide to rebut as empty headed as you started then I'll have to address your skewed reasoning and arguments.

Don't even let that happen cos, it's an avoidable strain on your marriage. Not worth it. You just had a month long taste of what it can be like so FIX THIS WITH YOUR HUSBAND NOW.

And yes, maybe you should plan to visit Nigeria and see for yourself like someone suggested. I think it'll help.

Don't let it drag on. . FIX IT NOW.

MAYOWAAK:
Nkem Onyekawa, HND,
Mr. Nkem Onyekawa is a Managing Partner with over 20years experience in covering Audit, Accountancy and other related engagement including supervising various World Bank Assisted Projects, and re-engineering assignment of companies in Energy, Oil and Gas Industries.
Mr Nkem Onyekawa a 1985 graduate of Accountancy Calabar state Polytechnics is also an Associated Member of Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigiera ICAN 1987, and also an Assocaited Memeber in Chartered Institute of Taxation of Nigeria 2001

Haha, abeg where that school dey?

Only colonial mentality leads to the kind of empty-headedness behind such a suggestion. Not surprised since your oga patapata ebele sef kuku apologized to diplomats in Nigeria over the disruptions during the strike!

Obijulius:
Mr. David West shld tell Nigerians how he got his property on Orogbum Crescent, GRA Port Harcourt in 2001/2002. Then we shld debate if he really has what it takes to point out d rafter in anyone's eyes.

If you know why don't you please tell us so we can view him in the right perspective?

Like someone commented on his TL, donjazzy should just declare the side he's on and be consistent.
People like Fela for example, stood by what they believed in. Obviously more important to him is his business and resulting lifestyle, country matter secondary.

Now we know.

And what was the result of similar raids on Bankole? Daniel? Akala? and so many more I can't recall right now?

Government apologists playing to the gallery!

EFCC = Extremely Fraudulent & Corrupt Commission

Why is IBB giving advise that he himself did not heed when he was in power?

He had 8 years to do it and he BLEW it. He could even have achieved more but he chose to cancel our freeest and fairest elections ever.

On what moral ground does he now give the advice which he rejected?

IBB should shut up and answer Maryam's calls in silence.