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There are different types of medical and psychological labels and definations for your type of person, but i'll just skip all those and give you my 2cents.

I think you've not given yourself a rock solid reason to scrape him off your mind, anybody that belittles you and gives you the same attention and respect as their toilet seat is just a major no no, let it sink into your head that you are better than that,

You must come to accept and believe that you deserved/deserve much more than anything he's had or would have to offer, the guy is an abuser and the sooner you grow hard scales towards him the better for you, because you might end up seeing every other guy through the things he has done to you and that's bad for business if you know what I mean.

Sometimes you must make decisions in life not because they are easy but because your destiny and the fulfilment of it would hold you accountable, because a relationship can either bring out the best or the worst in you, there are no gray areas, If he's not adding to you, he's removing from you,

The longer you think about him,the longer you make yourself a liabilty and a damaged good.

THINK!, leave that dude behind and MOVE.ON

ZIM DRILL:
even myself i cant stand one but on average you attract or you are attracted to someone of your thinking level

Word !

Oh and by the way i synonimize timidity with stupidity because  they both drink from the same well

queeneve:
Guys,

Would you date a woman with witty mouth? Do you think you can handle a woman with such wits and sarcasms?Or you prefer a timid woman who makes you feel like a man without challenging you?

I can't stand stupidity in a lady and unfortunately many of them nowadays orbit that dumb blonde atmosphere, some are so stupid they can't even find their upper lips using their tongue,

I like having an engaging conversation with a lady, so yes, witts and a peaking IQ would definately work it for me.

You can just walk out through the gate, and if that would be too quiet you can try throwing yourself or the subject in question through the window

Why can't you just wrap your hands around you and be happy with yourself.
If you don't have a job then YOU DON'T NEED A RELATIONSHIP, it's so amazing how people can ask the darndest questions atimes, A man's basic roles in a relationship are to protect,provide and love, these trio share a common denominator-"MONEY".

So please suck up all your depression into a septic tank and puke the idea of having a girl friend.

Beautiful fat brains with a lot of brain content would do

Do you stutter because you are shy or is it an inborn thing?, some people stammer when they are really excited or nervous so you need to calm your nerves whenever approaching a lady, besides stammering can be cute and appealing,you just have to know how to "work it"

I'v just blown 30kilobytes into the wind

Age has nothing to do with maturity, Word!
But there's an exception to every rule, and you just happen to feed this exception, I didn't even take a keen look at your post, you've been dating a guy for only one week and you are already tired of him?, or is there any other part of the post that my server ate,

Just a week and you are tired,
I should engrave your name on a golden plague tagged matured veterans

I dnt knw what an 18 year old girl is doing in a relationship in the first place, what happened to skipping ropes and candy floss?

@googles
You are asking her not to be childish about it, that's a daunting task 'n it?, Its like asking a cat not to meww, she's 18, she's only being normal and validating her age if she acts childish

funmbi92:
hes already talking of having me as his wife but i dont just have the boldness to tell him I'm no longer interested in the relationship.its really going to break his heart and i dont want to be the cause of that bcs I cant imagine were he's going to start from.

Don't worry about where he's going to start from, ,leave that to his next girlfriend, afterall you started from where his ex stopped, so don't worry you've fixed your own link of the chain, someone else would fix another one after you've gone.

Which one is driving you mad?

On rainy days, I go topless, I allow the cool breeze to goose those pimples

Whatever makes my bed comfortable, It's very sensitive

What's the big deal, a lady wants to do something outside the box for once considering how small the box is in the first place, if you dig the idea,call the dude, called him already, no hassle, it's his headache if he wants to paint black pictures about the idea.

@ Poster
How does swimming make you wet.
I can swim and still come out of the water looking starch crispy dry
Isn't it possible?, ofcourse.


My friend you better stick your face to your woman and stop looking for popularity poll to feed your wandering sexual appetite.

It's unfortunate the extent to which we Nigerians/Africans have taken civilization, most of you ladies treat the word "submission" like it's some phlegm mixed with excrement material, I'm a very LIBERAL person, liberal in caps for emphasis, very open minded,very hip and comtemporary, I'm nt the kind of guy that would want his woman to lick his feet, worship his ambience and cringe at the sound of his voice, far from it.

But I believe submission in a relationship is a key issue, where you ladies miss it is that you often times equate submission to slavery, I hear some comments here saying a man should also submit, I understand where that is coming from.

But Unfortunately, speaking realistically,submission only makes up 2% of  the "XY" chromosone, men are not created to submit, we are created to lead, protect, love

A woman who submitts to her guy(ceteris paribus) would have a life marinated with love,protection and tenderness from the guy,

its just natural that we want our egos to be stroked even when we have "nothing" just the same way women want to be loved, I believe a guy on the long run even does more submitting than the woman, because we always want to make you happy,we deny ourselves of personal benefits just to make you happy, but you have to understand where you fit in, your role.

When you submit to a guy that loves you by putting his needs before yours,not perpetually though but not seldomly either,when you revere his opinions,act on his suggestions even though they are Inexcusably dumb,you end up hitting the right spots of his core-"His ego" and he would only be too happy to give you anything you want either in love,attention or otherwise,all things being equal,you would be having a fairy tale for a relationship,

Wheeww, that was long

Ujujoan:
@ Poster

Your friend and his wife still do not know what marriage is all about . . . So she packs out whenever they have a mis understanding and he's contemplating marrying someone else ? What part of that is 'till death do them part'  

The two of them need to sit down like the adults that they are and sort out their problems together! The first step will be to live together. They need to work with each other on this else they might as well get a divorce and have peace of mind. But they owe it to their kids to try and work things out! They should both grow up!

Its a good thing water is not a scarce commodity where i am, considering how many times i had to wash my eyes to confirm if i was seeing clearly, Uju, talking like this, making calm and objective statements, no javelins,no spikes no subtle insanity inference, woww, and some people say there's no God, who else could do this to uju than him?

Coo, coo, "Y"
Coo, coo, "I"
Coo, coo, "M"

googles:
i bow to yuh = na wa for u

I havent being seeing much of him around here these days maybe he took a break off NL 

BREAK?, NAHHHH, NL is no.3 on my daily artinery, just that I can be very passive atimes, and it doesn't really help that as tap as NL is, there's no chatting link, so I can't buzz you a PM, and it would really help if you put an annoyingly loud coo-coo bird on your key pad to shout the letters Y, I, M from time to time

googles:
i bow to you is a[i] warrified [/i]version.

lol not dat his game is not tight o. . . hez very very alright

am the one who doesnt go on Yim. . .

this dude is kool

It's a good thing I have steel lined shoes, I would be levitating by now.

It depends on the person, one of my strengths as a person is my individuality,i'm hardly moved or bent by other people's opinions,habits or character so evn though I dnt drink but by virtue of "happenstance" I continually find myself with alcohol fishes,It still wouldn't make me know the colour of the beer bottle not to talk of having a pint, I believe people who get influenced by their peers especially towards the negative side don't have rock solid principles they live by.

@lepa001
Treasure?, yeah right.anyways "sawdust" is a type of treasure

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=526120.msg6885052#msg6885052 date=1286355331]Never. I don't tolerate cheating of any sort. If a man cheats on me he obviously didn't have me in mind when he was dismantling the relationship. I have no time for cheaters. I give 'em the deuces and move on. [/quote]How convenient, what if you are on the other side of the racket

Because you shed more light on his project topic, "Aliens living with us"

googles:


I do dat sometimes doesnt mean am a witch or wondering if he has jedi-jedi

i just do it cos i want to

Hmmm, googles, putting your glasses into more useful ways than convention records abi

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