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Your story sounds more fiction than fact but in any case,I suggest you get a grip of yourself.COME ON!what you are doing is incredibly abominable, A grave In.cest whose effects whether you like it or not would not stop here but resonate to your children, generations ahead of you.Thank God for his ever present love and mercies but even after God forgives you the Devil has a way of using things like this to gain access into one's life.

You just have to give yourself a good enough reason to stop these shh.it.Because the more you continue, the farther darkness you launch your future into.You say you love the guy, that's a rather lame and dysfunctional excuse.Because true love is not  selfish,self seeking,inconsiderate,silly,silly,crazy and abnormal all which your own version of love is infected with.

THE FACT THAT YOU KNOW IT'S WRONG IS A FIRST STEP, TAKE A BOLD SECOND STEP AND LEAVE THIS DESTRUCTION PROMISING PATH.

^^Don't you think it's too early to be an Iddiot
How would you just lash out at her like that.

@cold
I agree with only one of your "M"

I wonder what kind of journalist you are.All your posts/threads are rich with syntax errors and grammatical holes,even more holes than a kitchen sponge.
Even if you were an editor for a comic supplied to an old people's home your construction is still so poor .

You've formed a habit of coming here bickering about one thing or the other making baseless generalizations,petty and chumpy oozants from that carton box your neck is supporting,I don't know why but I think you are quite old and I wonder why you still behave like a toddler's mentor .

Abeg grow up,Not all guys are unfaithful,I was never unfaithful to my ex and it never crossed my mind and trust me I had loads of opportunities consequent of my job type.

So please get your facts right and stop torturing us with all this boredom informed hokum.

@MOBO
Na wa O when did women become onions that you 'Harvest', Mr dangling Harvester. Personally I think facebook is great all by its self,what people (irrespective of gender) choose to do with is up to them,so your generality is not exactly on point,It's a dual street,imagine a female MOBO coming here to say she has slept with all her facebook guys,So it's as much a platform for free sex for guys as it is for girls.And by the way I think you've just had 2many wrong ladies trafficking your lane Not all ladies are open legs you know.

@wislet
She owes him no duty whatsoever in helping to salvage the relationship or weed his lustful seeds.He doesn't love her.All he has for her are sympathetic ties,It's like working  a job you don't like but instead of quitting you stay there because the job comes with a free apartment.

What's the use of marrying someone you don't love,sitting across the dinning table looking at your wife and thinking of the house maid in the kitchen.He should apologize to her and let her go.

@Altired/I think i missed a letter.

I think you have an overly inflated desire to be materially comfortable in your relationship.You situate the expectations of a boyfriend from a husband but your choice of a boyfriend(whenever you have one) would be sieved through how financially capable you think he would be as a husband,so you saying you don't expect this much from a boyfriend but you expect that much from a husband is somewhat contradictory.

There would always be guys for your kind of person,shopping in paris,Breakfast in
the Norma,hair do in Rudolfo valentin etc.But then I hope you won't come back to Nairaland
lamenting in lines like, "oh My.He's so distant,we don't connect,he doesn't have love in his
eyes,he treats me like a mahogony desk

^^I'm sure he's doin well in the 'Family Business'.You must be so proud of him

The Unfortunate thing about animalistic randy behaviour like yours is that it feeds the general 'soaked in black dye' opinion that girls have about guys.Guys are dogs they say,

I don't give much weight to the idea that it's difficult for a guy to control himself,it's all in the mind it's either you have a very weak mind(which can be worked on) or the person that swore for you is dead and it would take conscious spiritual effort for you to deliver yourself from this disease.Infact you have so much poo on your head already,you've been tagging her along this years and you know you don't love her,Pls for the greater good of your future allow her go.let her make peace with the greatest mistake she would have made in her life-meeting you-.let her go now so that even if she's going to curse you and the curse tarries on your head for 20years you'll have some years left to make something good with your remaining time.

Being a man is not about having a hard on when you wake up in the morning,Being a man is about having a strong sense of character.The will and the strength to say No even when your 'dd.ck' and 'hands' are screaming 'enter' and 'browse'.

Give her life back.Let her go.You don't deserve Her.A pig would never have any good use with diamonds.Who's the pig?.Your guess is as good as mine.

@Mcleo
On your own birthday? ROFLMAO! that one na Gippee Tanker O!

@Atriedes
"You've not jammed 'real' gold diggers", I find this statement very interesting especially the qualifying word "Real', I think it's fair to say no matter how nice,decent,sweet or financially empathizing a lady is,every lady to some extent is a gold digger,as you put it some are 'real' gold diggers while others are not, Comparing the list of expectations you demand your bf/hubby to meet to your own duties to him.UNFAIR is screaming out of my server.I think guys have warmed up to the fact that all girls are gold diggers but we prefer those who have 'spoons' for digging as against those who have customized 3-mouthed shovels and wheelbarrows.

An average guy knows that to some degree he's responsible for his girl's material needs, fulfilling these needs many times validates his superiority and masculinity so he would naturally love to do them

But then all we are saying is don't come into a relationship with the mind set that we are some Government funded N.G.O set up to give you things that even your dreams can not accomodate, EVEN AS A DREAM.

@Altreides
So assuming it's fitting and proper that a guy should fix all these numerous needs of yours, As a lady of what benefit are you to the guy, what value do you add to the guy's Life.

I Don't mean to be derogatory or bashful but I often ask myself what use is a woman to a guy especially for guys that don't snack on sex.

[quote author=MzD@rkSkin link=topic=578324.msg7477704#msg7477704 date=1294354663][color=#0055bb]Muslims guys have principle 

Sharap to all of the nay sayers who want to quote me  [/color]

[color=#0055bb]Yea, the same bible that was used to justify slavery and African oppression.  (GENESIS - REVELATIONS) [/color][/quote]These are the kind of statements we get when we think the bible is just another pick off - the shelf boredom filling,curiosity satisfying pre-civilization/medieval history book.Even if you read Gen-Revelation upside down with a telescope there's no where in the bible that agrees with this idea of yours.Get your facts right PLS?

amefi:
NOT IN MARRIAGE MY FRND. THE BIBLE CLEARLY STATES THAT U SHUD NT BE UNEQUALLY YOKED WIT AN UNBELIEVER (2CORITHIANS 6:14)

careytommy:
There's one salient lie muslims like propagating. That we're serving the same God.
Pls n pls again, know it that Yahweh and allah are not one and the same.
BTW, shey muslim females don finish?

What kind of wine should I buy for the both of you.Non alcoholic of course.

Where my moderators at?, Are you familiar with the phrase "uninstall thread"

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=577823.msg7446458#msg7446458 date=1293925366]
lol, yes I am independent but I know when to ask for help

Nah, I'm open to the idea of a relationship and companionship. I may be vocal about my views but its doesn't mean I don't wanna be loved [/quote]Don't worry,he's just around the corner and he'll butter you with love.
By the way, to y'all. this is like a prayer for ink before you start posting suggestive comments

sexylogan:
Come on, don't you think that was harsh?

Nope.I don't see anything harsh in it but I'll readily recant if she sees it as such,I was just of the opinion that she's one of this 21st century intellectually empowered ladies that see relationships as more of a Minus than a Plus.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=577823.msg7446334#msg7446334 date=1293922324]How so?[/quote]I just had this idea about the "Mighty Ink" that she's not even gving 2KB worth of brain space to anything called relationship.whether purposeful or happenstance.But I guess my idea was wrong

I'm enjoying my Fancy free Life and goodness Me! It's been fun,There's no number on my speedial,I'm not thinking of how to make 44days from now a perfect day,I sit down to relish the taste of a cup of Ice cream without thinking of what flavour to get for "the someone that's not there",I don't divide my income into four places with the last three parts belonging to her.I'm not sleeping and dreaming of two letters(BB) chasing me, I mean the benefits go on and on,okay enough tori.I'm single and loving It.Gbam!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=577823.msg7446293#msg7446293 date=1293921538]I'm single and content. If someone comes along and we have good chemistry then its ok and if not then that's still ok as well. I have no need or desire to go searching for a man. Whatever happens happens [/quote]hmmm. . . Interesting

Adauche:
That's your claim to fame! If that's how you roll, good luck! Jack of no trade, master of none. Empty vessel that makes the most noise. Now everybody knows who you are; well done. I give you this certificate and anybody can have that as a reference. 2011, bring it on, That's how I roll.

look sweetheart,You don't have what it takes to handle me,You don't have what it takes to engage me in a meaningful and lavishly witty conversation especially with your present series of going ON and OFFLINE to check your credit or data bundle balance.So it would really do you good if you are in my white pages.C'mon take time and think about it,I could be the first great thing to happen to you this year.

What's with you and all this mother dissing, i'm hoping it's only your normal online communicative signature and nothing beyond the virtual world but if this is how you relate with people in real life,it's rather unfortunate because it's a very unhealthy and distasteful habit especially for a woman.

And yes.I AM FLY. I am really fly and even though it's a truth capsule you'll find hard to swallow that's just the way I am.I'm FLY!.I'm so fly that I Envy myself,that's how fly I am.I'm not Mr know all But I'm "Mr know a lot more than many people"

And who says I'm trying to cloak a bad boy personality,As a man it's only normal to have a Machismo side but no matter how thick or tangible it is,its still lined with gentleness,Humour and sweetness.I'm fly because I know exactly when to press either of these buttons.So just give it a rest already

I modified the 'speechless' thread just after I saw your last post. And yes I was speechless not because I don't have anything to say but I was marvelled at such unique display of Flip floppyness

^^Okay I can see that 'It' comes and goes.And right now 'It' has come back again.I know a good Doctor,he's the best in his field,once you meet him and tell him that I recomended him for you,he would start the operation immediately,If you send me your number i'll text his number to you

Adauche:
Happy New Year everybody, hope everyone had a good one.

@johnterry, What if 1one has already given me what i wanted for the New Year? By your comment, it shows that your jealous. Your not the type of dog that runs faster.

And to everybody else, i'll let you guys know the date of our wedding lol

Wedding date can be fixed for February 29

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=577045.msg7443709#msg7443709 date=1293879124]@Adauche n 1one
O my! I knew it, I just knew it dat despite all those wit encased insults romance was brewin somewhere!

Happy New Year Folks!!![/quote]Nahhhh,There's no romance between us,I just wanted to chill the increasingly peppery tone of our verbal duel,I mean for what it's worth it's a new year,no need for budding beef and even if I remotely had any intentions,her replys have done a good job in choking those intentions and by the way,beneath all the overly aggressive and hostile strata,I believe she just really wants to be loved.

What I find weird about myself is my not being able to cease thinking hard. For example I may see a radio and rather than see it as "Sony label, a black radio", I'd wonder "Where is Sony?, How do the people assemble this radio?, Who created the idea of flat cd player with attached speaker?, What materials were used to create the speakers?" lol, and this is all while simply looking @ the radio. Can't help it.  Not all the time tho. some times.
[quote][/quote]It's an X-men ability.It's called sequential minced thinking

Madukaele:
speak english pls

ah ah Madu,You no sabi common coup
d'eta?

eridah2007:
Ahhhh Voila enfin    
Me sooooo happy,every thing has taken a new dimension. wow dats great.

@Adauche and 1one
May God bless both of you for the automatic make-up.
some thing tells me dat 1one is a cool guy.

I wish both of you and all nlders a prosperous happy new year.   

I was the one that held out the Olive branch so I think I deserve all the blessings,
About me being cool,yea,I have such days.Happy new year to you too.