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Blame everything on the man like women don't start misbehaving and disrespectful once a man marries then

A child never asked to be born. If you choose to have a child, it is your responsibility to take of them so stop complaining about the time spent bringing them up.

kkkp:
It is better than staying at home idle. Donot despise the days of your little begining

I disagree with you. A job like that will prevent him from searching for other jobs

kentochi:
Guy I married and lost my business after 3 months up till date am still finding myself
Have my wife and baby to feed every day
Note I have no personal job at the moment
If I can overcome this why can't him?
Note my wife is not working at the moment.

You think everybody want to go through what you are struggling with currently. Marriage is not by force, children are not any blessing. Do not think of feeding and taking care of other people (wife and children) if you cannot take care of yourself. That is the common sense guide to live a good life

HeartRobber:
Welcome!


His name is michael, and he's 27years old (an only son) he earns 25k in a month. Now, his uncles, siblings (two sisters), friends are now pushing him to get married since he's the only son


Here is the question

• Is he to get married now? Remember he earns 25k in a month


Your professional opinion is needed

Tell everyone of the family member telling him to get married to fucckk off because they will not be around to help you when the extreme poverty starts.

I am very disappointed that this report is coming from Stanford University because we can clearly see that the so called psychology professor already had a conclusion and worked backwards to fit the narrative.
Women initiated 67% of the divorce in this research because the feminist run western court strips a man off his house, take more than half his assets, takes his children away and give everything to the woman in addition to forcing the man to pay the woman child support and alimony.
I absolutely believe that most of these social science professors are so dumb that they waste time and money studying common sense events yet come up with a very senseless and biased conclusion. This is the reason I don't take social science studies serious.
Why don't they come to Africa and ask why most African women are not initiating divorce more than men? The simple reason is because the woman will get very little from the man after divorce hence they make the marriage to work.

Toks2008:
See,guys are visualistic in nature. We get turned on by what we see.

If you see an after one babe with flat tummy,firn tits,confirmed rear view come add sweet skin and face join then you will come back to tell me you now understand my point.

The problem is that many chics dey too relax body after dropping one.

I am not a child to take your above post serious. Men tend to have more self control and self worth as they grow older and most female manipulation stop working on them. The issue of sleeping with a woman is different from marrying them.

If you quit school because of the OND job, you will have yourself to blame when you still earn 70k 10 years later. Most OND jobs don't have a career, so think wisely

Princessderaa:
huh? but men will like to sleep with a lady with or without protection.

I still insist matured men prefer single mothers to single ladies.

Yes you are correct to say men will sleep with a lady with or without protection even if the woman is a maid . Her status in terms of education is generally irrelevant when it comes to mating. It is mostly broke men with little option that will accept a single mom as a wife when many single women cannot even find a husband. It is just the reality of life so your opinion doesn't matter because you are thinking like a woman and not a man.

Gate crashing

Princessderaa:
will you advice your daughter or sis to abort her baby if she mistakenly gets preg?

Your question does not change the reality of my earlier comment, so there is no need to respond to the question. Men generally don't want to have anything to do with single mothers period!

Princessderaa:
dix days matured men prefer single mothers to single lades.

Big lie. Keep deceiving yourself. Single mum are mostly damaged good that no man want.

idupaul:
Nigerian Army always make the job of amnesty international easy by such videos taken by its own men

FU.C.K Amnesty International

They did not change name. They only created a parent company called Alphabet with Google being a subsidiary. The plan is to run all businesses under the parent Alphabet company.

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Orunto:
Once you are "Born Again", you are out of the destiny of evil. Your prayers should thenceforth be "lead us not into temptation and deliver us from evil."

Very useless answer

Ishilove:
What a waste. How transient is life, fleeting, it's pleasures.

Mum married a man who wasted her destiny while daughter died unsung and unfulfilled. Wasted, just like the mother. Talk about evil pattern.

I reject every destiny waster in Jesus' name.

I know it will not be long before the blame start to fall on Bobby. Now Whitney was already using drugs before meeting Bobby who was also using drugs. Both were bad influence on each other but separated after several years of marriage. Is Whitney not old enough to make decisions for herself? Why can't she take the blame for her role in drug abuse? She kept on taking drugs years after divorce which must have influenced her daughter a lot as she grew to be an adolescent under the care of her mother. Whitney died of cocaine overdose and her daughter also struggled with drug abuse but I don't see anyone putting some of the blame on her. Herself and Bobby are both responsible for what befell their family because they knew what they were doing as adult.

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SirAweezy:
The she officially becomes your wife is the day she officially look into your eyes and tell you to do your worst and you can't do jack!

By then the public has giving you a mumu button on patience and perseverance in marriage, and God save you she isn't a wailer; that is another mumu button.

Pray not to see that woman... That is stubborn it'll be almost a life time season film in your house without you noticing anything.

There is something called divorce or separated. It is a matter of choice

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I have a friend who left Nigeria to the US for studies during his NYSC year, got recruited by ExxonMobil after graduation and sent to work in Nigeria. ExxonMobil did a verification of his service from NYSC and the result came back as absconded and he lost the job. Do not play with the NYSC certificate no matter how smart you think you are because it equivalent to a work permit in Nigeria for a university or polytechnic graduate.

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pickabeau1:
How many years does it take before cohabitation becomes common law marriage
Now I see why Ronaldo sacked his long time girlfriend Irina Sharyk within 4 years and is dating someone else

Do you think this can become a life style

- Date and move on before 4 years
- Use a surrogate

The issue is how many people can afford surrogacy and getting someone aside the mother to look after your kid

Cohabitation can become common law marriage in 2 years in some countries.

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omonnakoda:
There are no HND institutions anymore in the UK .I suggest you inform yourself better on the Binary Divide and the relevant legislation. You seem to be implying that where HNDs exist they ARE NOT ENGINEERS,is that your position?

I know that city and guilds in the UK have an HND equivalent certificate. I also know that most EU countries have either a direct HND program or an equivalent degree. They might have different terminologies for these degrees but the idea is all thesame.
Concerning your second question, yes i am telling you that HND and BSc degree are not thesame. In the Netherlands where I did my MSc, they have 3 different higher institutions after high school with the lowest training people to be artisans, the next training people to be HND holder and the highest training people to be BSc/ MSc holder. Also only about 15% of Dutch citizens go to university to get a degree. the vast majority goes to artisan school next to polytechnic and then university. Thesame system is also used in Germany and several other EU countries.
At entry level stage, they all have different job grades which translate to different salary level. Even Shell Netherlands employ only MSc holders now as minimum requirement to be an Engineer. An HND holder in Shell cannot design a system until they upgrade to a BSc.

erico2k2:
I disagree with you, I live and work in England,London to be specific,I have a Bsc in Mech Engineering, I have never for once brought out or being asked to produced my BSc,all I have shown is proof of experience, in form of references. Most.Most Job adverts here would rather say Entry stage BSc,so you get trained, so your BSc- experience equals low rank job no high end jobs.So what country in the west where you talking about again?

What is the entry level requirement of most entry level management jobs in Europe? BSc or MSc. In my current company a HND holder cannot rise beyond level five where as a BSc/ MSc holder can rise all the way to the maximum level which is an 8. You have to upgrade as a HND holder to go beyond level 5 even in the UK business unit. Engineering jobs requiring 10 years experience still state BSc as minimum educational experience except it is a position for a technologist where HND is the requirement. I don't know the kind of job you do but I work for an oil company and I have worked in atleast 3 European countries (Denmark, Norway and the UK(Aberdeen)) and I pretty much know what I am talking about. You cannot design a system if you are not an Engineer where I work and the maximum you can get is a field position.
Try get into any oil company, engineering company or a major banks as a management trainee in Europe and see if they will require less than a BSc degree. Also don't forget that it is the management trainee that will rise up to become the CEO in the future with more years of experience.

I live and work in Western Europe with my BSc and MSc degree in Engineering and I can tell you that what you call discrimination is everywhere. As a HND holder here, there is a limit you can reach in your career except you go for further studies which will qualify you to apply for a more superior job. The solution to the problem is not to get a HND degree or go for a BSc degree and use it to apply for a superior role combined with your work experience.

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