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Chidiesta:
Me too I have a feeling she is not taking good care of her because most of the time she doesn't want me to speak with her on video call

Aaaahhhhhhh


Will u take ur child from her before she make the life of ur daughter unfortunate!! I pity u ooh.


Na so my neighbor here dey do, a dey pity the girl always.

Na the reason wey make her live for husband house be that na...

No man want a ripper of a woman who wil later drain them emotionally.


U sef wetin happen to ur husband??


I hope this is not a family tins.

wunmi590:
Nah you be olodo....

If I park outside my perimeter I wouldn't be here complaining, they just sent letters to people without going through the normal protocol of looking at the building plan....

My perimeter already has a gutter, which is after my perimeter.....

So I've no fucking business being served a letter...

What they should have done is to consult Lagos state building control to confirm if we pass our boundary or not..

Am sorry if this is the case then.

wunmi590:


Honestly, I was speechless when a dispatch rider sent a similar letter to me....

I'm the facility of a company, got the stupid letter that we re to pay up to 2million naira within 7days of receiving letter...

Can you imagine, that rubbish, so parking inside your compound is now a crime in Lagos?

They are mad....

Before some people will say go back to your state, I'm a lagosian and my family are part of the people that lay the foundation of Lagos...

So I won't even pay any stupid fee..

alaye lagosian... Parking outside ur perimeter fence, not inside ur compound..

Una no dey read??

Litmus:
Number 4 is a huge one. African women love abroad. Many Western nations are female oriented. Women generally arn't as concerned or motivated by pride issues as men, especially Nigeria men, so African women are able to tolerate what would be for men soul destroying humiliation. African women love the welfare system. They would have no qualms sitting at home jobless receiving welfare benefits such as child allowances. Actually they would happily stay at home shitting out babies after calculating how many babies would earn them the welfare benefit equivalent of top salary. If they are employed, they can tolerate low wages or professions lower than they are qualified for. They are impervious to the injustices of taking orders from individuals, usually whites, much younger and less qualified than them.

For reasons mentioned above and more, wives never want to return to Nigeria permanently. Subsequently Nigeria men are liable to stay put abroad for the sake of their nuclear families against thire return home preferences.

AAHHH omoohhh

How u take describe women for here weak me ooh..

Guy u re not a good person ooh..ahh

He said Nigeria women are comfortable shitting out babies like baby making machines

Omo laff wan tear my belle ooh

franchasofficia:
They know the truth, they know you are telling the untold truth but you know typical Nigerians always want people to believe they are living in the best place and living the best life once they migrate out of Nigeria. Lol


All you said are nothing but the truth.


Canada as a country is not designed to make people rich, and most Nigerians that want to migrate, their major reason for Japaing is to make huge money and possibly become rich not for the so called good healthcare or fine environment cos Nigerians believe with plenty money u can create your own paradise on earth no matter how bad the environment is lolz, so its good as you are opening their eyes to reality on ground

u re a tru son of the soil

Abeg who serene environment help??

Accrue money as much as u can and jakpa come naija come invest ur money

TK9680:
You can easily make a living in Canada. I live both in Canada and Nigeria.
My son is been paid 500cad monthly plus full discounted fees by government to attend University.
Let me break it down. They discount the fees, lend it to him and then pay a grant (not lending) for his living expenses.
. As long as you are moderate, there is no issue. Do your courses, get into the system and its easy pissy.
You don't have to live in Toronto or BC. You are not trying to impress anyone, everyone is relatively ok, I can tell you that's the Africans no 1 problem. No one to oppress. I speak to my friends everyday here, Yoruba, Igbo, South South, all wonderful people doing well. I just finished watching Arsenal match with my friends.
Issue of marriage, this is a world wide thing, not only Canada. Its getting incredibly difficult getting a life partner ANYWHERE.
Always tension in Niger. I live the choice to you. Good luck to everyone

Sir pls how easy it is for a single man trying to relocate there??

Tho wife and daughter are at home in Nigeria sir.

MT:
Now that you are acting as if you own the whole world with Canadian PR, what should the US Green Card Holders do, who DOES NOT need a visa to enter Canada. Afterall, your PR should be equivalent to the Green Card in the US, only that the latter enjoys more privileges.

In my Yoruba language we call people like you - "Omo oju ori ola ri" translating to "He who has never witnessed wealth before".

From what you wrote, your type always refer to other people as success, always knowing "them" personally and you are never a success. Your life never translate to one. How can you with such an uncouth behaviour?.

When you travel down to Nigeria, it is your type your family will circle round and you will be bashing them with cock and bull stories. Shake my head for you again!, I simply pity those that choose you as friends.

Hmmm, eyin omo yoruba sha, always full of word



Bros me pls i want to make some enquiries about this canada of a country.

I really want to migrate to that country but what i am reading here is giving me some kind of thought.

Pls sir, is it difficult for a single man, who has a wife and a kid in Nigeria to survive in Canada??

c900:
You see food eat, where to sleep, dat one no reach you? Dem no break your door for night, you dey drive new car, you get free medicine. Wetin you dey look for again? Your children no go ever veg for food again.
Which kind wealth you wan build again? Make I tell you over rich na vanity, na just for show off and na people go chop the money later.

I am looking for a way to fault ur submission but i couldn't, posterity wil judge me if i do..

U really said the truth bro

Corridon:
Why domesticate a wild animal?

na lie dem lie for the snake head, no be that snake kill the baba, dem don tame the snake already so e no fit kill.


I dont know why i am always joyous when a fool get injured

Revolution2022:
Why CNN ,BBC, Al-Jazeera and other European media no broadcast am,na YouTube?Getat

dont be fooled by cnn and co. Those guys would never give u the full reportage about the west, they are only good about showing the slums in Africa to the world as if there is no slum in london

Wait

Liverpool dey craze??

Make dem hold them ooh, dem don turn the match to gidigbogidigbo already, everytin to them na vawulence


Dem no dey recognise simple play

Any small tin na fight for their face.

Every team dey win 2:0, 2:1 with happiness, e reach their turn dem turn am to fight

Backpedal:
Where do you guys get the lie that Obi lives in Lagos ?

I don't blame you guys.....
Politics of propaganda and falsehood is all you guys know how to play.

It's what brought APC in govt anyways

But Obi himself didn't deny it when that northern bokoharam said Obi is living in lagos...

But on a serious note, Obi dey live for Osborne road na

Angrygoat:
No mind the odeh. So many frustrted greedy thieves up in here. Relocation sale my dick. The foo l has ran broke and still wants to meet up. Naija used and abused products wayvabove market value of brand
new. Make him nor drive all of his stupid properties go sabo, make aboki buy every for 150k. Ole.

Omoh alaye calm down na

Kobojunkie:
So, the children should rejoice that their own father deprived them of both parents then in order to appease his ego?

Either they morn it or rejoice it is their wahala, they are just the victims of parent senselessness and nothing more.

Wife drained the husband emotionally, financially, even shelterly using the power of the law, the horseband in return killed the bitch like a one legged fowl and dump her into the dustbin., The court got involved and sentenced the man(case closed)


So the children should open their own chapter, if they like the girls among should tow the pat of her ungrateful mother and the boy should tow the path of his animalistic father...they also will meet their Waterloo in the near future, na so life be

xpressionx:
The positive side is that you can never see that kind of place in Anambra.

People like you don't succeed on life because of peddling falsehood

lol, truly u re not igbo, u just want to cause vawulence.

If truly u re igbo u wont come with this argument

Anambra of all places, chaii

And u and Peter Obi left the Anambra to seek solace in a dirty lagos oh

Juliusdaughter:
I know what I am saying, he's been to my place few times, I've been to his place too. He could have done it if he wanted to

He wont, he know he wil ruin his chances, he knows what he's doing.

And by the way, even me wey no dey too religious cant try that rubbish with anybody talk more of the one i am eyeing to marry.

So also, he know u wont agree to it since u are yet to give ur love to him., He's a very calculating man.

Angrygoat:
Odeh,for naija used electronics. U guys are big thieves
Oponu. No one will buy at such ridiculous price. Odeh

dont mind him

I got my gas cooker for 14k(new) amd we want to sell second hand for 15k

Generator of 140 to 150k new, he want to sell used one for 170


The price he put up there are even higher than the price of new ones

Kobojunkie:
You forgot to mention the children... they also end up the worst lovers since they loose both parents all thanks to their father, the murderer.

American govt will sort the children issue out.

mike8804:
Victor banjo fought gallantly for the biafra,he was betrayed by biafra Gov,he led the highest counter attacked so far recorded during the biafra war,he was the main force,the commander of operation torch �,after helping biafra captured the whole of the Midwest region that consist the south south today,he was framed up by biafra outlying to over throw ojukwu, transported to enugu & executed by the biafrans,on the 19 September 1967 few days after his arrest by the people he is fighting for,benin city was retaken by nigeria troops which saw ojukwu regrets his execution. Igbos will always betray yorubas, vote wisely

Atunkutunku weyrey lona orun.

For hin mind den hin dey do eyeservice, window dressing, to impress the Ojukwu abi??
Hin dey mad.

Juliusdaughter:
I guess you and your wife are both not big on sex. What if he is? He hasn't asked for sex and I don't think he will until we are married. He is a principled Christian

But u re funny ooh, u never gree for person and u re sayin he hasn't asked for sex, no be wen u gree for him he go ask??

Imagine me asking you out and simultaneously asking for sex when u have not even given me the assurance if u wil give in or not .


Sister wait fess, gree for am fess before u know if he's principled not to ask for sex or not

Juliusdaughter:
I guess you and your wife are both not big on sex. What if he is? He hasn't asked for sex and I don't think he will until we are married. He is a principled Christian

I am not saying u should marry him, i am just pointing out some wield scenarios ni jare.

But in whatever u do, make sure u exercise patience very well, dont rush. Who knows, u might later fall for him, and u might not. Just exercise patience.




Concerning me and my wife, well,we are not into it dat much jare, particularly me, i can go 2years without sex. I usually count it as stress

Juliusdaughter:
I met a man through my long term friend and he has made his intentions about marriage known from the start. He loves me, is attracted to me and loves to do PDA when we are out together.

He has everything a woman would want in her husband, but I am not attracted to him neither do I have feelings for him. I love him as a friend tho because his physical attributes will not matter in that instance. I am slightly taller than him, even tho I'm not a tall person, I am dark skinned and he is darker than me. He has a really small stature and you wouldn't know he has money or works in good company.

He has told me his plans for us and it's a really good one, he works in top management role and he earns over 20 million naira per annum.

I have told him what I feel and he is really persistent, he says I should try and reciprocate his feelings and love towards me and the feelings will grow, that I shouldn't worry about the height of our kids
I can't lie, I don't feel proud this few times he's done PDA with me, I see the way that makes him happy, making me feel like a trophy wife.

There was this other guy I had feelings and attraction for, and it disappeared the first time I saw him and realized he isn't who he said he is. This confirms to me that feelings is flimsy and depends on circumstances.

To married people here, both long or short years in marriage; is attraction and feelings one of the major things holding down your marriage? Did you marry who you weren't really attracted to but you're happy now in the marriage? How will I deal with public perception of us especially when it's comes to flaunting him as my husband?
I have entered my late 20s and I don't wanna waste time, I don't wanna waste my time in vain waiting for the guy I'll feel all these for, what if he isn't worth it?

Hmmm

I understand u sister mi.

One tin i have learnt first-hand in this life is that, the person whom you desire would not always be with u. Tho not all people.

My wife is beautiful more than i am, beautiful like a model but i only like her as friend, not the other way round, did i tell u that atimes we go a month straight without sex.. i am not exagerating sister. I am not attracted to her

BUT.. A NO DEY JOKE WITH HER WITH ANYBODY MA, AHH NOOO.. DO U KNOW WHY?? EVEN SINCE I KNOW HER I HAVE NEVER RETROGRESSED(unlike the other two which i dated earlier)

djkirkoo2:
hmmmmm. Wonderful. Me I earn 63k as salary and my rent is 210k annually. Below is how I disburse it:

Kitchen stocking - 25k.

Soup for the month (we cook soup 5 times in a month) - 15k.

Baby mama - 5k.

Light bill - 2k.

Purewater - 4k.

Stew, Beans, Moi moi: 5/6k

Gas - 5k.

Fuel: As the Lord leads but I do put on Gen almost everyday as far as there's no light.
Now if you observed you will see that I don't have any money for myself nor my baby, make sure I run other deals to meet up my rent and cater for my son. Yet my baby mama go out to tarnish my image outside saying that I am treating her as a house girl, saying that she's like a slave, that she's in an abusive relationship this and that all the young ladies around my vicinity are all keeping malice with me because of her stories, they all believed her story. Even when I try to talk people don't believe me. I got tired of the quarrels and nagging so I had to throw her things out and asked her to leave my house. Neighbors came in and intervened then asked me to consider my son that he's still a baby. I succumbed and left for work only for me to come back home that evening the 22nd of July and found out that she have left with my son that I love so much and yet all her things are still in my house. Bring my baby sef all to no avail, oya let me be seeing him at least still no way. I've talked to her mom and siblings and all of them are taking her side saying a man is not supposed to throw a woman's things outside (even my family blamed me for throwing her things outside) oya I don agree sef still dey are hiding my baby that will be a year old on the 29th of this August from me. Honestly her family wants me to settle with their daughter but to me I am no longer interested before I die of BP, so now they are using my son to blackmail me emotionally to accept their daughter back because they know that I love my son. If really I am suffering her and treating her like a slave like she always claim then I wonder why her family would want her to come back to my house to suffer. Mind you,I don't even beat o, I only have bad mouth to reply her if she pisses me off. Honestly I am confused and don't know what to do because I really miss my son.

OP dont succumb to any emotional blackmailing ooh, them go soon taya, if u do, u wil have ursef to blame for the rest of your life



Secondly, u fuckup bro, u fuckup.. lemme tell u how i run my tings.

1) i wil never rent an apartment which i cant make its money in (at most) six weeks

2) i dont give my woman monthly salary, mba, i would rather give her money wen she need it, and secondly, money wey i know say e no go generate more money a no dey give my woman.
If i give her 20k, i am expecting her to turn that 20k to 30k, re-invest 20 to 25k(however she want it, its her money) and lavish the remaining 5k

3)i would never allow my woman to stay idle, staying idle wil
a) make her not to realise how hard it is to make money
b)make her have time for unnecessary gossiping
c)she wont have any personal development.(i want my woman to know how to make money and understand business, incase.....may we live long IJN)

4)If i were u, na inside a single room a go still dey oh, who a wan impress abeg? 63k is a paltry amount of money

5) No matter how tyt the tin be, always strive to have a savings, even if na 5k everymonths.

LadySarah:
I don't believe it and yes I'm a born and brought up pentecostal Christian. what are financial doors anyway and why give tithe only because you want financial doors?

i have a neighbor who pays 2k consistently once her inlaws send them money 20k for upkeep.Her husband is jobless while she braids hair in their apartment. It is the sister-in-law who owns our compound and bequeathed a flat to them. I don't have much but I try to help them as much as I can carry.raw food, cooked food, used clothes, and school items. that money barely carries them up to 8 days before they start begging for food. The eldest out of 3 should be 11 now and have not been in school for 2 yrs if all the terms are accumulated not to talk of the younger ones. why haven't the financial doors opened? pls, don't tell me she's not doing the tithe right or all those unfertile ground cock and bull stories.
what of all the Muslims, Hindus, and atheists who things are going well for? what kind of doors do they go through

now she said the inlaws helping them are using their destinies which is why her husband,their eldest bro is useless
so the 20k sender has stopped sending money the homeowner insists they must pack out of her property.the tithe should have scattered financial doors because my husband had to go beg both inlaws because those kids are dying of starvation.

stop being deceived.
God isn't interested in our money. he's interested in how you love and treat the human next to you. sow and reap is the law of harvest .

U just have the same mindset as mine, but wen i speak like this they will tag me an unbeliever..

Well, i would rather be an unbeliever than to choose not to use my brain.

Wilson212:
My brother I eat this in obalende restaurant in Awka for the first time in my life .I really enjoyed it infact one of.the best food I have eaten in my life .I can't believe I live in Lagos for more than two years without eating it just because of discouragement from my Igbo brothers and the way ewedu looks.i wish I am living Awka I will be eating it at least twice a week

can we kuku say u have joined us??
We the hydraulic ewedurians

They wil be the one to call us ewedurians, still they will be the one to be endorsing the wonderful leaf called hydraulic

Wonderful brethrens

Rozross:
But unfortunately he’ll be killed

Never, he wont be killed for that anywhere in the world, even in cambiy

I dont like this man before but since i listened to his briefing at the NBA i have always wanted to hear what he has to say. The man get brain

SugarGirl44:
Unfortunately our elders can't put mouth together and help our land.
Everybody is after their selfish interest.
They don't mind if we're swept away under this one Nigeria nonsense.
So far it's only PA Awo that we can call the only selfless leader we had.
The rest are just too confused and greedy.
Look at what they turned Afenifere to, a group that should propagate Yoruba legacy is now blatantly opposing the same people they claim to fight for.
It's such a shame.
I don't know what BAT did to them, but it's best they remain neutral instead of the show of shame they're engaged in.

Like Seriously i weep for the leaders we have in yoruba land.

SugarGirl44:
Toh...Lolzz.
Are we not in trouble laidis?
How do we now cope with the excessive population?

Like Seriously that is where the problem lies..

That is where the yoruba elders are lacking here, the exodus of the vagabonds are causing alot, and tins have to be done, starting from lagos.

In South Africa we called it xenophobia but at the end they stil had their aim, they are trying to protect their territory.

Ghana did same, yorubaland should codedly do same by profiling and give a limit how how these scavengers can move to our land.

We need to protect our land

mariahAngel:
Denrele, are you OK?
When did that rubbish start?
Have you ever known me to be that much of a joker on here, much less to stoop to that level? Ki lo wa fa osi?
No try that nonsense with me o!
Eru o ba e sa!

You know my pattern too well, so you either relate with me accordingly or you back off!
I don't delight in vulgar conversations. It has never been my style!
I don't roll like that.
I joke a lot, but not to that level.

A o ni di oloriburuku o!
May we not be unfortunate.

Alaye maa nisuuru, o de gbanaje wai.