MarieSucre:


We are not the ones beating men. I think the wahala is the other way round.

Alondrah:
Hasty generalization from a myopic point of view. Even men ladies struggle with disrespect them too, Stop preaching mediocrity. A man will treat a lady whichever way he deemed fit irrespective of his financial status.

Op, learn to use the word"some" ,, there are still some divorced, ready-made men who treat their women right.

Alondrah:
Hasty generalization from a myopic point of view. Even men ladies struggle with disrespect them too, Stop preaching mediocrity. A man will treat a lady whichever way he deemed fit irrespective of his financial status.

Op, learn to use the word"some" ,, there are still some divorced, ready-made men who treat their women right.

idioticmynd44:
I expect you to comprehend the content of this topic before you jump into conclusion. if at all you wanna marry already made man, try to know his character & yourself must be an asset(hardworking) but not liabilities. 95% of already made men will treat their unproductive(lazy/gold digger) wife like used tissue paper. Mercy Aigbe is a case study here

Alondrah:
Hasty generalization from a myopic point of view. Even men ladies struggle with disrespect them too, Stop preaching mediocrity. A man will treat a lady whichever way he deemed fit irrespective of his financial status.

Op, learn to use the word"some" ,, there are still some divorced, ready-made men who treat their women right.

numericalguy:




At the bolded.. Those are the lies gold diggers tell themselves.

maxioptiultra:


Oh, it's now 95% of men? And now just the lazy women who are disrespected?

You're beginning to sing a different tune, but it sounds better than the first.

While you are at it though, remember the poor men who mistreat their wives too. Case in point, the husband who handcuffed his wife to a generator from dusk to dawn.

Bye.

Cleopatra4:

She jonse oooo! The whole Cleopatra allow man beat me till that extent I reserve my comment. Cus I am vexing already.

TrumporIdie:
Look at Omotola she is happy with her husband, cos she wasn't greedy, learn ladies learn.

wristbangle:


Smh. When it happened, you will remember someone in the past gave the warning but ladies like u refused to listen. To be fore armed is to be forewarned.

komzy589:

Poverty stricken chic spotted.

NaeChris:
Is it because men are ASHAMED to voice out? Indeed its a disgrace that your wife woops your ass.you never see am before? Not come out to showcase your weakness. Thats thesame with rape. Guys are keeping quiet.

pcguru1:

I saw the price of similac in the market baby food for 18,500 I wanted to break dance on the floor, is it the guy no planning for the future that wants to handle such. Which is why I feel every guy should work hard mehn

idioticmynd44:
your opinion tho.

Believe7:


but why will a lady marry a man who's already married with 3 kids..nd tink it will be a perfect marriage forever..dats not hasty generalization by d op..rather he's saying d truth..a young lady wont mind been d 10th wife..provided d man is rich..women tink like fish..i swear..

TrumporIdie:
Our ladies were made with unusual materials, they never learn. Research and experience has shown that women who go after already made men, already married men, divorced men just because he has money always pay the bitter price for their greed.

A man who had a wife before, but left her for you is not a man to be poud of, this is so because sooner or later, he will leave you for another lady. Also, most of these men are beasts, they will beat you like kilode but because you love the protection of money, you won't talk till he kills you. Let's look at Mercy Aigbe, she married a rich hotelia who already had 3 children from his wife, from second wife she became first wife and was happy, no knowing she would suffer what the first wife suffered. Too many examples but our slay queens won't listen.

You leave a broke hustling guy who has genuine love, for a rich maga who has no love for you, becos of greed.
Ladies wake up, struggle with your guy today and enjoy tomorrow. Any beating you receive tomorrow, it's the seed you have sown today.

kimbra:
Op made some valid points while in some he generalized.

Before you marry that already made divorcee. Do a background check on why he left his wife even when he's confessing love with his sugar coated tongue. You could be his next victim for whatever the first one went through. I pity those side chicks who encouraged some men to drive their wives away 'cause it's a matter of time for him to give you a dose of what the wife got.

Lastly, men are different. There are some you would suffer with just for them to turn their backs on you when they made it. There are women in marriages today who suffered with their men but still get badly treated.

wristbangle:


It happens dear and that is why ladies need to know that it is better when they are independent financially instead of depending on a man beater who camouflage under the whims of wealth.

Alondrah:
Hasty generalization from a myopic point of view. Even men ladies struggle with disrespect them too, Stop preaching mediocrity. A man will treat a lady whichever way he deemed fit irrespective of his financial status.

Op, learn to use the word"some" ,, there are still some divorced, ready-made men who treat their women right.

mployer:


The difference is in your personal effort and understanding of your capabilities

Vorpal:


@the emboldened, No lie at all.

I hope you all succeed in stamping out these failings in some men, because perhaps i may have a daughter some day. By then, at least some pungent unfairness would have been weeded out.

Alondrah:
Hasty generalization from a myopic point of view. Even men ladies struggle with disrespect them too, Stop preaching mediocrity. A man will treat a lady whichever way he deemed fit irrespective of his financial status.

Op, learn to use the word"some" ,, there are still some divorced, ready-made men who treat their women right.

maxioptiultra:
I guess those of us who want our men to respect us should fish out the broke ones from their hideouts in Ajegunle.

This site is beginning to reduce my IQ.

#timetojumpship!

Xiadnat:



Lamentations of a broke nigga.

Go hustle op. You are likely the kind that will leave a girl who has suffered with you.

Makes it sound like money is the only thing you lot to offer a woman. Thats why you lot focus on money before women.

Build and develop other aspects of who you are and offer that to a woman; then watch how you will attract quality women.

There are plenty michelle obamas out there looking for their barack; only most men are blinded by pursuit of money first cause they lack substatinally on other areas.

What you lack in character and personality, you cannot make up with money.

Alondrah:
If you observe my post carefully sir/ ma, I omitted "married men" from it. I don't encourage ladies to date married men

Eazybay:


So d hideout for broke men is Ajegunle... I just hope u had an IQ in d first place.

creamylicious:
these things you guys are doing get psychological effect na.... me as i wretched reach go see guy wey hold bar come dey dodge am just cos of nairaland ... i am tired

geekybabe:
What exactly is d difference between not being greedy and not settling for less?

geekybabe:
What exactly is d difference between not being greedy and not settling for less?