₦airaland Forum

missterious:
If you could drop farming, why can't girls drop cooking?

missterious:
Do you go to the farm?

missterious:
Because he believed his daughters should not be denied education because of their sex, he was a feminist.

winner01:
I dont argue with homosexuals >:

FrancisTony:
You should have asked him which Nigerian male president has been great or equivalent to German female Chancellor Angela Merkel.

Chinom:
In other words, a woman should be given the Kolanut to break just because she has a Phd. If I slaaaap you there now..!!. Are u out of your senses.

FrancisTony:
Stop leaving in self denial.
There are many stories of Nigerian women suffering in the hand of their husband. Is that happiness?

Family section women don't make up 1% of Nigerian women and you can't deny it.
Actually you're the one who opined single lady are lonely and i'm telling you marriage doesn't determine happiness for all people.

You're the one who need love from female from your hateful posts towards female gender.

Sayanora!

missterious:
Marriage is a beautiful thing. I would love to get married. It is possible to be rich & married & that is what I pray for. But if I had to choose, I would choose money. Being single is not a sin.

FYI, this "feminist crap" is the reason women can vote, the reason your daughter can go to school. Feminism is advocacy for social & economic equality of the sexes.

mya1:
Absolutely! humans are free to make their choice. Your example though, all you need is to have a talk with these woman and you'd find out for a majority it isn't an independent choice, rather a bullocks of societal standard they feel they have to conform to.
Now is that really a choice?


The education is not " don't do this" rather "
Don't do simply because you belong to a gender "with the exception of defined biological roles of course.

Mind you, I said humans -so it applies to both gender.

Who says a man has to be the highest gross earner of the home?
Why should a boyfriend be the one to be spending on his girlfriend ?


I'm a humanist - for the equality and good of humans.

FrancisTony:
Husband doesn't do that, either.
There are many married women who are lonely as fvck.
One don't need to be married to have kids who will be her companion and that's a huge inconsistency in her warped post.

Genevieve is unmarried and she's happier than many married women.
Her daughter don't go around whining like many children with father and mother because her mum's money provide everything for her.
She's a companion to her mother when she's needed.
So, widows with kids are lonely?

You say? By the way, Missterious never said she hate being married and getting rich but opined when given an option to choose one.

FrancisTony:
She's solid gold and not exhibiting excess secretion of testosterone?

Don't bother replying.

Hypocrite!

BUTCHCASSIDY:
She is married but to what type of man. Thats the question.

Segzay:
I quite agree with some of her speech,,[size=14pt]bt wait o,,dose ppl over thr(western world) knws all dis tins and yet dey record d highest divorce rate[/size],,,d fact stil remain dat our cultures and our beliefs here is d best,,I believe dos dat created dis path for us to follow also made dem tru wisdom and critical tinkins,,its jst dt dey r nt opportuned to stand in front of ppl nd givin out speech like dis woman wey go stil mislead una,,,am nt disputin her words,,bt most of our girls here wuld mis-interprete her words,,gender equality is real nd true,,bt no too cari dat mentality reach una husband house o,,or else e go clear fr una eye wen dat humble,,cool and submissive woman snatch him frm u!

FrancisTony:
I'm sure you didn't read that article.

If you did, you'll understand that her point is, why are men privileged to do so culturally, instead of who deserves it by achievement irregardless of the gender.

BUTCHCASSIDY:
All this talk of women roles really bores the crap out of me. James Brown said it well. It's a man's world but it would be nothing without a woman.
I Will always be the man as long as I make money, I'm required to protect my woman and my family, provide for them , in-carge of their welfare
and look out for them.You can come online and talk all the crap you want all day. Its a mans world always has been and always will be. [size=18pt]If you want to be respected then earn it. [/size]No one respects or gives freebies to anybody cos Ure a man or a woman. If Ure a man and act like a biitch you will be treated like a biitch. If you are a woman and you are able to work hard you will reap the rewards.

all4naija:
The world all rather society put some women in corners. You have to travel around the world to understand that, most especially, in the Islamic countries. Yousafzai Malala is a good example of what I am driving at or talking about.

repogirl:
and when you are sick and need comfort, I guess your money will comfort you.

When you are lonely and your body is in need of some you know what, I guess your money will do that for you.

When you need advice or to have interesting conversations with someone, guess your money will do that for you.

When you feel the need to procreate and have cute little descendants of yours and then bring them up in the right way, I guess your money will do that for you.

When you need someone to boost your ego or morale when you're feeling unsure bout yourself, I guess your money will do that for you.

Lastly when you leave this world, who will miss you dearly, speak touching eulogies about you and keep your memory dear to their hearts. I guess your money will do that for you.

Our most important treasures in this world is our time, what we do with it and then our relationships. Everyone should aspire toward wealth and prosperity, but should not lose sight of what is really important. Because the really important things make life worth living.



Now on to the topic;

Well, I don't know Chimamanda's upbringing was but I was never brought me up to see myself as a lower being to give respect when it is needed but definitely not to be walked all over.

Nobody can put you in a place you don't want to be, sometimes as a woman, you deal with some men that have warped thinking, agreed but doesn't mean the world has put you in a corner.

Times are changing, for centuries, women have been homemakers mostly instead of career women but that was what was needed at the time. Now the economy has changed and like it or not, women have to also contribute their quota to their upkeep and family finances. I believe, like it or not, we are a constantly evolving race and with time, these things will change naturally.

All this you must not let people put you here or there is just not worth it to me, some people are malleable naturally and they will be that way whether you preach feminsm to them throughout eternity.

Women should not shenk important responsibilities because of this feminism crap. You can be an awesome career woman, awesome wife and an awesome mother all at once.

all4naija:
Sorry to say your point is flawed a little bit. You are trying to say because one is more qualified than the other we shouldn't look into the facts the other has to present.

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Velocitron:
One thing I haaaaaaattte more than anything is this victim culture women and blacks tend to have nowadays! As long as you're a rich, educated woman living in a first world country, you're more privileged than most people so you should be the last person whining about 'oppression'. So what if someone said something rude to you? So that's the definition of 'oppressed'?

No one is holding you back, no 'glass-ceiling', no 'wage-gap' whatever. We women are even lucky that we can use our looks or sex to get by. So stop the whining, please.

blublahd:
partially,
in details, on a very boring day like this, a man back then just needs to sit at his veranda and watch women walk to and fro bare chested and a partial covering on their buttoçks which would brighten any man's day.
So much for civilisation

Vivly:
Nope. It proves that there's something wrong in asking any gender to post an unacceptable pic. A female could also be a pervert.. For example, 5minsmadness, could you please post a nice picture of your n.ipples?

aderonila18:

The point of feminism is equality including equality in choice. Any woman who wants to go bare chested should be able to same as men and any woman who chooses not to should also have the same right like men who chose not to.

The poster above is choosing to excercise her right to not expose her nipples because she doesn't feel like it

missterious:
Do what makes you happy as long as it doesn't hurt anybody. Freeing my n.ipples for a silly reason would hurt me.

Vivly:
Whoever wants to see nipples should just Google the mammalian breast. No need to gain points in your argument by asking for the impossible.

blublahd:
YES!

the sensual effects their teats create cannot be compared to a man's agree?

Vivly:
Wait, you're the guy who wants to see #ipples to prove a point? Why?

missterious:
I'm not going to show you my n.i.pples. Stop asking.

missterious:
I have a male friend who will NEVER take off his shirt in public. Does that make him a woman?

missterious:
Feminism also involves refusing to be blindsided by distractions from unenlightened humans & focusing on the important. I said it's a matter of preference. I can show you if I want to. I don't want to.

Vivly:
Perv.

Vivly:
Depends on how you define tips.
I see it as extra change you leave for a waiter. How is that pointy?