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crackhaus:
Owning his home is easy, all he has to first learn to do is say NO and mean it regardless if it hurts his wife's feelings...but to be honest, I must admit it kinda looks like this ship has sailed already - When a woman has become so used to having her way with her man and all of a sudden sees that she has lost that hold on him, some devious women can end up going the extra length just to regain that control.


[size=4pt]As for making her life a living hell, baba that one na professional specialty oo...not every person is capable of it, which is why I can't really explain it the way you'll understand it here.
Divorce is just too easy for some women, they need to be taught a lesson in the marriage until they can't stand it anymore and then gather their own things and move out on their own.

However with this psychological game, the man will have to always be one-step ahead of her and try to figure out her moves before she can materialize them[/size].

Biko am interested in this. So, the guy learns how to say no and means it, even though its tearing at his heart to see his wife hurt but he knows its for a good cause; what's the next step?

TheArchangel:
this is sanity talking.

More of hunger, to be honest. I havent eaten since morning.

crackhaus:
That woman is just something else, and all he seems to be doing is nursing a psychological time-bomb that's only staying time till it blows off.

Tell your colleague to get a full hands-on grip on his balls and start owning his home....in a nicer way of course.

crackhaus:
Too easy

I'd rather they stay married while he makes her life a living hell.

How does he go about doing that?

glossy6 what you probably have is two types of people that were never compatible and should not have gotten married in the first place. Unfortunately wether they like it or not, they are joined together and have kids together.

The woman calling the police on him just out of tue blues does not add up. Its possible there was a quarrel at home on what to do with the extra money which led to the man threatening her enough for her to call the police.

The man is quickly losong control of his wife for her to have called police for him. Either that or she has been dealt with before by the man and is taking these harsh stances as her way of striking back.

Ask him to put all pride aside and invite her for both of them to go for couples counselling. They can see a senior family doctor or a psychiatrist (doesnt mean anyone is mad but psychiatrists make very good counsellors) or any elder pastor they both respect. He needs to get to the root of the problem and find a solution to it.



P.S op u might be biased towards this man cos he is the one u are acquainted with. It might be best to wait to pronounce judgement until u hear both sides of the story.

You people saying help, help, una think say e dey easy to forgive and forget abi?

I vote:



Photoshoot

Cc NLJega

Hmmm

I vote photoshoot, fynestboi.

Cc NLJega

Ishilove:
Errr..., so that the baby doesn't end up having 15 fingers and 20 toes...

Lol.
Folic acid is given during pregnancy and even pre-pregnancy to prevent the formation of spinal cord defects and brain defects in the fetus. This is just one of its numerous benefits. It also helps in healthy formation and growth of the baby.
Modified* (thanks Yomieluv)

Drugs that are dangerous to give during pregnancy include ibuprofen, chloramphenicol, streptomycin, doxocycline,and your favourite, tetracycline, which might just give the baby an extra finger or arm or head

Ishilove:
I thought pregnant women aren't supposed to take folic acid?

Oh? Why not?

I vote for :

Photoshoot

Cc NLJega.

crackhaus:
In your dreams..
Is it by force to get erecti0n for una?

How many of una for dis section even fine sef?
Don't lie oo, I've seen almost all of you...and not surprisingly, na even the ones wey nor dey make too much noise here get beauty eg. Ed......, D.....

So 98% of NL users are f00ls?
98%?
You're cutting it too close, cos dis statistics don almost include you and your friends...

Bhaahahahaha!!!

WellEndowed:
What is this one saying? Quiet will you

Buhahaha

byvan03:
He is married, move on!! Don't let anyone deceive you in the name of testing your qualities. If you don't love yourself much more, you will always be a victim of battered heart. This man is very fake, a liar and am sure a cheat too, obviously playing kalokalo with your heart. You told him your heart is fragile and you truly believe most men will give a shi*t about that before breaking it again? Woman up please, forget this guy because nothing good will ever come out of this shady character.

For the first time in history, i am agreeing with byvan.

Op this guy used u, sorry to say. I started out thinking he was an introvert, a shy person, but after i read about the accident drama its so obvuous he never really liked u. You're the one that have been in love with him, showing him all the attention, calling him, praying etc. He just used the accident case as an excuse to dump u.

Do you even know his house?
Have u guys ever had sex?


Babe forget him. He never really cared. 70% chance he's married sef and the whatsapp number u have is not his real busy number.


Forget the guy and move on.

She's a criminal. Or a suspect. She's wearing a tracker.


It could be a podometer but I doubt any podometer is that big.

She's a criminal. Or a suspect. She's wearing a tracker.


It could be a podometer bit I doubt any podometer is that big.

Iseoluwani:
No be so.

All because of the small change they see in u

I don't understand your post but i have modified mine.

You dress up that Legging With No underwear

The most disturbing female attire since the bumshorts.
This underwear leggings that shows your whole buttocks and sometimes even the vagina. As if u are not wearing anything under.

Haba ladies.

Why do you like appearing naked before us guys?
Then later you will be doing shakara. How do you expect us to respect u when u dress like a prostitute? You advertise all your nyash even the buttcrack will be well outlined, sometimes it's so tight we can even see the cellulite.

You are looking sexy, yes.
And I assure u and tell u the truth. All we guys are thinking about when we see that is sex. Exactly what u want to achieve u have achieved it. Every favour we give u, every smile, every support, every friendly gesture, it's for one thing. The hope of getting into your pants at all costs.


Some guys will come here and say its not true. I assure u they only say that so they can continue to sex u in thier minds. Either that or they are gay.

Help us pls. Unless you want us to view u as sex objects and you have what u want to achieve by dressig that way. But if u think that tight leggings is in any way decent IT IS NOT. Help us to respect u more pls.

Thank you.

byvan03:
Ahnie where you carry drip stand dey run to? you really gave them drama. I heard that some people close legs, I wonder how that is even possible .


Sorry for your loss babe.

They do
Some of them as soon as they see the baby's head going out will even use thier hand to push it back in. Trust our matrons na.
Screams of "Witch!!! You want to kill your baby?!?! " will fill the air followed by some well delivered slaps and punches.

There was one that fought us so hard until she delivered the baby then she asked to hold it. The Matron screamed "No! So you will finish killing him abi? Never!"

Another one delivered without a sound and then went on to request for bread right there. She finished the entire loaf on the spot.

Labour room experiences are awesome!

willibounce1:
It's a big big disrespect for a small girl to bring a man to her father's house for sex. That means she is not even scared of the father. The man that also agreed to go Bleep the girl in her father's house is an animal.
The father should have dealt with the man before pouncing on the girl. If you can disgrace your father, then you should be ready for the consequences.

Those saying it is wrong don't know how annoying it is. The girl will learn her lesson the hard way.

Thank you! Where's that "give that man a medal" gif when u need it?!

Gmajor:
in other words trumatizing and scaring her for life is a fit punishment ?

I'm not in support of the video. The man could have punished her without putting it online. I am however disgusted at how we handle kids these days like thier brains are made of Akamu and they will go all to pieces cos we flogged them. That girl has slept with emeka, the gateman and the driver. I assure u, the fear of punishment was not instilled in her at an early age. If she had any fear for her father before now, she wouldn't have dared to bring a man home under his roof to have sex with her.

If truly she was going to turn out that way with or without the beating, then the least the father should do is to make it more difficult for her to turn into an ashawo as best as he can. And if that involves beating and shaming her then so be it!

Why are u people even supporting a teenage girl having sex in her father's house? So he should cuddle her in love after catching her, pat her on the back and reward her with sweets so she will know he still "loves" her and so she can run for president ?? Rubbish!

Nigeria is the way it is today because we the elite allowed agberos, killers and thieves become politicians and rule us while we sang kumbaya in our churches. Most people who were flogged by thier parents turned out very OK, and are responsible members of society. Not this rubbish generation where children are not afraid of their parents all in the name of "love" and "talk to her". Parents no longer have any authority! After all, what will u do if she misbehaves? No be talk u go talk? Worst worst some parents in the name of civilization will even give her condom sef and teach her how to have the sex well. All so they can be called "civilized ". Then when the child gets a teenage pregnancy or grows up shallow with no morals, they will blame the devil.


Nonsense!

Hands Op bullet proof vest.

The mob today are like those in the days of Noah, Jeremiah and Jesus. They will mock you for saying what is right, judge you for daring to preach against selfishness, and even crucify you for trying to teach proper life principles.

The mob really hasn't changed.

All the best Op.

quivah:
wow! I'm so disappointed!

Too bad!

ahnie:
When i cudnt bear the pains again i started speakin ukwuani lingua to my mil....mama oya carry my bags....i dont want to giv birth again.then my eyes were reddish like who smoked ukwuani oilly canabiz sativa(indianhemp)

To buttress my point...piam i ran away with the drip stand

Running naked for that matter.who cares .

I was caught by four nurses we dealt with ourselves by spanking our selves.



Moments later the chubby doc came and was tryin to pacify me...i held his shirt saying...
I cannot calm down...ayam not comfy ooo.

Then i started shouting i want to poo.
I want to poo.
They said...poo it on top the table.
Was about jumpin down wen one of the nurses said...look at the babys head...oya open your legs now.


For wia...i shut my laps together.
They started spanking me that if i like ...lemmi kill my child.

Poor little zino was suffocating..i openned my laps and thank God she made it.she came out alive...pheeeeew

Labour z something x.but i thnk God that it ended in praise!

Now that little baby z a year and 12days.she z the reason behind this diary.

Use a condom or better yet abstain from sex.


Oh wait...too late.