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FamilyRe: Father Caught Daughter With Her Boyfriend In Ebonyi Having Sex (Video) by 5minsmadness: 2:26pm On Jul 29, 2016
Evangelio:
Maybe, or maybe that is just what we tell ourselves when we can't control our self righteous rage.
whatever helps us sleep well at night right??
There's no Maybe about it. We punish them so they don't make the same mistakes. If a parent is afraid to punish his own child cos he believes the child will "hate" him then he is a coward and not fit to be a parent.
FamilyRe: Father Caught Daughter With Her Boyfriend In Ebonyi Having Sex (Video) by 5minsmadness: 12:47pm On Jul 29, 2016
Evangelio:
problem with adults is that we always punish the younger ones as if we have never done same or worse things....

congratulations sir, you are officially " DAD OF THE MONTH "
No, we punish them because we did those things and we know the repercussions of those thing and don't want them to repeat and suffer the same repercussions we suffered.
FamilyRe: Father Caught Daughter With Her Boyfriend In Ebonyi Having Sex (Video) by 5minsmadness: 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2016
UmecheMoses:
WHAT THE FATHER DID IS BEST FOR THE DAUGHTER. I GREW UP IN A GENERATION THAT WILL DISGRACE A BOY STRIP HIM FOR STEALING MEAT.....

BUT THIS GENERATION IS SIMPLY WASTED...... NO CREATIVITY RATHER SEX AND STUPIDITY.
IF THE PARENTS OF HOMOSEXUALS DID THIS TO THEM AND THE PARENTS OF PROSTITUTES WE WILL HAVE A SANER SOCIETY
Thank you o'jare!
I don't want to comment my mind make dem no ban me.
Some are even saying the video will destroy her future career... Which career? At the way she is going, no be ashawo career she don already start?

Wayward generation.


The man no flog am well sef.
Make I no comment Abeg.
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 11:48am On Jul 29, 2016
The researchers believe the reason is that people in rich and educated societies are freer to be self-expressive. As writer Christina Hoff Sommers speculated a few months back in The Atlantic, “What if gender difference turns out to be a phenomenon not of oppression, but rather of social well-being
Wait...
Are they thinking.... Could they be considering the possibility that a woman would feel much better accepting that she is a woman and a man would feel much better accepting he is a man?



Hahahahahaha

AAaahahahahaha grin


How absurd undecided
RomanceRe: I Got To Know She Slept With My Best Man After 2 Years Of Marriage. Am Divorcing by 5minsmadness: 9:45am On Jul 29, 2016
meekyrozzay:
@MURPHYIBIAM15 what else do you wanna know. My best man said this while we were having a serious issue and he made that statement without details. i got home and my wife confirmed it, it was 7 months before we got married, i was out of town for bussiness for 5 weeks and this shit happened. And since then i just got to know. isn't this cray?
undecided




undecided





























undecided
In fact. I for say u be mumu but I dey fast.
You've been living happily for 2yrs and now want to divorce her cos of this?

































undecided
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness:
You know, inasmuch as you guys are throwing invectives at each other, I find this thread none-the less very heartwarming smiley

Tv01, you lucky son of a gun, wifey's looking good!

Nice pics shaybebaby, is that the Italian meat we've been hearing about next to the old gentleman?


Keep Em pics coming folks. Stuck here in horrible nigerian traffic, need to get my mind off this heat cheesy

FamilyRe: Mother Beating Her 16-Year-Old Daughter For Sharing After Sex Photos On Fb [VIDE by 5minsmadness: 8:10am On Jul 28, 2016
5minsmadness:
You should have watched it to the end. You should also have listened to what the mother was saying especially at the end. Why would anyone want to support a teenager for thotting? You really believe talking it over will work in this case? Lol.

For a ghetto girl this was the best form of punishment. She beat her up and videoed it on the facebook page where she was sharing her obscene videos (whatever they were), it not only humiliates her and thus discouraged her, it's let's the men downloading her video see that she is just a child and that her mother is in charge. The Mother said she had taken over the facebook page now, it now belonged to her, lol! Kudos to her. The kid will think twice before doing this kind of thing again.



I like it also when the mother gave her a slap when she started all that "it's my phone and my life I can do whatever I want with it" speech. She landed her several brain formatting slaps, the girl couldnt continue with the statement grin

The Mother obviously was a hoe before and knows the shit her life has become because of it. The Mother is frustrated that her daughter is towing the same path despite all she has done for her. Look past the profane and obscene language the mother uses, it's common for them over there to use such language, get the message of what she was trying to say. She told her daughter she would Now pay for things in the house and buy her own stuff with her own money since the daughter feels it's her life and she can do what she wants. She's trying to teach her responsibility.


The only serious beating in this video are a few slaps and a punch in the belly. The rest didn't really connect and the girl was crying more from fear than anything else. I honestly feel she would have been worse off if the mother had let loose and beaten her with a focus to punish her. It's obvious from the beatings that the mother was restraining herself.


I give her a 7/10 for parenting and a 10/10 for caring.
FamilyRe: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by 5minsmadness: 7:52am On Jul 28, 2016
quivah:
you probably didn't read the op, they had kids with them.

the wife ran off with some cash afterwards probably pained that she was left all alone to rescue the kids.
we all can just talk and talk here, no body knows what he/she would do in such situation. its the man I feel sorry for right now.
So she was fit enough to not only save herself and the kids, but some cash as well. And you still think she needed saving?

grin
FamilyRe: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by 5minsmadness: 7:48am On Jul 28, 2016
quivah:
truly if a man is faced with picking you or his parent,, it better be the parent.
with this uncouth mouth of yours, any man knows better than to live in regret of a lousy and nagging woman, when he had the chance of erasing you completely in an instance.

you could have just passed your message politely, all I could read were rants of a frustrated woman, it made your message full of crap and inconsistencies . Just chill, nobody is wishing you unwell here, no need to throw tantrums around.

and yes we know, you would join him to save his mother while your kids are left to fend for themselves.. we know your type.. just imagine all this insults in your post to one man, strong aggressive woman.

PS; I am already imagining the loads of insults I will get... so I won't be surprised.
But he threw the first punch by wishing her ill. He provoked her just because she didn't agree with his ideals. That wasn't right either.
FamilyRe: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by 5minsmadness: 7:47am On Jul 28, 2016
Double post.
FamilyRe: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by 5minsmadness: 7:41am On Jul 28, 2016
cheekyleggy:
Yes, I would be able to accept that just the way I would expect my brother to save my mother first and my husband to save his mother first.

Wivs are not idiots or teddy bears. They should work out and be fit and help themselves too.
Thank you!

Look at all of them talking as if the wife is an invalid, a helpless person that can't take care of herself. If she was a widow or a single mom nko, she won't survive and rescue her own kids? Na wa for some people.
FamilyRe: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by 5minsmadness: 6:33am On Jul 28, 2016
I don't understand. He made sure the wife was safe by telling her to climb on the roof. Then he went to make sure his mother was ok. What's the problem there?

Let married folk come and answer the question. I don't care how old my mom is, I've known her all my life. I could literally kill for her. There are some really good wives out there but.... Hmmm. Married people over to u o.
FamilyRe: Everything's Just Wrong by 5minsmadness: 3:59pm On Jul 27, 2016
sisisioge:
I support the short-lived-madness guy above me. Take things easy, they will sort themselves.

The people taking your daughter away from your neva tire ni, by the time the bills get more expensive, the baby grows enough to want her daddy and their daughter realises the sheer waste of time shouldering parenthood alone is when the other party is alive and willing, you would be chased frantically to come do your bits. As par the matters of your heart, you would find a good woman when you are cleared about what you really want. Until then, prepare for the best.
That's a new one undecided
FamilyRe: Mother Posts Facebook Video Of Her Beating Teen Daughter by 5minsmadness: 3:22pm On Jul 27, 2016
flawlessT:
It's not cool doin dis,dey r beta ways of handling such matters
Like?
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 3:19pm On Jul 27, 2016
Timbuktou:
Hehehe. Hope say you no get cele colleagues o? Make dem no chain you join generator. grin

I dey copy am for this thread na. You no see the cuteness wey wan break nairaland?
I see it my brother. Those kids are what waffi call take-away grin Cute for days. Oyibo life good sha.


[size=4pt]Abeg who be de divorcee who dey on her fifth husband dey use shlionng do lollipop? Na O**?[/size] grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 3:04pm On Jul 27, 2016
But some of our nairaland feminists sha.

On more than one occasion I've seen fem29 cut down monikers with her caustic and sharp e-tongue. Just one troll and she deactivated? I'm disappointed sad





No wait a minute.



I'm not . grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 3:00pm On Jul 27, 2016
Timbuktou:
TV01, chai. I can almost touch the love you've got for that cutie. She's so cute I want to carry her. Good one there. But I'm still scared of having a daugter.


5MinsMadness, wetin happen? You chop Baba Ijebu? You just dey laugh since morning.
You can imagine how my colleagues at the office have been observing me from a safe distance grin

Abeg na where u dey download pics. I no wan miss dat wan biko.
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 2:57pm On Jul 27, 2016
TV01:
I'm slowly getting to grips with it - diva'ish behaviours manifest already shocked She is being raised with the one aim in mind - to be highly accomplished and marry a man of requisite status! And God be glorified, I do have a male heir cool.


TV
Hmmm, nice youngins u got there bro. Chai, see enjoyment! No overpamper them o!
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 2:20pm On Jul 27, 2016
TV01:
Glad you are enjoying it bro' grin.

No worries about the piccies, I will be back to continue the spamming spree - re-runs included cool. I'm sure people are interested in knowing what got Mindfulness/SisetsFiesta so hot and bothered, and left Shaybebaby so traumatised, that both of them have been running around the forum for days going on & on about it. Methinks the ladies doth protest too much cool

TV

...this was the one Mindfulness said made her puke...I don talk am, she never born grin
Pls..... Pls... I can't breathe... Tears coming outta my eyes grin grin grin


Cute baby u got there!

TV that u man? grin


You guys have made my day aswear!
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 2:13pm On Jul 27, 2016
shaybebaby:
Had to be seen, it all started quite civilised and then degenerated into guerilla warfare with ass pictures being detonated. That put an end swiftly to the thread with some of us needing therapy to deal with the ensuing ptsd. grin
LMAO!!!

FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 2:04pm On Jul 27, 2016
Timbuktou:
Stop talking like a menopausal woman whose left nippple is being sucked by a baby goat. What stops you from responding with this moniker. You think I woke up to come and sleep on nairaland?
ROTFL!!!!!!?


OMG!! grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 12:11pm On Jul 27, 2016
shaybebaby:
Hope you have been sufficiently entertained.
Oh am getting there grin
Started from page 14 then went back to the beginning. Currently on page 4.


The only down side is that I missed the pictures cry

Otherwise it's been hilarious so far grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 11:11am On Jul 27, 2016
grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness: 10:31am On Jul 27, 2016
Holy crap! What happened on this thread? shocked shocked shocked
Goes back to start from page 1
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Women Have To Be Addressed As Mrs? by 5minsmadness:
Married women have to be addressed as Mrs so you will know they are married.

Don't know why it took you guys 17pages to figure that out .
FamilyRe: Everything's Just Wrong by 5minsmadness: 9:33am On Jul 27, 2016
Sorry about that.
You are going through a rough patch in life. We all get them one way or the other. You'll pull through don't worry.

Don't do anything risky this period. The tendency is to engage in rash behaviour to make yourself happy. What you need to understand is that this phase will pass and everything will sort itself out. So whatever u plan to doing, think about it first and make sure it doesn't have any long standing effects.
FamilyRe: No Matter How Nice You Are To A Goat, It Will Still Eat Your Yam by 5minsmadness: 8:28am On Jul 27, 2016
I think the important thing is to be selfish to yourself in a good way. For instance if it makes you happy helping the person then go ahead and do so. Don't do it out of a feeling of obligation. There are some people that just are not grateful for your help, other feel a sense of entitlement, yet others think you are a mumu for helping them. Guy, don't let things like this get you down. Derive your happiness from within. Derive your happiness from yourself.

Mindfulness might or might not have one or two things to say on this matter.
FamilyRe: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by 5minsmadness: 8:13am On Jul 27, 2016
Temilola01:
I really need people's advice on how to handle this, as the next few weeks will either break or make my marriage stronger. My husband and I have been married for 5yrs now but we have been together for 11yrs. We have been through so much together, ivf procedures, miscarriages, failed businesses and the usual ups and downs in every relationship. He came to me last night after discovering he has an 18yr daughter who he has never met or did not know till yesterday. We are still waiting on God. Although this was before we met but does not make it less of a blow. I want him to do right by his daughter but I also fear for my marriage. I only just learnt about this literally 8hrs ago so I'm in shock and still trying to wrap my head around it. I need people's unbiased advice. Thank you everyone.
Sorry pls, how will this break your 11yrs of togetherness ? You want to divorce him because of this? Is the mother of the grown up child insisting he marries her?

Modified :
There's a whole lot of good advice up there (and one or two discardable ones) but mostly good advice up there. Nothing more to add.
FamilyRe: Strange Calls,should I Suspect Her? by 5minsmadness: 8:02am On Jul 27, 2016
EfemenaXY:
Yeah, right.

You wish. In your dream of dreams...
Lol!
Let's just get on with the topic smiley
FamilyRe: Was He Right To Have Done This? by 5minsmadness: 6:42pm On Jul 26, 2016
Hiroto:
Stories that touch. No need to beat anyone. I will simply forgive nd forget her end of story
Yeah. Right.
FamilyRe: Strange Calls,should I Suspect Her? by 5minsmadness: 5:56pm On Jul 26, 2016
JackBaueress1:
Go and pay her dowry then she becomes your legitimate wife. failure to do that, you have no right to question who she talks to on phone.
Op, you neva pay her dowry??
FamilyRe: Strange Calls,should I Suspect Her? by 5minsmadness: 5:53pm On Jul 26, 2016
cococandy:
You're hilarious. Out of touch with reality. You are the ones getting the attention huh? You're not the ones asking for it. These ladies chase you. Not the other way round. Pls who are the ones asking for these nude pics? The ladies just wake up and send it into your phones? Not after y'all have begged and cajoled for weeks and finally swear on your .... grave that you'll never show it to anyone?

But somehow your post tactically absolves yourselves blame for this. You're deeply concerned about married women keeping male friends online. Why aren't deeply concerned about married men that keep online female friends?
Na Wa o.
The post is there for you to see. I don't know how you can read something and only choose to see what you want. grin

I clearly stated there that men too are guilty of this online attention from the opposite sex. I EVEN admitted that we males don't see it as a problem until our females start getting the same attention then we go up in flames about it. I even queried the Op that hope he isn't guilty of same offence. How was I absolving the male folk again naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahuh?


For your info, ladies (not just one lady, ladies.) have sent me thier nude pics, completely unsolicited I can assure u. I'm not a teenager to be begging for nude pics, I've seen enough to last me a lifetime. grin I'd list out my escapades on sexuality section but am too bashful and old-fashioned to do so. embarassed

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