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sweetyme001:
Did you know : Eating mangoes
one hour before smoking
marijuana can heighten the
effects..

enshi:
Let me reiterate that the world would be brought to an end following the excesses of women..... The new dimension adopted by today's women to show nude is really going to be the call for the end... ...

It had to turn out this way so as to see to the fulfillment of what was written. ....

halfricanadian:
they slay sha

Ishilove:
Ehen! 200k for a intimacy gadget... Na wa o

This sex matter is a lot more serious than I imagined.

To the side note, 'elder' and 'night club' should not be in the same sentence. It's an oxymoron

Ishilove:
Like a plastic puzzay/inflatable doll kinda toy? Do we even have those in Nigeria?

I doubt the man will go for that option. The warmth of living flesh cannot be compared to cold, artificial rubber

TV01:
Sup' Sir? Tricky one huh?

The person described in the OP seemingly has a number of issues;

1. A bad character,including lying, deceit, nagging and unforgiving
2. A spousal abuser, who is suspicious and has questionable self-worth
3. Stark religious difference
4. He is also piss-poor

The couple is also living apart. Even if he had super-swimmers, becoming pregnant would still require a miracle of sorts. Sort out all the underlying personal issues, and then, or at once get help for the relatively minor health problems.

To restore this union you need to re-set the foundations. You'll need a sincere and committed heart and everything at your disposal - personal qualities, family and faith. I sincerely hope you have the God of the Bible as your Buckler. All the very best.

Wannaweds, if you have any understanding, you'll go into courtship with high expectations and a clear vision, then ensure you are there, or very close ahead of marriage. Anything less is to court disaster If you are really smart you'll go with God.

Marriage is best avoided by mis-informed people,ill-informed minds or de-formed characters.

So sad.


TV

thorpido:
You're right.If the technique is poor,it can lead to frustration on the part of women.
I've heard quite a number of women who say they help themselves(not cheating).That's why romance machines are getting good sales.

thorpido:
The woman wasn't present but i asked the husband if she had seen a gynaecologist and he said no.
I suspect it's a combination of having a low sex drive and getting unsatisfactory performance from her husband.

oluwafreshkid:
At least, he didn't retire uselessly na

thorpido:
I had a client today at work who came for some treatment.One thing led to the other and I asked him about his sexual life.He said, well that aspect has issues.I asked him how and he said his wife no longer sleeps with him.
One day the wife said she was no longer having sex,that she is retired.She says she's a grandmother now and sees no reason to still,'raise her legs up'.He told me it was a serious issue that he reported to the church elders and she was summoned.Right in their midst,she still insisted she was no longer interested and he was free to find a way to take care of himself.

So guys(well men don't retire,i would have asked the ladies),what happens if someday,your wife says she's done with sex?

*by the way the couple are in their early 50s.

oluwafreshkid:
It's a simple sumtin nau...
When a player retires, the club simply sings a new and younger player as replacement! Or take the player on loan.

If he can't permanently remarry a new damsel, he should just have one unilag babe outside that will be doing the sumtin for him.
Case closed! Next!

Right in their midst,she still insisted she was no longer interested and he was free to find a way to take care of himself.

An0nimus:
Not seen him in a while too. not even on the Arsenal thread

terungwamzer:
Of all voices on this thread; yours and that of @mimzy are the only sensible!!

misspicy:
LMAO

Werey reee ooo
LOL

shrtermjbseeker:
what happened was that it was no more wishful thinking. I got pregnant and had a child and saw the difference between "theory and practical".

elektra:
Hahahaha, tired of correcting already?
The original poster, who knows her post better than you does not see problem. But Oga, who seems to understand the motive behind the post better than the poster cannot seems to get that I chose to talk about 1 part of the post only and insists that I did not understand the post because it isn't in line with his own understanding.

In fact, you are the best kind of parent. The kind that thinks and plans for the future before having a kid. If you feel you won't have the resources to raise another kid, then it is perfectly fine to have just one kid.

elektra:
Well, you are not a bad person for that. Raising a child takes a lot out of a person, if you feel that you can't do it for whatever reason, then you might want to communicate that to your spouse and reach an agreement.

On a different note. 5minsmadness, the original poster does not seem to have a problem with my understanding of her post.

elektra:
Nobody is quarrelling with you, Oga.
I talk my own, as the chief "corrector" of Nairaland, you "corrected" me saying that is not the only thing she talked about, I come thank you for your "correction". Wetin come be quarrel for inside?

elektra:
Thank you Sir, for your "correction".
Next time I am forming my opinions, I will google the "correct" opinion to have. But seeing as I can't read, I shouldn't even bother.

crackhaus:
After you told him you were tired, he went out and came back with a meal prepared by a lady friend of his...

...and you will be quite grateful.

https://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/i-know-you-lying-but-continue.jpg

elektra:
Well, time is the resource I chose to talk about in my post. If that is not good enough for you, there is nothing I can do for you.

elektra:
I read it right the first time.
She said she wants to focus on her career and give her Son the best and that is the angle I am coming from. And by "resources" I mean time.

shrtermjbseeker:
I am a mother to a 3 year old. I think children are cute, I love them and I enjoy teaching them. I've taught learners between 2 and 10 in various capacities even as a way of relaxing.

My son is my world, I love him beyond words and my life is all about him but I'm afraid to have more children:

1. I feel being a mother is not my thing

2. I should focus more on building a career and give my son the best.

3. I am afraid of pregnancy,

4. taking care of a baby

5. and training my own kids.

6. I just feel I'll never be a good mom as I would like and I'll feel guilty for bringing them into the world.

[size=3pt]All my life, I dreamt of having 3 kids. I almost broke up with my husband when we were dating because he said he wanted just 2. We talked about it and he agreed to 3[/size].

7. Now I am no longer interested in birthing. Am I a bad person?

charix:
I don't get it. People die every day, why's this on frontpage?
Anyway na una know. I know when I go I'd save my family the pain of grieving; it's what one sees they can cry over. A good organ sale, cremation and spread of my ashes is a very good way to forget my existence almost completely. My death should not actively weigh down anyone's life -- life is for the living only.

shrtermjbseeker:
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[b]I am a mother to a 3 year old. I think children are cute, I love them and I enjoy teaching them. I've taught learners between 2 and 10 in various capacities even as a way of relaxing.[ /b]

My son is my world, I love him beyond words and my life is all about him but I'm afraid to have more children. I feel being a mother is not my thing and I should focus more on building a career and give my son the best. I am afraid of pregnancy, taking care of a baby and training my own kids. I just feel I'll never be a good mom as I would like and I'll feel guilty for bringing them into the world.

All my life, I dreamt of having 3 kids. I almost broke up with my husband when we were dating because he said he wanted just 2. We talked about it and he agreed to 3. Now I am no longer interested in birthing. Am I a bad person?