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Islie:
But you didn't talk about when the woman needs the man and the is unavailable..... Like those midnight sexing and stuff.


Am sure the man is slipping from his wife step by step

. Sure he is.
There's also the issue of the neighbor falling in love with him. You know how ladies can become emotional after a while.

lezz:
I can understand your emotional outburst as typical of feminists but I would opt to demolish your argument factually .

* Firstly I would like you to bring to my remembrance where I was "advocating " for premarital sex. If you will reproduce my exact words I would know if I am deserving of the title of an advocate of premarital copulation.


OK, Victoria, let's get started

1) Feminists (you) seem to be closer to Satanist since they all seem to have one cardinal characteristic in common-- USURPING AUTHORITY.

2) Now you left feminism and started yapping about countries. I have never seen you in foreign affairs thread. You assert south Africa is better than Nigeria, will you tell us by what indices you drew your conclusion because south Africa tops Nigeria and the world in murder rates- 89 murders per day. Not even a boko haram Nigeria can boast of that statistics.

South Africa is home to the highest number of HIV infections in the world despite having only 50 million people. Do I see you nodding your head in bestial homosexual orgy?

She is also the world rape headquarters. Infants are raped traditionally in the customary belief it can cure HIV/AIDS

Her unemployment rate is 36% while Nigeria stands at 25% . her poverty rate is 39% while Nigeria is 33%. Nigeria has 22 billionaires as against South Africa's 7. Our economy grows at 5.1% annually down from 7% due to boko haram. South Africa's economy is stagnant. Would you please stick to what we know you for- homosexual endorsement?

3) Everyone frowns at rape, rituals, murders. Matter of fact I will be the first to hang a rapist or murderer or ritualist. There are laws in Nigeria dealing with these issues. Unfortunately your emotional out burst didn't allow you state your facts in a logical manner without mixing up so many social vices that has little to do with the topic.

The BBC has carried out a poll survey on Nigeria and a stunning 87% are opposed to it. Did I feel you cringe in disappointment?

Your Darling America with wonderful statistics has published that feminism has fattened the purses of women but at the same time women have grown more depressed and unhappy. Sweden is the longest practising feminist country on the green planet and the west , America inclusive, has come to name modern feminism as the "Swedish Mistake"

So what is the matter with feminists? They are selfish, evil and destructive. They don't care about the world, they only care about themselves. Feminism, is a dangerous doctrine that appeals and draws out the selfish little girl in a woman.

Ultimately, the dead end of femininism is lesbianism. That's their road map. The avarice for men. The propaganda that vagina orgasm isn't necessary or good, the lobby that men should bend down to pee in public rest room.

This isn't a game, it is evil . But humanity couldn't defeat nature for over 4,000 years.

Feminism also cannot defeat nature.
It is an emotional and financial investment that won't yield much returns.

And this, ladies and gentlemen, is the definition of an EPIC answer!
1,000,000likes!

Nice arrangement.
Still a sin though.
Then there's the issue of STIs.
And getting caught by either your wife or her husband.



Singing:
To be a man¶
To be a man is not a day's job¶
Eh kke kwe kwe¶¶

gj22:
I already posted before I say these points.

4. Oh, but you want to force your opinion on them? Gays are not forcing their opinions on Christians. This is the problem right here. We are feeling threatened by a non existent enemy. Gays are not saying you should accept that their actions are right, they are saying you should accept that they made the choice. Don't hate,simple. even the Pope has said the church should not hate on gays. Yes, you heard me, THE POPE. He said they are welcome in the church. Not for marriage or anything but just the way liars, thieves, adulterers and fornicators are welcome. I am on mobile right now, will send you the article when I can or you can search for it.


5. You think gay hate doesn't exist?lol. Are you joking or what? Stigmatising gays alone is gay hate.

Also, no one is trying to brainwash you. Accept their choice is all they ask. Not their actions, their choice.

Do you also know that the anti-gay law in Nigeria is a violation of their human rights?

6. It's simple. You don't have to agree with their actions. Is fornication not a sin too? I don't see Kenyans running around naked fight it.


Your summary is inferiority complex talking.

They are not trying to get married in the church. They just don't want you to stigmatise them.

Just so you know, I am a Catholic and I am not gay.

Hahaha!
I didn't even know u posted another hilarity! I dey come, na my turn to buy fuel.

gj22:
Lol. This is the longest ignorant comment I have ever read on NL. You didn't even give one single reason why it's bad. I am on mobile so will try my best to show you how misguided you are.

Firstly, gay sex doesn't increase likelihood of contacting STIs, anal sex does. By your logic, anal sex with your wife should also be illegal right?. What about lesbians that don't go anal? Ignorance is bliss.


Secondly, animals can't consent to sex. They don't posses freewill or the complex thought involved to consent to sex. All they have is their animal instinct to guide them and it's not the same as freewill. Have you not seen animals taking their females by force? Are you going to charge them with rape too? Animals have rights too, don't you know? Again, ignorance is bliss.

Thirdly, yes, any adult can have sex with whomsoever they want so far it is consensual. Being an adult means you know right from wrong and are willing to bear the repercussions of your actions. A man can have sex with his grandma, it's non of your business. ignorance

Fourthly, we are putting religion aside because not everyone is religious. Do you want to rule non religious people with religious laws? boko haram in the north are trying to impose their religious ways on us and you obviously don't like it yet you think it's okay to impose your religious laws on the non religious? or are you saying being non religious should be illegal too? Or do you even think that Christian and Islam are the only religions in the world? Again, ignorance is bliss.

Fiftly(if that's a real word), are you going to start blaming gays for global warming too? do you think that gayism is a recent invention? Don't you remember the story of sodom and gomorrah? Or you don't read your bible? Gays have always existed since the beginning. it's unfair to blame them for rise in diseases. Go and read the theory of evolution as well as mutation or do you think viruses and bacteria are excluded? Everyone is at risk of catching/creating something, not just gays.





I understand your frustration but you have no point. The same dangers gays create is the same heterosexuals create. So get off your high horse and try to apply some logic before commenting or at least do some research.


While religion is a blessing to mankind, you should also know that everyone has a right to believe or not. You shouldn't impose your beliefs on someone who doesn't share them. The law comes first before religion. Salvation is personal.

Let me add that while incest is not a bad thing, having an in-bred child is dangerous for health reasons. That's why incest is understandably illegal in some countries. It is rare anyway unless of course, you are a Targaryen.




Haha. This is the dumbest thing I have ever seen in my life.

With all authority bro, you are the one who's ignorant.
Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM) of all races and ethnicities remain the population most profoundly affected by HIV.
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0CCAQFjAAahUKEwi4gN-L-9_GAhVJXBQKHX41CBo&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.aids.gov%2Fhiv-aids-basics%2Fhiv-aids-101%2Fstatistics%2F&ei=G82nVfiGOsm4Uf7qoNAB&usg=AFQjCNFNmI8PtN6iINHXUiFKoW_FRhXxeA&bvm=bv.97949915,d.d24

As the world’s leading AIDS researchers gather for the International AIDS Conference in Washington, D.C., scientists report that despite gains in controlling the spread of HIV, the disease has continued to spread at an alarming rate in the very population in which it first appeared — gay men.
[img] https://timewellness.files./2012/07/964749-001hivmsmcrop.jpg [/img]

There is an 18 times greater risk of HIV transmission through anal sex
http://healthland.time.com/2012/07/20/hiv-continues-to-spread-among-gay-men-studies-show/

While CDC estimates that only 4 percent of men in the United States are MSM, the rate of new HIV diagnoses among MSM in
the United States is more than 44 times that of other men (range: 522 – 989 per 100,000 MSM vs. 12 per 100,000 other men)
http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/CDC-MSM-508.pdf

Biology Leaves Gay Men Highly Vulnerable to HIV: Study
Virus transmits much more easily via anal intercourse, research shows.
http://health.usnews.com/health-news/news/articles/2012/07/20/biology-leaves-gay-men-highly-vulnerable-to-hiv-study

Pray tell, how do gay people have sex?

Animals can consent to sex
http://www.onlinedebate.net/forums/showthread.php/14297-Animals-*can*-consent-to-sex

Animals show love and affection
Dog: Dog’s equivalent to kiss is touching nose. They also embrace each other by standing up on hind legs. They also wag thier tails in the act.

Chimpanzees: They do tongue kissing or what we humans called smooching

Cows: Cows kiss with lips and they are known to kiss for hours

Rabbit: They scratch and do fisticuffs to show love
etc etc.
http://www.pinkjooz.com/index.php/we-hug-and-kiss-what-do-animals-do/
So i guess bestiality is next on the "what's normal" list. Ok.

You can search the rest for your self. You have been educated free of charge
You are welcome.

Thirdly, yes, any adult can have sex with whomsoever they want so far it is consensual. Being an adult means you know right from wrong and are willing to bear the repercussions of your actions. A man can have sex with his grandma, it's non of your business. ignorance

Your words^^^^
And yet _vvvv are your your words as well.

Let me add that while incest is not a bad thing, having an in-bred child is dangerous for health reasons. That's why incest is understandably illegal in some countries.

Arguing with yourself? So you agree there's something wrong with incest but you supported it anyway just to display your arrogant ignorance?

Religion:

God destroys sodom and Gomorrah because of homosexuality. There was adultery, there was rape, there were thieves. But homosexuality brought down the fire and brimstone. Gen 19:1-13

Leviticus 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."¹

Leviticus 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them."

1 Corinthians 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, ¹⁰ nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

Romans 1:26-28, "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, ²⁷ and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. ²⁸ And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper."

If you really are a catholic like you said then you should take this seriously. But you dont. You dont really believe in your faith. you are just a nominal catholic and a conformist(thanks dinachi for this word)

Like I said, a true christian will not hate a homosexual as we are all brothers and sistersin christ. What is hated is the sin of homosexuality. Christ came to call ALL sinners to himself. Including gay gays(sic. my words.)


You see how your answers are less functional knowledge and more white-man worship and arrogant but ignorant outbursts?


The funny thing is, actually, your post is the dumbest most ignorant post on nairaland because you posted it with full confidence.

Well, we all learn everyday don't we?
I hope you put this new knowledge I've given you to good use.

gj22:
1. Everyone has a right to consensual sex with whomever they want.

2. Religion aside,

3. there is nothing wrong with being gay.

4. You don't have to agree with them,

5. just don't hate them.

6. Simple.

1. consensual sex
Sex in which consent was given by both parties. Sex with mutual consent. _{The urban dictionary}

So according to you, it's okay for a 60yr old man to have sex with his 18yr old daughter as long as it's consensual sex. It's okay for a mother to have sex with her son who is of age. It's okay for two brothers and two sisters to have sex. Nothing wrong there, it's consensual.
In fact men should have sex with dogs and women have sex with horses as long as the animals give consent i.e are not being forced to restrained in any way. An animal may not talk but it can give consent by wagging it's tail and agreeing to the act without protest. It's a free world after all. All barriers should be removed because it is now a free world. It is also pure coincidence that the number of sexual diseases increased from 3 to 128 following the sexual revolution. Pure coincidence.

Words associated with/related to consensual sex according to English authority: rape, sex consent, draft, Bleep, gang rape, military, premarital sex, age of consent, crime, erotic murder, porn, pornography, pre-marital sex, pre-martial sex premartial sex , sexual harass, statutory rape.

These are key words used when discussing consensual sex. Show me your friends and I will show you who you are.


2. Religion aside is what landed us in this mess in the first place. Religion not only upheld good morals and love for each other but also kept order. Once order is absent, chaos ensues.

3. Things wrong with being gay
1. It is unnatural. God made humans male and female for a reason, to procreate. It's the same reason a man has a pen1s and a woman has a vag1na. Even if u are an atheist you will scientifically agree that if nature wanted men to sleep with men, we would all have vaginas and pen1ses at the same time. Some animal species have the ability to turn female if there are a scarcity of males. Humans don't have that ability. Putting your pen1s into a hole lined with naturally unmoisturied mucosa is unnatural. The vaginal can stretch almost limitlessly to accommodate a huge pen1s or even a full grown baby. It is naturally adapted for sex and procreation. The a us is elastic but only cos of its mucosa. Hence the excess lubrication needed for analysis sex. Hence the bleeding and the pain. Hence the loss of elasticity of the anal sphincter and subsequent fecal Incontinence i.e shitting your pants uncontrollably.

2. Gay people are 18times more likely to get HIV than heterosexuals. This is cos of the langerhan cells which are found in the a us and take up the HIV virus easily. In fact hiv was first discovered among gay communities in new York before spreading to the heterosexual populace.

3. Gay deprives a man the unique company of a woman. No matter how effeminate a man is, he can never have the touch or psyche or homelinness of a Woman.

4. Gay marriages will deprive thier unnaturally gotten children the right of a father or mother figure. And for a well balanced brought up child it is natural to have both a father and mother figure in thier lives. It is bad enough that heterosexual marriages are failing and single parenthood are rampant and churning out psychologically unbalanced kids. But gay marriage will deny these children the opportunity to have role models of father's or mothers from the unset.

And you really think those kids will have any other choice of a relationship other than being gay?




4. Gay people are gradually forcing thier opinions down the Christians throats. If you are gay and you want to get married then by all means go to court. Coming to church to force a priest to marry you otherwise face litigation is impinging on the priests civil rights to hold to his belief and carry out his duties without being bullied or forced. The bible has said homosexuality is a sin. If you don't like it, fine. Kindly go elsewhere to get married.

5. Oh we don't hate them. Thier acts however are disgusting and naturally repulsive. Taking me to psychological classes to brainwash me into thinking otherwise, usually by force, is again impinging on my rights and trying to deceive my natural instincts.
You will see real gay hate when the serial gay killers come out. Funny enough Christianity won't support that either but the gays will say they do.

6. From the above you can actually see how complex it is.

Just because AMERICA says something is right doesn't mean it is. We have too much low self esteem in this country. At least the kenyans are standing up for what they believe it. Nigerians will probably kiss Obama's feet as long as he drops some dollars. But let's see how it goes.

coogar:
they didn't say she didn't have cancer. they said what she has as at 1998 isn't big enough to require surgery so they prescribed drugs to her.

Nooo
Get your facts straight Bruv. The American doctors said the Nigerians had misdiagnosed, there was no cancer, what she had was a minor issue. They sent her back home on drugs (not anticancer drugs). They were wrong.

the first diagnosis was in 1998. she died 16 years later. if the first diagnosis required surgery, she wouldn't have lived for another 16 years. cancer don't wait that long to do its damage in humans!

There are different kinds of growth, benign and malignant. The malignant growths are the cancers. Benign growths have a tendency to transform to malignant growths over time. This is what the Nigerian doctors feared and warned her about. She actually went abroad to have the surgery but the whites refused. If they had removed the growth chances are she would still be alive today.

There are also what we call slow growing cancers. Whether cervical or ovarian, both are ticking time bombs and need to be removed urgently.


We have very good doctors in this country. The main problem with our doctors is that they are not humane and they lack good communication skills. The doctors patient relationship is extremely poor.

If we delve deep into your friends misfortunes they would most probably have had communication issues with the doctors hence they think thier aunts died from negligence.

I'm not saying negligence doesn't happen in this country but it's not as rampant as the populace make it out to be.

coogar:
don't misappropriate the facts!
she wasn't told she didn't have cancer. she was told she didn't need surgery like naija doctors had recommended. the american doctors only said her problem back then wasn't enough for surgery to be carried out.

they prescribed certain drugs for her and she got better with time. whether she took the drugs administered to her would always be a reverberating question. it was in the same america she was told she had cancer eventually after many years. the original diagnosis by the nigerian doctors in 1998 was correct but solution they proffered(surgery) was wrong!

You are wrong in this one coogar. Our docs made the right call. They made a clinical diagnosis and from experience let Dora know she needed surgery immediately. She went abroad and the american doctors relied on thier tests and said she didn't have cancer. They gave her drugs instead. By the time the diagnosis of cancer was made it was too late (stage 4).
The Nigerian docs were right.

edwife:
Lol,medico-legal huh?

That's good by the way,i saw the Nordica ad on men fertility-maybe he should try that out.

Yes they are very good and thier prices are affordable. He should go there with his wife before concluding all is lost.

efemenaslectura:
5minsmadness

I don't even know what to say to you. I don't know whether you just deliberately get naughty some days and become a sweet heart some other days

Hence the 5minsmadness

Fear never let me try that your macaroni and corned beef o, trying to avoid cholesterol. But I suspect I will soon yield to temptation

efemenaslectura:
lobatan

funny enough while growing up my mom mandated that we should say thank you to whoever cooked the food or served it. Now as an adult I am so used to saying thank you every time that when I went to a restaurant some 2 days ago with my daughter. When the waiter served us I said thank you and he said I don't have to say thank you I'm paying for his services and in any case he's doing his job. I said I know but all the same thank you. It doesn't take anything out of anybody its just basic courtesy wai

The waiter was wrong. You were right. You say thank you Regardless of whether you pay or not. That's proper etiquette.

edwife:
5mins are you a doctor or a health practitioner?I asked because you seem to have a broad knowledge about things like this.

Medico-legal ma'am.

I own a string of NGOs in Abuja and Lagos, some of which cater to things like this...
Believe the ownership thingie at your own risk

But the op should answer my questions. I may be able to prefer some advice.

Brian2015:
Hello ALL,

I am looking for advice:

I have been to my doctor and done some tests, I can not father a child. My wife and I are desperate to have a family and I have been considering donor sperm. Will people know that this is not in actual fact my biological child?

any advice or help will be greatly appreciated

thanks

. What is the actual diagnosis? Oligospermia? Azospermia?
Also have u been to Nordica?

gj22:
Africa really is homophobic. Such a shame

What's shameful about being homophobic?

Kimoni:

OK wait, let sleep leave my eye first, I'll definitely figure it out.

Kimoni:
Com'on it's obvious naa

Aisha?

bukatyne:
Why don't you tell her here?

She is already have problems of confiding in males with her husband

Open a thread on diaries section so people cannot interrupt.

I am very sure it will be useful for others.

Ok,good idea.

Treese if interested pls indicate here then we can discuss on this or another thread.

Kimoni:
You see ur life outside? I must confess I have also never taken you serious because of ur moniker, don't blame me

But I like this moniker
And you should never judge a book by its cover!

Who are you anyway? have been trying to guess, you are definitely not new to nairaland.

Did I ask you to bring cold water?!
Are you deaf?
Why do you behave like an slowpoke sometimes!
Fooool!
Common go and return it!



Memories



And this one is complaining. You lucky say dem no tear you armageddon slap join!

treese:
Am not all that totally expanded, oh well I can't really tell am not the one entering. But I still don't know. I heard alum has its side effects

Pm me if it's a serious problem for you. We can attempt to correct it surgically.

Do not use alum. Vaginal atresia can result and it's very hard to treat.
P. S kindly ignore the title of my moniker. I penned it for fun.

Bukatyne did they both deactivate?

Are you in contact with the lady? I might have a solution for her. Kindly reply. Thanks.

Islie:
The marriage counselor has spoken

She did very well. I'm impressed!

I still think she has a coconut head though

Lol@ op are u going alone?
Your family members will do the talking. Just smile no matter what they say

Also mode of dressing depends on whether you are doing it big or small. After all its only introduction.

I hope the girl's father knows you o, hope you are not catching them by surprise?

zinachidi:
this part got me ROTFL,, and she may not be wrong actually. ... Kidding shaa... U could posted ur wife's face not urs na, since she is the 'missing' one..

EXACTLY.

Op What's the name of this movie? I think av seen this guy with Aki and Pawpaw b4

architez:
U folks keep saying she likes me, she's trying to impress me. I don't blame u, cos u know nothing about me. Of course she likes/loves me! Not only am I ripe for marriage, I happen to have everything our society has decreed a woman would want in a husband, plus am decent person too. Without bragging, it's like hitting the jackpot. That's just the truth.

Well, at the end of the day the ball is still in your court and you owe nobody any explanations. If you can't get past the lie then dump her sorry a$$. She deserves it for lying to you in the first place.

Phema:
^^^He should seek forgiveness for his friend's sin?

Sounds like he is the one.

Anyway op. The perpetrator of the act is the one am addressing.

cococandy:
Mmm I hear you.

You obviuosly dont.
You read your own meanings into clearly defined statements and make unnecessary generalisations to suit your pupoose.
Its called being MANIPULATIVE.

No link?

I am out.

Good day.

cococandy:
Lol you even called enforced monogamy 'unfortunate'
God must be unkind to give such commandments.

Normally whenever I indulge in social topics like this, I don't use religion as my basis because I know not everyone will agree.
Rather I view it from the angle of what's fair to everyone involved. And that's the angle I try to speak from at all times. Never mind what my own personal belief about the issue is.

You're the one that can't resist trying to show your holiness and superior Christianity when you know you can't even uphold biblical laws to a T much less try to tell others whether they are true believer or not.

Stop doing this to yourself.

cococandy link to this pls! No time !

Was it not you the other day that told me being faithful is unnatural even though God clearly commands you to?

A monogamous man is naturally attracted to women! He may be married yes and still be attracted to another woman outside of his matrimonial home! And to think he cant be atttractedonce he gets married is to decieve yourself, plain and simple! It is acting upon this attraction that is a sin! Thinking on it, dwelling on it, acting it out, that is adulterry and a sin and I have never in any way condoned it!

cococandy:
I asked you if a monogamous man was doing something unnatural and you said yes.
Even though God clearly commands you otherwise. So you believe you have a right to interprete the bible how it suits you and turn around to tell me how to be true Christain.

Oh, you came back
Link pls!

And the bolded makes no sense. Explain