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Is he playing pranks on me or am I just wasting my time with him. Does he have a sidechick?

Apologies for my too many questions. I'm totally confused. I have been engaged to my man for over two years yet he is not ready to settle down. So why did he propose to me? I've been dating him for six years now. He is financially stable, he works in a telecommunication company while I also work in an indigenous company. He proposed to me over two years ago and when he did I thought wedding bells would ring like six months later but there was nothing like that.


After waiting for a year, I discussed the issue with him, he said I should give him more time, and that has always been his response.

We had a serious argument over the same issue two weeks ago and his response shocked me. He said I can find myself another man if I can't be patient with him any longer. I was annoyed and sad, though he later apologized for making such comments. I asked him frankly his plans for me, he said he is working on some things-which he refused to reveal to me- that we will get married when he is done. Am not getting any younger, I will be thirty years old this November. Should I drop him and move on with my life before its too late? After all I have other suitors!!


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richgang:
"I dialed my mother's number on my wife's phone and found out she saved it as 'old witch". Granted my mother has her attitude but is it fair to save her name like that? I am thinking of creating a storm because I am really upset.

Dhahahahahhaha!
Your wife's got a good sense of humour!
Do same for her mom

SAMBARRY:
my mind didn't even go to his penis but even if that's the case does the child know penis or its functionality

NO it doesn't.
The child is Innocent
That's why it's CHILD ABUSE!
That pikin needs be be disinfected and psychologically analysed after this harrowing experience

SAMBARRY:
how?

Is the man wearing pant or is baby rubbing against his kini?

This is CHILD ABUSE!

prettythicksme:
hmmm like seriously?tell me more

And am sure she answered 'google'

There's a thin line between love and hate, but passion is found on either side.
Pablo 1295

hoseamatoh:
which half is Yoruba? the top half or the bottom half?

I

ahsekeena:
Why would u wear full panties underneath leggings and tight clothes






But these things are very comfortable.

They are? Tell us more

octopusfreaky:
lol,,,,my body frame no go Gree make I wear am..

Which part of your body frame are we talking about?

Klin and water.
Not a bad suicide plan.
It would Ave Destroyed her kidneys.
Would have been a slow and regretful death.

Thankfully someone loaded her with palm oil which would slow down absorption and also stimulate her to vomit. Thus saving her life.

But the girl mumu shaaaa

octopusfreaky:
lol,,,I can't put it up ya,all to see,

Omg now you just made things worse, now am curious!

Oya crop and paste na biko so I can advise you properly

johnydon22:
Why you deh look am even snap am. . .… If you no like am just look away na and face your front

HA, no get me wrong o, I like am, I like am well well! See free eye candy. But I come dey think am, if na my sister I go like am if guys dey oogle am dey scope am dey laugh behind her back? I come dey shame for am. Na hin I say make I snap anonymous pic send am out as warning to ladies out there esp those with extra large ikebe.

Just doing my good deed for the day

octopusfreaky:
I must not wear it,,IFA like myself....

Na dis kain comment dey make boys check your dp only to see...


Oya tell us why u no fit wear am

U people should leave op's language challenges alone, haba! You're all as bad as her boyfriend!

Op sorry about your predicament. You have to consider that your boo may not be all that into you or might be an impatient person. That said, no one likes someone who complains too much. For now, share your probs with your close family members.
Take care.

yorubadelta:
Chai. You gat x-ray vision boy!

innocent face

kaima1984:
shebi na my sis wey dey travel from OSHA t Eko u snap without her knowledge,if IFEANYI who wan marry her say hell no BC of this,hmmmm consider urself my in-law

*yinmu*
U no fit advise ya sista before she comot for house?

Anyway if ifeanyi no gree let me know

yorubadelta:
LOL
5mins, it's not too bad na, fine it's tight but at least it's not see-through

Dearie zoom the picture. She's wearing a white pant with little blue birds on it.

It's transparent.

johnydon22:
Pervert alert!!!

Perverts watch people doing thier things in private, this girl was on public display!


You shoulda seen the front....

This skin trousers or body huggers or condom trouser or whatever it is getting out of hand now, haba. Ladies we don't want to be seeing your panties pls. Leave that for bedmatics abeg.

But this is the 10th time this question is being asked on nairaland na

Glowinggn,
I had the same issue. Let me give u a secret advice.

Tell your friend to replace his phone battery with fake N200 battery. Hide his original. He 'll have more time for you then and if he ever finds out or you want to let him know tell him you went that distance cos you were desperate to spend quality time with him instead of him spending it with his phone. He' ll be too touched and guilt-laden to get angry and he'll consciously make out more time for you.

Or

Wait until it looks like he wants to spend time with you then start your own browsing.

Tallesty1:
https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-happy023.gif

My feelings exactly

Wetin concern the wife whether he cheat abroad or not? Una never divorce? He no go live hin life again?

Wetin concern cheating with demanding for upkeep for the child? Una never share hin property? Una never divorce?

When the man took one child and madam took the other child didn't she know that means she is to cater for her own while the man caters for his own? And that any other thing he does for the other child is out of the benevolence of his heart? Why dragging your child to demand for upkeep?

The wife has no locus standi in this matter AT ALL. She is simply being emotional. Advice her next time to keep away from oga when he comes to town!

Me.. sweethert are you spitting on the shower floor? asking twice then I started to say: u shouldn't be doing that, I find it disgustin[s] and besides I will end up hiding ur bathroom slippers so you walk barefoot around the house that way u understand how it feel [/s]( though I also wear bathroom slippers in the living room, kitchen and bedrooms when I feel the house is sandy as there are also other people in the house who contribute to that)
Him.. in btw my comment he is saying it's not appropriate to be addressing him while he is in the toilet

@struckout, nagging, unnecessary.
@bolded, hypocrisy
@italics, He's already irritated and is replying like this isn't the first time you are saying stuff like this while he's trying to enjoy defecating in peace!

Jeez lady! Tone it down a bit will ya!




Next time he spits on the floor and you see it tell him to come and see and when he sees it tell hi it disgusts you and u don't like it. Then jejerly rinse it away before he can complain /reply. Don't say anything else Biko. He 'll get the message. It's a bad habit so it might take some time to break.

As for bathroom slippers I do the same so I can't help you there. They are called BATHROOM SLIPPERS for chrissakes!

Is spanking a child child abuse?

jashar:
With the moral degradation and decadence emanating from obodo oyinbo, I can't imagine raising my children abroad. It would be harder work raised to the power infinity.

It's easier to train children here and instill moral values in them than abroad. In my own opinion though.

Namaste white people.

Nothing wrong in giving birth to your kids over there then bringing them here to train. Dual citizenship and easy access to the US when they are ready or in need.

dinachi:
All these advice is worthless if the Op has a rotten puccy! No man looks forward to dipping his equipment into a rotten graveyard.
My advice is that the Op makes sure she is very neat down there first.

Get outta ma head!

eastermaris:
Better place ur man on a daily fruits (Watermelon inclusive) and stop complaining.

Stays off sweetening agents and embrace unripe plantain consumption.

These would RESET his TOYSTICK.

Goodluck!!!

If only you would heed this advice.
Feed him regularly with this and pounce on him regularly too. This doesn't have to lead to sex at all times, sometimes just grab and squeeze his rod very early in the mornings, this should be after you have started feeding him with the above. I bet he would start nacking you regularly. Note: Each time u pounce on him or he initiates the fiolehleh and he spills out, that means he wnt entertain masturbation for at least 2days. Be there to grab his rod again, sucking and mounting him before he knows it, make him spill again. Gradually he wld overcome the habit. It takes time.

Something tells me the op is a man that has this problem. If am right, please ensure your wife sees this post. Stay blessed.

Someone's been reading Anne hooper et al sex books. Impressive!

Op follow this advice but ensure u are hygienically OK first.

pickabeau1:
Maybe we need to look at marriage again
Is it still necessary...

How do you establish constant authority figures in a child without marriage?

@pickabeau1.
Re:hacked adultery site.

Sad. And the fact that many of them didn't even bother to hide their identities show the kind of trouble the marriage institution is in.

As long as people keep entering marriage with a self pleasure mindset instead of a spiritual one this kind of thing will continue. My opinion though.

TV01:
Cheers bro'.

I am not that familiar re cooking with octopus, although I do know its considered quite nutritious. I wonder about pricing and how readily available it is - although I probably shouldn't as I visit a fishmongers every week. I'll certainly ask, and look into this myself.

We don't really buy red meat at home, with the exception of goat meat occasionally when entertaining. I'm also keen to incorporate lamb which I really like but haven't quite mastered.

I'll have a steak sometimes when eating out and I'm on an eternal quest for "the steak". Pork is off-menu for wifey so typically don't, but may if I'm out with others.

Sounds like a good choice all round.

TV

^{...abeg 0, chill for our lil' sister Coco - she's turning all progressive on us, but we need to be there for her when she comes to her senses !}

Thanks bro... Someone decided I would like to try something new and without my permission stocked my freezer with octupus and calamari . Tastes like elevated ponmo and hailed as being highly nutritious as you said.

Red meat is forbidden to me for now until I lose my beer belly

_{Coco surprised me. I thot she'd be familiar with my mannerisms by now. Anywho, matter forgotten.}