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Cococandy name three well known white folk (popular TV stars or athletes or whatever, famous people) that have been jailed for serial rape.


Then name three black folk who would have been magnificent moral mentors for the black youth and suddenly had something terrible revealed about their personal lives at the peak of thier careers.

Off the top of your head which was easier?


On the flipside, list three famous male folk of the American black race that have had at least 20years of a successful career and hasn't been pulled down yet for either murder, rape drugs or the like.


U can even use Google.

As far as I know Will Smith is the last man standing. They have tried his daughter and failed. He's turn is coming.

cococandy:
Who dey follow you argue?
You're the one getting wasps in your bonnet.

I only agree with you that it's a nice arrangement.
Instead of calming down and take the agreement, you dey type long epistle give me:

@bold, on the contrary you're the one who propagates the all men can cheat anthem. I defend the men when it comes to that because I know not all guys I know are like that. I know you don't see when I do but you're selectively blind, so that's not surprisng. even if I just finished saying it now, you still won't remember I did.

why are you so confused that you projects your opinions on others. Or so desperate to lump all guys into the same boat as you?
When did I become the men are polygamous activist? Is that not your job? Face your activism o. I don't share the same sentiments with you. Not at all. Don't try to rope me in

Jumping from one opinion to the other when it suits you.

See long epistle to adress long epistle

Coco my pretty fibber, how r u?

mrZENographer:
The question is not whether they are of this world but rather who is the Creator. Bible made us knw that all creatures were created by d word of God. And John 1:1 makes us knw who the word of God is:Jesus Christ. Demons or so called aliens are rebellious agents and their assignment is to deceive mankind so they can share in their eternal damnation. BEWARE oo.

So GOD didnt create the demons?

what were demons before they became demons?

hahn:
These your anologies only promote selfishness. He craftsman is only carving something HE wants and not to the benefit of the wood because by cutting the wood he has only succeeded to kill the wood and it is no more aware of its existence.

The cook only wants to eat. Will the fish eat a part of the meal?

I'm only training the chickens because I want to it eat. How does eating the chicken enhance its worth?

Guy, go back to your alien story. Nollywood needs someone like you

If GOD is interfering in your life in anyway, it is to turn you into a better product, a better person.
Heaven is not beans. If you cannot pass simple tests here on Earth, what's to say you wont wreck havoc in heaven?
Maybe lay low for a million or so years and then when you have learned all the secrets you sell to the devil?

No thanks.

hahn:
You deserve a nobel price for your story

You think?
Oh thank you!

hahn:
But I thought god created everything on earth. I never knew sin came into existence by itself. This only means that sin is equal to god since it didn't need god to create it. Therefore god is not almighty because he has "sin" to contend with. No wonder he always asks for praise from his followers. It is a competition between sin and god. Then what exactly is the point of praying to god when he has no power over sin?

As a matter of fact sin is more powerful than god because too much of everything is a SIN! And even over excessive worship of god is a sin! Are you trying to say sin created god?

Wow! I'm learning new things on this thread

I believe I have answered this in my previous thread.
Sin is an absence of God. Sin is disobeidence.
If 1 exists, logic indicates -1 will exist as well. Good and Evil. Light and Darkness. Yin and Yang. Fire and Water. The Ultimate good will eventually birth the ultimate evil. Sin is the absence of God.

Oh, and Sin wasnt created on Earth, Sin came into this world when man fell. There are some worlds that man never fell and sin never found an inlet. But thats another topic.

hahn:
I wasn't born into any religion. I was only taught to be nice to people, say please and thank you, taught to keep my word, taught to believe in myself and strive to be the best I can be to myself and to other people amongst other things.

Sin originated from the devil, the devil was created by god who created sin within the devil which he knew the devil will eventually use to taunt man. Afterall, god created women with beautiful bodies, big boobs and yansh knowing fully well it would tempt us. He created gold and other finer things knowing fully well that we would crave for it. He created alcohol knowing it would make us drunk. He created weed and tobacco knowing it would make us high and increase the likelyhood of us dying from cancer. He made sex pleasurable and even created us with an unsatiable craving towards it.

Brother, god created sin. The devil is only his excuse(or theists excuse) for sin. If the devil is really guilty, and has been since man's creation, why hasn't god done anything about it? Why burden his creation with temptation, suffering, lack, want and the constant need to resist the devil after all these years?

Good upbringing. I was brought up the same way, Only I was also thought to avoid pride for it would keep me from learning, and taught to give thanks to GOD for all things, good and bad that came my way and learn from both.


GOD already created. Eons ago he created angels and powers and celestial bodies and lower authroities. He had creation that obeyed his every command, creation that did not think for themselves. But even you will admit that it could get boring(for want of a better word) after some time. So he created free will. He delegated different beings to different parts of the universe, he gave jobs and duties and Created order out of chaos.

Unfortunately the Son of the Morning began to have ideas. Ideas often come with free will. A side-effect of sorts. He felt he could usurp GOD. He wanted all the glory and worship for himself. And so he began a campaign and led other angels against heaven. GOD didnt have to fight of course, they were no match for him, they just didnt know it. GOD himself had searched long before creation for a force mightier than him but found no one. These hordes werent even worthy to fight him. The Archangel known to us as 'Michael' defeated the rebels and drove them out of heaven.

Itwas these rebelious entities that birthed sin. Sin is a negation of GOD's will. It often comes with consequences.

When GOD created humanity,there was no sin. The big braests and yansh etc were a gift, not a curse. It was not until man fell that the whole of creation turned against him. That was the consequence of his sin. Mortality. Man would live and die. Do you know what causes you to age? Certain free radicals, and do you know where they can be mostly sourced from? The same oxygen you breathe to keep you alive. So if you dont want to age dont breathe.

Royally fvcked is an understatement of man's predicament.

Watch the movie Hawaii, its historical and is like an allegory of the creation story. MEn and women ran around the hawaiian islands completely naked, with bouncing braests and yansh and were not ashamed. Men slept with their daughters and wives and sisters and they were all happy and there was no shame or disease. As far as they were concerned there was nothing wrong (it is an interesting side note that despite the sexual liberty of the hawaiians, homosexuality was still a taboo!). Everything was going well until the whiteman discovered the hawaiian islands and took advantage of thier women and brought thier syphilis and gonorrhea with them. They also brought religion and succedded in convincing the queen that her marriage to her brother was an abomination. she finally had to give him up although they were deeply truly in love.

I digress a bit.

Back to topic.
The devil is an eternal. He cannot die. He cannot be killed. He will be punished and imprisoned for athousand thousand years and maybe might repent, or not, its none of our buisness. But right now he is allowed to roam the earth freely to tempt man. Why? BEcause GOD doesnt want another rebellion in heaven. He wants souls that will love him despite having lost everything. He wants souls that will be loyal to him even on pain of death. He wants souls that have been purified in fire and come out the stronger for it.

The path of a christian isnt an easy one . Read "The pilgrim's progress". This new age of christian preaching that GOD is a mushy, rich, understanding GOD who only wants you to succeed on earth is a LIE from the pit of hell. If it were true Jesus Christ would have come as a King, but he came in the lowest of places, a barn for animals. That is to show you that there is nothing of value in this world. The success, the fame, the worldly glory and private jets are all distractions. What is to stop a worldy pastor or christian making heaven only to be bribed by the devil with one or two planets filled with gold or perhaps the glory of worship if only they can betray heaven?

GOD wants to draw pure, loyal followers to himself. ALL of US will be tempted, made to suffer and lack things and to resist the devil till the end of our natural lives. This is the test of fire and those who succeed will enter through the narrow gate. The others will be left for the devil. Not becasue GOD wants them punished, but becasue they will be filled with sin(Lust, greed, envy, cowardice, sloth, laziness, disloyalty, etc) and Sin simply cannot enter heaven.

DWJOBScom:
Men you couldn't have told the Salvation story any better
So cool so cool.......!

Thanks. Those who want to understand will understand.
Its really quite simple.

Cutehector:
Well number two is so so weird.. Like really crazy.. A female frnd of myn told me she placed a kettle with hot water on a napkin coverin her tommy.. She was seein her period den anyways.. I was like for real?

Good idea. Bad application.
Hot water bottle would have been safer! But if she was seeing her period then it's already far too late.

Platnum1:
Ok so I have heard a lot of myths which I will like to share in the quest of knowing which is true/false.
Is it true that;
1) after delivery, one has to keep her legs closed else air will fill up her womb?
2) without hot compress on abdomen, clots of blood may stay in d womb n block itself in there?
3)wearing girdle will result in tummy becoming permanently flabby?
4) baby needs some hot water massages
5)after delivery,don't take anything cold,even water for the next couple of weeks.

All these tales got my head spinning....if u say they are true/false , pls back up with facts.

Feel free to add yours so we all learn

1. False! There's blood in there already,its not a vacuum that sucks air in!

2. True-ish! The abdomen is to be properly compressed after delivery to prevent life-threatening bleeding(post partum haemorrhage)!

3. False! In fact it is NOT WEARING GIRDLE that brings about the flabby afterbirth tummy we African men love so much! Hot compresses up to a week after delivery also helps return the tummy back to its original (but not necessarily flat ) shape!

4. True! To prevent hypothermia! Not boiling hot o! Use common sense!
Caveat. No 4 does not apply to Ijaw babies!

5. False! Wetin concern your womb with cold water. Drink water jo, you want to die of dehydration?

[size=28pt]DINACHI! [/size]
Where are youuuuuuuu

lilmax:
There should be one denomination

Imagine marriage between deeper life member and christ embassy member

Christ embassy na church?


Runs away

OShepherd:
I have watched in awe how some "men of God" teach deir young ones not to date outside deir church denominations let alone get married. 4 d singles- How would you handle dis shld U find Ursef in such situation & 4 d Married- have U got d experience. Let's share!

End time churches.

One of their co-tenants, John Ukaegbu appealed to the two families not to quarrel over the incident since both kids are minors. Ukaegbu advised: “Probably you parents did not allow your children to sleep before performing the adult show. Children of nowadays are very wise. Allow them to sleep first if not, you are the people teaching them immorality. Sex should be a hidden thing,” he said. The two kids were flogged six lashes each before they were told to go and sleep in their respective apartments. They both promised not to commit such an act again.


Irresponsible parents blaming thier kids for thier own errors!

And these are the rules that brought us up as good decent respectful and respectable adults.

I don't regret going through any one of them


#proudlyafrican

mekybabe1:
I see everything wrong dear

Ah ehen, na now you come.
no probs

hahn:
First of all, my I have never been a christian. My parents were kind enough not to threaten me to believe in some god or suffer eternal damnation.

Why did god create humans then create enough sin which majority of people will not be able to overcome and then send them to hell for not being able to overcome the sin which he created?

You have never been aChristian, got it. All the more reason why it will be difficult for you to understand. May i ask what religion you were born into? Islam? Budhism, Judaism, or were you trained to be an athiest from birth?

God created humans, yes, but he didnt create sin. Sin came into being following the rebellion of the dark one, Satan the devil. Imagine it to be a virus of sorts infiltrating a very good programme. Since the rebellion of the devil there has been sin. God created man as his own creation, his pet project and the Enemy the devil came to corrupt man. God would have wiped man off and started again, in fact, there are schools of thought that says He did, but God also wants to know if man will choose him by his own free will. Its easy to say you are loved if you are omnipotent,omniscient and control everything,but will your creation love you if it had a choice?

Hell was never meant for man. Hell was meant for sin. Unfortunately man has been corrupted with sin and there is already a divine law that sin can NEVER enter heaven. So whatever contains sin will be thrown into Hell.

hahn:
Deep down y'all don't really care about Jesus.You are only scared of not making heaven. If Jesus was to come down to earth today, will the church welcome him? Will the pastors return all the money they've collected in his name?

This thread only proves that religion is a bunch of fairytales concocted by primitive people. However, I do like this new story. Very soon, Jesus will come to earth in a spaceship

LOL!
Once again, speak for yourself. I overcame the fear of judgement and hellfire a long time ago. The reason i follow Jesus now is out of Love and respect. (Perfect love casteth out all fear.) I started out with fear of death and hell fire but then I entered what I call my 'desert phase' when I left the university. I questioned my motive for being a christian, I dabbled in sin, I engaged in an adventourous life, and I asked many questions and read many books.

That I am a christian today is by the grace of GOd and not by any fear of not making heaven.

Its people like you that rebelled and became atheist cos you were afraid of hell and you didnt like that kind of burden over your life so you chose instead to not believe in God becasue that translates to not believing in hell and not living in perpetual fear all your life. You never passed the infant stage of christainity.

Its not too late though. we all grow at different rates. Read more books if you are interested. stay the way you are if you are not. however you have to admit that Christianity is an enigma conceded to by illiterate and literate alike from geniuses to fishermen, all have come to see the awesomeness of God and bow at his feet. Some out of fear yes, bt others out of fire of the heart and love for God himself.

Any questions?

ifeness:
@Hiswordxray Looks like you have been doing a lot of secret reading outside the Bible. But honestly you need to read more before contradicting yourself. Besides no one cares about jesus if that's what you are trying to sell.

speak for yourself bro. I care, and my whole family and congregation with me.

mrZENographer:
Colossians 3:6 Be not deceived for because of this comes the wrath of God upon d children of disobedience.

Those aliens are actually demons and I've had dreams about them last year before I even knew they existed or saw the news of them on Internet. The name of Jesus drove them away. Many people in us.a don't knw this I. E ungodly people and that is why d Aliens make frequent appearances there

And where did Jesus come from? OR GOD? Are they of this earth?


alien
[eyl-yuh n, ey-lee-uh n]

Synonyms
Examples
Word Origin

noun
1. a resident born in or belonging to another country who has not acquired citizenship by naturalization (distinguished from citizen).
2. a foreigner.
3. a person who has been estranged or excluded.
4. a creature from outer space; extraterrestrial.

Hiswordxray:
Thousands of years ago a creature from another universe invades planet earth. He is profoundly different from us earthlings. Although he looks like a human but he isn't. He is a unique creation from a unique world. He is an alien. He got his human body when he was planted in a woman's womb.

As this alien enters into adulthood, he begins to teach the principles that govern his world. These principles operate on a higher plane than those that govern our world. He also demonstrates these principles in visible action. He is directed by a voice from another realm, the realm from which he came.

He has the capacity to receive two forms of nourishment: one human and another that comes from his own world. Again and again, this creature mystifies and perplexes those who observe him. No one can quite figure him out. His message is deeply challenging. It flies in the face of all cherished tradition—political, social, and religious. It confronts the status quo.

More surprising, he becomes the champion of outcasts, some of whom are notorious. He gravitates toward the marginalized, the poor, the oppressed, and the downtrodden—the “scum of the earth.” His message is scandalously inclusive. It excludes no one, except for those who resist its radical inclusivity.
His revolutionary message and behavior quickly furnish him with enemies. This creature is a threat to the wealthy, to the powerful, and mostly, to the religious. His enemies stand in line to try and trap him with his own words. They seek to put him into a box of their own making. He, however, refuses to be put into anyone’s box. With unbroken consistency, he transcends the boxes erected by mere mortals. His thoughts are unique. His ways are uncommon. He is completely “other” than humanity, on every level.


One of the centerpieces of this creature’s message is that he is not native to planet earth. Instead, he has been sent from another realm. And more: He announces that he is a ruler in that other realm. He is a king from another universe.
But more startling, he proclaims that he has come to establish his rulership on planet earth. Specifically, he has been sent to establish a colony of his own kind that will represent his rule. And that colony will eventually take over the planet. On the heels of this alarming message, he issues a call to action.

He invites all earthlings to abandon their way of life, and instead, embrace his way. He beckons them to yield their lives to his rulership and to shape their conduct by the principles that regulate his world. In short, he demands that all humans pay complete allegiance to his kingship.
What happens next is as strange as it is shocking. He announces that he will suddenly leave the planet and return in a different form. And when he returns, he will impart his own nature into those who wish to have it. The result? He shall reintroduce his own species on planet earth. Those who submit to him will become part of his species, citizens of his world, and they, along with him, will eventually rule the universe.

Many are threatened by his message. It’s a scandal, a bold affront to the powers that be. So they put him to death, for only three days. But as he promised, he returns in another form and sets up a colony of his own kind on earth.

Story Continue...

Beautiful piece!

As usual , ignorant and fearful people won't get the message, but its alright.

¹³"Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it. ¹⁴"For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.

cococandy:
Of course it's a nice arrangement.
Why won't it be?

Before you start getting bees in your bonnet read this:

simdam500 :
Seriously I never thought I would say this but we got good guys here on nairaland; obviously it written on the reply on this thread.

The op stand a chance of getting people to support his actions but the guys here are seeing beyond that... it so good the generation of guys coming up might be non cheaters (not saying this to impress the gehs).

So my official says is if the op have started engaging in this act already, it's best he stop... read why from other views above. Fellow nairalanders have given great points.

Goodnight

It is obvious the majority of guys here disapprove what the op has done. So your imaginary "all men are cheats and evil except my husband" mantra hasn't been proven right here.

Would the response have been the same among "certain" female folk if the lady was the one cheating on her neighbor? I think not.

And oh, if you really couldn't read beyond the first two lines of my post and my subsequent posts then I strongly recommend you visit an Optometrist

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ShakurM:
its bitterleaf soup!

chai, see groove
I still think you overcooked it though

Check this one out
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bushdoc9919:
Lord Zeus had many conquests.....

and Hera made him pay dearly for it cos he was always getting caught.
Not encouraging for the OP at all

bushdoc9919:
Lord Zeus had many conquests.....

and Hera made him pay dearly for it

josite:
funny enough.i have a different opinion if indeed the other woman has 3kids and single.your inlaw having stroke is not an excuse for a dutiful and purposeful wife not to give her husband enough sex unless you have fail over time as most men do to stress your more than average apetite for sex.

its either you have a perfect arrangement that it stops at a predetermined time at least within the premises or if you find the single woman responsible enough to encourage her to move away from the premises to a safe distance so that way you proceed to officialise the affair.Most folke underestimate the much good a responsibly polygamous man can do.The painful fact is too many women needing legitimate sexual consort are not getting it and sooner or later something will have to give way.Be responsible about it.use protection,3 kids is enough for the single woman and for your wife ,dont hurt her by letting her suspect you.

most of the madness women and men exhibits these days,unknown to many are connected with not enough legitimate outlet for sexual tension.A well sexed human is mostly calm and rational.

But jokes apart, this guy make sense oh

Emeskhalifa:
He said shes a single mother

ok,my bad.

bushdoc9919:
LIE....LIE

So she won't tell.

These things somehow have a habit of getting exposed. And at times when we don't like it.

My advice to the man? You are not Zeus. Stay with your wife. And change your attitude. You got married because someone told you you would have free meat every day. Sorry....marriage is not about free meat....and Zeus's lovekids still got into a lot of problems

Go and find out why you got married...and start from there.

hi doc
What's with the Zeus analogy?

njokusboy:
Lol...
Touchdown

True story
Fvckbuddy arrangments dont last long esp with ladies.
they becaome emotional
They start asking you silly questions like "do you love me more than her?"
They start asking for more time
Theystart calling at odd hours just to irk you and the missus
Next thing you know they start demanding to see you wether your madam is there or not.
They might even get pregnant for you on purpose.


Bad road Op

Very bad road.

ShakurM:
look, I don't care joor
Let me eat my food first

Guy, you overcooked the vegetable

gj22:
I said 1ncest was not wrong but inbreeding is bad. It's the stupid automoderation that changed it.

1ncest is having sex with family members while inbreeding is having a child born out of 1ncest. They are different.


Inbreeding is putting the health of a child at risk while i1ncest is just sex.

You are making a strawman argument here. I did not in anyway say that having gay sex is not a sin, I said they have a right to sin or not. The same way fornicators can choose to fornicate or not and no one is fighting against them. gayism is just another form of sexual immorality according to religious standards. Why don't you hate on fornicators?

I know my bible and the bible doesn't say you should hate on gays.

It's really pointless, in my experience, arguing this with a Nigerian. But just think about this.... if the Pope says the church should welcome gays, why are you hating them? and by welcome, I mean treat them like any other sinner, nothing more.

Also, your quoted article says gay men. What about gay women? Huh?

Any keen observer will know who the desperate strawman is here.
Any way:

5. Oh we don't hate them. Thier acts however are disgusting and naturally repulsive. Taking me to psychological classes to brainwash me into thinking otherwise, usually by force, is again impinging on my rights and trying to deceive my natural instincts.
You will see real gay hate when the serial gay killers come out. Funny enough Christianity won't support that either but the gays will say they do.

Like I said, a true christian will not hate a homosexual as we are all brothers and sistersin christ. What is hated is the sin of homosexuality. Christ came to call ALL sinners to himself. Including gays(sic. my words.)

I have said it twice already and I reiterate it again; Christains(true christains who believe in thier faith, not like some other kind of christians I know) do not hate homosexuals. just like they dont hate prostitutes or thieves or adulterers. Love the sinner, hate the sin. What christ hates is the sin, not the sinner. I dont know how else to put it that you will understand. The Pope welcomes gays just like he welcomes prostitutes, adulterers, fornicators, 419ers, child molesters etc. Salvation is for everyone,not holy people. So the Pope welcoming gays doesnt mean the Pope supports homosexuality. Stop defending the homosexual stereotype stand fora moment and pay attention to my posts.

Of course incest is wrong from a moral standpoint. Incest itself is a derivative of the latin word Incestus, meaning impure, unchaste. The incest taboo is and has been one of the most widespread of all cultural taboos, both in present and in many past societies. Most modern societies have laws regarding incest or social restrictions on closely consanguineous marriages.
But, good news for you, all that is about to change with the legalisation of homsexuality. If homsexuality succeeded in bypassing morality and has even become LAW, then you can bet incest, pedophilia, bestiality, necrophilia and all other forms of revulsive practices are not far behind.
In fact it has even started with pedophiles making thier case and your precious incest following quickly behind. Happy happy day.

A case for Incest, nothing wrong in showing your siblings some 'extra' love http://bigthink.com/think-tank/is-incest-wrong

So you see, Pandora's box has been opened. The world is going to be an even happier place with everyone having sec with anyone or anything they want. Hurrah for freedom.

A true Christian would be repulsed by this. Heck, any NORMAL human being, even an ISIS member, will be repulsed by this. But nooo, lets allow freedom for everyone. Live and let live.


Until there is nothing left to live for.