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cococandy:


Check your thread. Men are polygamous in nature.

It's like you say something today and forget the next day. Abeg I'm done with this topic.

Lol 5mins.

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What imbrogglio!
***walks out of room to cool temper****

Let me help you cos I know tis the polygamy thread you want to pull up

https://www.nairaland.com/2434831/men-naturally-polygamous

Kindly show me where and when i said this!!

Was it not you the other day that told me being faithful is unnatural even though God clearly commands you to?

cococandy:
I didn't say you're NL tenant o.
But you manage to know where every discussion about homos is holding on NL.

If you love your religion so much that you're concerned about my soul and it is giving you sleepless nights that I'm going to hell because I'm not preaching against homosexuals, rest assured that I have the same concerns about your soul.

One woulda thought you'd be up in arms and all over the place against other sins that your religion also condemns. You know, calling the perpetrators out and preaching to them all the time. You sly justifier of sins that favor him.

Instead what I see you say sometimes about stuff that's obviously condemned in your bible leaves me :-

Was it not you the other day that told me being faithful is unnatural even though God clearly commands you to? Na you comes sabi pass God that day? Maybe you didn't stop to think that homos too may be having a hard time obeying:keeping the law as their urge comes to them naturally? If we are to follow your logic

Enough of this slander!
Cococandy when did I say the above?!?!?
Post it here verbatim or forever remain a Liar!

@cococandy

I read through your post again. I sent you mentions cos I thought you'd be interested in the topic, not because i wanted to rub anything in your face. If you want you can google how homosexuality was voted out of being a psychiatric illness and came to be accepted as normal. It makes a very interesting read.

Over and out.

cococandy:
Pls why should I say the same about gay people?is a gay person sexually abusing any child?
Apart from being a sin in my religion which I'm not dumb enough to feel like everyone should be subjected to, is there a reason why someone dating who he wants to date in a Mutual relationship be compared to an adult raping his fellow adults and sexually abusing kids?


Smh.

Your discussion got across to me?
Last I checked your grouse should be with the law makers who despite your protests won't outlaw gay marriage. If only this "headway" you're making by disturbing my moniker anytime gay marriage is mentioned will help you achieve your aim of segregating against gay people.

Unfortunately, it won't.

If I were you I'd be concerned about my roof coming down on my head than the rat running in my neighbor's yard. I expect to see outrage and the righteous indignation you're used to expressing on gay threads when topics like this come up. Not the one I call you out before you come to pay lip service.

And I am now a nairaland tenant that I'll be here all the time to scrutinise all the threads? It was you who drew my attention to this thread and I responded appropriately! So any thread thst comes out now I have a prerogative to be there before you? You go pay me?

Madam your religion tells you to stand up for your faith. To tell as many people as possible about the good news! To preach to those who are lost and according to your religion's definition, homosexuals are LOST!

JESUS said u shouldn't be ashamed of Him in front of men.... Preach what you believe in and stop using koro/side road to avoid the moral implications of what homosexuality is as interpreted by YOUR religion!

Abeg make I leave u to have the last word.

I've personally had two girls tell me they were virgins. Found out they were lies

One said she lost her virginity via rape. A few months later she told of how she willingly gave her virginity to a sec school bf

One told me she didn't like sex. Later found out she was into sadomasochism

Forgiven nd forgotten



Guy chill out.


If I may ask, what is it that you bought that was so expensive that you don't want her to have back? Why would you want it back anyway, no be dash u dash am? Na so you go go her house go dey collect all the gifts you gave her if per chance something else made u guys break up?


I dunno but sounds unnecessary to me.

architez:
Remember I was minding my own business. She was the one who said she was a virgin, out of the blue. That men have promised her mariage and everything in the world, but sex first, and she refused.

No, I don't think it is normal for girls to say they r virgins
This is the first time a girl is saying that to me.

And why do you think she said she was a virgin out of the blue, without prompting, without u asking her?
What was with the whole "I have even refused marriage from MANY suitors because they wanted to have sex with me" ish? Or U ask am for the info?


She was tryna impress you bro, tryn to let you know she ain't 'easy'.

Prayers and self Control.

You need to seek God's forgiveness and ask for His help not to commit this sin again. Then make a determined effort to stick to your decision.

Imagine the terrible diseases you could contract from sleeping with a prostitute. Not only that, you can carry the disease back to your innocent wife.
Think of the consequences.

If you are Catholic solicit the help of the priest in breaking this bad habit.

All the best.

efemenaslectura:
but I want to know you.like more of you if you know what I mean

Like more than

HA
Coughs violently

Gosh Ma'm

Ayaf Confused

architez:
Turned out I didn't have to confront her at all. She herself brought it up in a phone conversation. But she said NOTHING about the teacher affair (seems she's totally forgotten about it).
She told me, in passing and quite lightly, that she's been with "a couple of men" but didn't sleep with them. I lightly continued the convo as if that's nothing, but I was totally shocked. She never said anything like that b4. I also noticed she didn't repeat anything about being a virgin.
Well, I've decided to commence a thorough investigation of this lady. Some expensive things I bought her, she kept in my house. I am thinking of avoiding her and keeping the stuff till my investigation is over.

Lol!
Guy, someone here asked if you were a 'Learner'.
I concur with that person.

It's a normal thing girls tell guys at the beginning of a relationship. "I am a virgin", "I don't like sex", "I was raped when I was little" etc. All these is just for you to see her as a decent girl or for you not to be disappointed if you later become lovers and u find out her hymen is not intact.

Guy your babe don chop forbidden fruit tey tey.

The good news is though that for her to tell you these things shows she's into you .

Well, I would forgive her. Virginity although desirable is overrated. You can marry virgin devil you know.

lezz:
Are you surprised? I'm not. There has been subtle indicators pointing at the moral standards of some mods on Nairaland.

This post hitting front page just indicates the level of maturity and social responsibility of some Nairaland mods.

Clearly ridiculing a man who is busy working for himself and probably his family within all legal means.

I was shocked to say the least when I saw the pic. I was thinking special meant a guy in a uniform or even a woman conductor which is rare would have been more understanding and made better news.

But this?

Making fun of a dwarf on front page?

Is this still Nairaland? What's Seun up to these days?

Disappointing I must say.

HENSEXIE:
Babe hw do U̶̲̥̅̊ always manage 2 mek FTC.pls share U̶̲̥̅̊я̩̥̊ secrete wit me

S/he is a mod with an alternate account.

Please this is WRONG and shouldn't even be on front page.

Are you making fun of his height or what?
Did you ask his permission before taking his picture?
Does Nairaland need the money so much that it has resorted to making fun of innocent folk?

Deplorable!

Spits!

architez:
Yeah, but disciplining one's self is easier said than done.
I think the forum is addictive. I suspect the ultimate solution will end up being deativation of my membership.
God bless u.

Been having the same thoughts for a long time. I try to keep away but in a moment am back on the wagon

Vivly:
A year old girl hasn't had a hymen yet.

Sorry dear but this isn't true. The hymen is present at birth. It actually develops in utero i.e within the womb while the baby is still forming.

The good news for all the ladies here worrying about the child's virginity is that at that age the hymen will most probably grow back. Yep, it happens. As long as the bastard didn't engage in full blown penetration and there are vestiges of hymen left, it will grow back before she is 16(provided she doesn't engage in sexual intercourse before then).

Rape on its own is disgusting. Raping of a minor, a defenceless young infant... That is simply demonic.

cococandy:
That's the kind of news 5minsmadness and dinachi ought to be pouring their righteous indignation over instead they are sitting in their house things are going awry all around them and they on nairaland disturbing cococandy about gay people in America.

5minsmadness what happened to your "good people shouldn't keep silent" when things like this are happening around you in alarming frequency.

Hehhehehheehee
I am glad our discussion got across to you so much. At least we are making headway.

Do you see me supporting the man's actions? Do you see me campaigning for his rights or supporting what he did all in the name of 'live and let live? ' In fact so far have you seen anyone here, male or female, defending his actions in any way? Does that sound like silence to you?

What he did was deplorable, disgusting and utterly bad! Left to me he would be made to serve a life sentence with a monthly whipping of his testicles! I am TOTALLY against this action and if he appeared in my court goodness knows I will have no mercy!

Now can you say the above about homosexuality? Can you make a stand either for or against and not be a perrenial fence-sitter?

Over to you madam!

kodeya:
I've always seen this question, but I've never seen a satisfactory answer. I like the way 'science inclined' peeps here answer questions, and i'm pretty sure this one wouldn’t be exempted.

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You saw a shirt worth 97 naira since you don't have cash, you borrowed 50 from your Mom and 50 from your Dad, So you have 100naira since the shirt is 97naira So you have 3 naira left, you returned 1 naira to your Mum and 1 naira to your Dad and you  left 1 naira for urself. Now you owe your Mum 49 naira and your Dad 49naira soo 49+49=98 plus the 1 naira wif u 99 naira WHERE IS THE MISSING NAIRA?

Your missing 1naira wasn't actually 1naira but a fraction 0.5naira which you erroneously rounded up to n1 hence the illusory error.

Your parents gave you n50 each and you bought the shirt n97 . You have n3 change. You have your parents n1 each leaving you with n1.

The money you have to pay your parents back is 97/2 which is n48.5 and not n49.

48.5+ 48.5= n97 which is the amount you bought the shirt.
You share the change among your parents. Keep none. That's n1.5 each. Nothing with you.

When you get the n97 back you give them n48.5 each.
So the change has a fraction and the paid back money has a fraction.

N48.5 plus n1.5 = n50 .

Done.

pickabeau1:
Nope.....a continuum loop has challenges

If the humans are saved....then there is no crises which led to the humans exploring space which led to the time teaser act


Innit?

Not if the humans were those in the other galaxy, planet Edmund. They would have thought thier mother planet earth was destroyed in the past and tried to find a way to save them.

chineloSA:
This sounds like she will be forcing herself into him. The wife is hormonally and emotionally fragile and you cant force things.

Remember even with no pregnancy, you are still different individuals. You should both be allowed to be individuals while adjusting to marriage.

Men sometimes need time alone with his friends and women as well. That is not a bad thing. Sometimes when you go to where men are, you find that they are talking about nonsense and some which doesn't make sense. Allow a man to spend his time talking about nonsense. Some just having some few beers together etc. Give each other space and a breather to miss each other. If you are always on his face and forcing him to spend time with you, it will not work at all. Forcing to spend time together just because you have a ring, does not sound like the best way to resolve this. Instead it will repel him and push them further apart.

He must do things out of love not obligation.

I LOVE YOU
Pls will u marry me?

MarvellousGod:
Next time when he wants to go out. . Dress and follow him joor.. pregnant woman dey flex na.

I understand how you feel, weekdays you're both busy and weekends you ought to spend together, he spends it with his friends. . Your action is born out of love....
Can't both of you visit his friends together?
What does he do when he goes out with friends? Watch football? play PS? You can start doing those stuffs with him at home...

Or you can always be the person to talk to him about going to somewhere. . You can tell him let's see a movie this weekend, let's go see this and that friend, et al.. introduce those stuffs....

Then your marriage is still very young, I believe with time he'll adjust.. he's still enjoying stuffs associated with being single. . Maybe, when your baby comes it'll dawn fully on him that he's now a married man and has some obligations at home... His friends probably are still single, you can encourage him to mingle more with responsible married men...

All d best.....

Evuls...@bolded
This post sounded very clingy to me.

Come, marvellous, i dont think you have been pregnant before or been around pregnant women. We love em but lord forgive me, they can be a downright pain in the a$$.

pickabeau1:
Just saw it

A bit cheesy

Who were the they

He should not have survived

'They' were the humans ofthe future. They created a five-dimensional lattice of thought to help the astronaut convey his message to his daughter in the past so as to save the human race.

Time travel can be so confusing.

Heh Heh Heh
Eligible men pls come in and line up so the ladies can have thier pick!

freecocoa:
Interesting.

I also think the bible should be restricted to churches, it should be against the law to judge someone based on its words.

Yeah, its all fun and games until they start throwing bible quoters into prison.

hahn:
What ever happened to "ask and you shall receive"

But on a serious note check my signature. We are on the rise

Seen.

but seriously bro no one'sgiving you 1m on this site without collateral.

Its a good buisness idea anyway.

RobinHez:
check out the latest images from the MARS ROVERS....its in gif format so use an html browser or download it in gif format
https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-fPBE5yT0ozA/VZyGNQ6j1FI/AAAAAAAAGIM/kk6oKhwEzmQ/s535-no/Navcam%2Bpanorama%2BSol1035.gif

Ultracool
Would love to explore there.

hahn:
Ok. Marvel AND DC comics= bible and other "holy" books

I can pay back in 6 months. No collateral

Now YOU are the joker!

hahn:
Superman= god
Marvel comics= the bible

Do you even have a million bucks?
If yes, I need a loan please

YOu do know that Superman is originally a DC comics character and not Marvel, right?
Hence your irrational analogy


MAtt 7:7Ask and ye shall recieve
How long do you intend to pay back? do you have collateral?

I don tire sef, Itsz been fun, catch you guys later!

johnydon22:
Exactly the same way few islamic scholars conquered the whole of Malian empire

Mali Empire and Rome which was greater?!? You a proffessed scholar are comparing Mali Empire and ROME?!?!?!!? ROME a former WORLD POWER?!?!?! Haaaaaaahahahaha!!!

Meanwhile The Mali EMpire was already muslim inclined as its founder Sundiata Kaita was a Muslim albeit a nominal one. His mother is written to have called on Allah as recorded by Niane(An epic of Old Mali). Christians though had to start form scratch!

Anything you can't explain is open for study, experimentations and scrutiny to ascertain how it was done not assume up some absurd imaginations where you lack knowledge

And if you dont have the equipment to study it you give it the benefit of the doubt till it can be studied! Follow the golden rule of "DO NO HARM"; If Christians feel that worshipping thier God makes them more fulfilled and happy and they are not hurting anybody by doing it then by all means let them be!

Can you explain the functionality of a placebo? If not, does that mean Placebos do not exist?

Obviously feigning a clown here aren't you?

and you dont know the building of the pyramids and the great sphinx has remained a mystery to this day? Or are you going to grasp at the flimsy postulations of a few dreamy archeologists,eager to debunk the slave "myth" as they put it?

Its obvious you are just interested in clowning about, scramble words together and pour in some smiley. . . #am seriously above that

Ah, my smileys are beginning to irritate you? Why na? What has it got to do with the discussion, or you are looking for a way to end it? Ok na, I wont use smiley again, just this last one

An2elect2:
ok it is not that he cannot deal with a person, but his powers were given to him and to every extent controlled by God. Even though he is said to be the god of this world according to 2cor 4:4, the biblical meaning is one who has temporary influence/rule over fallen men in this present world. He is not divine or deity but a common creature of God.

God is God and Lord of all.

OK.

I think we are almost on the same page here.

There are little gods e.g baal, the devil, zeus, amadioha, etc. Call them what you will. But GOD Almighty is the supreme GOd and Lord of all.