Politics › Re: Egbetokun Decorates Frank Mba, Bala Ciroma As Police DIGs by 9jaRealist: 12:40am On Jun 23, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: President Bola Tinubu And Asari Dokubo - Then Vs Now (Photos) by 9jaRealist: 12:25am On Jun 23, 2023 |
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TV/Movies › Re: EFCC Warns Skitmakers, Movie Producers Over Unauthorized Use Of Jackets, Symbols by 9jaRealist: 12:21am On Jun 23, 2023 |
shonepa: See as ur ignorance dey shine like a golden armour. See wetin u get mind write? U no even get shame say ur younger ones/family and friends fit read wetin u write......No further comments. Sorry, but I couldn’t understand your gibberish…  Perhaps when/if you pull your head of the EFCC’s, you might make some semblance of sense. SMH > |
Nairaland General › Re: Ever Been Discriminated Because Of Your Looks? by 9jaRealist: 2:33pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
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Career › Re: How The Nigerian Banking System Is Killing Employee Loyalty. by 9jaRealist: 2:28pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
rukyboy: When he mentioned "big 4"
I think he meant KPMG,EY,Delloite and the other one PWC (PriceWaterhouseCoopers)… > |
Career › Re: How The Nigerian Banking System Is Killing Employee Loyalty. by 9jaRealist: 2:25pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Rubyjade: X Nigerians and their “civil service” mentality… Even on Wall Street, bankers move around for better pay or positions. The only “loyalty” required of you is… Whatever job you find yourself, perform it with your BEST effort. > |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Is Now More Loved Than President Buhari - Reno Omokri by 9jaRealist: 2:17pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Ever Been Discriminated Because Of Your Looks? by 9jaRealist: 2:07pm On Jun 22, 2023*. Modified: 2:34pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Exmilitant: I do body-shamed and discriminate people alot, right from my primary school days.
Wayo eye, k-leg, big head, bow leg, bald head, flat nyash, big nyash, fat man/woman, black skinned, albino, big teeth, long man, short man, blind man/woman, stammerer, those who can't read, those who makes mistakes while talking, those who can't speak proper English and many more. On Sunday afternoon I was visiting my friend, as I was about to drive into his street this pretty fat girl was walking by so I slowed, and said hello, she turned and I shouted, fat giiirl. . We all should be perfect. Shouldn't we  Seems like evidence of underlying personal INSECURITY…  > |
Nairaland General › Re: Ever Been Discriminated Because Of Your Looks? by 9jaRealist: 2:06pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Samantha124: No, I've never been discriminated before, but each time I go to the salon I get questions like "are you a coloured? Do you have a mixed or a white family background? How sure are you that you don't have a white ancestry?"
All these questions can be really tiring sometimes because I always have to explain myself.
I've got a 4A hair texture and sometimes people question it because I'm also fair in complexion.
I've been told that I look like an Ethiopian, one girl back in high school once told me of how I looked like those illegal Pakistani migrants here in SA. Next time, tell them to quit INSULTING you…  > |
Nairaland General › Re: Ever Been Discriminated Because Of Your Looks? by 9jaRealist: 2:02pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Dpsychologist: They say good looking people are often perceived as more intelligent, honest and successful.
1. Have you ever been discriminated because of your looks?
2. Was someone who is more attractive than you favoured over you, even when you know deep down that you are better?
3. Do you think lookism (discrimination based on looks) exists?
Will love to see your comments. I need to carry out a survey. SELF-DELUSIONAL… Paired with an obvious INFERIORITY COMPLEX!
Not a good look dude.  > |
Romance › Re: Should I Go On And Marry Her? by 9jaRealist: 1:32pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
vibrant40: Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.
I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.
According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.
She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.
I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.
The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..
Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....
Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar. Abegi, someone should help SUMMARIZE this dissertation for us… But I definitely know that if you are relying on NL poll for your decision, any MARRIAGE IS ALREADY DOOMED!> |
Politics › Re: Ministerial Slots: Tinubu May Dump Ex-govs, Prefers Technocrats — Source by 9jaRealist: 1:31pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Ministerial Slots: Tinubu May Dump Ex-govs, Prefers Technocrats — Source by 9jaRealist: 1:17pm On Jun 22, 2023*. Modified: 1:58pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Why Our Govt Banned Dependents Visa For Nigerian Students – British High Comm. by 9jaRealist: 1:11pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
blueAgent: How many poor ppl in nigeria contribute to that 2.1billion pound?
Those money are from children of the wealthy and elites in nigeria It’s NOT only “the wealthy and elite” abegi… Even children of ordinary middle class Nigerians have joined them. If we add Ghana, Malaysia, Cyprus, Ukraine before the war, etc. Then we will likely be talking about multiples of billions of dollars (or trillions of Naira). > |
TV/Movies › Re: EFCC Warns Skitmakers, Movie Producers Over Unauthorized Use Of Jackets, Symbols by 9jaRealist: 6:14am On Jun 22, 2023 |
shonepa: Oga, if u no know something try do research. Movie industries ask for permission before going through with it. POLICE STATE inmate…smh  It’s said no one can ride on your back unless you’re bent over… Nigerians like you are so eager to grab your ankles and bend over for politicians and their foolish uniformed thugs. Do Hollywood studios go to each state or municipality police for permission to wear police uniforms in movies? Not to mention the obtuse absurdity of effectively giving EFCC veto authority to “vet” and/or pre-approve their scripts. Anyway, keep bending over… Most of you lot fully DESERVE the inept, corrupt and crass leadership (or is it ‘rulership’?) you get. SMH > |
Sports › Re: Ahmed Musa Donates School Bags, Books To Students In Jos by 9jaRealist: 10:50pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
Archiever22: We won't see other rich Nigerian players emulating this na to they waste money for strippers club they know. It’s THEIR hard-earned money… When they were suffering for it, where were you lot?
Nigerians and the Culture of Entitlement to other people’s money… They’re NOT public servants, and they can piss THEIR monies away if they desire!So long as none of them come to make ‘public appeal’ if/when he’s sick or broke. > |
Sports › Re: Ahmed Musa Donates School Bags, Books To Students In Jos by 9jaRealist: 10:42pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Why Our Govt Banned Dependents Visa For Nigerian Students – British High Comm. by 9jaRealist: 10:39pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
MatrixCircle: Nonesense talk. £2.1 billion was collected from Nigeria students by UK schools in 2022. He didn't say that one. Na to mention over 300,000+ visas issued. Why didn't he mentioned the total amount of money they made from us that boosted UK economy. After them chop finish , they block us. We have GBP2.1 billion (about N2.2T) to give to UK schools… But will be doing “Aluta” any time fees are raised in Nigeria?! Anyway, we largely get what we pay (or not pay) for. SMH  > |
Travel › Re: Why Our Govt Banned Dependents Visa For Nigerian Students – British High Comm. by 9jaRealist: 10:32pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Why Our Govt Banned Dependents Visa For Nigerian Students – British High Comm. by 9jaRealist: 10:30pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
helinues: Walahi no be lie, like 2 friends enter UK with student dependency.
If Nigeria and our tertiary are up to the standard, why would Nigerians be studying in abroad when the reverse should have been the case Except that many of those migrants are NOT students… Let’s not lie to ourselves, most are not emigrating to study.> |
TV/Movies › Re: EFCC Warns Skitmakers, Movie Producers Over Unauthorized Use Of Jackets, Symbols by 9jaRealist: 7:07pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Sowore Releases Details Of Campaign Expenses, Asks Others To Emulate Him by 9jaRealist: 7:02pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
helinues: How many votes eventually after spending this amount?
Imagine make person open shop and dey sell cement with this capital, the shop go dey bigger within years.
Those who labouring in vain plenty for the last election There’s more to life than “selling cement” and making money…And not just because with bad leadership you can neither sell cement nor make money easily. Contributing to the development and sustenance of society and societal values is invaluable… Such labor is NOT in “vain” simply because it does not show up as Naira and kobo in a bank account.> |
Politics › Re: How Big Is The Position Of Nigeria's National Security Adviser? by 9jaRealist: 6:49pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
telleyway: Service chiefs are reporting directly to the NSA, he's the number one security officer after the president. Service chiefs pass their budget through him It should NOT be any of the above… I realize Mungono tried that, but the service chiefs duly pushed back! > |
Politics › Re: How Big Is The Position Of Nigeria's National Security Adviser? by 9jaRealist: 6:47pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
DaveHarry: Is the NSA position number one security position in Nigeria. How really big is the NSA compared with other military chiefs? Make I learn this one It’s primarily a STRATEGIC advisory role…Unfortunately, some Nigerians treat it as an OPERATIONAL (or command) role. > |
Politics › Re: Shettima Meets With British High Commissioner In Abuja (Video/Photos) by 9jaRealist: 6:34pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Programming › Re: Muili Seun Sells Off Gocampus To Vickram Sybri, Indian Tech Guru by 9jaRealist: 6:28pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
TheFreshVanilla: That is 53 million naira. You can stay on Nairaland 24/7 lamenting how bad Nigeria is or take control of your life. Nothing stops you from replicating this small win but your small mind can't see it but can tell you to blame an uncle or rich sister who's not help your life. Of course, some ediotss who have never handled $5k will call the boy a fool. POVERTY MENTALITY…smh Dude, your point only makes sense if your aspiration is to be king of the Ghetto. If you’re sitting on a multi-million dollar asset… The fact that you get a couple of thousand more than hood Agberos is NOT a win. > |
Programming › Re: Muili Seun Sells Off Gocampus To Vickram Sybri, Indian Tech Guru by 9jaRealist: 6:21pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Tinubu's Service Chiefs And Their State Of Origin (Picture) by 9jaRealist: 6:17pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
spiralwedge: I’m enjoying your cry. Hehehe
And how you are lost and disenfranchised in your own country lol
It was Jibril of Sudan to Nigeria is a zoo to sit at home to obid!0t to lost manh00d and now to endless cry of self-victimisation. I no pity you at all. Sorry, but I don’t understand gibberish…  > |
Politics › Re: Names Of Witnesses Called By Peter Obi So Far At The PEPT by 9jaRealist: 2:13pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
Kdon2: Which is one is the next largest that has only two?. I like to know. Always playing the victim card. Smh Is “victim’s card” anything like your own primordial “tribal card”?! Dude, it was you who RAISED the issue of federal character… If you can’t deal with the heat of FACTUAL numbers, abegi leave the kitchen.  > |
Politics › Re: Names Of Witnesses Called By Peter Obi So Far At The PEPT by 9jaRealist: 2:08pm On Jun 21, 2023*. Modified: 2:30pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
senatordave1: Guy,are you ok at all? Is the tribunals still operating on 180 days or not? Are voters register still important or not? Did the presidential tribunal starts from appeal or not? Obidients and blind arguments And how’s that RELEVANT to the supposed “physical presence” requirement..?  It’s obvious you keep missing the point… Statutory provisions do not exist in ISOLATION, but rather within the CONTEXT of the entire statutory framework. When the legislature has enacted an entirely new law and REPEALED (not simply amended) pre-existing law… Courts do not simply ignore the new legislation and carry on with old jurisprudence without reference to any consequence of the new law. For instance, the new law and attendant guidelines introduced entirely NEW concepts (such as BVAS, iRev, etc.)… Courts cannot simply ignore these new provisions and concepts, and instead return to the “physical presence” of the REPEALED law! > |
Politics › Re: New Service Chiefs: 100 Military Generals May Be Retired by 9jaRealist: 1:44pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
ijustdey: •Retirement gale to hit Army, Air Force, Navy, Course 37, others may be affected
•Shettima decorates acting IG Egbetokun as Baba backs successor to succeed
https://punchng.com/new-service-chiefs-100-military-generals-may-be-retired/?amp A WASTE of public funds and resources used to train and maintain these officers… No need to retire any officers if the new chiefs are simply promoted to the top of each service rank…For example, in the US, the Chairman of the Joints Chief is automatically promoted to outrank all other officers. > |
Politics › Re: Names Of Witnesses Called By Peter Obi So Far At The PEPT by 9jaRealist: 1:39pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
senatordave1: Oga,not all parts were amended. the new law still gives tribunal 180 days,stops non party members from taking matters of primaries to court,ends legislative cases at appeal court,starts presidential cases at appeal,allows manual collation,allows tendering of voter register,allows manual voting The old act was ENTIRELY repealed and replaced… It’s thus up to the courts to read any single provision in the CONTEXT of the new law. > |