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War against gravity and speed.

Gravity always wins.

Arsenal fc left this chat.

Edouard Mendy will save this one too.

Not a shot at all.

zeenaman:
I would like to hear from experienced couples here. 19th of this month made it two months since I've been married, yet my wife has not conceived. I'm getting a bit worried. We have intercourse all through her ovulation, though we plan on seeing the doctor this week.

Could you render advice as well as share your experience here? How long did it take you or your wife to conceive after marriage?

Sometimes conception takes time. Just keep trying and don't rule out the possible of you and your wife getting fertility test done.

Majority of buyers are fraudsters who buy old accounts especially Facebook for fraud purpose. And the others buys for business advertisement purpose, basically old IG account with lots of followers.

-Business Purpose

Some online business traders especially those in eCommerce regularly need old (Facebook and Instagram) to advertise their business; sometimes though, FB suspend or terminate their account(s) for violation of term of service, so they buy old accounts to enable them pay for Ads to get their business seen online.


-Fraud Purpose

These fraudsters (Yahoo Yahoo boys), are constantly online (fb, IG and other dating sites) surfing to find their next vulnerable victim (client) to defraud. This process is called BOMBING. You cannot bomb a website vigorously without the AI not flagging the account for suspicious activity. When FB AI flags the account suspicious activity, the account gets suspended and terminated. But a yahoo boy never gives up, he considers buying another (old account) as investment to enable him CASH OUT one day.


These set of people (old account buyers) cannot register new account because new accounts are sensitive to odd patterns which quickly triggers the AI for flagging and termination, And not to mention, getting a new phone number to verify new account is almost time consuming so they rather buy another old account.

"The market can stay irrational longer than you can stay solvent." - John Maynard Keynes

patwilly:
What's the meaning of non-binary?

In other words, she is pansexual. She can fúck any gender gay, lesbian, trangendered.

It isn't easy floating a business with such capital with the current unstable economy however, since you into ehailng. It will be assumed that you know about vehicle and maintenance.

Get a shop along a busy road and stock the shop with vehicle maintenance products (NOT spare parts), products such as;

Oil, transmission fluid, wiper, spark plugs, Coolant, car tires etc.

Get someone to manage the shop and endeavor to take account of stocks daily or weekly. Follow up with the daily running of the business, Always show up unannouced to take stock.

Print a little flyer detailing your business and products and hand them to your passengers, many of them have cars. And also other of your other ehailing colleagues. If that business succeeds and you manage to open another shop. You should quit driving and grow the business.

Ishilove:
Absolutely nothing. Zilch

Ishi

How far?

You sef miss NOTHING?

E shock meeeeeee.

Erojepromise:
I miss nothing but the potpourri because l am currently reveling in singlehood#SANS

I'm very sefish with compliments but guess what ... Your symmetrical face earned this.

You gorgeous!

And about being single, you female; at some point you just have to accept a man because the society will pressure you to. Maybe not now but nurture wins over nature sometimes.

jawalis:
Yes baby. I trust you with my everything, You mean more than you can ever imagine. You are the one who makes my world amazing. Your love is everything I ever wanted in life. It feels so sweet being in love with you. Your love is everything I ever wanted in life. It feels so sweet being in love with you. I promise I will forever be there for you.

Son, it's clear you love her but STOP pedestalizing her.

There are dire consequences.

Seems to me, the Nigeria economy is living on loan.

Read in between the lines. She is single and advertising her features.

Lots of guys (married and single) will definitely get her number after the close of that event.

Olatunji1929:
We will not qualify for champions league over confidence has killed touchel

This is true. Tuchel got very over confident with the boys performance and began to underrate other premier league teams after we beat Real Madrid and Man City. He stopped playing his trusted first eleven in preparation for UCL final and now it's haunting us.

On the flip side though, In our last two games, we haven't really played badly; we just being unlucky.

The take away lesson is; NEVER underrate any team.

Son, this is for you.

"The male orientation of classical Athens was inseparable from its genius. Athens became great not despite said 'geniuses', but because of its misogyny."

Women aren't objectified but you need to play by the rules when dealing with them otherwise, you would end up petrified by them.

It means both parties playing their individual roles accordingly. The moment one party falls short of expectation of their role. Then that connection is lost and hard to re-establish.

If you f ck her well and she falls in love with you for that reason. Tell me what happens when you fall short of expectation.

If you the one that brings in the money and for some reasons, you falls short of expectations, will you still have that emotional connection with her when she has emotional connection with hunger?

McEphiks:
So I’ll make this short. I was in Ghana working until last year February when I decided to visit my dad. Covid and border closure didn’t allow me return.

March this year I was able to come back. Starting again I was putting up with a friend who in less than a month ask me out cos he was expecting a chick. Lol. Well, I was jobless but my partner was supper supportive. She got a loan at work and I secured an apartment.

Fast forward to about a week ago my friend who sent me out is having accommodation problem. He came begging for me to host him for the time been. Well, I concurred and my babe said “Someone who sent you out cos of a girl and now you’re helping him, you’re a weakling and too soft”

I don’t think I am; I am just choosing not to repay evil with bad. The tables of life turn unexpectedly these days.

Have I done anything bad?

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

You not only weak but lack the knowledge of the art of war.

How then can you protect a woman or family?

If a Scorpion sting you once, it will sting again and again because it is in its nature to sting.

Everything you listed up there are as a result of the baby father not taking responsibility (providing) except for number 1, which anyone can hardly control except, she is a homely girl.

Baby mama is the way but, the best out there is surrogacy. You gotta be rich to afford surrogacy, this is why baby mama is cheaper to mitigate than going into a worthless marriage which happens to benefit only women in the long run.

If you take good care of your baby mama in way of co-depence; pay her rent, bills, set up a business for her and threatening to yank all those benefits when you catch her with another man. She would act right and won't spread her legs for all men that comes her way, maybe few men by way of dating, but that's cool anyway provided they aren't f cking in the house you paying rent for.

Edit:

By the way; 2 Billionaires couldn't satisfy women (Jeff Benzo and Bill Gates).

How the hell then, the average man can satisfy women?

You write good. Only a little improvement with punctuations and you good to go writing and publishing books on Amazon, when you begin to earn royalty — it is for life or even outlive you, provided Amazon won't shut down their website.

Church and Mosque noise as well

Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

I'm so sorry for what you going through.

"Mad" is loosed term for such a Schizophrenic mental illness and i understand your brothers (elder and now younger) are going through episodes.

This isn't by anyway SPIRITUAL as most people are suggesting. It's a known scientific fact that mental illness is hereditary hence the re-occurence amongst your siblings.

Get your younger brother the drug presribed to the older one and get them to always go to see the therapist weekly or monthly for evaluation.

Control the type of information they take in and people they get involved with. They do not need to be mentally stressed, overloaded or emotionally triggered otherwise, they will relapse into an episode.

You got this BIG sis. Thanks for being there for them. You their HERO right now.

cococandy:
actually..... You’re wrong. When you abandon your child, you lose privileges to them. Maybe the naija system is different but we do it here all the time.
Kids who’s biological moms and dads are alive get adopted when the parents are deemed incompetent to take care of them. The parents’ permission is neither needed nor sought.

They give up the rights when they abandon the kids.

As for OPs case, I’m sure he has gotten varying advice amongst which there’s good advice

The law in the US and the practice in Nigeria are different and therefore mutually exclusive.

Your opinion of adoption right works well over there in the U.S. doesn't mean it should be practiced here accordingly.

We are different!

Nigeria doesn't have such law indicating that — once a father abandons/neglect his kid(s) or role, then they can be given up for adoption without the father's consent.

chihes:
No cause for alarm my dear if you marry the lady legally and adopt the child legally. You can challenge the man and I can assure you, you will defeat him over the boy as long as you follow the due process by adopting him legally. Worry not if you fear that the boy may go back to his father because if you train him as you would for you biological children, I tell you he will always choose you over his biological father when the time comes.

I tell you he will always choose you over his biological father when the time comes

Madam prophetess. You just foresee the future, just like that!

Akv666:
Good day guys,

So I've been dating a single Mom for almost 4years now and we're ready to tie the knot, but recently she came up with a suggestion of me adopting her son legally. Her baby daddy has actually been irresponsible right from start, nigga last saw his son when he was 4months old and he hasn't even bought ordinary diaper for the boy right from when he was delivered.

Now I'm being skeptical about taking him up legally, please i need advice from you guys, no insult please.

This your post annoys me.

Alpha F cks, Beta Bucks.

The fact that you claimed that the lady "suggested" that you adopt her own son from another man means; she is clearly in the driver seat and you have been p ssy whipped.

R.I.P dude, We have lost you to a more smarter lady in the dating game. Your post just tells us that you in her FRAME 100 percent and you the definition of a God fearing man all women seeks.

Good luck with that Darren SIMPson.

For male:

* Never think of marriage in your 20s even if you have all the money in the world. Study women and get used to their irrational nature.

* Sequel to above; Never fall in love.

* Work hard and smart to make that money.

* Stay away from friends except you benefitting from them.

* Silence isn't golden anymore but platinum. Know when to talk not just the need to talk.

* Never simp for p ssy.

For the female folks.

* Learn not trust and love with all your heart until after marriage (even after marriage isnts guaranteed)

* He will cheat. Get used to it and work it out. Beyonce is the mordern definition of a complete women; wealth, class and beauty, she still got cheated on.

* Seun won't shut down/close the red pill thread on Nairaland so, get used to men exposing your double standards ways.

* Always be neat and smell nice. Men subconsciouslly perceive such a female as high value even without knowing about your character.

* learn to cook please.

First half ended.

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Reference:
He can always raise debt to handle that. Haba. Most of these folks have borrowed to run those clubs after buying them particularly the American owners of United, Pool and Arsenal. Barca and Real are on speed dial to major Spanish banks.

You don't have to be an oligarch or an oil sheikh to own clubs. Just inherit the financial structures once you buy out and a whole host of financial houses will be queuing up to rudder you along.

Remember when you buy those huge clubs you are also inheriting a chain of assets as well including corporate sponsors, suppliers, asset managers, etc, all either eyeing the brand or a share of the huge potential earnings.

Well, except you are buying into a rundown, almost bankrupt and whitewashed brand that was Chelsea Fc just before Roman rode to the rescue at the grave site all those years ago.

if I get your point right.

An investor (Tony Elumelu) would buy a huge club, Manchester United club, then for some reasons, the club suddenly takes a financial down turn and begins to operate on deficits and debts. Then the banks would happily grant it financial aid because it's a football club with according to you:

"chain of assets as well including corporate sponsors, suppliers, asset managers, etc, all either eyeing the brand or a share of the huge potential earnings."

Note - A club with your quoted statement above is a financially healthy club. So we wouldn't be talking about financial aid/distress in this case.

My point is; Aside Ads and Tv rights source of revenue, Would the banks happily bail you out if your statement above suddenly dwindles and the club financial woes drags it down the table to the brink of RELEGATION?

This is where owner's financial power is relevant.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/syndication.bleacherreport.com/amp/2039114-what-happened-to-the-10-biggest-clubs-relegated-from-the-premier-league.amp.html

I'm Atheist and admit we all suffer from ignorance but, if climbing on to the pulpit to spew what I know, you know nothing about; makes you happy then happy birthday my friend.

He cannot finace the club if he eventually purchases it. His financial strength can't carry the weight.

It's very easy to run into deficit and debt when you manage such a big club like Machester United. He isn't buying the club (physically) but he is buying history, culture and reputation which must be preserved by splashing cash season in, season out. Otherwise, the club will begin to lose its relevance and reputation and after which; the fierce fans will begin to protest for him to sell to another willing buyer.

Think of Mike Ashley of Newcastle.

The very first comment of this thread by Romanoff is the answer to this social milieu.

You take notice of one group because they in position to fulfill that role according to social order and we pay less attention to the other group of female because of societal taboo nature of pregnancy outside wedlock.

I miss Trump.

In light of the news, Trump would have first tweeted that, they are stupíd and then address the issue in subsequent tweets. But the initial insult will enable the tweet go viral and be a topic of another matter.