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grossintel:
But you have them as friends, why don't you propose to them then.

Why didnt she marry them since they were good souls?


Make she shift abeg

Saff:
90% of these comments are bitter, frustrated and pathetic men. A dent to their ego because they can’t tick at least two of the criteria’s. How dare you have standards as a woman in Nigeria, you must accept any walking thing with a joystick or you’ll be single till menopause frustrates you. All women have to offer is sex and looks. Quite ironic that the first thing most men judged her from her were looks, and also questioning her virginity.







Pathetic lol

Just as how she 'dared' to have such criteria for a man and decided to post it online for us to rip on her, likewise subjectively i 'dare' to have criteria of mine one of which includes not looking like an alien

Zsquare:
Career path depends on you, your hard work plus talent as well as your environment.

Am learning programming in an Indian university currently and there are so many career paths one can take but when I try relating some to Nigeria, our level of development might be way behind so your environment also contributes to your career being a successful one.

I think you should learn python and it's framework Django....you can add javascript but python and Django can be used for web development if you are good without much of javascript but javascript helps especially with client interaction.

C Programming is the mother of most languages but it's becoming obsolete and your Dropbox, YouTube, Firefox, Quora, Redit, etc are all designed using python though YouTube was designed with Php first but it's now in python. That's how beautiful python is.

A code of 100 lines in C programming language can be written in just 20 lines or less in Python programming language.

So it's your choice to choose plus what do you want? Front-end, back-end or both?

Indeed the environment here is harsh which makes it a tad difficult unlike our peers outside. Nonetheless thanks for the advice, i now have a clearer picture of the path i need to follow. Python sounds exciting indeed.

injurybaba:
Best post I have seen in months

Thanks to everyone that contributed

I have really learnt alot this morning

I started with HTML and CSS was very good at it
started with PHP got confused � am only like 50% good
left programming for months
Now I am going into Javascript hoping I can get my mojo back again

Any advice will go a long way
Thanks

My advice to to avoid taking breaks especially as you are in the learning phase, you will have to start all over again each time. Try as much as possible to master something and build a project but most importantly, have a passion for so that it work looks like vacation or a hobby to you never giving you a reason to leave.


P.S i am also a leaner like you.

luminouz:
Stop using my name anyhow
There's only one alien here..n daz me!

Oya no vex

Hey... girl likes boy....boy like girl and they decided that marriage is the best way to show their alleged undying love for each other.


It is what rocks their boat so let em be...simple

Ha ahn oga, we should help you do what...oh you want to take sniper

My friend dont be pathetic, how can you allow a woman to dictate whether you live or die?

You need to give more meaning to your life, cos it has none right now.

The girl resemble alien...go back to mars or wherever such men exist.

Zsquare:
Web is demanding but first what programming language are you going to work with? Java, C, C#, Python and lots more are out there and each has different web framework to work with. Python in combination with Django can give you the best web development experience but it all comes to understanding of language of your choice.

Plus are you going to be a back-end developer or a front-end developer? Ask yourself different questions and when you find the right answers then you can make your choice!

A good web developer should have at least 75% knowledge on how to link his work with android, IOS or Windows.

Android apps pay much or pay less depending on the usability but web developers make their money whether you use the web or not because it's just a contract between them and the organization.

Check your interests, your talents, environment you want to work including the mentality of such people, marketing strategies on how to make yourself a brand and it's not necessary you learn different programming language.

Hope this will give you little guidance on your choice!

I like this, it was helpful. I am training to be a web developer too but lack serious foresight. I am just learning without any direction. If you dont mind can you shed more light on career paths one can take?

itsmeurLady:
She said it in her post, any woman that does such to you is young and doesn't know what she wants yet in a man. No true mature woman will see a diamond and opt out for bronze. BTW, are you Diamond? If you are, please continue, don't reduce your value because of anyone. Jesus did not say because his generation were full of perverts, he wouldn't die for them. He died for them regardless, now we are reaping the benefits. Keep doing what you do, you will be glad u did

Its hard not to generalize about young ladies being this way at the moment but majority are that way, they want to flex with the bad eggs who dont treat them right and push away the kind ones. Infact i am tired of seeing such topics like this on a daily basis. So a kind guy should either be single or turn to a douchebag so as to avoid heart palpitations. Hmmm funny world.

dreamwords:
They won't hear

Beats me, they wont hear at all. They innately want the bad guy. Treat them kind and you will be taken for granted.

Zinny25:
I wonder y good guys meet bad gals and good gals meet bad guys. I just tire now I see y they say like charges repel and unlike charges attract.


Please all these good guys sef where una dey Na only bad gals una dey jam. Because almost all the threads in this romance side are similar

Are you a good girl? Just asking

Dude honestly you would be better off searching offline in the real world. Who on earth even told you to come to nairaland to search? Just run away from online babes if you want peace of mind. Polish your skills offline and meet ladies there.

I dont know which planet you came from but you must be delusional or misguided.

Vacancy has been filled.

engrrash:
Hello Nairalanders, what's your take? when a girl you are in serious relationship with love flirting with other guys on social media especially Facebook by replying with words like thanks baby, thanks darling, my boo, thanks dearie etc; anytime she uploads pictures and other guys comment on the pictures.

A friend of mine just ended his beautiful relationship just because of the above and I felt he took it too far. He said he tried to talk to the girl that he doesn't find it funny but the girl kept saying it's nothing, that she's just having fun & it is nothing serious.
is it Worth it?

Take what too far? he did the right thing since she cant respect him enough to stop flirting, that is deliberate emotional torture. Many ladies are fond of it and they claim its normal especially the ones who get attention online, they make it seem you can be easily replaced....they havent knack 30 yet thats why, the tables would be turned.

position has been filled

Heartbender:
She should give fiance his opportunity to repent for future or past unknown sins too...since everyone is mad

Abi o, how can we not judge from what we were just told

Prevention is better than cure. No more to say.

@The poster above me, the op is just becoming cynical, its a phase, i passed through it, apart from the downside of having close personal relationship with others, you will actually be more independent, cannot easily be swayed and see life as how it is, a deep dark depressing abyss full of ignorant people caged in an endless loop of deceitful societal contructs.


Hehehe pls disregard my dark words...just wanted to scare the Op.

Op i am currently dating someone like you, claiming you can go for long without sex(you are implying that here since you mentioned nothing about your urges), and also the fact that you cannot make up and excuse to come see him, this relationship wont last and stop leading the guy on, he prolly is loaded that is why you dont wanna break up with him else why tell us he is a doctor. If you really wanna see him, be determined to make up something for your parents to believe. Else stop wasting both of your times in a fictional relationship.

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See being tall is overrated, so the trend has now graduated from six packs to beard gang and now its tall guys abi, keep it up ladies.

mimimile93:
neva eva luv a girl. Let her do d luvin.

Play the 'Caring part' and let her play the 'Lovin part'

even if u love her, neva let her knw u do.

Give her that 'I got notin to lose if u go' attitude.

The moment a girl realized dat u really love her, bro that's the moment ur downfall begins..


A man shoud love wit head and not with heart.

Kill ur vibes for a girl..

I know all these, i just cant fathom how i fell into this sh*thole.....well priorities realigned.

The modern day relationship indeed, i dont even know what to classify it as anymore, my own just dey there i am trying to be caring, affectionate and the likes but it seems without that money factor you are damn wasting your time, never invest emotionally in a relationship when you dont have enough bar.

As a guy loving more than the girl is a suicide pact, once she notices that all their effort in the relationship stops. This thing called love heh abi na emotional torture, how does one disinfect thyself from it biko?

This question goes both ways, what if the guy is also wondering if you are a serious lady?

hmmm

Number four tho.

Anyway OP explain how anambla ladies would make the date memorable pls...we have naive minds here abeg


Among the first 5 commenters we have the nairaland generals, always a mainstay in the top ten first to comment you begin to wonder if they are being paid to. like if you agree.

wierd that suya guy isnt here yet

Only a concept, it would hardly make it into production.

Yet some people will still remove money to buy this ugly thing....Earthlings sha

If he didnt ask her out and she caught feelings for him, she would tag him a weak guy, now he confessed his feelings and see the result. Imagine the humiliation and blow to this fellow's confidence, it would take him ages to heal and ask a lady out again. Damnnn i really feel for the guy.

We should open our eyes and accept the fact that majority or the relationships we have are open relationships in disguise. One or both partners are sleeping with other people. It is common to see a bae having side boos and and the boo also having his own retinue of side chicks.

Why not come out boldly and say okay.... i want to be seeing other people while also being in a relationship with you....be more honest because secrecy has caused a lot of harm. you can make an agreement to use protection with other etcetera etcetera because as far as i am concerned it makes no sense and also the height of insincerity and dishonesty to cheat on someone you claim to have mutually exclusive relationship with. Like what the heck??

skales67:
Na wah o! Somebori cannot play with you people again?

I know that a GT-R does very well and compare favourably with the likes of Ferrari and other supercars and the good thing is that it is relatively cheaper.

Make Una no kill me here o

Guy you no go understand.....that car has a loyal cult following.....one cant just say anything about it and say its play, to many it is the ultimate driving machine, the giant killer... the Godzilla