₦airaland Forum

Kiddwavez:
Thanks so much bro,I appreciate

America no dey send you... They will milk you dry with your visa fee money.... Don't try it until you're married for the yeye language called home tie

Sacred007:
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that part no necessary.....


abi u dey use style solicit help?

You know those part that have no sponsorship from either family and friend

Thank God he has somebody to sponsor his education, not like we that doesn't have anyone to mentor us through those university level...,and yet we are doing well for ourselves. Nothing missing

ChizzyBuna:
I had a fling with one of my work friends.
She lives 15 mins apart from my area
We have been having sex for over a year
She is a good friend.

Long story short, i was given promotion at work. My job is one of the hardest.
I'm in charge of recurring new workers and im the one that submit the names of those who will be sacked.
The M.D is my uncle and he trust me so much

Today i opened a file and saw this girls name on list of people to be sacked.
I have to submit it and prepare their letters.
I have defended her when my uncle wanted to sack her last year.
If i defend her again, my uncle will suspect im having fling with her. He almost caught us kissing so he is suspicious
If my uncle find out, he might sack me.
He sees me as an angel and i want to keep that reputation. So i can become M.D

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For those asking why they want to sack her
Last year, during staff meeting. She kind of challenged a senior collegue's idea infront of everybody, the man was not having it. It caused a riff between them. Since then the man has been trying to sack her. Based on he is my uncles alley.
I defended her privately to my uncle. They didnt sack her..
Last year my uncle annouced that he will be going to uk for hip surgery.
His wife has taken over as of January.
Maybe the wife has a hand in this. 
And i cant ask her why..

Both my uncle and wife are not on nairaland. So its safe to bring this topic here

Tell her to resign, if she can collect entitlement that could help her


She is only given those fu*k so you can keep her in the job if he has you...

Money dey your hand ooo.... Checking your health is fine but thinking about this and that is our of it not to talk about talking about kidney problem. Guy make I send ma aza

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

lalasticlala..

She go die and you will go to jail for it for killing an innocent soul... For all this to be averted keep the baby and far the shame... Later you wil be happy for not aborting the baby

This one is even small.... Let ask others in Nigeria or behind social media or behind the screen

babyfaceafrica:
Their problem.. Who gazette epp?

Idiot, must you comment??

Rita005:
Hi folks! I feel like sharing my predicament with you and hope to get a solution. Please bear with me cuz it's a long read. I'm a 26 years old banker (not contract staff) in one of the south south states. Recently, I met a beautiful soul and I think I'm getting so fond of him now. We connected after the close of service in church and exchanged contacts. He was kind enough to drop me off my house. This guy is doing very well for himself (lives in a nice estate and owns a good ride). A short while after our first meeting, we spoke on phone and I didn't know when I asked him why he isn't married. He told me it's a long story and would like to talk about it when we meet one-to-one. Fast forward, we met and he told me all there is about him. He's 34, got married about 2 years ago, but now separated from his wife. The reason he gave for the separation was lack of trust from his wife. According to him, his wife is so insecured to a fault. According to him, the first week he got married was when he started regretting his actions. After their marriage, his wife travelled down home to bring her remaining baggage. Before she returned, he made sure he cleaned the house thoroughly. However, when his wife came back, she headed straight to the fridge (she had made soup and stew before traveling) and the next thing was cry! According to him, he said he was confused at first. it was when he asked her what the problem was that she said he brought a woman to their matrimonial home. He said he cried so much and regretted marrying a woman with a possessed mind. According to him, all the signs were there before marriage and he ended the relationship more than 5 times but she kept begging. What she was holding on to was that there's no assurance that the guy will marry him, hence ,her fears. According to him, the woman has accused him of sleeping with his former neighbors and she insisted that they move out of that area. for peace to reign, he agreed and they got another accommodation. Again, she started accusing him of having something with his new neighbors (even the married ones). To be honest, this guy is admirable and very reserved and I'm not sure if he's doing all the things his wife accused him of. He got angry when his wife decided to report him to the church authority. According to him, this woman has no single proof of him cheating but her reprobate mind is affecting her badly. She even went ahead to share demeaning messages about him (her husband) on her whatsapp status. This guy said he has pleaded with her to stop but it's getting worse. Now, they were married for about two years without a child. He said he could manage to live with the woman for more years without a child but can't do that when his peace is been threatened. He said his wife nags a lot and it was driving him crazy. According to him, his mum was never in support of the marriage but dad was interested in it. As it stands now, he has left his wife and moved to another state where we both met.
I have been friends with him for about 3 months now and I must say that this guy is a sweet human being. He asked me out but I told him we should just be friends, owning that he's still legally married. However, my feelings for him is growing everyday and this guy knows how to get one emotionally attached to him. Even though I can perceive that he wants sex with me, he never begs or act too anxious over it. He's so calm and mature and this is making me to admire him the more.
Note: He said he has talked about divorce with his wife but she's refusing it. This is where my concerns come in.
Now, I'm scared of going into a relationship with him knowing that he's not divorced yet. To be honest, I can hardly concentrate these days because the thought of this guy has occupied my mind. Can I go ahead with him or the implications would be overwhelming? To be honest, I've not met a guy has coolheaded and admirable as this guy but I'm scared.
please I need advice on how to handle this situation.
Thanks

My dear you be number 1 thief.... Mind you guys can lie, is he the only one in your church or is it because he lives in an estate or drive a nice car mean he ave it all... Do more of your research and get more guy to compare and contrast

ultiabaz36:
It quite unfortunate that with my 150k I can't secure a R/P self-contained. I woke early this weekend, even earlier than my normal week day just because I want to go and look for shelter.

I have met with four different agent paying 12k agency fee but still telling same stories that with my 150k, I can get R/P but it will not have contained. I asked them what do they mean by getting R/P without contained, they said the house will lack water and electricity.

Gush! I said to them, I am not a Yahoo boy and my salary no pass 50k after hard labour for 30days and sometimes 32days but they said all the houses in Lagos is not for salary earner again but for the Yahoo boys and those related to Yahoo guys.

I wan cry today after I waka all the ipaja and it's axis looking wetin no lost and upon all d wahala, nothing show up. Then, I begin to reason in an abnormal way that is it the Landlords or the agents or the Yahoo boys that really made the cost of leaving in Lagos high laidis abi no be Lagos wey we dey rent house for 70k in 10yrs ago be dz. What has really changed gan paapa?

I met one fresh guy as I was about going home cos I am stressed out already. The way I see d guy, he came down from one car, vensa, very neat. I guess his age, I go old pass am but I said to him, Bros I need help ni o. He asked wetin I need? I told him I need like 1k dt I want eat and I want carry transport go work tomorrow (cos fear dey catch to touch the small money I get for my akant). This guy just pity me and told me politely that he can only give me #500 cos he no dey carry cash around. I thanked him and I continue my journey.

Please guys, I need R/P sefcon wey d rent no pass 150k. At least I go struggle for 4months to gather the money for another year. I need am for Ipaja and it's environs but I don't want Ayobo Sha. The main issue with me is the casual job I'm doing and I'm planning to marry dis year cos I don old small. If you fit help me with job, I go happy and I go appreciate am. At least make I comot the 50k level so I can pay my bills at ease small.

God bless you as you are about to bless me. Amen!!!

person wan dash you money,,, send him your acct for your thread

Shefiu adekunle omo-oko to gbokira

Better guy no dey out there jare...if you have better work to take care of your children.... That mean you will have to forget konji for a very long time,some guy there are after fuckmate

Shatta wale go dey alright now

masseratti:
How can a bank give out 4.5 billion naira depositors funds as loan to a non profit organization a church and expect repayment, this is ridiculous, is the CBN no longer supervising these banks anymore? How can such transaction occur without the approval of the CBN? We are sick in this country.

Thank you ooo and I am here looking for just 1m and upon 4.5b had accumulated 4.5b within 3 years... Nigerian Banks are thief

I have a very great business idea and I need someone that can invest in me with 1million naira to pay back 5million come Dec 2022 if interested. Let's talk and discuss...
Please note I will never share you my business idea no matter what and don't even ask. If interested do as if you want to throw t down the drain and see how it will turn out to be a good favour for you come this time 2022 if you feel comfortable. Here is my details

Fidelity bank
65

All I need you to is to send me your details and available account for your payment returns

She is thinking from her breast. Thinking all rich men will want to die for it. Well choose are different maybe big booty. Cos someone like me like big booty instead of those twins

The girl mumu self... Wey you suppose invite him and give a good lesson by handing him over to police

Marxist001:
Good day everyone. Sincerely, I don't think I will be able to survive this new year without a job, as things keep getting tougher. It's been 5 years now since I finished my youth service, but clearly without a stable job. I have been struggling to survive, with a wife and kid. My son is 4, and yet I can't enroll him in the cheapest school in my community. The thought of it breaks my heart, my wife keeps him indoors until noon when other kids are back from school. I am so ashamed of this daily practice. My rent on the other hand is due to expire by February next year. I can't find sleep, I am the first child of my parents, I fear I would die of high blood pressure. I am smart, hardworking and with a good degree(B. Sc Sociology 2.1). I have good Computer knowledge. I am also a very creative person, but there's no platform for me to showcase my ability. I am a skilled painter, but no jobs. I can fit in any job. Please my Son must start schooling by January, I don't want to disappoint him. Please I need a job. 09151775400 WhatsApp.
Mods please help me push to front page.

Learn to drive you will get a job to start up... She. I was in your case that what keep me going before it b come in

ufotty2001:
I just met a beautiful girl 2weeks ago.. my intention is to have sex with her. I have never promise her marriage but to my greatest surprised the girl is going too far. She had already assumed that our relationship will lead to marriage. Last time she went to our family house without informing me. She is already telling me that we should settle down together. Anytime she tells me about marriage I always tell her that we need to know each other first.. what will I do?

Let me tell you a secret.any girl that front marriage will be a good one to have cos she will.always do everything to.protect the marriage. Give her a try and see what I mean... If you go for anyone you personally love she might not love our back... One person must be fronting marriage

Easylion3569:
Hello Nairalanders, please lalasticlala, help me to direct them to my formal thread. Thanks..

nairalanders was the reason i did not abort the pregnancy, but what i did is even killing me more.. I'm still a young man of about 25yrs, please what ever advice you still have for me, say it..

so, to avoid the shame of allowing my friends, mum, dad and my siblings to find out i have gotten a girl pregnant, i had to take her with me to where i'm schooling, i'm in HND 2.. Without her people or friends knowing, and they have been looking for her..

we have been suffering, because the money they always send for me is not enough, i have suffered alot since october till now, i just finish my hnd final exam, and my people are expecting me to come home for xmanx, but i cant leave her alone there, and right now we are starving.

i don't kno what else to do, right now, we are both planing to take poison and die together, its tool late to tell my people.

if you dont hear from me again, drop your RIP..

lalasticlala

Madman.. cut that your dick first see how painful it is before thinking of death.... The only mistake you ever did is bring her to your school to stay... You should have let her be in herparent house, thenyouclaim responsible for the pregnancy herparent will take part of it andall not late yet send her to go to her parents while you go to yours... On getting home try and tell your dad about it. He can't kill you,

Jokingly say dad you will having a grandson son son... How wlyou feel if you meet him No one will feel bad for having a grandson

Rachel98:
I'm not cheating on him. I'm having been faithful. He knows me well.

I'm just fed up.

Quit that shit man...if you consider him he will still go on one day to be nasty man

I Guess this is before Buhari get to be Nigeria president

Godswillu:
it is not a real cat.
I wonder how information like this makes it to the front page

So what is it??

I want know the amount

Kam2021:
That's how you people encourage stupid entitlement from people thereby breeding lazy and unselfish human beings. Because she is a maid so the Igbinedions should carry the maids generational problem to solve. What happened to her doing her best on the job,and see herself lifted up from that situation?

Care for those that work for us could divert alot of things

When una dey show in front of poor people like they are nothing what do you expect... Have they even ask about their family, if you're nice to your maid, they will be nice to you

Amebong:
All my life it's actually my first time to experience this sort of thing. I have been dating this girl for a while and things have been going well until we decided to knack. On that faithful evening, we knacked and sat and talked like two matured adults and talked.
The next day babe called me and was like I should stop talking to her and any kind of intimacy we had shared should be forgotten.
She even said she has a serious boyfriend and I should stay off her life.
I was shocked really.!!
What went wrong? Was I just used and dumped.?
I think she just wanted my body! Girls are farking cheats.!!!

She doesn't like you... Maybe yur have been spending.alot for her and she use the sex part to compensate you so that you feel cheated

Mille:
Just curious so I can stop worrying about it. ***NO FRONTPAGE PLEASE*** JUST HOPE TO GET SOME INPUT FROM EXPERIENCED MARRIED PEOPLE.

Married for close to two years now with a baby. My wife hasn't worked since partly due to a lack of suitable opportunities and the fact that we are alone where we stay with neither family present. She is a graduate of a private university and I've had to sponsor a skillet training which has been completed so she can open a business. We intend to wait until the baby is one before she opens the business which is a few weeks from now. So I'm 100% responsible for everything. She is not on any specific allowance but I purposely allow inflated bills so she can get some change from it. She is also involved in weekly contributions which I pay 90% of the time.

One thing I have noticed is that she will not help with any expenses around the house. Let say I'm cash-strapped for something we need to buy today, she'll pretend she doesn't have any cash and rather wait until I bring the money tomorrow than buy it for the family. She is currently doing so now and it is reinvigorating resentments I have for her.

One event actually caused the resentment. I will share it in the next post.

Give her good sex and she will give you all the money in her account

Most school in Victoria island and lekki... You can't just touch their child or else you will be jail or threatened... No new thing... Even the Bible want us to beat child who knows the bible verse.

They're womanizer

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 s8quare meals.

When you're dating an ijebu girl. Guy they will drain to ur last kobo and still go ahead to marry another man