₦airaland Forum

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

Confirm ATM Lolz please how much you dey send give your mama monthly make we start from there

davonlee:
For about 1-2 months, I've been experiencing rectal discharge (a lump above my anus which brings out bloody mucur), constant weakness and pain in my abdominal area. Initially, I thought it was a disease called Hemorrhoids, because the symptoms are exactly the same, and I never imagined this could happen to me. Two nights ago, my stool was filled with dark red blood; so I had to quickly inform my parents. They advised I go for a full scale test. To cut the story short, I've been diagnosed with stage 1 colon cancer. I really need your prayers.

and I can prescribe drug for this. you need to call me...

Mrmacc:
It's not scripted tho..
I was just catching cruise noni

That nonsense cruise you're catching that can cause someone else to grave... maybe when such happen and you landed on prison I guess your eye and cruising will take you to where you don't want

CalebLebsco56:
how can you get paid

after 1k subscription payment will flow in and also you can monetize it to gain more ... my little cent for you....

if na guy now they won't send him help, tell me your mind. na to do what will lead to married before it goes wrong

namiji2598:
Good morning nairaland
Good morning Nigeria


Sometimes when I look back at my self, I was a good student, the best in my department, but after graduation I have learnt that book life is different from street life....
I have been depressed in the past, but i motivate myself and move on.
I have been teaching in one private school like that for two years now hoping job go come yet nothing nothing


Are there people wearing this same shoe of mine? If yes how are u coping

see wasted talent... get your teaching job online do it on youtube get yourself a board at home get yourself a phone and record your teaching for free.... people will be force to add you.. that's if you are best student as mentioned

Jerrick:
This is very recent!! Pardon my errors and mistakes please.

What do women really want? Everyone is really jealous one way or the other and our degree of jealousy varies but I wasn’t the over jealous type and would even let go of some things to avoid issues. So I was wary of my GF recent behavior; I’d send her text she would not reply for hours or even till the next day while she was online. I called her attention to it and she was acting like nothing was wrong, it actually got me mad that I overreacted and went as far as blocking her. I knew I made a mistake, I unblocked her back and apologized and we were fine but funny thing is that the same day we settled our dispute she repeated the same thing of not replying me which is very strange to me because throughout the years we’ve been together She’s never done such. I became worried so I decided to play games with her. Below is the chat of the person she thought she was chatting with.

I’ll upload more of it when this hits front page because I want to know if I did overreact ending things with her or not.

guy na nonsense you dey do... you re just causing an heartbreak for yourself...

BruncleZuma:


Go start your own social media you bleeding charlatans.

Edit: some of the comments here have shown me how unencumbered some of you are of critical thought process.

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SHOT UP AND FACE FRONT

Bbbwings:
You mumu.
Im sure there are 500 beggars in your vicinity. Have you housed them
She is not even from SE

seem you're crazy. who do you think I am? am not anyway in your mate to think I live close to those your mad families. oloshi oloriburuku

AND ONISHA PEOPLE NO SEE AM



AND ASABA PEOPLE NO PITY HER MATTER



AND LAGOS PEOPLE COME GET THE PITY WAN HELP HER,


THATS THE SPIRIT OF SOUTHWEST PEOPLE


IF THEM REASON YOUR MATTER, GOD TOO DON SETTLE YOUR CASE BI THAT

LordsBattleAxe:
When did stealing become normal? Do you know how painful it is to have your workers steal from you? Yes, there are crazy bosses, but this doesn't justify stealing. It's no surprise that Nigerians will readily hire foreigners to avoid cases of employee theft.. Not cool, sir.. Not cool

That foreigner what was his mission...? He will pay a foreigner more better and his own citizen, A Nigeria Boss will pay a foreigner in dollar and still pay you in Naira at a lower salary of 40k that won't be enough for your transportation.

I have seen a case where they ask you to join them in stealing, if you refuse they go after you

my dear friend the Nigeria boss work you can hardly buy a scooter from it, Even if you buy it and bring it work he will still think you stole from him, if you buy new clothes and where it to work he will still have the same bad mind.

all this companies bosses and I know how they do

INDIA WORK NO WAY

CHINESE WORK NO WAY

PHILIPPINE WORK DEY OKAY SMALL

LEBANESE WORK PERFECT WORK

BRITISH WORK NUMBER ONE

AMERICANS WORK NUMBER TWO

IF YOU KNOW YOU KNOW...

NIGERIAN MAN WORK LEARN TO STEAL OTHERWISE HE WILL OWE YOU AND STILL USE YOUR SALARY TAKE DEY BUY MOTOR AND BUILD HOUSE ALL AROUND

MANDELA CLONE BUHARI CLONE WHO ELSE TO BE CLONE
MAYBE TINUBU TO BE CLONE TOO
OH THEY FORGET TO CLONE YA ADUA

canadaddy:
Being a new migrant in a new country,in your first week in Canada,you may be faced with cultural and system differences. Especially coming from an African country, you will find out the way of doing things are different. And you may be lost on the first thing to do the moment you arrive at the airport.

Here are list of things you need to know to kick start your new life in Canada.

SOCIAL INSURANCE NUMBER(SIN)
The first thing to put in place is getting yourself a social insurance number. Keep it safe at all times, everything will be attached to it e.g work, tax etc.

It is a 9 digits number that starts with 9 (temporary) or 5(permanent).
once you arrive in Canada, go to the nearest SERVICE CANADA and get it done within 30 minutes.
REQUIREMENT
Visitor’s visa or study permit as the case may be and your international passport.

HEALTH CARD
The Canadian health system is free, to enjoy this as a resident, you need to get the health card.

If you are an international student, liaise with your school.Since you have paid for health insurance included in your tuition.
If you are on a different visa or a permanent resident, you can register and your cover will start after 90 days.

During the 90 days waiting period, you can register for day to day insurance so you can enjoy health care. It cost just 5 CAD



ACCOMMODATION
As a new comer ,in your first week in Canada , you may want to prepare to lodge in a hotel pending the time you can secure a condo, basement or apartment depending on your financial strength.
Some landlords may require you sign a lease period agreement, so within that agreed period of time , you can not quit the premises and some may even ask of proof of funds, to make sure that you are working and can pay the rents.

DRIVERS’ LICENSE
Canada signed agreement with some countries especially the commonwealth countries, that you can come into the country and drive once you have swapped your international drivers license with the Canadian drivers’ license.

But if you are not from this countries, you have to apply for G1 role, take the test, pass and get 80%
after then you can register for G-2, once you get the G-2 license you can still drive while you go for the G-license.
you can actually skip the G-2 and go for G-license depending on how good in driving you are.

PHONE NUMBER
Communication is key, it is advisable you bring along a phone from your county and just buy sim card over here instead of signing a phone contract over here that will tie you to a phone network for 1-2 years. You can get a sim card from the cheaper network like koodo,fido, freedom etc.

BANK ACCOUNT
You need a bank account for your daily transaction, so as a new comer you need to ask for new comer’s package that will exempt you from paying for the use of chequing account and a grace period of one year. Once you tell Banks like TDBANK, RBC, BMO AND CIBC that you are new in the country, they will offer you new package that will exempt you from payments that are unnecessary.
The basic requirements is your international passport and SIN.
However, you must read the terms and conditions before you sign anything. If you don’t understand make sure they explain to you.

TRANSPORTATION
this is very key because of the weather. You can use the public transport system by obtaining daily pass or monthly .
other options like Uber , lift or taxi are available. You may also get used car or a new one.

JOB SEARCH
It is only a matter of time that you finish spending the money you brought to Canada. So looking for a job is a matter of urgency.In your first week in Canada,It could be difficult at first being a JJC but it is not impossible.

For more log on to
https://liveincanada.com.ng/2021/03/17/basic-things-to-do-within-your-first-week-in-canada/

How about those on visit and which to have all this package or probably to stay for awhile

NONSENSE country

Oluboh:
Things the media wouldn't tell you, Governor Yahaya Bello is one of the best Governors in Nigeria currently

Zap YOU... Not A STANDARD TK COMPARE WITH WHAT OTHERS ARE DOING. KANO, KADUNA, LAGOS AMONG MANY OTHERS

SHEY HIM NO DEY TRAVEL TO ABROAD NII WEY DEY COME DO YEYE PROJECT

Mobolajifanny:
Good morning everyone
Please I need an answer sir/ma
What should I do.

A lady whose claim to love me said she Cannot follow me to my church because it's is (Cherubim and Seraphim's movement church) in which have try to convince her about the misconception of people on this church...

But she refused.

What should I do.
Should I continue or break this before it is to late
Should this be a red flag.
Thank ma and sir

Lolz not an issues... but if you can't leave your church don't think she will leave her church too...

grossintel:
So one of my clients wanted to transfer 100k to me for a subscription fee, for some reasons I didn't want him to send it to my main account so I told him I'll send him an account to send the money to.

My girlfriend was with me, so I asked if I could use her account and she agreed. (PS: I use her account number a lot and we've been dating for a long time so I trust her with such amount) . So I told her to send me her account number, but she was watching a movie and requested I check my bank app beneficiaries. I checked and reluctantly copied the account number without checking properly seeing the account name had her surname on it, I didn't check the rest.

My client transferred the money and almost 24hrs my girlfriend still didn't receive the money so I contacted him and he sent a screenshot of the transfer which I forwarded to her. Immediately she saw it she shouted! That's her dads account number, I know I used to send her money through he's account some years back so I saved he's account details. She quickly called him and that's when she heard the shocker.

He said he thought it was he's friend abroad, so they used the money to buy food stuff and what is left is 40k or less, her mom was even pleading if they can send the 40k. My GF has been crying and begging that I should give them time to raise the money or I should sell her phone. Her entire family members have been calling me and I refused to pick, I just want my money back complete.

How can you use money you didn't verify the source in less than 24hrs? Her Mom is a pastor and Father is an elder but this is stealing! Did you call your friend abroad to ask before using the money? Her dad is retired without pention so I know for sure they don't have a way of raising the money.

After much pleading I asked her to tell them to send the 40k and send the rest before the week runs out, that's when they told her they can't do transfer and it has to be on Tuesday. At this stage, I just concluded they spent all that money, I'm trying to stay calm but at the same time not be foolish. My friend is asking me to involve the police but this will certainly hurt my relationship. Please how should I follow this matter, I need mature advice please. 100k is not something I can dash anyone right now.

nothing more to say... you should have at least wait til Tuesday to get the 40k back but you went ahead to tell them to spend the whole money...


well just remember to deduct the money from their bride price list simple. make the Baba too remember to have that in his mind

They have develop Europe, South african , Asian. they forget to develop their home town

very bad

Martinelli35:
I will make this as brief as possible. I left Nigeria to the UK around may last year and I have fully settled in the country and was looking for someone to settle down with, I didn’t want a foreign girl, so I looked for Nigerians only, the ones I kept meeting here were either engaged with someone back in Nigeria, had serious relationships with someone else or married. So I decided to look back home. A friend of mine introduced me to a beautiful lady who lived and worked in Abuja, she appeared to be doing well for self and was courteous as well. So we started speaking and everything clicked, she wasn’t boring at all and could keep a convo going for hours. We started dating and things were going fine until I noticed something which appears to be a red flag, but I keep doubting if am been too hasty in reaching a conclusion. Just a week after we started dating, she started complaining that she was really broke, that she was kind struggling. In my mind I felt it was too soon for this to come up but I nevertheless sent her 60k to help out. Less than two weeks later, she sent me a letter from her work place that stated that her salary would be delayed for that month . She started complaining of how she was in dire straits and wouldn’t be able to survive till then. I sha played along and told her that where I worked they even delayed my own by a whole month. I can take care of a lady I like no problems, but this incessant asking, is it not too soon in this relationship? This is someone am already thinking of settling down with. If with a six figure salary she can’t manage herself, is this not a bad sign?

make I give you my sister now

robosky02:
When the team list for the Super eagles was released prior to their last 2 games for the AFCON qualifiers against Benin Republic and Lesotho. Paul Onuachu name was only good enough for the stand by list.

The reason Coach Gernot Rohr gave was that in his previous invitation he didn't score enough or didn't do well. While the list had the likes of Ahmed Musa that has not kicked a ball in a competitive gave in over 6 months made the cut.

This lead to massive outcry nation wide that Onuachu should be included especially with the incredible but undeniable record he has had this season


* Paul Onuachu have scored more goals this season than Messi, Ronaldo, Kane, Salah and Haaland in Europe is placed on the standby list by Genort Rohr.

*Paul Onuachu have scored 25goals in 29 League games for GENK making him the most inform Nigeria player in the world while Musa without a club for months gets invited to play just 2games??


To some Nigerians who spoke out they said
"
Onuachu’s exclusion again shows the technical deficiency of Rohr, who ought to by now have fashioned out a tactic to get this proven scorer getting the goals for Nigeria.


Some even wondered when the coach was talking of going back to bring Odion Ighalo.

This just shows the technical crew are fixated instead of looking for new player and effectively using the once we have we are talking about bringing back Odion Ighalo and sticking to Rosty Ahmed Musa.

But with the sudden inability of some players to make the cut made Paul Onuachu was just called to fill the gap.just to appease Nigerians

However in the game proper even when he was given just. 10 minutes to play he rescued Nigeria scoring the lone that gave us the victory. As if that was not enough in the last game against Lesotho he scored a superb Volley to make it 3. - 0.

Paul Onuachu has indeed silenced his critics with a back to back goals. This should serve as a lesson.
Because even the NPFL players they said can't play for super eagles. When Anayo Iwuala was introduced didn't disappoint
.

* that a player didn't score in one game doesn't make him bad. Especially if he has the potential to deliver. Kelechi Iheanacho is a good example everyone said he is finished but Branden Rogers believed in him today he is seen as Man United destroyer aka senior man.

*The coach needs to do enough to inspire confidence in our players. Because so many have been used and dumped thereby killing their confidence completely

* with the performance of Paul Onuachu he has shown that his goals in Europe is not a fluke and besides we can now have a capable and reliable bench should in case any striker is out.

Indeed Paul Onuachu has gone from Standby to starboy

Source: Robosky02

the guy wey they no later give ball again for pitch

DoubleFingers:
@bold,
My girl is 26 plus. She'll be 27 years in some couple of months.

My fiancee hardly depends on her parents for anything. You won't believe that it's even the mum that is giving my fiancee mind, encouraging her that if we (my fiancee and I) are both convinced, that all will surely go well.

It's just that natural love she has for her mum, nothing else. Maybe, because, her father is no more.

Guy go on with her... and face it...I don't believe in all those dream,I believe in physical challenge

DoubleFingers:
@abeniagbon,

There's a difference between a prayerful family and a religious family.

My girl's mum is only a prayerful woman and not the too religious type like you said.

To the best of my knowledge, I don't think she (my fiancee) has had any negative dream about the two of us. I'll still ask her, though.

If it is peace of mind, trust me, she gives me peace and rest of mind.
More so, I have a good job that gives me plenty of time for myself.

My woman is done with schooling, though no suiting job yet, but she has a skill that is fetching her small small money for her upkeep.

I guess your girl is in her 23 years of age... I have similar stuff before I skip marrying to yoruba tribe assuming she is in her 28 and 35 years of age her parent won't be saying this...lolz

this is usually a norm thing for age of that bracket cos they mostly depend on parent to lead them. when I want to get I met my wife in December and pay her bride price in February and we had a court wedding in April

DoubleFingers:
N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.

I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.

My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.

We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.

As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.

So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.

About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."

That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.

Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.

In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not.
Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.

Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.

Now my questions are:

1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?

2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?

Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.

Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.

And help send it to front page for more response.

Thanks.

All this one doesn't follow in marriage... marrying a too religious family self dey confusing. but I don't see any reason why you shouldn't marry the lady. It all depends on the wife to be family cos her mother might change attitude to you due to the cause of this dream and why her mother was too concerned about the affair of her daughter by dreaming for her...

what are her passed dream be like...? you should ask your girl.

all you need is peace of mind. and a good job that can pay your bills.

Reggaemich:
After doing my business for the day, When I return home, I take my bath, then eat, then I go out and visit brothels of different types to enjoy myself.

When I go to this brothels, I have a routine I do follow which is (I First take a drink then I go for my mission to sleep with prostitutes of different type (Fat, Slim, Moderate), I was really enjoying myself.

So I had a particular girl I do sleep with, she lived upstairs in the brothel complex, this particular girl liked me, let's say her name is nwanita).
Anytime I came to the brothel, Nwanita must approach me for our usual routine charging me a little amount of money than the usual amount.
So this particular day, I came back from work and I was tired, so I decided to rest for that day and refused to go anywhere.

The business was becoming too tasking and stressful, due to many customers to attend to and I was the only one running it without any boyboy to assist me.

This made me not to have time to visit brothel as usually, the business stress continued for up to 3months before I finally put things together and started having my usual freetime.

So I visited the usual brothel( which was a story building) were I do go to for pleasure once in a while, on getting there I found out that the upstairs was burnt and under construction,

I made enquiry and I was told the building was burnt but no one knows the cause of the fire,whether it was Electrical or from the smokings of cigarettes​ that occurs there, the story building was burnt from up to down and many people died including Nwanita and the person that passed the night in her crib that night, All the people upstairs were mainly affected, most of them died, some sustained serious injuries due to jumping from upstairs to save their Lives from the fire.

After the information I gathered there, I left the place that night, I began to ponder how lucky I was, if not for the issue I was encountering in my business that put me on hold, maybe I would have been in Nwanita's room banging her when the fire would start, maybe I might not make it out alive, Not knowing it was my last doggy style on earth.

I thank God for that memory, it has reshaped me,I have stopped visiting brothel completely and I am very happy about that decision till date.
So for those visiting brothels for pleasure, please try to stop it, Or get yourself a steady girlfriend or go and get Married to offset your sexual urge.
Sex is overrated, and from my view continuous sex is tiring. So there are more things In life to achieve than running after sex.

NONSENSE TALK, HOW WHICH YOU CAN GO TO CHURCH AND DO THE TESTIMONY IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE CONGREGATION. SO YOU CARRY THIS KIND YEYE TESTIMONY CONE NAIRALAND COME DEY SAY YOU THANK GOD.. ABEG COMOT FOR ROAD... IF YOU WAN TO THANK GOD PROPERLY GO TO CHURCH AND DO BETTER TESTIMONY

WETIN MAKE WE DO... MAKE WE FRY GARRI ABI WETIN

HE IS NEARING HIS GRAVE... IT'S IS BETTER TO DO THE RIGHT AND WORK BETTER FOR THR BETTERMENT OF THE COUNTRY AND MAKE $1 TO 1NAIRA AS PROMISED

ProphetAjasco:
I see, I saw....... I see angels and demons dragging for the souls of the departed but the ugly demons no get chills at all, they are just harvesting people like cassava up and down....

Make una dey serious for una Christianity una no go gree, some of them even came to church directly from a hotel where they went to engage in extra curricula activities. See them being harvested any how now

Anyway, So I have seen and So shall it be.

you have added your trash again. weldon