₦airaland Forum

Stanleyq:
When de going is no more good, they call it a rape

Exactly.

demmie1:
Please explain it to him slowly

When a car is not moving and the engine is on, smoke and gas will find it's way through manifolds, door gaps etc but a moving car does not allow this as it had moved off where the smoke was produced

And while they were dying, they couldn't put off the AC, leave the door open for fresh air??

This carbon monoxide theory no be am at all. This is not a case of gun shot or instant death.

Magnoliaa:
Why did you comment this? This is torturous to me.

Sorry o, team Akara

Bread and Akara

midolian:
You are a very stupid prophet looking for cheap undeserved attention..

Okoro should continue mkpurumiri in his shop, waiting for Nigerians to come and crown him winner of an election he didnt participate in

Then why don't you give him the freedom and liberty to own and manage his own country?

Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

We all saw their pre-wedding photos on Nairaland

It's obvious you don't love that girl.

Rastaramsey:
That's the problem with those yourba drivers...

They will drink shepe finish, cum dey use motor demonstrate their highness...

Accidents happen only in Yoruba land? You're a very stup!d human.

Nwodosis:
Let this not be new scamming format as account number done appear!

Modified, seems like my comment made the guy remove his account details.

Nope. The mods did that. No way a beggarly thread with account number would make the front page.

lilioj:
Too many holes in your stories. A job that pays you 97k should be able to offer you a soft loan of 200k with monthly deductions.

Also when asked you where you live, no one says you should state the precise address why can't you just state the area like say Oshodi or Agege, you are being very evasive which makes all these sound like tales by moonlight.

Please her "privacy" is important. If she mentions Agege, kidnappers will begin to roam the street of Agege, looking for a particular Channah1.

Channah1:
I'm glad that he at least understands and doesn't need my home address to know where mainland is just like he mentioned the island and I got the message.

Once you mention the mainland, everyone knows what you're talking about. The sorrounding areas and easy links and connecting route in that axis. So no need to start disclosing the number and address of the uncompleted building I'm currently putting up.

Try to be nice to the depressed.

Okay. Good luck to you.

dawnomike:
Oh! That's far away... But let me know if you can cope with moving to work on the mainland from lagos island.

You even try sef by trying to help with the vague information she's provided so far. What the f. is mainland? Someone who needs help will provide a better response.

It's called democracy

Makanaki127:
Sorry to ask why are they demanding you marry her,is it because she bore you a son,or what ?
Okay what about if you 2 were just living together as boyfriend and girlfriend with no child,before this incident happen,will they still force you to come and do the necessary thing ?

Good question

Thank God you were only told to pay her dowry. Some families will hold you responsible for her death. Before you invite the law, also get ready for the repercussions as you may be accused of things you did not do. Forget all the "love" you received from her family until her death. Only marriage gives an absolute right.

That being said, your concerns are valid. I can never get married to a corpse under any condition. But what can you do? You can't win the battle. Sorry.

Not a big deal. Many big and wealthy madams have small boys and sugar boys on the side. So it's not new jare.

As long as the woman is ready to sponsor the wedding and feed the second husband, then it's no big deal.

Many Nigerian youths will kukuma apply for the role of a second husband People wey don tire to dey work

Holluwhakemmy:
Ojulowo omo Yoruba ni mi o

Channah1:
My family members stay very far. If I'm to go put up with them, it means I have to forego my job and I can't because I know what I went through to get the ones I'm doing now.

The proximity of my office to my current location is the reason I'm passing through all these just to retain my job.

I don't want to go and be a burden to my elder sister by going to live with them without any source of livelyhood.

If I can have place to work and bulid again for three months, I'll save up and get an apartment. If I can get help, I'll get a place before weekend. It boils down to money.

Is this job worth the risk and stress you go through everyday?What kind of job would make you sleep and bath in uncompleted buildings?

Some bloggers won't make heaven sha. I read her post this morning on IG. You've completely twisted her words for likes and attention.

hakeemhakeem:
Law what? Can a lawyer address the judge without saying my Lord

Even a lawyer cannot address his boss without bowing to His Lord. Epic.

Culture is a big issue in organisations. Some people go to schools to study organisation culture as a course. There's no sane organisation without its own culture. You just don't walk into strange places and do nonsense because of wokeness or your disdain for the African culture. Whoever told you that you can make your own rules in strange lands lied to you.

While i don't subscribe to the whole cash payment and sack thing, take this as a lesson and always learn to read the room wherever you find yourself.

A poor approach to managing cultural differences can cost you a multimillion naira deal. All you'll hear is "we will get back to you later" so there won't even be a room to hire any lawyer to fight anybody as some people have suggested here.

TheBlackSheepX:
not talking about white man culture. I'm talking about African tradition.
The white man culture evolves with modern human ideas. They do not thick to stone age Tradiction that was pass on to them.

Here in Africa we stick to idea of early humans idea. People who never know how the earth look like or how water goes up and come down to pass culture to early humans. Everything is irritating about Africans.

Permit me to ask, are you ga.y? I think this is the only thing you can't proudly/safely practise in Africa.

There is no society without traditions. You're either here or there. You can't be nowhere. If you don't sleep with the opposite sex (someone else's idea), you'll sleep with your gender (another person's idea). If you don't like agbada (someone's tradition), you'll like corporate wears (another man's tradition). No middle grounds at all. Just low self-esteem and acculturation doing their thing on a helpless African. It is not about your "hate".

JovialJune:
Gbenu soun, this one is feeling like mister right, only God knows if you accept that you're wrong in an argument with your wife at home, yeye.

I don't argue with my wife. Thanks.

Holluwhakemmy:
emi o kin se olounloyo o, olounnijesa ni Sir

Oga o, ta lo ko yin ni e de yooba?

Holluwhakemmy:
hmmmn supporter of home breaker

Aunty kemmy Olunloyo, e ma calm down ma

Toplap:
I am sorry

Okay. I am also sorry.... No vex

Toplap:
Sorry I just dey cruize today.

You dey cruise with insults. Well-done o.

Blablamalala:
I was wondering. Infact your argument was so straight forward anyway Goodluck Jonathan too painted his kind of poverty. What am trying to say is, it's our own kind of narrative here.

Very accurate

Toplap:
Stupid boy I have quoted you. You are fast becoming a basket mouth who doesn't know when to stop talking like that sea trader

Obsessed ediot. Come and switch off my phone.