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@ OP,

Don't waste a good relationship over nothing. You're still too young to know whether the one child policy is truly what you want. By the time the first child arrives, there's a 99% chance that you'll change your mind. So what becomes of the man? What happens when you desperately need another child in the future?

To be honest, no sane man will say yes to your proposal.

slimjohn2k5:
Most Africans do not wish to have one child, they call it risk.
Since is your idea, find solutions for yourself but it's risky.

Nigerians especially. You can't blame them. The death rate these days is alarming. Nigeria has one of the highest death rates in the universe.

I personally cannot say Yes wholeheartedly to a one child policy in Nigeria. Every child has at least a 40% probability of dying before age 50.

babajeje123:
He is now capitalizing on spiritual compatibility. He said they are not compatible spiritually.

He's not serious. You can't cry more than the bereaved.

What's the point praying for your friend or his wife to get pregnant even though both of them live in different countries? What's your prayer point exactly? For God to teleport his sperm from wherever he is to his wife's egg?

Also, what medical steps have they taken? What's the diagnosis? Any hormone boosting therapy, artificial insemination, IVF? If they've done IVF, now many?

Have they had any discussion on adoption or surrogacy? What's his personal diagnosis? What does his SFA results say?

The word pastor was mentioned at least 10 times in your discussion but nothing was said about his doctor. Why? What the fvck is "she can't give birth?" Did someone kidnap her womb and fallopian tubes?

walexsho:
Marry and let her remain with your parents for a year to study her true color before moving her abroad .That is the Top secrete.
Another way is seek legal advise. There are ways to go aboit about it in order not to be in her captivity in future.
You can as well do it the CR7 way ... Baby mama

LMAO

Not gonna change my opinion about the vaccine. What I need right now is typhoid vaccine not Covid19. My last experience with typhoid wasn't funny. For Covid19, I believe majority have had it at some point and didn't even notice.

The time they're wasting pushing their political-vaccine is enough to conclude a drug development project. The most dangerous illnesses in the world all have some types of drugs but these medical-politicians want us to believe that a vaccine is the ONLY remedy for a common cold-like virus?

Severe weight loss is not a Covid19 symptom.

Severe chest pain is not a common Covid19 symptom.

I'm not asking you to ignore a Covid19 test but have it in mind that getting a treatment and a vaccine for Covid19, in the event that he turns out positive, may not eliminate some of the symptoms.

Funny how people expect marriage to fix their lives, their genetic make-up, blood group, business skills, work and career interests, morals, and issues inherited from generations.

All these issues should be solved because you spent 30 minutes at a registry? What her teachers, lecturers and parents couldn't solve in 30 years, you want your "marriage" with her to solve?

BecaciaBarbie:
Awwwwwh thanks a lot dear

Been seeing your sensible comments as usual...impressed

Thanks dear

UyaiIncomparabl:
What have I done?

Tobidarker02:
Ritual doesn't work!!
I am never letting my kids watch yoruba movies.

Yoruba movies? Children watch that nowadays?

You should be concerned about the kind of songs they listen to. Just one Naira Marley song is enough to corrupt a mind that wants to be corrupted.

Parenting is not about preventing this or that. I've watched Yoruba movies back to back, listen to all new songs/albums from Nigerian artistes every Thursday night/Friday, YET, ritual has never and will never be my thing.

Life is about choices. Your friend has made his choice.

How does a peaceful protest leads to a better Lagos?

Will you ever change?

You should have married your mom and get her pregnant. F**l.

[quote author=BecaciaBarbie post=108065608][/quote]Chai I hate that this happened to you Beca. So so sorry

Favfables1:
Do people still ask ladies out these days ...

You smokers should stop playing the victim card. Everyone gets stigmatized in this country, including pastors and religious folks. Some of you have 'blacklisted' Jehovah witness and white garment folks for simply living their lives. Some of you can't make friends with hijab wearing Muslims. Some of you have classified all politicians as crooks and tend to hate their kids. Smoke your smoke in peace and deal with the stigmatisation. You can't tell people how and what to think. If they think you're irresponsible or dirty, deal with it. Pastors have accepted you people's claims with their full chest. Accept yours too.

Same reason some guys run away from first daughters with plenty siblings (of school age).

Not many people want to be entangled with mini parents.

SeaTrade:
There's still something I don't understand yet.
Forgive me but what's with nollywood male,veteran stars and public plea for financial assistance?
These people made money in their time for God's sake,those days film sold like groundnuts.
Didn't they save,invest or what?

Sickness can turn a millionaire to a pauper in hours

delpee:
Deactivate SMS alerts and request for email alerts and statements only. You'll need to go the bank to fill their form.

The emboldened is the challenge. I receive email alerts and that's enough.

Is there a way I can stop GTBank's SMS alert on my mobile phone? A ussd or something? Almost N400 monthly for a useless information I do not need needs to stop.

Magnoliaa:
Really? It did? I had no idea. How and why?

Yeah

Some of the effects:

Abortions
Forced sterilisation
Infanticide
Marital misery
Aging population,
Deteriorating fertility
Rising population of lonely men

Petyprincess:
Ahh, I cook jollof every week since someone's son tasted it once

This is my second try on fried rice, and I decided to make the famous combo of fried rice and jollof lol.

My newest method now is I roast my vegetables b4 blending, it saves more time in cooking and gives that natural smokey taste.

Somebody's son is enjoying oo

Where is your dad? Please move closer to your dad. Marriage is probably the only thing that will impress her o. That's how you people (women) act when you're overly obsessed with male children.

The one child policy failed in China. It can never work anywhere.

jayice:
Maybe she's good at skipping other people's parties too hence the payback

I don't think this is the case sha. People who are good at skipping parties usually don't call for parties.

joinnow:
Next time they didn't come ...
Just go outside and invite all homeless around and feed them the dinner.

Truly I say to you your JOY will have no bound after that

100%

Mariangeles:
Se o to yen ni?
Ki n se ‘ja a.

Dear yes oo

Cheap question. I will give you tfare to take that noodles to wherever you got it from.

Getdabag:
Sapa na bastard and a great lesson teacher

Megatrix:
Follow the matter on twitter, Rema said he hasn't been paid for the song yet they went ahead to release it. He contacted behind the scenes when he heard they wanted to release his song without paying him for it yet they ignored him and still went ahead to release it that's why he went public with the matter.

Did you read the word "pay", "or "paid", "payment"?

Rema is only pained because an old song was released without his "consent". He's more interested in the quality of the song. That track is trash and he wouldn't have released such a thing in 2021.