₦airaland Forum

The funny thing is you won't see feminists flexing their muscle on any Islam-related antiwomen thread but let Oyedepo or Adeboye say something about marriage, you'll see them foaming everywhere.

aimmoney9:
Those people calling him telling him kilonshele, and how far did something....

If you want to rescue such person's you have to talk to them to draw their senses back and move slowly closer to them before you can perform the heroic act of saving them...

If you notice from the video, it was when the camera was coming closer that he jumped, meaning those people were closing in on him...

The truth is that if you rush, their weight might pull you down too and then it will be double suicide.....

If you rush sef, the police can arrest you for pushing the young man to his death.

JovialJune:
Who is this impersonator? Give acidosis his phone

It's funny how the people sharing this experience on the thread are males yet this same gender will be forming hard life on Nairaland. Weak men everywhere hiding under fat biceps and keyboard

I miss Donald Trump.


What's the point canceling AFCON when all the major markets in Africa are still opened and functional? Can't these clueless people see that they are merely wasting their time?

oyatz:
This kind of stunts should be discouraged.


The school need to seek expert medical opinions before organising these kinds of events

You're ignorant. Even men in their 80's play football match.

Toks2008:
I learnt its mostly people with genotype AA.

Even me sef dey battle fever as I write

True and this is the kind of disease that requires vaccine, not Omicron.

Typhoid is a more dangerous disease yet the government is less concerned about distributing the vaccine across Nigerian hospitals. In fact, majority are unaware that there is a Typhoid vaccine out there in the Western world and some parts of Nigeria. This is the disease that concerns us and affect our people.

Ceenachi:
I don't know if am the only one that noticed, almost everybody is down with malaria since we entered this December, one thing I know is that we shall all end this December, 2021 will not end our life AMEN

Very true. The breed/type of mosquitoes out there this season is stronger. The December weather also makes our immune system more prone to infection. Lagos air especially is extremely polluted. This is the time scavengers burn and release all sorts of toxic chemicals into the atmosphere.

Olaoluwa112:
Well after releasing, what was it that they wanted him to be feeding on?

Funny people, dude probably has no job, no family members to care of him.

And our correctional center sucks, I mean, prisoners should have some attained skills before leaving those places but hell no, they will just lock them up till their time is up.

You'll drop these motivational quotes when this boy uses a sledge harmer on your head in traffic

As far as I'm concerned, even the food/drink I had tonight is an achievement. Life is hard enough. Can't allow anyone make it harder with their subjective ideations and over-conceptualization of my existence. Every damn thing I do with my time is an achievement, including taking a nap/sleep. You can't define the context and content of MY happiness for me o If merely drinking water makes me happy, I won't inflict sorrow upon myself because you're waiting to complete your Ph.D degree to experience genuine happiness or achievement.

It's funny how the vaccinated individuals are even more scared of the virus than the unvaccinated persons.

The vaccinated government keeps banning everything and everyone that dares to reject the vaccine. LMAO

Computer village on fire? Computer village or one shopping complex?

cococandy:
Mmm hmmm

Hmmmm

Men should always assist their wives even if they earn all the money in the world. If things go bad and you, the man, becomes broke, helping out won't disrupt your ego because you're already used to chores. It's that simple.

The idea of role sharing based on who earns what has never made any sense to me. Y'all stop worshipping money. Don't let money control your life and relationship with those you care about.

The concept of househusband can only be a topic of discussion in a dysfunctional home, where the man sees the need to put a title on a common and basic responsibility of sensible husbands and fathers.

wiseone28:
let's talk about this one for now

Cyberbullies and school bullies belong to the same league of i.diots.

Imagine using hashtags like #ShutdownDowencollege after bullying DJ Cuppy on Twitter.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Is life all about survival, eating food and paying transport fares?

At some point in our lives, survival stays ahead of other needs

slydog:
If u can't stand the heat, get off social media. There's a reason people don't do social media.
I personally deleted my face book and Twitter apps, they were becoming much of a distraction for me. I have a friend who uses good phones but has never been on what's app, to me that one is even strange. I'm only on IG and na for cruise

So what happens when you can't stand the real life?

wiseone28:
That's the consequences when you live a social media life

What about those that lived a real life and got bullied?

Smithkline200:
This is what I call day light slavery.

7am-7pm daily?
200 for food? Afternoon and evening?

Please I’d rather stay jobless and learn skills than settle for this.

So what do you do when you don't have money to learn that skill?

What's the difference between the N25k offer and the 30k Buhari pays "NPower" graduates? Please take the job. You're not going to remain there for forever. Jobs like sales girl, sales boy, private school teacher with 15k salary, etc. are not meant to be permanent in the first place. Nigerian students do this sort of jobs abroad to survive. That's the purpose of the job - survival.

Congratulations @OP. The best is yet to come !

ahnie:
Congratulations

Hey ahnie,

So sorry to read your experiences with the travel agent. Keep pushing. Don't give up.

You realized she was pregnant 3 months after you had sex? How old was the pregnancy the day you were told? If it's anything below 2 months or above 3 months, then you're only wasting your time and resources. Her pregnancy test results are enough to provide clarity on the issue. Also, before you spend another 150k, ask for the child's blood test results to at least ascertain the child's blood group and genotype. If any of these simple steps do not correlate, don't bother wasting your money. Newborns always look like everybody.

Magnoliaa:
Haha. I literally screenshotted your own comment.

The last paragraph was really so insightful I feel it is something I have to go back to digesting all over again.

Ahhh Thank you dearie, thank you

Magnoliaa


Great input ^

By beating her, you're only telling her to be smarter. Please try having a conversation with her. Get to know her. The fact that she gives you the latest gists in the neighborhood means that she's willing to talk. You don't have a problem at all. Some of her mates are on campus having sex, cohabiting with guys, etc. without the knowledge of their parents. This is the reality I witnessed more than 10 years back. This is 2021, it will only get worse!

So it's really not about her but the society. She's a product of the society she currently lives so she's likely to act the societal way. You have to first admit that she's not necessarily evil or stubborn. Guide her the right way and all will be well.

bjtinz:
Don't know why you folks keep using these stale lines.

She's soo tired. Really? Even if it means laying let him do the work?

What about the man's feelings too, doesn't it matter? Why must it be all about her?

Her less virtuous colleagues out there have no qualms servicing tens daily, yet wify is too tired for just once or twice a week with her betrothed.

She being manipulative, end of

The side chick you glorify today will turn out the same way when the man (you) refuses to reduce the level of stress she faces daily.

Try and marry your side chick na and wait for the result. If you don't deal with the root of the issue, you'll keep running around like a headless fearful chicken.

Congratulations O.B.O.

hope4nigeria:
Motivational speaker advise me that investing your money is better than saving it, now I no get kolo, no Xmas food, economy don scatter investment, market no dey even sell to recover the capital, na him thesame motivational gibrish speaker still come beg me yesterday to borrow am #100k, Mr motivational speaker, try respect your self I warn you. Congratulations jare. Bless me with one chicken oh

Wahala

NovesaTillie:
The best bank.
No SMS alert charges
No card maintenance charges
No AC allowance charges
Just you and rat and your money

The rat got me

shakyum:
Nobody is talking about the kolo price

The vendor sells for about 20k last time I checked on IG.

My wife won't forgive me if she sees this thread I've broken her kolo not once but 3x in the past one year. I no dey allow the thing save up before breaking. I'll rather break that thing than visit the nearest POS vendor

Kolo is good for "spenders" and compulsive buyers but it's never been my thing. If I'm saving on any platform, I must earn some interests. She's since moved to piggyvest and I think it's working for her so far. But for those who earn daily in cash, kolo remains an excellent alternative.

seanwilliam:
and what if the man is 100% innocent of the above accusations, and he get high libido, what should he do?

Cos una go just Dey make mouth on here when u no dey the person’s situation

High libido is a disorder. Get help and stop the blame game.

You all should stop blaming your wives. She's not the reason you all couldn't control yourselves before marriage. If you're the type of guy that avoided pre-marital sex or sex with too many random women, living with your wife for months without sex during pregnancy or child birth wouldn't be an issue. 1 month after child birth, and some of you're thinking about side chicks. Is sex the only thing you all did with your lives as bachelors?? Just one month oo!

Some of you slept with at least 6 girls per month before marriage. Now as a married man, you want your wife to take over and do the work of 6 ol.osho while also attending to house chores and corporate responsibilities. More often than not, you guys are the problems in your marriage. By the way, this thread is disg.usting.