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doggedfighter:
Acid, good to read this. Glad to know that our babies are doing well and you too. Regards !

Yes, we are doing well. Thank you, dear

sisisioge:
Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry! It is well my brother. It is well. May God Himself help you raise your babies and settle all that concerns you. Pele. It is well.

My dear Sister, thank you so much.

Amen!!

Esthered:
Good to have you back sir.
I mailed you since June 10, looking forward to hearing from you.

Thank you, Esther. Seen my response yet?

Kendamil 800mg - 27k last time I checked. My girls finish a can in 3-4 days. I have no idea the current price as they got 36 cans for free and so much more (other brands of baby food, diapers that would last almost a year, over 80 packs of baby wipes, clothes, cash gifts from far and near, etc.) since their mom's/my wife's painful and regrettable passing. In fact, a few NLers who may not want their names mentioned here gave them about a million Naira.

Despite God's faithfulness and the surprisingly huge blessings, it's a FULL STOP for me. I'm DONE DONE with the birthing thing.

Klass99:
Genuine condolences! I just stumbled on the news about your loss.

I never know what to say to grieving people but it's okay to hurt, cry and grieve for as long as it takes to start healing. There is healing in tears/crying.

Your heart may question or rage against heaven but hold on, all things truly work together for the good of those who love him and are called by him. You won't see it now but the good will surely manifest.

Thank you so much for your heartfelt condolences, Klass99. Your kind words mean a lot to me.

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tensazangetsu20:
I am so sorry men. I pray the good Lord gives you the strength to bear the loss.

Amen! Thank you, boss.

descarado:
What am I reading
Hold it together pls if you can. I am speechless.
Can you send your email to me on a dead thread anytime you can.

That's the only coherent thing I can come up with now.

Thank you so much, descarado.

I’ve posted the email as requested.

doggedfighter:
Omg, what did I just read?

Acid, I am so sorry about your loss.
This is sad😭😭😭

When I stopped seeing your post, I just thought you were serving a ban.

I don't really have the right words but I do say just take heart and stay Strong for the babies.

My condolences, Acid.

Thank you so much, dogged. Staying strong as expected.

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Hathor5:
I am so sorry Acid. Please accept my deepest condolences. I read it two days ago and I couldn`t sleep. Only God knows what you are going through right now and I pray you will find the strength to carry on. It will take a while. Take your time to mourn. I know you will feel the deepest despair on some days but I promise you that you will get better with time. I have also lost someone very close and dear to my heart and it took me what feels like a century to get better but it got easier with time. Much strength!

I hope you have people to rely and lean on.

Thank you, Hathor. Your words mean a lot to me. I'm praying for strength too and hope to share my experiences someday.

Fortunately, I have a few people around to help out in the meantime.

Sijo01:
I'll call you again!
Please be strong for your babies.

Sure, anytime.

I really need to.

Nazgul:
Oh no! This is so sad.

The Lord is your strength bro. Take heart.

Thank you, boss. Really grateful for this.

shaybebaby:
It really shows strength that in your own pain, you found time to give comfort to another.

I'm sorry for your loss, and hope that in time, you will be able to smile again, that the pain becomes easier to bear and that your memories of her bring you comfort.

She is not truly gone, you hold a part of her in your babies, and I truly pray that you all go on to have happy and fulfilled lives that she will be proud of.

Be strong, for yourself and those babies.xx

Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement, Shaybebaby.

Esthered:
Egbon, please accept my condolences.

Please respond to my mail when you can sir.

Thank you, Esthered. I just did.

pocohantas:
Oh No!!!!!
I can't believe I am reading this.
I am so sorry you are going through this, Acid. I don't have the right words. I don't.

I pray you find the strength to pull through. Accept my sympathy. I share in your grief and deeply saddened by your loss. May her soul continue to rest in peace.

Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers, poco. Really grateful for this.

oneman11:
sorry for the loss of your beloved. may the lord console your family

Amen. Thank you so much, bro.

karkinase:
Sorry bro

Thank you, bro.

DAramis:
Condolences to you boss.

May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss; and strength to take care of your new born babies

Amen. Bless you, sir. I'm grateful.

Blessedpalms:
I came online and saw this. It breaks me to hear this kind of thing o bro. Life is very difficult. Very difficult to understand and very difficult to navigate.

As humans, at a point we feel like we have planned it right only for a challenge which one can not control to happen.
I pray the giver of life and the taker of life gives your wife a peaceful comfort in Life beyond here. I believe their is Life beyond this current existence filled with pain and uncertainties.

I read up there where some said Jesus quickly died at 33. Then it occurs to me that in Numerology, 33 is a very difficult stage. It's also considered a "master number." A number emphasizing the importance of helping others.

But how can one help, someone who is passing through what one can not control?
This thing called life is very strange,

I never thought about this until now. Thank you for the insight, bro.

folake4u:
You're welcome Sir.

Please be strong for the babies.😔💜

I sure will. Thank you once again, folake4u

kkins25:
Oh! Really sorry for your lost, sir. May her soul rest in Piece and may your heart be comforted.

Amen. Bless you, bro. thank you.

Regex:
Bless her soul. Bless you too. I recognise that you are strong and I appreciate it.

Amen. Thank you so much, bro.

Sijo01:
Jesus. I thought you were serving a ban that's why I've not been seeing your post.

My condolences Acidos. May God rest her soul and give you the fortitude to bear the loss.

Thank you so much, Sijo. Amen. I tried calling back but couldn't reach you.

qtguru:
Damn sorry sir this hurts deeply.

It is for real. Thank you, brother.

Eunoiaa:
I'm so so sorry Acid. My condolences.

Thank you, sis. Really grateful

emmaodet:
Acidiosis, sorry bro.
I am really sorry for hearing this.
Sorry for your loss
Chaii...2 kids with you now to cater for.
May God guide you on how to proceed from here on...Amen

My brother,
Amen
Thank you so much, bro

folake4u:
Jesus!!!!!!!!!!!!

Omgggggg Acid. I'm so sorry to hear that.

I will call you later.

My dear, thank you so much. That meant a lot.

GloriousGbola:
I'm sorry for your loss.

Thank you bro.

Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

ebahorjerry:
Guy during my time in those my mate can't intimidate me 😠dey no born na well. Gentleness & calmness doesn't pay in d shithole call Nigeria, why can't her fight 4her self. It's wrong 4 d parent to take it upon their self

People who say this are actually bullies. Why are you offended by the parent's action? Typical bully behaviour. Asking every child to stand up to bully won't solve anything. Some children do not have the strength and energy for fight, and it's not a weakness.

Most people detest bullies, including parents who are very much aware that they are raising children who exhibit bullying behaviour. A deceitful generation raising children with animalistic behaviours in the name of "love."

Victims of bullies must be protected, so yeah, I support the parent's decision. In fact, I would suggest that parents should all gather to beat any child that bullies anyone in that school.

What a mindless, wicked, and unrelenting criminal!

Retailers have always been killing you though.

Biglittlelois:
So if i tell or advice someone that his or her snoring can be medically fixed, and the person goes to the hospital for medical advice and diagnosis, and doctors says that it can definitely be fixed, then recommend a reputable hospital where it can be fixed, automatically means I convinced and manipulated the person so he or she will die? What kind of reasoning is that?

Well, manipulation is beyond advising someone that his or her snoring can be medically fixed (and yes indeed snoring can be medically fixed). You think it is impossible to manipulate a man into undergoing such a medical procedure simply because you expect so much from a grown man, especially one who is married and presumably the head of his home.

Now consider, for example, how some men manipulate women into s e x by claiming that lack of sexual activity causes them stomach aches or how lack of s e x destroys their s p e r m.

Manipulation is making someone do your bidding for likely selfish reasons, not necessarily leading them to their death. The madam probably desired a more attractive and presentable man who doesn't snore. The oga, on the other hand, tried to please the madam, overlooking the potential side effects and negative consequences. That, indeed, is manipulation.

You borrow money for railway abi you no borrow money?

thesicilian:
Nobody can force you to do a surgery you don't want to do.

Replace "force" with "convince", "manipulate."

Barrywilly:
Please do not encourage your child to start to near fire at age. She is too very young to be aware of the dangers of fire and possibly gas explosion because at that age, she is still prone to play with dangerous things. This may happen when you are not at home because you already encouraged it. Try to be a responsible parent.

Failure to teach an 8 year old kid the danger of fire and gas is even more dangerous. They will use it with or without your consent. So the choice is yours.

Nigerian girls do not desire virgin men yet they want a man who doesn't womanize 😅😅😅

Ballzproblem2:
why is difficult to find these qualities in a woman:



independent


virgin.


accept that men are polygamous in nature.



beautiful.



have front and back.


is too much to ask?

Na trouble you dey find 😂😂

Now is the perfect time to remove that useless immunity given to Ododo and other state governors. It's of no value to governance or the people. It only emboldens the criminals called governors to steal and obstruct the rule of law.

Change is constant. Just as our fathers once walked kilometers to attend classes, today, school buses are everywhere. However, another generation is emerging where school buses will be irrelevant. People may have to stay in their houses and be taught by AI. A generation is coming where notebooks will be useless, and much of the mathematics some of us were taught will be irrelevant.

Sometimes, I wonder why teachers still assign certain tasks to students, knowing very well that Chat GPT can solve these assignments.

Imagine complaining that parents help their children with assignments. LOL. Just wait for an explosive AI generation.

OdefaGirl:
Acidosis...... How far?

Thought you said someone used her page to debunk her arrest?

That's so badly you want her in?

Read my post again. The 'someone' is DJ Switch.

Timoleon:
The Nigerian government is still desperate to incarcerate DJ Switch. Evil lot.

Exactly. They want her so bad, they can't even hide it. They're willing to sacrifice their credibility (assuming they have any) and the rule of law...