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For me it's Compulsory DNA tests after childbirth or no kids at all.

Una like plenty complications.. Show me any organisation on earth that doesn't have one major leader, even where companies re owned by 2 persons with equal shares. One person is the CEO but when it comes to men and women in a family unit.. You want to change the narrative. A family can only have one leader, either the man or woman. One person controls the direction and tempo of the house every other person falls in line. You people talk as if you didn't grow up in a family. Christ can be the Head of a family but a human being must create it and lead it. Make una de use una head to reason.

jesusjnr2020:
Some women who God has used to greater effect as Smith Wigglesworth's wife actually questioned their husband when he had strayed from the faith and began to demand things of her that were not of God.

She told him that he was her husband but that Jesus was her Lord!

That was the saving grace of the husband as he was hence restored back to the faith, and would never play with his wife afterwards. That's probably why we hardly have women of such such spiritual calibre these days, because they have made their husbands to take the place of God as the Lord and Master of their lives, hence God cannot use them for much because He cannot share His position with any man.

Moreover, the wife of Abraham questioned her husband concerning Hagar and her son Ishmael, that it was said to have grieved Abraham much, but God told him to hearken to his wife's voice.

Genesis 21:12 (KJV)

And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called.

So you can actually see that even though it's what men love to hear, this saying of a woman not questioning her husband and being demonic is not of God but of men.

God bless

Sarah was just exhibiting a trait ingrained in the DNA of most female folk and that is never taking responsibility for their actions and finding ways to blame men for their own misdeeds. Sarah pushed Hagar on Abraham.. She orchestrated the whole thing but the moment she had a child of her own, she realised Hagar was now disposable and saw Hagars son as a threat to her own child . And so she began to nag Abraham until God had to ask Abraham to send the slave away for the sake of peace. When she was begging Abraham to sleep with Hagar she was referring to Hagar as her maid but when she no longer needed her, she remembered that hagar was a bond woman. I always tell men never listen to a woman even if it's ur mother or wife when they ask you to do something unethical or something your spirit doesn't support no matter how much they nag, stand your ground because they will blame you for that same thing when it no longer serves their purpose. It's like they suddenly develop memory loss on their culpability but surprisingly only remember the part you played and point accusing fingers at you.

laudate:
Nobody is saying you cannot marry from your tribe. What we are saying is that those who marry within their tribe, are not better or worse off than those who marry outside their tribe. So no one should dissuade those who wish to marry outside their tribe.

I always tell people, that it is not about the tribe you marry from, but about the kind of family you marry from, and also the character of the person you are getting married to, as well as the emotional bond or connection that you both share.

If a child is asked what tribe he belongs to, he is free to provide the answer he desires, as long as he understands his unique identity. Besides, what is wrong with a child claiming both ethnic groups which his parents belong to? Is it a crime or an offence? Most times, children would claim their paternal heritage, as our society is structured along patrilineal lines.

As for the prophets of old, please tell me where Moses' wife came from? Was she an Israelite? Queen Esther who saved her people, married a king who was not from Israel. Even the lineage of our Lord Jesus had Ruth included in it. Ruth was a Moabite, who married into the Hebrew family of Elimelech and Naomi. Please go through the Bible and check the lineage of the prominent families in it.

What the patriarchs preached against was marrying other tribes that were involved in idolatry. Today, there are Christians from different ethnic groups who believe in the redemption work of our Lord Jesus. Do you still believe such people should not get married because they hail from different tribes, despite the fact that they share the same faith?

Truer words have never been spoken.

I wonder how these people cannot see that secondus n wike re not working together.. Very smart strategy I must say.

AMR

She's probably in love with soccer so much that she's Hoeing her way through the players and coaching crew as a true fan of the game..

Sadly its turn by turn..

For guys... If you get married.. Don't cheat.....if you must cheat...don't get a mistress or side chic..Get a second wife or an escort

No govt will support secession... Those that did it successfully did it by force

He 4 just buy crypto

nice

I. I. I. I. I. ... Me. Me. Me. Me. Me.... Marriage is not for kids. The vows you take on ur wedding day never say anything about happiness. If you want to be happy, stay single or a single parent. Marriage cannot make you happy.

I have always said that if Nigeria can be divided, it will be be done by SW. They will be the ones to give us biafra. But this one wey dem don hold Sunday wife...

Very sad indeed

She has two hands and two legs... She should hustle and workout her salvation. The earlier men realise that women are capable of taking care of themselves the better. No need risking our lives and stressing ourselves to be a Knight trying to rescue a damsel in distress. The damsels can rescue themselves.

bepositive11:
Good points but you have to understand the other side. Most of these feminists are traumatized. Whether growing up seeing their mother get physically abused by men, or them themselves getting physically or sexually abused by men.

Naturally, men should protect women but sadly, a lot of men abuse the power that they have over women. Men are physically stronger than women

Now, the traumatized woman becomes scared to show her vulnerability. She puts up a strong front so that she won't get taken advantage of. Most of these toxic men are intimidated by women who appear strong, so it works.

The sad part though is that healthy men are weakened by a woman's femininity. They want to protect women's vulnerability, but since these traumatized women hide it, they don't get to take advantage of non-toxic men's protection

What people forget is with power comes responsibilities, Patriarchy gave men power because men had to go out and build the society, fight wars, invent things, create government and kingdoms and some of them abused it. However the heart of this system was not to subjugate women rather to create a world where women and children could thrive and become better versions of themselves and enjoy the freedoms that they do now. However Women want power not because they want to build society, not because they want to create a better world for men and children, but rather they want power for themselves. But like I said with power comes responsibilities and its the responsibility part that leaves an unsavory taste in the mouth of feminists because they only think about the benefits without preparing to be held accountable for the responsibilities that come with power. So now you have women become the major income earner and head of the house and yet complain about their man that sits at home all day taking care of the homefront. You have women wanting to be given top critical corporate positions and yet want maternity leave that will see them out of duty for months. You see women wanting to head government but want the position to be offered to them on a platter rather than contesting like men do for it.
Men have done an excellent job at shielding women from the harsh realities of life and bearing the brunt alone. However time has come for men to let go, and allow women hold the reins and bear the weight and see what's its really like to truly be in charge. It's only then can both genders truly appreciate that we are not the same and that we need each other to play our different roles in order to survive as a species.

The truth is people are beginning to see feminists for what they are. I pity women because they are creating a world where men see women as their competitors and equals, men no longer want to care about women, before a man will give up his seat to help a lady but these days very few men will. The problem with wanting to be the same as men is you have to fend for yourself in the cold like a man does. No longer men protecting women, or giving the easy tasks to women. women are now being forced to become accountable for their actions. No longer women getting the easy way out for offences that would see men suffer harder consequences .Before it was men shouldn't hit women, because women were seen as weak and vulnerable now it is no human should hit another human because feminism claims women are as strong as men. Patriarchy protected women while men did all the hard work of building society while women maintained it.. however believe it or not feminism will protect men and force men to do something that they have never done since man existed and that put themselves and their wellbeing first before that of women. Women asked for equality and equality they shall have.

Finally a thread for the godfather..

we have been sending different kinds of information in frequencies into space for a while, to see if anyone is out there...one day someone might pick up the phone...when the US created a new military branch--United States Space Force to focus on extraterrestrial warfare and space defence, I knew they must have a very strong reason. Something is coming guys

Funny holding men responsible when only women can determine if they want to have a baby or not irrespective of the man's desires.

While not use secret and vault apps to hide these apps that you know could get you in trouble.

What happens when you mistake a stray for a queen...

If you want a high value man, always know that he is very likely to cheat because he has options. If you want a faithful guy, marry an average guy with Less resources.

Sincerely he would have taken the offer... Get the 5 states first. Any other tribe that wants to join will indicate interest on their own. Most igbos prefer a country with just 5 states only ... Landlocked or not, they don't really care. Taking the offer would have saved a lot of lives that have been lost

They should split up... No need for violence

mastermaestro:
This one is strong.

Very strong

As we grow older, We become our parents with similar decision making and thought processes. Men should strive to be good husbands and women, good wives. Good husbands and wives are always good parents. Your marriage relationship with each other should take precedence over everything else including your children. When the heart is whole, the body is whole.
If you had a rough childhood or unpleasant growing experience, seek counselling. Don't go into marriage with unresolved personal issues.

Most men will cheat, more likely to as you go higher up the social ladder and levels of influence. Fight it or Accept it, make your peace and move on.

1. If she won't submit to your leadership and authority, don't bother getting married to her.
2. Your marriage relationship with each other takes precedence over everything else including the kids.

Only 700k you want to kill yasef, people are owing 20 million and yet they are still flexing life. You know you can actually stop any loan app from sending messages to your friends and family by using a cease and desist. Even forefit to pay them if they do it and possibly sue them for compensation. It depends on how strong ur heart is. Also when using a loan app, use a phone where you don't have saved contacts. Always ensure you have tangible repayment plans when taking loans, it's evil to take loans and not pay when due.

FG has swallowed a bone that will hook them in their throat. Banning twitter was a stupid move now they will eat their vomit either by choice or by force.

The same AG that banned cryptocurrency is still trading crypto on the side. Banned twitter and was using VPN to login...