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God pls even in my next life let me never be a woman. See as she de accuse am and even calling his employers to sack him painting herself a Saint not knowing she is a fraud herself. These people and 1D reasoning sef.

Problem no de finish

That's why I tell men, if u must cheat get a second wife or hire an escort. Never have a mistress. All this talk of women leaving their husband for omugwo is nothing new.. All women do it even the one her husband treated as a queen because women are wired to go gravitate towards greener pastures and there is nothing you can do about it. Than to prepare yourself for the inevitable. Ask yourself why women married to billionaires and multimillionaires dont abandon their husbands to live permanently with their married kids? Because they know that even in old age the man is still very attractive to millions of gold digging babes who are younger, more beautiful and will do almost anything to have a child for the man. Once she starts doing anyhow, just get yourself a younger damsel as a second wife, who will take care of you very well in old age. Our forefathers knew this, and they lived long and died happily fulfilled men. If you like treat your wife like Queen Elizabeth, when you are old and dried up with nothing else to offer and it's time to dump you she will do it in a heartbeat if she sees another option for a softer lifestyle with her kids. Moral of the story... Money is a defense, in all you are getting, acquire the funds. A wealthy man can never be lonely even at the point of death in Old age

Compulsory military service for 4 years after secondary school, on completion they can either continue in the military or law enforcement or chase any passions they might have, make everybody go learn discipline, responsibility, leadership, common sense and how to protect themselves. Trust me insecurity, unemployment and abuse of power will be a thing of the past.

What do u expect from a president with falsified results

She doesn't need a relationship what she needs is a therapist or shrink. If you re not one pls stick to friendzone and move on. It's not every damsel in distress that you will run to rescue. Point her in the direction of a professional and save ur mental health.

Stupidity

With all their technology these super power countries could not implant self destruct capabilities in their artillery knowing it could fall into enemy hands someday.

This matter is a simple one... Let one governor declare that any wandering cow grazing in the open should be killed and roasted by anyone who sees it and see if herdsmen won't avoid that state like hot oil. I trust somebody like wike to enact this.

BRATISLAVA:
Is the man an embassy? Let's not avoid the question. How is organization suddenly equated to a man in love with a woman? Once a man does such transactions with his supposed wife, he must get the result of transactions.

Next, is the man certain he's not responsible for paternity fraud?

In as much as men sleep with people they aren't married to,, there's nothing so terrible about paternity fraud. Men have children with other women all the time, and the world is yet to end.

This is just an emotional topic for men. It isn't about heirs, because people adopt children and make them heirs. This is another male ego thing.

All men should do paternity tests on all the children of their exes and address the man on man fraud that's been going on.

Women are naturally polyandrous. Even if you do the test, the next one treated as a transaction will deliver dividends of transaction.

Maybe if this was the 19th century, what you are saying would have held sway, however we live in the 21st century. Where we have birth control of different kinds both conventional and unconventional in even the remotest of locations. There is no baby that is born in this time without the mother wanting the child to be born and there is nothing a man can do about it, nature has made it so. This is not an emotional topic, at least not for men but one borne out of necessity and reason. Personally I don't care if a woman is polyandrous or wants to get pregnant for different men. It's her choice and she has every right to do what she wants,however I as a man also have a choice and a right to ensure that kids she said are mine are actually mine. Which is a logical and reasonable approach given the different circumstances we have continued to witness. Facing the other men is of no consequence as unless she was forced the woman first made a choice to sleep with them, chose to get pregnant with their seed, chose to birth the baby, and lastly she made a choice to lie about the father of the child yet it is the man she slept with that should be blamed and held responsible. Perhaps it is also the same man that is guilty of lying to me and telling me that the child that was born is mine only because I am of favourable standing than the man who got her pregnant. Most men would never want their kids to be raised under another man's roof, and most men would always prefer raising kids that belong to them biologically than raising kids that are not.. The primary biological purpose for a man on earth is to progenate, and for a woman it's to Birth his kids. Back in the days, there used to be a saying "only a woman knows the father of her child" , but thanks to science a man can find out too if he is the father and I absolutely encourage all men to protect themselves from such situations by verifying the origins to avoid severe pains and anguish later. This discussion is not about female enlightenment neither is it about playing the gender blame game , this is about protecting men from crude deception, long suffering and ultimately a sad death. Peace

BRATISLAVA:
Is the man an embassy?

If every man is to be tested for all the children of his exes, it will become obvious that men are their own enemy. And if made a requirement before marriage or having children, it would be interesting to see men comply or remain single. If men got pregnant we would hear a lot of dirty stories and fear them. Somewhere the real father is hiding and acting like a saint.

If you don't trust someone enough to get married and have children with them, why bother when it's a transaction of insecurity? Be ready for transactions to always fail.

If the embassies thought trust and word of mouth alone was enough verifiable proof then they won't bother to request for dna tests. Why should a man stake the future of his geneology on the words of a woman that a child is his especially when there are strange and unanswered circumstances that surround the birth of the child?
If organisations that have no blood ties or vested interest in the welfare of the child or family request these results and it is made available without stress, argument or bad blood why should it be a problem when the said man who is expected to bear to major brunt of providing and catering for the welfare of the child till adulthood and independence requests for the same document? Children are not developed in the factory( at least not all) , they are made by the conjugal relations of men and women. So saying men are their own enemy doesn't change the reality that men are being deceived to raise kids that do not belong to them. And the only way a man can protect himself from falling into such circumstances is by either not getting anyone pregnant and hence having no offspring to propagate his genes or carrying out a dna test to verify if the said kids are his. Anything aside this such a man has left his genealogy to chance and should be ready for deep despair and grief should the choice be unfavourable.

TWLifestyle:
this sound like a great idea the problem is men have decided they are the only ones that have a right to adultery - so naturally wonen would lie to cover up adultery . This problem of using your money to raise kids that are not your own would be reduced if we could have more honest conversations

Men are not the ones preventing these women from committing adultery as in most cases the act is committed by a man and a woman. The issue at hand is why lie about the origin of a pregnancy ? Like the woman is satisfied, and sleeps well at night watching a man believe the child is biologically his and the child also believes the man is the father, watching the family live a lie all their lives and she's OK with it. A man cannot father a child outside and make another woman believe the the child belongs to her. He won't even bring the child home without her consent. Why can't these women extend this same decorum to men? Like you said we should have more honest conversations...

TWLifestyle:
looooooooooooooooooooooooooooool - funny how you people get all in ur emotions when you discover women too can be naturally polygamous . So funny

There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be polygamous and father kids by different men, however why commit paternity fraud? Why lie to a man about the origins of a child that is not his and make him commit emotionally, financially, spiritually etc to the upbringing of the child? Why not just tell a man, look this pregnancy is not yours and allow him to decide on supporting you in raising the child on his own free will?

BRATISLAVA:
And you are certain you aren't the cause of another man's pains out there?

Too many men acting like saints.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to verify the origins of one's supposed offspring. Only a little minded person or guilty party will look at wanting a DNA test as casting aspersions on the integrity of the mother of the child. If organisations and embassies can request for these test results and we provide them willingly how much more the very man to which these kids are supposed to propagate his genes and possibly inherit his wealth

For me it's Compulsory DNA tests after childbirth or no kids at all.

Una like plenty complications.. Show me any organisation on earth that doesn't have one major leader, even where companies re owned by 2 persons with equal shares. One person is the CEO but when it comes to men and women in a family unit.. You want to change the narrative. A family can only have one leader, either the man or woman. One person controls the direction and tempo of the house every other person falls in line. You people talk as if you didn't grow up in a family. Christ can be the Head of a family but a human being must create it and lead it. Make una de use una head to reason.

jesusjnr2020:
Some women who God has used to greater effect as Smith Wigglesworth's wife actually questioned their husband when he had strayed from the faith and began to demand things of her that were not of God.

She told him that he was her husband but that Jesus was her Lord!

That was the saving grace of the husband as he was hence restored back to the faith, and would never play with his wife afterwards. That's probably why we hardly have women of such such spiritual calibre these days, because they have made their husbands to take the place of God as the Lord and Master of their lives, hence God cannot use them for much because He cannot share His position with any man.

Moreover, the wife of Abraham questioned her husband concerning Hagar and her son Ishmael, that it was said to have grieved Abraham much, but God told him to hearken to his wife's voice.

Genesis 21:12 (KJV)

And God said unto Abraham, Let it not be grievous in thy sight because of the lad, and because of thy bondwoman; in all that Sarah hath said unto thee, hearken unto her voice; for in Isaac shall thy seed be called.

So you can actually see that even though it's what men love to hear, this saying of a woman not questioning her husband and being demonic is not of God but of men.

God bless

Sarah was just exhibiting a trait ingrained in the DNA of most female folk and that is never taking responsibility for their actions and finding ways to blame men for their own misdeeds. Sarah pushed Hagar on Abraham.. She orchestrated the whole thing but the moment she had a child of her own, she realised Hagar was now disposable and saw Hagars son as a threat to her own child . And so she began to nag Abraham until God had to ask Abraham to send the slave away for the sake of peace. When she was begging Abraham to sleep with Hagar she was referring to Hagar as her maid but when she no longer needed her, she remembered that hagar was a bond woman. I always tell men never listen to a woman even if it's ur mother or wife when they ask you to do something unethical or something your spirit doesn't support no matter how much they nag, stand your ground because they will blame you for that same thing when it no longer serves their purpose. It's like they suddenly develop memory loss on their culpability but surprisingly only remember the part you played and point accusing fingers at you.

laudate:
Nobody is saying you cannot marry from your tribe. What we are saying is that those who marry within their tribe, are not better or worse off than those who marry outside their tribe. So no one should dissuade those who wish to marry outside their tribe.

I always tell people, that it is not about the tribe you marry from, but about the kind of family you marry from, and also the character of the person you are getting married to, as well as the emotional bond or connection that you both share.

If a child is asked what tribe he belongs to, he is free to provide the answer he desires, as long as he understands his unique identity. Besides, what is wrong with a child claiming both ethnic groups which his parents belong to? Is it a crime or an offence? Most times, children would claim their paternal heritage, as our society is structured along patrilineal lines.

As for the prophets of old, please tell me where Moses' wife came from? Was she an Israelite? Queen Esther who saved her people, married a king who was not from Israel. Even the lineage of our Lord Jesus had Ruth included in it. Ruth was a Moabite, who married into the Hebrew family of Elimelech and Naomi. Please go through the Bible and check the lineage of the prominent families in it.

What the patriarchs preached against was marrying other tribes that were involved in idolatry. Today, there are Christians from different ethnic groups who believe in the redemption work of our Lord Jesus. Do you still believe such people should not get married because they hail from different tribes, despite the fact that they share the same faith?

Truer words have never been spoken.

I wonder how these people cannot see that secondus n wike re not working together.. Very smart strategy I must say.

AMR

She's probably in love with soccer so much that she's Hoeing her way through the players and coaching crew as a true fan of the game..

Sadly its turn by turn..

For guys... If you get married.. Don't cheat.....if you must cheat...don't get a mistress or side chic..Get a second wife or an escort

No govt will support secession... Those that did it successfully did it by force

He 4 just buy crypto

nice

I. I. I. I. I. ... Me. Me. Me. Me. Me.... Marriage is not for kids. The vows you take on ur wedding day never say anything about happiness. If you want to be happy, stay single or a single parent. Marriage cannot make you happy.

I have always said that if Nigeria can be divided, it will be be done by SW. They will be the ones to give us biafra. But this one wey dem don hold Sunday wife...

Very sad indeed

She has two hands and two legs... She should hustle and workout her salvation. The earlier men realise that women are capable of taking care of themselves the better. No need risking our lives and stressing ourselves to be a Knight trying to rescue a damsel in distress. The damsels can rescue themselves.