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Guys the best gift you can give to ur kids is a good woman.. Avoid slay Queens and karashikas... E get why..

Watch how the leftists will start quoting bible to say the man is the Head... The man must fend for his family bla bla bla... But thanks to feminism, a man will no longer slaving for another human being with 2 working hands and 2 working legs.

The way I see it...
50% bills = 50% house chores
80% bills = 20% house chores
20% bills = 80% house chores
0% bills =100% house chores
Anything outside this is a scam

At topic, the man that is bearing all this load what is he gaining from being married to her at the end of the day? He might as well have a babymama and still spend less. It's either she contributes to the house upkeep substantially or she quits her job to become a full time house wife.

These re probably Chinese lecturers from the Confucius Institute in Unizik

E red

Like I always say to men... Don't cheat on ur wife. However, if you must cheat, get a second wife or hire an escort. Never ever go for a side chick. Congrats to the second wife..

Feminism will be the best thing that has happened to men if men can stop deriving their self worth from slaving away their lives in the name of providing and protecting.

Sometimes it looks like this life wasn't designed for men to benefit anything at all.... See matters arising.

Hintona:
Oga wants to cash out like illegendd

Very insensitive comment... If it was a save a woman project I am sure you won't leave this kind of remark.

Common sense is not common.. Oga if you can't cook tell your wife to cook in bulk on weekends so that you can take it out and warm during the week.

Only 8hrs...they are even lucky that the flight wasn't outrightly cancelled and they are asked to reschedule for the next day like Dana Air does.

Op you should have discussed all these with your wife during courtship. Now you haff enter one chance. People are funny, you knew you wanted to be intimate with a woman who is well versed in the acts of the other room and instead of going for a girl like that to marry, you went for a virgin (The irony) ....now you are risking your life and your family's wellbeing to cheat. Wake up man. In life there is always a price to pay for everything we do, like an opportunity cost. You want a virgin woman who's religious, Respectful and a homemaker, the price is a frigid wife in the bedroom. Now you have decided to play outside, the cost is you will get injured.

Interesting

A woman who knows what she wants can decide to be a second wife. Not every woman can deal with having to be solely responsible for meeting a man's needs both intimate and otherwise and be the sole recipient of a man's attention all the time. So she can decide she would rather become a second wife in order to have time to focus more on herself.

Say whatever about trump, he walks his talk.

See how you guys are just suffering yasefs. Goan buy a big booty life size sex doll and use it to satisfy yasef whenever you like. Infact after a while you forget you have a wife in the first place.

Lol... You want to man to commit his time, resources and energy and hustle for you, provide and support you, give you a roof and make sure you are comfortable, risk his life to protect you in the face of danger, help with chores etc, You want a man to forsake the numerous women of the world and be loyal to you and the very thing that gives the man joy you deny him based on sentiments that you are not in the mood. After he has kept his own end, he still has to beg and cajole you to do your part. The same thing he can get for free elsewhere if he decides to give in to the whims of his mood. How about men start telling their wives that they are not in the mood the next time she needs him to perform his role as a husband. Let men just pay bills and start doing things based on how they are feeling and only do what they are in the mood to do and see how many women will enjoy the marriage.

You must marry

Lol

But the northerners already have North East Development Commission or something like that that was meant to serve as a northern version of NDDC which they created after they claimed they have started seeing oil. Unless the claimed oil discovered is a fluke and not in commercial quantities, I see no reason they will want to be joined with the Southern dominant NDDC. It could also be a ploy to take over the operations of NDDC and turn it to a northern affair as they did with NNPC. However all these will not matter in the next 10 to 20 years. Oil is on its retirement lap. The world has moved to renewables and green energy. Soon we will have to drink our oil.

well if you feel your wife has relegated you to the background and gives the kids more attention, it's only natural for her to do so because that's how women are wired, some women are able to create a balance but not all are able to so successfully. If you want to tip the odds in your favour, focus all your love and attention on the kids and spend most of your time with them. Help with homework, bathing and dressing them up for school, taking them to games, getting them gifts etc. Reduce the attention on your wife and focus on the kids. You will discover she will begin to draw closer to you but will find it difficult to complain about your little attention for her, because she sees you are giving everything to the kids. When she begins to get very vocal about it, that's when you can decide to negotiate your attention requirements.

Men don suffer

This church matter has ended countless relationships. The funny thing is not until I left Nigeria I realised how stupid people can be, to give up a chance at spending a life with someone they are in love with not because of differences in religion but differences in denominations.

Because women are more brilliant than men on average, secondly boys are under pressure to secure the bag too early these days that they channel their attention to many endeavours instead of focusing on education. However the problem this creates is that in future, we would have a high number of well educated women and a lower number of equally well educated men for them to marry. A lot of these women will be forced to settle for the lower class uneducated men... Judging from the hypergamous nature of the average black woman... Most would rather stay single or become a second wife or baby mama to the few more successful men on the same level or higher..

Sue all of them alofrates... 100m is even small

You don't have money... Goan get rich and see if she won't be the one making advances

Instead we are running around devising ways of sleeping with other mens wives and girlfriends

It's like women are born with an innate desire to expose their bodies

you cant make this up

Lol... You see this women, if a woman did the same thing, she will be hailed as someone who is speaking her truth, and is protecting herself.....Even the tonto dike herself is guilty of sharing recorded information online to spite someone. But when a man does his own... He's not a man, he is childish, he did kiss and tell, he is heartless ....yada yada yada... What manipulative women desire the most is to get a desired outcome that paints them as a victim and when a man provides real irrefutable evidence to counter the claims, evidence that shows who the woman really is in secret, it drives them mad. I keep telling guys, most girls in Nigeria are mentally unstable and what they need is therapy and not a relationship. Guys should avoid women like this, you are not a trained therapist.

Seriously a lot of girls in Nigeria need therapy....not a new relationship.

It's a good thing that DNA test can be conducted without the knowledge and paticipation of the woman. And women fear it so much because its an undeniable proof of her philandering actions and failed attempt at paternity fraud. No criminal likes what will expose them so their attitude to it should be expected. The focus however should be how to make the tests affordable and easily accessible to all and sundry. Whether women like it or not is of no consequence.