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IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?

Dpharmacist:
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Kingsmeal:
😂 😂 😂 😂 No be by changing Ministry of Defence, hand go soon touch you 😂

You've been President since 1982, years before I was born.

Yankee101:
Definitely
The people voted but it was rigged
They get frustrated

Bobloco:
https://dailytrust.com/army-commander-asks-disloyal-soldiers-to-leave-as-coup-spreads-across-africa/

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKUy-CN7Qx8

politicoNG:
FACT-CHECK: Did Chicago State University Delete 1979 Yearbook From Its Website To Protect Tinubu?



https://thewhistler.ng/fact-check-did-chicago-state-university-delete-1979-yearbook-from-its-website-to-protect-tinubu/

FreeStuffsNG:
Customs Intercepts N550m Tramadol At Lagos Port, Rejects $54,300 Bribe From Importer
Written by Yusuf Babalola



https://leadership.ng/customs-intercepts-n550m-tramadol-at-lagos-port-rejects-54300-bribe-from-importer/

beekind:
I am in my mid 30s, very comfortable and a dual citizen of Nigeria and a first world country.
I decided to relocate back to Nigeria because of starting a family and having my own children.
Since arriving the country and based on my experiences so far, my plans have changed.

I decided to first focus on having children as I found out that the Nigerian society has become almost worse than the west in terms of sexual debauchery.
People have sex for indomine, girls commit abortion without remorse, the worst thing is that no one here uses protection and by the time your average Nigerian girl reaches 30 years old, she has aborted 4 times, slept with almost 100 men and contacted several stds in the process.

What this means is that disciplined men like me are left with these category of girls, worst still is that they come very entitled and empty and can even ruin you with their lifestyle as they are usually impossible to reform.

Solution:
I had to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluated my plan, I have an ex-girlfriend (29 years old) whom I am very close with. She fits the bill in terms of who I want as a life partner but she is a single mother.
So I gave her a choice.

Have 2 children for me, those 2 children will automatically become dual citizens and I might consider marrying you and adopting your child but even if I don't marry you, your 2 children that you have by me will be taken care of and being dual citizens of a developed country they can turn to a blessing for you and your whole family in future.

Now, let me explain, I still love this lady and my decision was premised on how uncertain I am of what my choice will be in the future as such I wanted to be very open from the beginning, but even at this point, I can not guarantee I will marry her but I could depending on what happens in future.

She's going to give me a feedback later and I am quite positive she will take the offer.

If it were you faced with this option, what would you do ?

Versitee:
I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.

Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.

Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.

I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.

She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.

My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.

I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left .
Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.


I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.

The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".

Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.

I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.

I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)

My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.


To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.


It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.

I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.

Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.

Don't confront your husband yet first set them up differently then together, you can contact professional for the procedure or talk to women agencies they can help you.
Listen and listen good confrontation is when you have literally buried the person so they have no defence at all it's winning psychologically first before physical engagement.
Any form of confrontation aside this is stupidity.
Finally don't abuse your womanhood but use it to your advantage.

jaeyking:
What you don't know doesn't kill you

But since you know, run your STI test and you could file for a divorce if you are not comfortable.

It's quite simple or more easier to say

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Most Nigerian parents focus more on their children's education but ignore their children's moral behavior. E.g Greetings, respect, good manners etc. I'm really disappointed in some children these days.

JaredH:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/8/family-members-arrested-in-anambra-for-forcefully-taking-underage-children-of-a-widow-after-accusing-her-of-killing-her-husband-2.html

Odewaleadesoye:
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Angelfrost:
Op, you've spoken well... But, I hate to disagree with you...

Employability can not and should never be restricted to those points of yours. Honestly, it doesn't even make sense.

Determining a person's employability or suitability for any role solely by appearances or how well-written his resume simply points to erroneously and unprofessionally judging books by their covers.

If you remove these superficial and unprofessional prejudices and test them starting with written exams, followed by verbal interviews of those who pass, you would be shocked that the highest-scoring won't even be the ones with the finest packaging.

Odewaleadesoye:
No, I didn't call 590 candidates.
Just few were contacted after considering some things.

ManirBK:
https://thenationonlineng.net/tinubu-sets-3-year-economic-revival-50million-jobs-target/

fergie001:
Previous Threads:
Tinubu Swore In Serving NYSC Member, Hannatu Musawa As Minister

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NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7ZJvMssDf8



https://twitter.com/shehu_mahdi/status/1695283312820912448?t=xzdioZwQY5xe0BbtRVcRaw&s=19[/quote]No name?

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

ochejoseph:
Those in the lab trying to manufacture 9 technicalities should stop wasting their time Tinubu should prepare to vacate the seat he is illegally occupying

Westerhoffe:
He was overjoyed… let him be.


Nobody should quote me o!…that's not my handwriting.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://www.thecable.ng/adelabu-to-nigerians-expect-stable-power-supply-between-six-months-and-a-year/amp

Islie:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/617577-nigerians-spend-over-half-of-their-earnings-on-food-worst-globally-report.html

Islie:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/617577-nigerians-spend-over-half-of-their-earnings-on-food-worst-globally-report.html

FreeStuffsNG:
Tribunal Sacks Lagos LP Rep Sowunmi, Declares APC’s Ogunyemi Winner

The tribunal agreed with the petitioner that the candidate of the Labour Party was not qualified to contest the elections.

explanation pls?
Shouldn't be a pre-election fracas or how was he cleared by inec?






https://www.channelstv.com/2023/08/24/tribunal-sacks-lagos-lp-rep-sowunmi-declares-apcs-ogunyemi-winner/

Goodlady:
There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bake should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?

I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhoea!

Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blv he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. Always asking if I v eaten, slept as if I m barbie. What broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.

I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

Relixy2k:
This number 093011467 called me with claim that she is from First bank that I have an interview for a Receptionist role with email Adeola.Abass@firstbanknigeria.com and copied adeolu.adebari@firstbanknigeria.com and also omowole.p.orimoloye@firstbanknigeria.com. They use real first bank domain address and official signatures. However, the address is 35 kakawa street lagos island as against the real 35 marina road, lagos island which is the genuine address of First bank in marina. They sent a well addressed mail to me for front desk office role. Name on true caller for 093011467 is ikechukwu. Kindly take note when you get invite from them.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/nigerias-unemployment-rate-falls-to-4-1/

Morbeta11:
https://www.channelstv.com/2023/08/21/ecowas-denies-influence-of-foreign-power-insists-on-independence/

Bullet01:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/08/21/nigeria-police-confirm-fake-warrant-was-used-arrest-traditional-religion-practitioner