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Totalitarianism:
What's the last price?

Lol.....

phemyhalaby:
My woman seems not to like me when i show her love.Whenever i bought gifts she just say,"thank you,"briskly,no gushing,no wowing.And then she starts misbehaving throughout the day.In the event that i needed to be intimate with her,she plays hard to get or even declines outrightly.
On the other hand,when ever i treat her bad,she doubles her regard for me,becomes more submissive and brings the intimacy unbeckoned to me,on a platter of gold.
I don't like to treat her bad as i observed it takes a toll on her physical and mental health but she seems to like/enjoy it anyway.
Even,when she thinks that am showing her love,she just deliberately initiate a fall-out or fight.Am just confused.
What can i do?

She may have some psychological issues deep in her persona.... She may have been hurt plenty times in the past, making her see bad behaviours as the real behavior while she sees nice gestures as a smoke screen..

Giver her what she wants...u don't have to be evil...but dont be mr nice guy.....nice guys finish last.....and Whenever u give her anything or do something nice.....don't try to take something from her in return that same day like sex, or anything...just keep a straight face like its nothing....perhaps over time...she will get used to ur niceness as a norm and appreciate it...

talk2hb1:
Yeah, Your Choice!
Just know you Christian have this unfound hatred for Muslims and Islam fuelled and catalysed by some individuals and groups identified as Muslims. Exaggerated and blowned out of proportion by Christian media house to suit their personal agenda, unfortunately most of you Christian take it as evidence without reasoning because your brain is emotionally clouded by hatred.

Hatred..?? ..u don't have point....u think u can wash another person's faith and expect ur own won't be tackled
.... Half of what u pple do to christians, u can't take it.....u would have killed shouting blasphemy.....

Ur Muslims brothers have been disturbing this nation for over 10years...u ddnt preach against them .....but ur problem is always Jesus being son of God, insulting another persons faith, insulting holy spirit, and the bible...but if someone now tackle u prophet and ur allah...u will start to cry hatred...

U don't like to hear that ur prophet is not a prophet..but u and brothers ur always tell christians that Jesus is not son of God.....well done...I can see how "good" u are ..

...look around u ..how many times has a Christian killed ur brothers because or something he said.....look at how many christians have been killed over nothing...u now have the effort to say Christians hate u.... guy u are just a hypocrite

talk2hb1:
All those are reports which to any reasonable and objectives individual will take it as facts.
You weren't there, were you?

Where u there in person when tinubu was sworn in...is this disaster happening in nigeria not enough proof...must u be there??

Where u there when u parents had sex...are u not proof....?? Guy Please stop talking like u have the IQ of a 4 year old...its nauseating...

talk2hb1:
Should I conclude that because you reason like this, all Christians judge based on emotion?
It will be highly unfair to every other Christian for me to judge every other Christian.

How u chose to reason is totally up to you....
Opinion is free....judge who u like...

mexioni:
Haba bros, you dey vex ooo

Me seff vex pass that guy... 1.5M

pafo:
No one is buying a Murano in 2024 for 3m bro.

..the guy is a learner

I remember just a couple of years back when murano used to go for 800k on nairaland ...The seller will even add one tokunbo gear for free to make the sale faster...

talk2hb1:
Do you have evidence for everything you stated above or just media facts, because obviously you just proved the @op right.

Evidence for world trade center bombing by Muslims....?? We're u born in 2017..??

Evidence for Abdul mutalab the unde wear bomber that the whole saw on national TV..??

Evidence for all the christians like Lydia, Teresa murdered on the street for preaching on Friday, christian teacher butchered in the class for touching Quran a student used to bring in expo to exam all, etc and all the churches burnt??

Oga.....he sef ddnt deny it naaaa..he said it's the bad Muslims among them that do such..

but u that want to form defender of the universe without knowing jack is asking for evidence......Evidence kii u there......

Ahmadusmanu:
Those people are Muslims who don't practice the teaching of Islam,

Islam is strongly against shading the blood of innocent,kidnap, corruption and all sorts of bad misconduct in the society.

u see ur hypocrisy?? So u know u have Muslims that don't do the right thing ..that go against ur Islamic teachings....?? But when some behave like that in the church too...u will pretend and use it to insult all christians.....saying all christians support gay and lesbians ....yet u see many Christians on nairaland speaking against it....

Ahmadusmanu:
But now, what are you going to say about the Christians supporting the genocide in Palestine, supporting Israel with military and financial aid? .and even sending Christian mercenaries to kill innocent civilians in the name of religion, even quoting biblical verses from the Bible about to justify their atrocities?.

it's the same thing u are doing here again....u know how to justify urself for supporting the killing of isrealites...but when some pple do same u start crying.......war is bad...everyone knows this....but it happens...no one should justify it....

But u Muslims know how to justify ur prophet for killing people to take their land but u know how to use twist the bible when u see same in the past when people still drag for land with war.....

See...u Muslims are funny....u will go about insulting christians....telling them Jesus is not the son of God...how will u be insulting pple religious text by comparing it with ur own..
If ur Quran says God has no children...that's ur Quran...leave another person's religion that came before urs out of it....

....how will u feel if someone tells u Mohammed is not a prophet of God... U will insult the holy spirit....u will insult their faith and their text...always saying urs is the truth.. and u expect not to get a dose of ur medicine

Well done...u are just a hypocrite

luminouz:
I said what I said. Women don't pay for shiit like that. Whatever else you feel, is up to you buddy!!!

Shior....so u can't take what I are dishing out..

U can fvck women electronically....but ur wife can't do same....

Ahmadusmanu:
I Spits.

U are a hypocrite....ur brothers do same here but u don't want same thing to be done to u...

Ur fellow brothers burn churches...kill Christians, forcefully kidnap christian girls and convert them for marriage, raping them

....ur brothers have been disturbing Nigeria for almost 10years now, trying to make the Islamic caliphate take over Nigeria from the northern side

. U are now here opening thread saying they are disturbing u.....it's like u want to be unfortunate this afternoon...

.....shame on u...abi it's not ur brothers that killed thousands of people in world trade center.....massacre pple in ondo church....
No be ur brother wear bomb under wear to kill 236 passengers inside place.....

Please use this energy to enlighten ur people..
Oh I forgot.....u can't do so.....u all see killing as a good thing because u want 72 virgins.....

nearline:
“Scientists say.” Good. But knowing how Big Pharma works this “cure” will never see the light of day. If it does it will be so expensive it will be made available only for the Elite. Plus CRISPR, while being very promising and apparently very effective, is still heavily controversial. These scientists should take it easy. Everyone seems to be chasing a Nobel prize nowadays.

I remember a Chinese scientist Jiankiui did this back in 2018, using the same CRISPR to editing the genome of growing babies for the same HIV wahala

... the whole research ethics body of the west came for his head....and he was jailed for 3years.....saying he can't just edit the human genome......that living biological systems and its bioprocess are on autopilot.....that what he did is tantamount to initiating mutation which can lead to anything bla bla bla.....

The west have a way of supporting whatever novel approach came from their scientists

.once it's from another race....they will start pulling ethics and all manner of technicalities...

Omalicious1:
The middlemen wouldn't reduce the price...

It is not even middle men that's the problem now..this intervention of the CBN is just medicine application after death.....
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The currency naira is not in a good position for importers...anything imported into this country at N1600 per dollar will be crazily expensive....

budaatum:
They might even check his eyesight too.

Yeah ..u are right....eye problems cause head ache too....

Obierika:
Maybe you should improve on your dressing so that your husband will find you more attractive

No wife can win when shes competing against pornographîc actors for a husband that is addicted to different types of screen whoress.....she's not the problem

Her husband that is looking for unrealistic lustful fantasy that only exist behind the screen is the problem...

budaatum:
It does not sound like you've been to see a doctor yet. Is that because you can read an MRI yourself?

The guy is a student...why do u think he can read an MRI himself??

Ima24004:
I've been having constant headaches for about three years counting. Some days it is severe to the point I can't look at devices or the TV, I also can't sleep without the headaches waking me up. And I get lots of migraines. I'm a student, and told my parents several times yet they don't take me seriously. Painkillers do not work anymore.
Four years ago when I was still in secondary school the headaches were occasional, now they're getting severe.
Would I need to get an MRI done? If yes, how much is it?

Why don't u just go to a hospital first and let the doctors check you to determine what u need ....no doctor in nigeria will order an MRI because of a head ache at first checkup...... they will first place u on strong pain killers, check ur BP and look out for heart issues cos it can cause headaches and other possible pointers ..... Head ache is like the body's go-to signal for virtually anything going wrong

Even private labs that just want ur money, I doubt they will just do an MRI at patient request without a referral from another doctor

luminouz:
Your question is not logically/realistically placed. Let me help you. You are looking at it emotionally.

now I'm not logical...lol..u have not heard women that that strip in front of men, send their nudes online??...a woman doesn't have to pay....as long as the man isn't fvcking her physically..they are just doing virtual/ electronic erotic things

luminouz:
So, your question should be, 'will you be comfortable if your wife uses toys in your presence?'

U are condescending and evasive...and to big to admit ..instead u are twisting like earthworm they pour salt on......I never asked u about toys...I asked if ur wife is seeing men online and sexually engaging them electronically......its the same men do with only fans...just that payment is involved with men..

dettolgel:
That your kids look like you does not necessarily mean that they are yours. They could be your brother's or uncle's or even your father's. So there could be other people in your family tree that could make kids that share resemblance with you. Just saying.

U like vawulence

luminouz:
Lol..to be candid I guess I am not seeing it from your perspective. I am seeing it from a fetish angle. He has no problem fûcking his wife right...or providing for his family? He has a fetish he needs once in awhile. What you can say that's not proper is if he spends so much time and money on Onlyfans that it affects his time and providing for his family.

I don't know if he has a problem fvcking his wife...the story did not say??

U have still not answered..... Will u be cool as u are expecting her to be cool if ur wife is striping in front of men online and paying them to make her cum?? It's just fetish??
As long as she's a "good wife"....??

luminouz:
Exactly my point!!!!

Women masturbate and we don't kill them do we?
That woman should let her husband have his fetish. So long he sleeps with her, take care of kids and all that. At least...he is not fucking some random ass woman outside. It's called compromise too

Did she complain of masturbation....what's are u even saying?? Will u take it if ur wife pays men online that make her cumm??

U don't know what is called compromise... U are just out of point and feel like throwing back what u saw

superintendents:
[/b]DNA is for those who don't want to be treated as they treat others.. [b]

Lol...care to explain what the above means...because I don't want to assume

CoronaVirusPro:
Do you spend on what you don’t need? I believe we talking about sexual pleasure here, and that makes it easy for me to conclude.

A man has a wife at home and spending on only fans? What do you feel he is trying to get in return?

In case u don't know..pple buy what they don't need...in fact, pple buy what kills them....

Its lack of discipline and addiction that makes someone have a wife and look for women online that hundreds of other men are sleeping with and pouring sperms on....

Maybe u need to be reminded that Pple that commit adultery have wife and some even have wives at home....... nothing is missing .. it's an indiscipline problem

superintendents:
I swear this shit would break long term peaceful families.. Is better to boycott this for your own sanity..

U are talking nonsense.....and it's nauseating

luminouz:
Nah!! You are the sentimental one here. Dude has absolutely nothing to apologize for. I'm sure the wife and Fleshlight too.

Nigga if u wañk ur dick and pay women online and ur wife says she's not cool with it....tell her to fvck off that she doesn't have point...

And if ur wife does same...I hope u'll be happy

CoronaVirusPro:
The man is buying sexual pleasure he cannot get at home. What else should he do? Other men would have married a second wife.

Buying sexual pleasure he can't get at home

.. he told u this ??
Or u just dived into conclusion??
Or that's the reason u persinally pay only fans women online so u automatically assume thats also the man's reason....

chiommy123:
I have no issues with DNA but if you want your wife to be faithful to you please be faithful to her as well

As usual......pretending women are only unfaithful because their husband is unfaithful...

luminouz:
So when women use dildos and toys, ain't they cheating on their partners, TECHNICALLY? shebi you wan form say you get talk ni..oya na..let's go there.

Family resources? He spent his own money and nowhere in the story was it told that he lacked in his duties.

WTF?

Ur argument is way off point....No person can be be comfortable with their partner sharing time and money with other people online or offline....nit even you......so i dont get what ur argument is about calling it his money....

Wateva u are doing that is affecting ur home and partner needs to be reviewed if u want the relationship to stand...weda its dildós or porn, or only fans.......that's what's called compromise in relationships....not blaming the other person....

CoronaVirusPro:
He does not find you attractive again and already addicted to the young and beautiful ones.

You will need to repackage and prove to him you still game.

Her husband is technically cheating with women online and wasting family resources but you are blaming the victim...ko proper naa.....

First it was iyaebe..

U sef don start ur own

EreluRoz:
Read very well and you'll see where I stated he insisted I give him and I did reluctantly. Everything will be over soon. Each time I want stop then I'll be remembering how the money always come at the right time and I will hold back, I admit this is greed on my part but I'll have to close eyes and end everything so that this guilt I feel inside will end

Madam.....u and I know there is nothing like u reluctantly gave him ur account number.....

Its like a man saying I reluctantly suck the boóbs and fvcked the girl....no be juju be that??

U wanted the money..u ddnt want him...and u still went ahead to collect his money... Iyaebe...na yahoo girl u be joor

If u truly want to refuse ...it's not hard like u are trying to portray

EreluRoz:
Maybe something is wrong with me because I've not been able to stop receiving money and gifts from him but since I've brought it out now, it's going to be a big step for me to overcome it.

I'll somehow miss his benevolence and I won't even lie about it.

Werey ..... ..iyaebe say "maybe something is wrong with me"... U are just a greedy

You are just codedly exploiting him under pretence that u ddnt ask him.....its not hard to refuse gift...if na shiit he give u, wont u refuse straight up

...did ur account number fly inside his fone without u giving him?? .u are now here giving us these fake stories ......

Yobo34:
Hello I’m confused, I want to know if it’s safe to change the transmission oil when the gearbox is hot that is after it’s been driven or when it’s cold.
Please help. This is for ES350.

Park the car today ...Don't start it until u Change the oil tomorrow...make e cool well well

Some technician even disengage the battery terminal and reconnect after pouring the oil..that it may require reprogramming if they don't disengage ...some don't....

Different technician with different experiences they've passed through...all is to prevent transmission damage they might have experienced previously or someone else experienced..