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She's okay






For now....

olajos10:
My girlfriend believes she isn't good enough for me and thinks I deserve someone better. She owns a fashion design business, which I support in every possible way to help her brand grow. Although I'm not financially stable at the moment, I provide moral support and contribute my skills as a graphic designer and photographer to promote her brand.

Recently, she suggested we take a break because she doesn't want to burden me anymore. She even mentioned that if I find someone better during the break, I should move on.

I confronted her to understand her reasons, especially since I've never complained about supporting her or feeling stressed. Her response was, "You don't have to, because I don't want to be callous."

I don't know what to do now.

Walk away now....u have been replaced...she's just trying to spare ur heart by not telling u straight up she has someone else.....

madridguy:
I see no reason why he will be running around if he has no skeleton in his cupboard.

Once multiple accusers come forward...weda na lie or na true ...even with no real evidence, like video....he can't escape jail..

better for him to run

Angelfrost:
Please, read my submission and explanation again... Don't rush. Read as slowly as your Brain can accommodate.

I don't have the energy for ridiculous and mindless arguments.

Thank you.

Insulting me wont make u comment more than what it is.....

ZUBY77:
When the time comes, you will know

The time is already here.....kids currently access pórn sites with existing laws that it's meant for 18 years old....

Biodun556:
NNPC adjusts pump price nation wide

That's 580naira on the board u posted..and ....NNPC has always sold for 580naira ever since..

Really... what are u trying to do ??

U pple should post significant improvement so we can praise the President and his team...all this nonsense is irritating...

Inyaky:
But they allow minors to change their sex which have more psychological effects on them as they get older

That florida mayor is every intentional about minor welfare....

He has also banned gender-change medical surgery and puberty blocking injections for minors

alabo1:
No Additional verification such as adding Social security number etc will be required.

No additional verification?? So what's the essence of the bill if social media platforms have no responsibility in the matter....

Is it just to throw parents in jail??

Angelfrost:
America is a free country...! They wouldn't have taken this course of action, if they didn't see it as advantageous.

Are you demanding that they do the work of parenting as well?!! Lol.

Even DStv has parental control functions... So do most phones and Internet services.

That's what smart and godly parenting should be about.

I think you are mixing up issues here.

Sigh....when the government pass law that alcohol is meant for 21 and older..... is it implemented at parental level only??

....the distributors of alcohol also ensure under 21 years old dont access alcohol from their platforms..

But u now want to pull America is a free country card when I reminded u kids have been accessing pórn freely even though 18+ law exist.. are u sure u are not the one mixing things up..??

Belurved1:
America is a well organised country, it will definitely work.

Organized?? U are over estimating them...
Why can kids access pórn sites meant for 18 year old....

Angelfrost:
They have a near perfect system of keeping records of citizens born in their country.

That's why they can't have age cheats in sports like you have in your corrupt nation.

Near perfect system?? Why has it not been implemented since...abi that's not how kids have been access pórn by just clicking "yes I'm 18"

Arabk25:
Lol you they forget no be Nigeria o nah for US so if they sign the bill it will be implemented.
No be my country way no get data to checkmate all this things

The same US wey G-boys dey exploit their weak controls anyhow

.... No dey over estimate these pple.... Na inside action sci-fi movie Dem dey form over-efficient

I'm curious...how will it be implemented.....will pple now use their birth certificate or birth registration number to create an account....

Abi it's the usual nonsense "confirm you are age 15 and above to continue"...

papalsayer:
...

No number,
How much....
U mention N6,500 somewhere
U mention N45,000 another place

Which one is it.??

Chigozirim19:
I lost my internship yesterday due to no electricity in my area. I was given a task to do on react.js and was ask to push to GitHub and deploy the app, the deadline was 11:59pm I was already done by 7pm but as soon as I am about to push to GitHub after fixing the bug and everything, the NEPA size the light I waited till 11:30pm just to push my code still they didn't bring it, all my research and everything became a wasted effort. Am heart broken 💔 right now😭 what have we done to deserve this (Nigerian's), it's like if you're a Nigerian you are destined to suffer. Our own government can't give us the citizens 24 hours electricity, its like you hustling to become somebody in future, the country is pulling you down, I hate this country right now.😡😡😡😭😭😭

U were done by 7pm? Only thing remaining is to push your code?
I don't get ....why will u leave the odds of ur success in the hands of NEPA when u knew the deadline was 11:59pm same day??

As in ..NEPA wey everybody knows say na werey....??

Guy stop blaming NEPA for u own fvck up...

I wanted to say ur story is fake...but I've seen someone do something crazier than this...

FRANCISTOWN:
Some men are of the opinion that if you've created a bond with the kid , and the kid loves you so much.

Like I said...kids will be fine after a couple of weeks of indomie and chivita ....and i can create another bond with my own kid...haven't u heard of patents that lose their kid...??

FRANCISTOWN:
As long as you've paid the woman's bride price and the kid calls you father. Even if the biological father shows up. You should not let go of the kid. What do you think about this?

I should not let go of the kid......?? this is fvnny....
Even if the real father doesn't come.....both the kid and the mother should find their way out..

Klass99:
I don die 🤣, you made me laugh. Why on earth will I have PTSD over something that's coming back to bite you guys in the ass?

On the contrary I like the repercussions of that statement, I like how that statement plays out in the reality of paternity fraud but you all can't see it and I like how my analysis of it has you and your logical gender brothers worked up.

You better start offering advanced DNA services to your brothers when the foetus is in the womb o, before all of you quench from shock and awe.

PTSD ke, me that I am enjoying the wailing.

All u are doing is trying to blame men for u woman's infidelity and paternity fraud..

Paternity fraud is a one person's decision.. the woman's..... but it's fine if u want to blame the men that she consensually committed adultery with..

wateva rocks ur boat....I'm not surprised
.I've heard a prostitute blame her decision to sell her body on men for not giving her money for free when she ask...

Madam....when it happens to ur son and wife ...(because its very common these days)....make sure u blame ur son.... and also pull out this ur polygamous nature card ....

Maxwellokeke:
I contacted a lecturer in the school who gave me the link which I used in applying.
He gave me this after sending him a cold email
He said if the school gives me admission then he will supervise with me.

Did u guys actually discuss a specific research work..as in..did he properly interview u for a specific project?? If not......To me ooooo.....The lecturer was just trying to avoid being harsh.

..he ddnt really have the intentions of supervising you....because It's the lecturer or Prof that usually makes the school accept u and invest funding on you...which may be funding he has direct control over like from a external grant he won or funds from the school research purse allocated to each department

FRANCISTOWN:
Let's say there is a written agreement or a document that proves the biological father revoking his paternity rights to you. What would you do?

Who cares what written agreement the werey and the adulterous woman entered into....I dont give a flying fvck....

If I want to adopt a kid .....I know where the orphanage is......I'm definitely not adopting the kid born out of my woman's infidelity....

which kind of juju be that??

Klass99:
Oh my my my..........have I said anything that is untrue? Are you people (polygamous by nature men) not the cause and creators of this problem?

Male logic 606: Men are polygamous by nature (forgive the repition of the phrase, I kind of like it because it reminds me of the music group naughty by nature) they can not eat one soup for life.

I am simply flipping that male logic so you all can see what the other side looks like. It is okay to shout from the roof tops and tell women that you are polygamous by nature, but the moment you are at the receiving end of that male logic and nature of yours, you start wailing again.

You people have been blaming us since the garden of Eden, I wasn't even blaming you guys o, just stating the obvious or should I say making a statement of fact.

U are not flipping logic....U are just talking like u have PTSD over that statement "men are polygamous"

What has some guy's claim are being polygamous in nature got to do with a woman's decision to commit paternity fraud.....?? They are completely unrelated matters u are desperately trying to to jusxtapose

Maxwellokeke:
Dear all,
I applied for PhD Computer System Engineering in New Zealand. My application was declined. Reason being that I don't have the necessary requirements for program.
I have my bachelor's degree in Computer Engineering
Masters in Computer and Control Engineering.

They went further to say that I can try other options.
Pp lease I need advise on how to move ahead in this matter.
Thank you as espect to get advice from you.

Is it a general pool application ( an application u just applied for online and submitted ur credential for a non existent or existent school funded research )....i.e no research proposal ..no discussion with any researcher


Or u proposed ur own novel research idea and designed a proposal submitted to a specific lecturer or prof .??

FRANCISTOWN:
What about the psychology effects it may have on the kids?

Kids go dey alright after a couple of days of indomie, meat pie and chivita......

Klass99:
Another DNA/Paternity thread?

As in ....Madaaaam, Adultery or fvcking around is one thing........Deciding to pin Mr A's baby on Mr B is a whole different thin entirely and beast mode level of witchcraft...

how u women blame everyone except urself for ur own sins is not clear to me....

Man ....u need to connect me with your dealer

Government should l officially cancel marriage . everyone can fvck who they want since no one wants to be sexually disciplined these days...... it's a one stone kill two birds parole by the way.... cos LGBT pple won't cry anymore no one is allowing them marry each other ..





Men's name should no longer be on birth certificate since no one knows who the real father is these days .....thanks to women that just fvck whoever they want and dump the baby on who can pay rent and bills....





Oh..B4 I forget....kids should officially carry their mother's surname too since the only sure parent is the mother.....(that's why they tell you to call only ur your mother's name when you want to pray for yourself invoking your parents name...)



If we can official change gender ....they should just let us just change race and collect citizenship anywhere ( but the hypocrisy of the west too much)

Coolsat:
They really look like him.

I don't see any resemblance apart from being black


These days...women just marry whoever is ready for marriage and keep fvcking the ex they really wanted....

# no lose guard...

freeborn02:
Because a Nigerian University gives you a 2.1. doesn't mean you are better academically than Someone that has a Pass.

If that is too difficult for you to grasp, it must mean you have a subsistent covenant with stupidity.

University give them 2:1? Wateva rocks ur boat man...........i know u will soon say pple that have first class and 2:1 are just lucky cos . or they all bribed lecturers ..... but u got ur own 1.28 CGPA with integrity....in fact u were more serious than them..hahahahah

Baba...don't raise ur kids with this mentality..

Make no mistake....Everyone is brilliant...some pple just don't pay the price for excellence even though they could have.
And yes....some pple pay the price in college, some do so after college.....thats why some do well irrespective of grade after graduation...

But I know u can't understand this.... good luck man

Procashtips:
Wrong answer.

These 2 do not qualify as reasons called "Helps meet"

Then u don't know how the average modern Nigerian babe thinks.....

ovieigho:
Did she go in as a virgin ?

Is she expecting the school to restore her long lost virginity

Now that's an angle to look at it from...

Procashtips:
An average man spends most of his lifetime taking care of his Wife, daughter, mother and sometimes his sisters till death.

Most men don't get spent on by anyone after 18-22yrs max.

Some men by that age have started working to spend on his Mother, Sisters, girlfriend and later includes wife and daughter(s).

I am asking again, Nigerian women - what do you understand as helps meet?

Sex and birthing

muyico:
Some of my ex bought me singlet.pam sandal clothes materials

She even try......if all these modern women don sleep with you ...she don consider am greatest favour.....



U go come dey hear....."and I suffer for that man oooo"

Chigozie321:
The husband was in an Audit firm while the lady is a top oil company Oga.

Top oil company OGa....Oga u dey cap...