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Godoverevery:
Guy be serious jare.

No dey use me catch cruise......honestly the thing driving me crazy.

.nor be cruise ....na the angle u decide to view my comment from dey make am look like cruise...
See guy....telling u she doesn't need u and doesnt want ur son's life after saying u have a son is a subtle power move.....It's suppose drive u crazy .....

If she comes with dragging u, and demanding for money..she will look desperate, and in need....and u will counter her like before....this move the best way to get u running after her after u technically denied her when u thought she wanted to extort you...

That's why I said...give her time ...shebi she nor answer....na she go ring u later...

linearity:
I doubt if it is a format.

When the guy was not serious when she told him about the pregnancy about a year ago, according to the OP, the lady did not trouble him again.

She went through the pregnancy and delivery on her own, anyone can imagine the emotional turmoil she went through.

Also, even after the delivery she did not contact the OP, it was the OP that initiated the contact and she had to let him know.

I think she is real and the OP showing interest now is making her relive the pains, emotions, turmoils, heartbreaks, etc and she has the right to go through those cycles of emotions.

My advise for the OP is not to give up, keep sending her message, make it a duty to be sending her message either twice a week or weekly, she will eventually open up.

Also discuss this with your fiancée that, there is a possibility that you may be the father of baby but you have not done the DNA test yet.

I do not think this is the right time to do a DNA test, normalize relationship with your alleged child first.

They had a fling.....is she supposed to drag him to be part of the child before he was born...besides the nigga shenked her thinking she wanted to extort him when she told him about being pregnant...

So I don't get...she doesn't want him, doesn't want him to have his son or be part of his life, didn't even give the boy ops name.....so what's the point of telling him he has a son??

Godoverevery:
Person wey carry belle 9 month and taking care of a baby close to a year all by her self can't play such format.

Even the boy birth certificate nah her papa name dey there which means they don't give a Bleep about me.

Anyway your input noted just that it came out very immature with the razz talk.

Lol....them no give ur child ur name...but them tell u say u get son?? This is fvnny......

Okay oooo....na me dey immature...but wey dey chook ur penis any where without condom l, u mature well well abi?? She tell u say she pregnant..u ignore am say she wan extort you..but na me dey immature...lol ....

she just wants is to let u know u have a son somewhere.??......but doesn't need u and doesnt want u to be part of his life...?? Lol...


na format to make u pursue her ..because demanding anything from you will look desperate....if she truly doesn't want anything from u, she go block u....u wont be able to message her at all
...ignore her for a while....na she go message u say u wicked ooo after all she told u ...get DNA testing once she gives u access ....and start being part of your for ur child's welfare if the child is urs.

Tell ur girlfriend the 411...if she wants to continue .... no wahala..
...if u wan go marry the first babe just because she born for u...na ur wahala be that......

You could get lucky to convert your visa

Transport For London is recruiting a good number of customer service persons..

Salary is a little over 30,000 £ ..... sponsorship is available....(not likely for those outside UK because there are several recruitment stages)

https://tfl.taleo.net/careersection/external/jobdetail.ftl?job=044474&tz=GMT%2B00%3A00&tzname=Europe%2FLondon


Online test is required after application... The test no too hard but e easy to fail sharpally...

.....u gats sabi simple maths like 2.6/5, 178 minus 69 or 180/24, or 3 raise to power 4, from head, but be fast about it....calculator cannot help you.
..if u try use calculator, Òtilor..cos u gats solve fast and arrange what u see in ascending order and in 10seconds...

You also gats know customer service work situational question...

Then finally ..ability to reason outside the box puzzle ...if u sabi play simple game...u go ace am sharpally...

Closing date: March 3rd

Good luck.

Animegirl:
A man will kiss you on your forehead, stroke your hair as you fall asleep together, hold your hand, and hug you from behind, and then tell you they weren't looking for anything serious and apologize for giving you the wrong impression.

I think this is wickedness.

You are the one overthinking the issue....he only treated u like a normal human being...and not some transaction he picked up at allen junction for short time....
. don't U think u are the are one assuming kissing u on the forehead, and hugging u from behind is being serious . . ..no let hollywood confuse u

Nigga looks like the àss licker femi adesina.....

Iceman2017:
When I asked her what I did wrong. She couldn't utter a world. She kept saying unrelated things. She has been looking for excuses and reasons to hold against me.

She's 25 while I'm at my 30's.

Icemañ..this pikin wey u dey drag is likely not ur own............even if her mama dey influence her.. her attitude did not in anyway show that u made the baby in her womb together..

Baba .... Face ur life ....get better and get rich...

Inflation dey touch everybody...if na truly ur baby which I strongly, strongly, strongly doubt........relax....Dem go go call u......my boss wife wey carry 4 children vex comot, claiming she will deprive him of seeing his children forever don come back dey ask for school fees and monthly upkeep......

Elinosweet143:
No body can love a child more than the mom regardless of how you see and perceive single mothers and for the man, if the kids are still minor pls let their mother handle them and you support them like a father should, splitting them is not away out. My opinion though

Nobody can love a child more than mom??

, but she left them because their father has financial challenges... Welldone.....

ItisWell22:
Some of us shaa get mind oh.

Even if na end time scriptures you wan dey fulfill, it shouldn’t be with a lady (friend, sister, online or offline) you know.

Try go over the distance.
Like across, across… 🥱

Why do u pple need to chance another woman husband...shebî una dey claim same toasters full everywhere .......even from far distance is not proper naaa...
.u go like make person come from far distance cime collect ur own ??

Evolutionism:
Just 50 Cars only? Mtcheeew you still inside Poverty.

As for me i can boast of over 1000+ of Brand New Cars today.

U too like vawulence

Flamemignon1...please come and carry your brother ooooo..... I know ur LGBTQ family will soon come and defend him that his sexual orientation is "having gay sex in offices"

hahahahahahaha...

Sangoamadioha1:
You and your weird comments. You just try to sound intelligent but you are quite dull. Below is the interpretation of the verse you quoted

U are just wasting precious time and data.. That person u are mentioning is not normal....she has serious mental problems....and I don't mean it as an insult

Dollyak:
I am not sure why your post was pushed to the front page without screening your previous post. Your response calling someone stupid shows you need personal visitation from God yourself. Your verbal abuse detract from your message and does more harm than good.

..sometimes it is needed to point out pple's stupidity when they are deliberately trying to be stúpid..... Silence is why some ple think they have monopoly of violence killing ple whenever they like...

SIONKPO1:
Keep being an hypocrite dude,i wish you well

You don't know what hypocrite means

Qatar2022:
They do get married but to idiots, those men that marry them are not complete

This is too much violence for one thread....

Nicepoker:
"My aunt with 3 kids got married to a widower". That should be the caption.

U too like vawulence

ppogba:
Your first statement is correct but for the second, it is not a must that the DL must align with the vehicle's papers.

I never said it must align with vehicle papers..
Na u dey assume wetin you like....

SIONKPO1:
So if your Sister or Daughter become a Single Mother,you will discourage single guys from marrying them?

I don answer this question before ....na u be hypocrite...so u dey feel say everybody go be like you ...

Why will I tell my fellow man to do what I can never do..... See guy ..I not dey pretend oooo...

If the guy ask me just as the OP is asking us...I go clear am on the disadvantage of marrying a single mother which far outweighs any advantage......if he wants to go head that's his wahala......see...I clear the babe wey wan marry my brother when we meet say my brother dey vex like volcano... so she go need patience of she wan marry my bro.....

See there is no advantage a man wants to get from a single mother that he can't get from a single girl with no kids....but there are peculiar issues that comes with marrying a single mother...any guy that wants to enter such marriage should know about them and not enter blind..... Take it or leave it...

DamnnNiggarr:
Is there any amended law(s) that granted the police force that power?

Oga .....
Police can ask for your license under the random stop and search policy as a means of identifying yourself and to link you to the ownership of the car...... u could be driving a stolen vehicle.....

Jesubaby:
Abeg, let me come and be going jor 🚶🚶🚶🚶. Is it not one of those irresponsible men that made her to be a single mother today? Maybe because she refused abortion or some other illegal reason he might be imposing on her. Whose lady wish to be a single mother on earth if not for one stupid animal man she fell in love with?
Guy, go ahead and marry your woman jor if you find her genuine.

Lol....u guys are good at playing victims..it's pathetic....

Prostîtution: men did not give me job...

Murder: a man made me angry...

Hook up: a man tempted me with 100k.

Paternity fraud: my husband offended me and made me do it.....what of the man that slept with me...it's two to tango abi ?? I didn't have choice cos can't tell my husband I cheated him..... My husband should have asked if the baby is his own .it's not my fault he assumed
....
Single mother: a man deceived me and ran away and I am good good girl that will never abort like those other useless girls out there

SIONKPO1:
The babe you think you wan marry what makes you think she hasn't been married before or have kids before

Are u deliberately trying to be weird or u just feel like saying nonsense...

So to you.....theres no way a guy can be sure hers marrying a single woman with no kids...?? Are u reading the nonsense u are typing??

SIONKPO1:
I ain't been two sided,I believe you will empty your account to marry Beyonce.

Nigga u have a weird taste in women...

Why the fvck will I want to marry someone's wife...woman wey don born

SIONKPO1:
And I believe you get Sisters and Daughters.
Stop Discrimation against single mothers

Na Fake solidarity u dey do.........when ur son brings single mother of two kids to marry ...then we will know if u dey discriminate or not...

Dey there dey disguise because u wan impress ur babe on nairaland.....me I nor dey pretend

FertilityH:
If men don't run and neglect dr part, that exactly why we have single mothers...


Is it fair

You misunderstood my post, What I am only saying is love, cajole, sweettalk, promises turned some women to single mothers

I didn't misunderstand ur post....I addressed a part of it where u are trying to make these single mothers victims...which u are still doing now....


..the reason why we have more single mothers is because you guys think "oga I'm pregnant" after casual sex..should automatically become aso ebi, wedding ring or automatic bankrolling .... U women will be pretending u don't know what u have with a man na just flings and casual relationship....like you are trying to call it sweet talks and promises.....

.both men and women have flings and casual relationship ...let's not pretend.....

and both genders walk away when we don't want to marry someone....men do it, women do it ......it's just that men don't get pregnant ...

..women even walk away and abort when they don't want anything to do with a guy...and the guy have no say..so why do you now want to drag him into responsibility of marriage or caring for you because u decided on your own to keep the baby?...is that fair too??

Why will u keep a baby of someone that doesn't want a life with u? It doesn't make sense to me...What happened to the abortion option ma....?? ...

searchlight:
If the guy is poor will the lady consider marrying him? Or don't you know that there are a lot of factors that make a man poor?

Lol....bad guy


Lots of factors....

Jeezuzpick:
Single mother get belle, decide say she no go abort.

How we for compare am with all these "hoe-low-shows" wey don abort tire?

So they are better that her because she kept her child?.

U no know anything ....so u no know say na after several abortion abortions most babes dey refuse to abort....when doctor tell them say if u do this one u fit no go born again...

Stay there make dem dey scam u say dem be good girl pass other babes becos them no commit abortion. ...hahahahhahhaha...

FertilityH:
Are you a Virgin?
If you are married, hope u married as a virgin if not get out

It's is not a crime weda u are virgin or not.... Trying to form victim for a sex u willingly had is nonsense..... If u chose to be a virgin....there's no war....it's ur decision...if u spread legs....face the consequences

SIONKPO1:
Guy,make I shock you,good number of ladies already have a child but staying with their granny.

Baba ....U nor get point....if u wan marry single mother with three kids go ahead.....

SIONKPO1:
If Na your sister or daughter get pikin at her youthful age,would you discourage single young men from marrying your daughter?

I don't want to marry a woman with another man's kids.......why will I advice a fellow to do what I cannot do..??

See ooo ...even single mother nor want make their own son marry a fellow single mother....

FertilityH:
If ladies say no sex, na war
if we allow sex and get pregnant

Be deceiving yourself and forming victim. ..which war are u talking about because u refused to spread ur own legs for who has not married you....

The fact is ...You women want to fvck and enjoy just like men outside marriage ... Embrace it and face the consequences of chose to have sex without protection or chose celibacy....all these pretence like u did men a favour by having sex and they fvcked u up is truck load of pathetic bullshît....war indeed

Decarbonisation:
How do you come to this conclusion? Because of a post you have concluded the guy has a good and kind spirit? Lol

Some of you are so gullible.

Person wey dey men...nor mind am....

See some of these guys wey dey this nairaland get women wey go "beat" them if them no post also these simping and "the boy is good" comment ....