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purples25:
No, not at all. The intent is to solve the matter. A case of proving a child's DNA is very delicate, should be taken seriously, and it is only fair that your future partner knows before deciding to tie the knot. If it was the other way around, you won't say that it's spoiling chances by letting the man know.

The man's family, the bride to be's family and the pregnant woman's family should be involved, or at least just the man's family and the pregnant woman's family. To put solid plans for DNA and whatever happens next in case, and prevent overreactions like this.

Shey now you see the whole arrangement as spoiling the man's chances? But if it's the woman hiding a dispute over a child because she wants to marry, it'll become a bad thing.

Lol u are u fvnny.....you are not the one to determine what is best for another couple or a woman u don't know....
Your own is to receive care from ur baby from the man u claim impregnated u after confirmation the baby is his.......if u want formality and no denial after promise...u go to court..only court has the power to enforce or compel......not demanding he tells everybody. ..i asked u before .what is everybody?? 20, 30, 40, people or just his new wife because u want to spoil his chances of marrying her..??

...U got pregnant to someone that doesn't want you....thats ur fault...intruding into a couple's union is wrong on every level when it's not like he is guilty of bigamy.....

Nothing is spoiling the man's chances here but her vindictive nature of the women borne out of the fact that she's not the one at the altar...

She could have gone to his house days before the wedding to discuss....but she chose the day of the wedding to cause issues...and it's not because discussion was not made....it's because she want to carry out 'if he doesn't marry me, nobody will marry him"

ademola2017:
We are not legally married

I predict....U will either fall in love with each other along the way as u cohabit, care and do things for each other... OR fall in love with someone else and split...

. That stupid thing called love has an annoying way of invading ur heart when u not even thinking of it......

purples25:
On your first paragraph, she would be wrong if all is settled yet she destroys things.

Paragraph two, okay, no proof yet, at least let there be a serious discussion on what happens after the baby is born, as per DNA test or whatever. And everyone must know, the bride to be, the family, it should be a public affair to be taken care of in it's entirety.

Lol...u are fvnny.....spoken like a fellow vindictive woman.... U want him to care for ur child.....u are still demanding he must announce to everyone how is that part of child care......what does everyone mean? Lol.....can u please explain what that requirement means??


Is that what will make him do as promised or u just feel that will spoil his chances of marrying another woman so he will come back and beg u....

purples25:
Eh she's bitter and all, no problem, but him sef no try. He should have tied up loose ends before wedding. That way, the woman won't have any right to destroy his wedding.

... ...loose end or no loose end...she will still s chose to be vindictive on the guys wedding day because it's not her on the altar....

U cant force a man to care for u pre-delivery ..no court can make him do so.....because there are chances the baby isn't even his own..... Even abroad.....child support payment only starts after the baby arrives..

Justkatty:
See from the context of promising one marriage, but on a condition of her getting pregnant first, or you want to tell me you've never heard 9f such condition before? .

Sorry ma..I have never heard such to be true before except from older men looking for male children or any child by fire....and u will see the proof from their many years of barren marriage ...any young woman that tell u she 100% believed a young man based on words only is lying...

Justkatty:
Of which I'll say it's never a good one, because most times it doesn't end well.

oh ..so u know it won't end well ba!! ...how come ur gender are pretending not to know...?? And hiding under being deceived .. Madam we are not kids... Saying a man promised to marry with just mouth and penis and u believe.. is the most stupíd thing I've ever heard... These women know it's 50/50... They just jump at with a tooth and nail mind set to scatter everything if it doesn't go as planned

Justkatty:
Now in the case of these ones here, we don't know if actually she got hooked up with a player ofcourse we know how some guys can have sugar-coated mouth, just to have a girl, we don't know if it's what happened to her

Sugar coated mouth?? .. so this is the card u want to play?? Please ma....can I use sugar coated mouth to tell u to go and rob a bank and give me the money....?? I know the answer is no... But I can use sugar coat tongue to make u spread legs abi.... Madam this is lying and dodging the responsibility of ur actions of choosing orgasmic pleasure instead of common sense.....we all want to fvck and enjoy..you women just don't want to be responsible for what comes after..that's why u lie u were deceived.....

Justkatty:
see ehhh most times I don't blame most girls when they go diabolical to hurt a man, we know the sex was something that was agreed by both, but now pregnancy has come in, what would have been the solution was for them to agree on how to take care of the coming baby,

Madam...U don't blame most girls doing evil to a man just because u choose to biasely pitch your tent with ur gender....nothing more......
do u women agree when u want to abort against the guy's will?? Once u don't want the baby....the guy doesn't have a say...u abort.
.but when u want the baby....the guy can't want opposite...he must want it with you .....okay dey play ....[/quote]

Justkatty:
instead of going to get married to someone else even before the baby has even come ,it is truly not fair.

So u are saying doesn't have right to do anything in his life. until the baby comes... Spoken like a woman.... .....lol...this is not even legal....Madam we are in the era of paternity fraud....it's common practice for men and women to fvck multiple partners..why would he put is life in hold over a baby that might not even be his

...plans for the baby can come before or after, depending on how sure the man thinks the baby is his......u cannot drag a man to do anything with you pre-delivery... No court in the world can can make him be responsible for anything until the baby arrives .....even abroad .. child support starts after baby is born....

purples25:
Serves him right. At least try to settle her. Nobody is forcing marriage on you but make proper arrangements for your child and let it be known to all especially the woman that you chose to marry that you now have a child. It should all be settled before you go off to marry someone else.

E pain am... she's just bitter and vindictive over spilled milk ...

Justkatty:
But you can come back for the child after years of eloping, make una dey try be human first, before passing conclusion.
Do you know if he promised her marriage?

Virtually Everyone wants to fvck and have fun...this is a fact in this modern times...another fact is..it's only fun with no long-term thoughts in mind...which happens both ways...many women also tell men they are not ready or never planned to be with a guy, aborting their baby....

.but u women always pretend like u were deceived...whenever u suddenly get pregnant but most of the time..the handwriting is clear ....a man isn't discussing marriage with you, a man isn't doing long term paroles with you ...but u are spreading legs and just expect casual sex to turn to "let's go to the altar".....permit me to use ur words ..u women should try and be human before assuming every sex must lead to the altar without any prior discussion

I am not saying it can't happen like that...I'm just just saying u guys should stop pretending like u are victims.....
any woman with the misfortune of unwanted pregnancy or accepted pregnancy but no marriage is the architect of that misfortune ....

U women should be serious with ur lives... u are the one that will miss period, the one that will get pregnant, carry the baby, feel all the pain and risk being abandoned...but somehow u pretend to leave the safe sex responsibility to the gender that can just walk away after orgasm without any post sex effect....okay oooo...make una dey play

Pat081:
So why can he use a condom 250 or 300 naira will have stop this nonsense

Weda u use condom or u nor use ....if woman wan carry belle for you ....you nor get choice..

She go either bring the one wey ur sperm do or the one another man sperm do tell u say maybe the condom burst and u nor know.....

Baba....Women own all the cards once u enter their pvssy.....

Gadafii:
but he impregnated her, the man is just stvpid

The person he thinks is wife material gan might be pregnant for another man like this sef

Well ..the one carrying thugs is definitely not wife material

Merry100:
Whether a lady is demanding money from her guy or not as long as she is having sex with him, it is still called premarital sex. If a man wants to demand sex he should simply get married, he can't be using someone else future wife especially when he knows within him that he is not interested in marrying her.

I'm tired madam....dialogue with u is hard....

Have a great night

Shior...
This gender is very weird....
Later they will lie they were deceived by men.

Merry100:
Prostitutes engage in sexual intercourse or other sex acts with different guys for money while girlfriend is a guy's regular female companion with whom he has a romantic or sexual relationship.

If a guy gives his gf money how is she a prostitute.

U have shifted goal post.... u have shifted to a guy giving his girl money...

U said girls demand for money becos they don't want to lose....And I said Any Girl that meets a guy or is in a relationship with such mind set has a prostituté mindset....

If ur boyfriend give u money...how's that's demanding?? U didn't ask so u can quickly collect and not lose......he gave u himself...

Please explain free sex??

Merry100:
I don't encourage prostitution, I only stated the obvious.

So as long as it is free sex it is okay.

What u have been describing is prostitution using other words.....only women with prostitute mentality think or say "I must gain money so let me quickly demand so I don't lose"

Free sex?? What is free sex?? I nor get that english....can u please explain ma.??


What is free sex?? I don't get that english....

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Kyase:
Because magpies flog shege comoth for your body no mean say dem go do the same to us

.flog??...I nor understand you
Me na Bayern fan

Kyase:
Find another thing talk abeg

E pain am ....

Kyase:
Shaw is back and we started playing well

AWB in

Until u meet Liverpool, Newcastle and ManCity

Merry100:
Why not read properly before commenting? It does not prevent the discard, it only ensures they gain something from the relationship.

They must gain something ??

Lol...how u don't seem to notice U are describing prostitution and how prostitutes think baffles me...

immortalcrown:
So, the money they collect in the relationship makes the relationship last forever?

You are even contradicting yourself. Your caption says the fear of being dumped is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. A paragraph in the post says emphasis on sex is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. Stand one place nah!

Olosho no dey always gree say she she be olosho...them go call am all manner of names just to make themselves feel better

DonroxyII:
What Gerrard was telling you is that the harmful effects of Juju on Human is too Fatal .....

Imagine the example you gave above could have been part of the materials being used to Invent Bullet Proofs Vest at advanced scientific or Technological Developments But a Foolish Man decided to Eat Up the same substance as Concoctions Or Incisions Now Tell Me how That Person wouldn't develop Cancer(Arun Jejere) at a Tender Age ...

Imagine someone drinking/Smoking Gun powder as a Means to Getting "High" & You inherently Developed Unnecessary Powerful fields within Your Organs putting much Pressures on Your Cardiovascular Health Then Heart attack is Close .....

There is also the issue with controls of Electromagnetic Forces Embedded in each Human use by Village People to recall their people .... That's also Juju but A Great Czar knows it's just a Manipulation of Your Electromagnetic Fields & If You Fail to Hearken unto their Codes of Instructions, You will Developed Psychological Disorder in no time !

Same with Bearer of Bad devilish news ... You can't just be listening & Investigating Horrors as a Daily Mission without shutting down in no time .....

There is too much evil human mind would be able to Withstand before shutting down(Death):

Human mind could Never-Ever have abundance of "Good" because That's what it's Created for But Only Sane Mind Enjoys Such Abundance!


Human is just apiece of Technologies !

My point is juju is unrefined science...and not magic...I never said it isn't harmful...something unrefined has potential to be harmful.....so what are u trying to interprete in the other guy's comment that I did not say nor imply...

And altogether.....Please what is ur point?? because I don't get u

Pepperdemisback:
Which work is he doing that he is perpetrating about? Was he created with Davido? Did you not read him broke shaming the lady about the amount in her account when he met her?

He's davido's logistics person...now u have jump to what he does....how someone work for davido..yet seeing him with davido is a problem...
By the way.... what's ur point??.....cos u are just all over the place with ur comment...

Veecruz:
Devil don vex ban me

Anyway Mathew 7:16 clearly shows that a cobra cannot give birth to a sheep as grapes do not come out of thorns.

Even The Holy Lord Jesus followed this Law for He was born by The Holy Spirit in conjunction with a Virgin lady CONSECRATED and PREPARED FOR THAT PURPOSE and not from an unholy/corrupted source from which all men come from.

So Trees are parents and fruits are children by virtue of Mathew 7:16

Now u have introduced the context of another verse into it......
U said u linked the scripture of "by their fruit u shall know them" with the Eden events...

But theirs nothing sexual about that verse u linked with genesis... That verse did not addressing fruit as product of sexual intercourse......do u get my earlier question now?

ItisWell22:
Read it twice!
Very dumb, to say the least.

God heal their marriage…

Mentioned u wrongly yesterday....mabinu

4KNGOATS:
Olosho addressing fellows I site you oo

You too like violence

Dtruthspeaker:
That is why I laid that one of the first Truths that led me to this place is the code "by their fruit ye shall know them. A good tree shall bear good fruit and the evil tree..."

Sigh....
Would u like to explain how u linked the scripture above with sex.....which also led u to conclude the fruit of Eden account is sex activity ...

.because the context where "by their fruit usually know them" isnt talking about sex and children...

immortalcrown:
Is it not better to take her to one of the special homes for the needy?

U mean there are homes where special needs people live and are cared for ..for free??
....who's running the show? Government or private individuals?

immortalcrown:
Please, what do you mean by a good home for her?

Any other person's home except the op's home

I'm not understanding......
U are a terrorist that make pple unsafe....yet u are harassing them for not paying you for protection...

How can you be causing insecurity and still be protecting??

Pepperdemisback:
How do you know they put all their family problem on him? Because he said so? Without Davido, who is this one broke shaming people? Before Davido, how much is in his own account?
If Davido drops him today, can he open his mouth to broke shame people?

When did I say they put all their family on him??
How is what I tell my guys same with this issue??

Whats ur point exactly??.what do u mean by before davido?? Everyone has before and after they started doing well or fairly well.... Someone was nothing before and got a job with Exxon Mobil...and u are trying to compare to to who he was before getting a job that pays

....u are sounding like davido is just giving him money to chop like a boy..... Davido is a brand, has a record label.....davido's music and brand is worth more than many company in this country....and DMW, this guy we are talking about works for that brand and the owner.....so why are u making trash the guy for earning a living....is he stealing...?? He has a job

ItisWell22:
Read it twice!
Very dumb, to say the least.

God heal their marriage…

I don't have to do anything u say.... Ur problem is that u think someone else have to see things the way u want.....
Keep ur hypocritical prayer away from my mention

Pepperdemisback:
What about marrying wretched men?

Same advice for women naaaa.....why will anyone marry parasitic family members

I tell my guys ..it's part of the peace of mind u will enjoy to marry from a fairly decent home .... Some pple are not that rich ...but they have shame and will not put all their family problems on the husband draining him like a parasite