₦airaland Forum

Evergreen12345:
Ned Nwoke m over to you

EriMma1:
You're missing the point and that is why a lot of you men have become so complacent and have refused to rise up to your duties as a man; expecting what a woman will bring to the table to feed you.

Go back to ancient landmarks our forefathers set.

Draslo:
In Paris of all places. The self acclaimed city of lovers. Bro there's so much they're not telling us

Saao:
most of the ladies in naija that unmarried that are over 30 years, either they decided not to marry or they are selecting or looking for guys with deep pockets. Most guys abroad don't value wife like us.

Saao:
those ladies that travel out single always struggle to marry. Its easy to marry in Naija than abroad.

HanisahZuwy:
Please, can you give me a name of one of such groups? You can mention me in a dead thread if you wouldn't want to say it here.

jeromestarks:
No demon born in hell or angel created in heaven can give you back your virginity.

You're wasted!
You're done.
You have missed your chance for a happy home.

No man will truly value you.
You will surely continue to regret your action.
Suicide is your best option now. It is finished for you.

Rest in peace dear sister.

SOLARPOWER1:
Thank you very much. But I don't understand what you mean by VIP 47 000 naira.

SOLARPOWER1:
Hello all, please I help with cost of priority work visa for a nurse with COS. I want the Biometrics to be at Abuja. What should I budget?

Banilla:
How many Nigerian men reside in Paris?

Did you skip the part I mentioned that different cultures make it harder for immigrants to find partners in the West?

Nigerian men abroad still come back to find wives (most)... And not because they wouldn't marry a foreign woman. Do you know how many men refuse to relocate their family abroad cause they are scared of their wives 'misbehaving'? One is bitterly complaing in the family section.

Nigerians do things differently, especially romance and marriage.

The desperate women are mostly under 25?

Like I said, it's mostly older, desperate women... if marriage were a do or die affair, every woman would easily find a man whether he's bald, poor, or has a pot belly. But these men usually get rejected, in favour of mister perfect. Only after a woman is tired of waiting does she go back to the dustbin to source for a husband.

Have you seen a young, beautiful woman complain about the lack of men? Unless she's posting it on Facebook or tiktok (then you know it's for clout)... The lack of rich, successful and handsome men; that's the issue.

Again, women have options. This same woman has turned down men in her past. You don't think so?

Yomi174:
Good evening everyone, please I want to change my Passport Date of Birth and I was told it's only done in Abuja. Does anyone here have any idea how to go about it.

koonleh:
Hello everyone,i have a sister this is interested in using this route to migrate as a caregiver .can you please tell me the course she need to undergo? and where to do it. i do not know if the courses are free.

also is there a page i can refer to with the most recent process

thank you all

Banilla:
Clout?

She's based in Paris... Finding a partner would be more difficult (different cultures).

But did you ever think, maybe she's going this to get attention?

You really believe she would pay a man to marry her?

panners007:
Is switching from an employer on health and care visa to another employer on health and care visa “ISC liable “ or “ISC exempt”
?

mojisolani:
Next time dont type in Capital letters, means you are shouting.

Totilopussylick:
Since 2015 till now, Desmond Elliot who has been in the house of assembly is soliciting for a vote for the same post he has been.

No be JuJu be that

Nonywendy:
Why do most girls see dating or relationship as poverty alleviation programe? If you are broke and need money why not look for work than relationship. Don't be a leeche

PrinceOfLagos:
Imagine the tragedy that occured this morning in Ikeja of Lagos between a BRT bus and Train .. the victims were taken to care emmegency centers and were dropped on the floor

This makes me wanna ask, why is health care system in Lagos so poor ?

Sanwo Olu failed woefully as governor and must not be returned for second term

officialJP:
I dated him and we had sex twice

And I latter realized that I love you and it you I want.


should I forgive her cause I love her, she's trying all means for things to work again but my mind keeps going to the past. what should i do I'm confused

panners007:
My company applied for an undefined COS ,I’m already in the UK switching employers ,how long does it take he applied on Tuesday 06/03/2023

Banilla:
We're talking about marriage... Not marriage with your ideal.

If a woman is desperate to get married, she can. Whether it's with the man she wants or not. Deciding to reject a hundred suitors in favour of her spec only means she has high standards. It's common sense

If we're talking about preference, many men settle for less too. If the op had options, he would easily find miss perfect instead of wailing here that she doesn't exist. Same goes for the redpillers commenting, "all women are bad"...

Banilla:
Now we are back to the beginning... Thank you for the time wasted.

This isn't a 'Women are beautiful' topic.

The op wrote, "The disadvantages of marrying a wife"... Didn't he? Then he included that his parents have been happily married for 50years, meaning he knows there are advantages of marriage too. So his entire write up is biased.

If you say, "All women are beautiful" then end it with "Some women are not beautiful", you've contradicted yourself. You're being dishonest.

Banilla:
You obviously don't know what it's like being a woman.

A woman in her youth gets approached a lot... You don't believe me? Change your gender to female for a week.

Those who settle for less are often older women desperate to get married.

Banilla:
I know you didn't say that. You mentioned thousands of people viewing the thread, I'm telling you that most of them weren't affected... You forgot what you wrote?

You don't even understand.

The average woman gets approached by a lot of men. That gives her options, to decide who to date or not. So if you decide to remain single, like the hundreds of thousands of priests and monks, no woman would care. No one would even notice. That's what you should remember.

The women who didn't marry early, do you know how many suitors they rejected? Even the most unattractive woman has a higher chance of finding someone.

Banilla:
That's an assumption.


Precisely. Don't ignore the white, show us both colours if you wanna be honest.

Banilla:
Lmao. If you think the op has changed the minds of a thousand, no a hundred men then you're a clown. Even the so-called aphas here are simps offline...

You said I'm a woman who carries marriage matter on her head... I'm telling you now that there are billions of men willing to settle down, you're not a great loss.

Or you don't agree that women have many options?

Banilla:
You have comprehension issues.

You didn't read this?