₦airaland Forum

Dailyparrot:
There has been an upsurge in the number of young Nigerians traveling to the UK for studies.

I'm sure most people here must have known one or two close friends that have left Nigeria to the UK in the last 2 years.

There's this girl I met at Lagos NYSC orientation camp during my service year. We became friends and have been in touch all this while. She is from my home state and her family house in the village is close to mine. She left Lagos to Port Harcourt after our service but I used to see her during Christmas whenever I travel to the East.

I checked her WhatsApp status recently and noticed the background of her photos didn't look like Nigeria. I asked her and she told me that she has left Nigeria to UK to do her masters.

I congratulated her and told her that I do assignments for people especially students in diaspora. She said okay that her cousin has been looking for who to assist her with her assignment. The cousin traveled together with her for the studies.

So, she gave my number to her cousin who got in touch with me. We reached an agreement and she sent part of the money so I can get started with the assignment. I billed her lower than what I would ordinary have billed her because of the relationship I have with the cousin.

Fast forward to few days later, this my friend chatted me up asking for her cut from the money her cousin paid me. I was more than shocked because I never saw it coming and I'm sure the cousin would be so disappointed if she gets to know that her cousin came to me to collect a kickback from the money she paid.

I told her that she didn't tell me it was a business for her so I could factor that in while billing her cousin.

She said she has two people who need help with their assignment. I told her that I will give her the commission from those new people since she's indicated that's what she wants.

But this girl has talked to me in a very condescending manner. I don't know if it's because she went to UK or what. I have known this girl for years but I never knew her to be like this.

Why are some girls this mean?

aisha1314:
Is it bad that I don't want to get married since I don't want children but I just want to live with a man as a long term partner?

Limaqueen98:
I seethis late

Chimama1:
Thank you all for your opinion, like i stated before every thing was explained. I spend like mad on my salary. I even gave my last job offerof employment and my previous and explain evrything that it is my accumulated savings , i also expalined i use the same account as expenses and my salary every amount including my salary was explained in details. This is my 5th renewal, i have n3ver had a refusal before. I am very sure it was a rushed work and documents were not looked into.

Chimama1:
I thought i posted it, please i am more considered a out the questions earlier if i should reapply immediately, will i be submitting previous bank statement and other receipts. Please regarding the refusal every documents and every single amount was explained in my bank explanation leter, i mean every single dime. And my zenith bank is my saving account, expenditure account and salary account. Everything was explained.

Chimama1:
Hi beautiful people, thank you for your previous opinions. I just go a refuse mail today and the reason doesnt hold water and i can clearly say my documents where not looked at or read. And i have no right to appeal or administrative review. I want to ask, if one reapply immediatlely can i use the same documents and the previous bank statement i submitted and the same utility bills of my host to reapply immediately?

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

AnonDude2004:
I swear. Sometimes I open my account to see unexplained debits, even aside from USSD and Card upkeep. Only small amounts, which is why I don't complain but it's getting too much.

Which bank would you switch to tho? Cos it seems all of them seem to be the same.

AnonDude2004:
Omo! That's bad o.

AnonDude2004:
I just noticed this now but it seems GTB deducts #50 for every credit transaction into my account. You'll probably say it's not much but it adds up and in this economy, #50 is something. I never noticed this before but now that I have, I want to ask if I'm the only one experiencing this.

Is this general to everyone? Are other banks better or worse?

PerfectStranger:
You females always sound like y’all don’t enjoy sexx. The sexx was mutually benefited by both parties.

So if he’s lost interest in the girl, it’s better he cuts things off now before it’s too late. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Flamemignon1:
Meh, it's Florida, it's always been that way so I wasn't surprised......they even put a transwoman in a men's prison so like I said...... wasn't surprised

hunee:
If possible, submit receipt for anything you purchase. Sometimes, i read things like[b] "it is not necessary to submit this and that"[/b]. People that even with complete documents and genuine reasons, they will still come up with one thing or the other.
Ecos want evidence. Do what you have to prove to them that you are a genuine visitor. Do not leave any document behind.

Flamemignon1:
Let's wait and see

FirsteBank:
Proof - rent receipt
Estimate - Substantial

farmboyy:
Nigeria can never match the madness in the West at all. In fact we can not make a pocket.

siraj1402:
Thought capital punishment has been abolished in the US?

Geminita1:
Sexists, tribal bigots, same shallow brain.
Are you so afraid of thinking that you have to genderise and tribalise every issue.

Or you don't trust your brain in processing and transmitting information that you just put everything in a box to appear smart.

Emperormartin:
Ok thanks bro...

But is this applicable here in Nigeria. I mean someone getting out on parole

Emperormartin:
Just a couple of days when US court convicted Nigerian notorious online scammer Ramon Abbas popularly known as Hushpuppi for 11years.

There were different accounts of how long he'll be staying in prison...

Some said it's 10yrs, others 9yrs. Some even said it's half of the years being convicted that US correctional center use 6 months instead of 1yr.

Can someone who knows how prison sentence is calculated educate us?

MuslimMuslim:
Who said I am a muslim?

MuslimMuslim:
Why?

MuslimMuslim:
Not 16 years older

cameroncucumber:
£6k is even cheap, I have seen £10k.
Some Nigerians are despicable, most of them have fraud running in their bloodline.
This attached image was sent to me from a WhatsApp group, you can imagine the wickedness of our fellow compatriots charging £16k for Caregiving job, how much is now the salary?