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babey543:
Congrats once more. Please kindly help with the agency that sponsored your sister.
I have previously asked but you are not responding. It is unfair to post success stories without helping others who need vital information. This is what Nairaland is for to help and assist each other and not oppressing the needy.

Its unfair?? Lol....Why are you trying to guilt-trip the person.?? They are within their rights to tell or not tell you anything..
..japaaa paroles are different oooo...trust me u dont want to hear some people's story cos u go think say na scam.....face your own oooo...luck will shine on you soon

Fasasiidris:
Please to the guru in the house! I want to upload my documents to the TLS website, I’m applying for health worker visa and my plan is that my wife which we just got married at the registry will come over by maybe January, I’m intending to go along with my mom’s last born which we both share the same surname, Initially she’s 12 but my aunt went to get another birth certificate indicating that she’s 9 but now am thinking what other documents can I use to back up that she’s my child.

Thanks

Your mum's last born?? I dont understand this tag.....Is that not your own brother ?? Is he not from your father??

Go with him as what?? What relationship are u trying to claim at the UK embassy?? U cant just carry anyone along like a luggage if they are not your spouse or direct child....

U falsified his date of birth?? Why?? Both 12 and 9 are minor age.. whats the essence?? If you u trying to claim he's your son, U do realize your name has to be on his birth certificate .......and u will need to get consent of who you listed as the mother on the birth certificate.....if any of your documentation has suspicious holes...u don enter one chance be that...

He's not too young to be asked question ooooo ....During biometrics, at least, they will ask him to face camera and state his name and age...if he reverts to true default that he has been used to......u dont enter gobé be that....

I'm not holy oooo...but oga... no use your hand spoil your japa plans ...if your parole is not air tight......u go chop ban wey long pass cocaine trafficker jail sentence..

Samantha123:
Well, anyway it's a normal thing to see a guy carrying condoms because we're already used to it being a guy's responsibility, which is wrong because we now live in the 21st century and we can't deny that women enjoy having sex too.

And another thing is that we're from different backgrounds, so opening a new topic would just be pointless because I have a feeling that they're just gonna give the same answer as you did because our cultures and beliefs are different.

I get where you're coming from with your explanations.

Oh i remeber you now....u are that non-nigerian girl from the other topic where women were feeling so entitled.....so where are from??

By the way...u never answered my question....do u go about with cońdoms??

Samantha123:
Can you be in a relationship or date a woman who's not interested in being in a relationship with you?

Look....u took my comment out of context...perhaps because its in pigin english...
And i explained it to you twice already....but u clearly dont follow dialogue word for word.....

Im going to indulge you one more time...

This was my statement "na we dey date you women" .......What i meant was its men that you date...not trees, not animals....but men....so its no brainer that we know girls dont go about with condoms...cos we are the ones u fvck....

...i have dated many girls..none carry condoms both male and female condoms .....if you want to prove me wrong.. open a new topic and ask guys to comment how many of the girls theyve dated that come to their place with condomś or keep a stash of condomś at own her place...

Samantha123:
No, you brought up the whole feminism talk when I tried to explain to you why it's important for women to carry condoms too.

So answer my question..

How is a woman carrying condoms in order to protect herself from STDs and unwanted pregnancy feminism

Im really getting tired....u are either not reading my comment or not following context....

Remember this comment??

"And no, you don't date us, but we date each other"....


..that was how u brought feminism into the dialogue...

Samantha123:
So how does a woman carrying condoms in order to protect herself from STDs and unwanted pregnancy feminism?

Jesus....did i tell you carrying condom was how u brought feminism into the dialogue??

...but i explained to u earlier how u brought feminism into this dialogue.... so why this weird question??.....are u doing selective reading??

Samantha123:
You're not answering my question.

What is your definition of the word feminism according to your understanding?

Like define to me the word feminism in accordance to your understanding.

Sigh!!!! Okay i'll indulge you....
Feminism is the promotion of the rights of women specifically on the grounds of the equality with men (or other genders as we have hundreds of genders today)


But i just explained it to you by going over my comment again and its not like u ddnt see it....

....are u a teacher?? U seem very demanding or permit me to say forceful... ..like u are used to bossing people around and asking them questions they must answer in a specific way that you want??

Samantha123:
And what is your definition of feminism? If I may ask.

You said...."And no, you don't date us, but we date each other"

U were trying to bring some equality into the narrative as if me saying "we are the ones that date you meant like i was belittling women"

Where as, i was just saying....its women that men date ..not animals, not trees...so we know you too well that you dont carry condoms around ....

Fake.....

Humans dont attract sex mate by pheromones like insects and other animals in the wild.. our cognitive functions/senses are well evolved...

They are just dabbing smelling vaginá fluid on their skin to create content for gullible viewers

Samantha123:
That one is a personal question and we're not talking about me here.

But if you must know, I do make sure that I keep female condoms in the house just in case they're needed because the last thing I want is a crying baby in my face or being a single mom.

And no, you don't date us, but we date each other. Being in a relationship is a mutual thing because you can't be in a relationship with someone who's not interested... It's also our responsibility to carry those condoms because if we get pregnant, the burden would be on us alone, we're the ones who have to carry the baby for 9 months, go into labour, and nurture the baby until it's an adult.

Sex is also a mutual thing.

Our schools here teach sex education as early as grade 6 in primary schools until the final grade in high school, so no one gets bashed for buying condoms, whether it's males or females.

Sigh....i only asked if you carry condomś to put a reality perspective into the dialogue...but u started stories of sex education and responsibility of a woman and also dragged feminism into it like i belittled u or somethin...


See ...if i offended u ...no vex... i only said we date u to emphasize on the fact that its men amd women date dates..so we know how u behave .....u dont carry condoms and all your conventional lectures about responsibility and logic, and what is obtainable wont change how women behave in relationships....and thats why abortion clinics sell alot.....

Stealthninja:
PS: I hope I don't get blocked by posting this. Anyways I got other accounts so....

Lol....
If you report a comment it will disappear from your timeline immediately.....but others can still see it...if you want to confirm...report someone's comment then log out ...u will see that the comment will still be there if you view as guest or with another account

Only mods can delete comment that everyone wont see it anymore

Samantha123:
As long as she's not married, I don't see anything wrong with her carrying condoms with her.

Firstly, the guy may not even be planning on marrying her because if he really did loved her, they would've sat down and talked about it upon finding out that she always carries condoms with her.

Secondly, if it happens that she got pregnant, it's possible that the guy could come up with stories of how he's not ready to be a father and ask her for an abortion.

And lastly, if she stops carrying those condoms, she may end up being a single mother while the guy will still go and get married to a lady that doesn't have any kids and starts bashing single mothers..

Answer truthfully..... Do u carry condomś?? If u are married ..do carry condoms around when u were single...??

U are just trying to sound logical..like its a norm for you women.....na we dey date you women...and the reality is that women dont carry condoms about.....u leave tgat responsibility to us...

the average nigerian woman pretends like she doesnt fvck because of slut-shamming by society... and thats why its hard for most of you to enter stores and boldly ask for condom let alone carry it around.

pretty1986:
Alright,but what of in a case where by the Main applicant the wife(a Nurse) and the dependent the husband have Joint Account,is it advisable for them to use such account statement to apply for Health and Care visa?

Does the account clearly show both names??

...yes... women should understand they need to protect themselves against STD and pregnancy ...so its not a bad idea to have condoms....
But In reality ... women just unconsciously leave that responsibility of buying and keeping condóms to guys.... most times, normal bases are too shy to even go to store to buy...

Take it or leave it....any woman, conscious enough to regularly buy condoms and keep inside bag where ever she goes, is to me 99% of the time an olosho or at least extremely sexually active

Worriedguy6699:
Explain pls

U dont need to buy a woman's attention to make her love you, loyal or stay....u juat probed it with your story...

Earlier u said my method will make a woman leave...my point is, its not your or any other method or skill that makes a woman stay .... a woman stays and remain loyal because she wants to be....not because of what you do or give her

Worriedguy6699:
Not sure what you mean by this. But this woman fought for my love before we started dating. I’ve had women toast me (very few in my life). But I’ve never had one fight this much to win my heart. It used to be uncomfortable at first but with time I learnt to love her.

I was actually more interested in her friend but her friend didn’t bulge. So this one took serious interest in me first time we meet. It was crazy.

This girl adored me without giving her a dime. She will always come my place when I need her, suck and fvck me to satisfactions.

It kind of scared me though. It’s kind of why I’m sympathetic towards her. I also never asked her out, she did. And I rejected. Told her it’s her friend I wanted. Well, things happened and I fell for her and relationship started.

Ofcourse I spoiled her once relationship started.

So what do you think? Was it about money?

Have you not validated my point with this story....??

donestk:
Facts:

Not every woman will get a husband, hence she may become mistress to your nice husband. That's her fate.

Its a safe bet that every married woman was once a side chic in the past.

1. Some mistresses give soothing relief to men. Makes them happy, provide companionship and sex.

2. They help shape decisions men make in their daily lives.

3. They resolve conflicts men face with their wives and family members.

Finally, not all side chics are toxic. In fact, some are the source of happiness to most men.

Dont justify bad behaviour.....
If your woman say multiple penis make happy now.. you go call am olosho...u think say na only men like enjoyment.....discipline is key to enjoying life

7buckz:
Lol no go de form brave with elder ooo....from what you typed the man na street.... Always use your head... So when you were collecting the phone of 152k you thought nothing will be attached as fa you are his daughter or mother?
Use your head!

Some women are just funny....somebody wey no be your family member give you 152k and u ddnt ask why........na that's them dey die anyhow....

PasD:
He delivered the phone with the receipt

Madam....dont take wrong advice ooooo...no go die because of phone ooo.....give him his phone back....dont be greedy.....

In which universe do people give 152k phone becos of nothing.......he's an old man...he knows you cant love him so he hoped to buy your love and affection with gifts.....return it to him and tell him you are not available....

No go die ooo....he can become vindictive... street boyz murder people for as cheap as 20k

Skankamola:
Who you blame if not his mumu followers

U are right anyway

Izzytechmedia:
Good morning bosses,I withdraw from ATM on Saturday 17/09/22 around 8pm, I was debited but was not able receive the cash at the cash, and up the now the Money have not been reverse back, the bank I am using is standard chartered bank and the ATM bank use for withdrawal was Polaris bank, this is the first time experiencing this, pls who have experience such should please share how he or she was able to resolve it, thanks

Go to standard chartered to complain....not-on-us transactions takes longer....so you will wait .....if you are lucky u will get your money reversed in a week.....some people have waited for like 1 month because if Polaris bank doesnt settle standard chartered....nothing for you

Arangee....he will go back to his church now and boast of how he has power

Worriedguy6699:
Your method. The one I quoted

The problem of men like u is that u feel women must be heavily paid, over pampered, for them love you or be loyal....that's not how it works...

Loyal women are just loyal...its a mentality ..and sometimes its discipline built over the years......so a woman either has it..or doesnt ..
its not what you did or what you are doing that makes a woman loyal....

..it has been proven over and over that women cheat on men that care for them with men that dont even give them nothing....

a woman that has been enjoying many penis before she met you wont suddenly become loyal becos you married her or give her money and many gifts...Nigga ....u cant buy a woman's affection, neither can u make a woman loyal becos you are extra nice to her...

.if you are lucky u will meet a woman with loyal mentality.. thats the essence of that method...so you dont lose out investing in the wrong one...

My principle is dont be wicked...be kind to your woman like u will be to every other human.....dont pay a woman monthly like a foól, or take loan to buy 700k phone or car....u will lose in the end...dont over trust, dont lose guard...meaning, look out for redflags even in marriage......if to you... this method means losing her ...so be it.....

Biglittlelois:
Not wife..... fiancee.

Yeah ...na fiance they turn wife..

Worriedguy6699:
But if she’s a great girlfriend you will lose her before you find out with this method.

Which method??

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe
After I don like your comment on this post, I decided to follow u too....the wealth of ur wisdom won't dry

Na God get wisdom ooo...man just dey borrow small megabyte from God oooo

Blessedmercy8:
No nau. Girls of nowadays dont like to sit in one place for long again.

U no lie jaré......one prìck no dey reach them ...if u like....drink alomo plus bullet and monekey tail.....them go must waka....

Blessedmercy8:
Congratulations to them . Hope the girl will not run away with a tall man tomorrow.

Lol....u like vawulence

stevogra:
Hello, is there a rule against having the required funds for family work visa application in the partner's bank account. We are all applying together.

There is no rule against having the required funds in the partner's bank account...its just a suggestion...i'll explain and i hope you get it.....

If you are all applying together...the money can be in either main apllicant's or partner/ spouse account as per husband and wife naaa..if all goes well..u will all get your visa ....amen....

But there is a reason people suggest that its best for the money to be in the main apllicant's account...the reason is ...incase something goes wrong...... which is not unheard of with UK visa applications

for example .....I saw a case once that the money was in the dependent's account..... the yeye ECO denied the husband and wife on the grounds that they couldnt prove their marriage or the marriage was an arrangeee (and it was)

Now .usually in this case...the main apllicant was supposed to get the visa while the spouse denied ........but because the spouse had the money in the account....it was concluded by the ECO that the husband wont have access to the funds in the uK since the ECO is trying to establish the marriage or civil partnership may not be real.........

Tunjibalogun:
You sounded like an infant. Just because his cousin is doing well then he could be into something illegitimate. You guys are jealous morons that's why u are both poor.

Infants dont talk man...look for another insult.......I never said the cousin is into something illegitimate...u cant even read...

.. i told him not to envy anybody and i made example with fake lives on social media .because someone that can envy his cousin in a bad way will envy outsiders....i even advised the guy to double up.....but u cant see that since have comprehemsion problem and assume what is not like a schizophrenic human being.....

geez!! How are people around you relating with you.....