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man, i wish i would meet a guy who tried to change me!  
i'm not saying i'm not open to self-improvement, but u know what i mean.
u can't just change someone to fit your   needs/standard.



it's crazy how some girls just CHANGE after the get into relationship. u never see them again at hair salon or in the mall. they don't hang out with friends.

if i'm not mistaken, voudon (which means spirit) originated from the dahomeans.

crazyman, ur reasoning makes sense.

quote by igwe:
if i like you   and asked for some undesirable qualities in you be changed as you would have done if you were in my shoes, and you argued about it, Nne, i'm out.

well. . . . . when u put it that way, it doesn't seem so bad, i guess.







the sensibilities of the igbo man. hahaha!

okay! i confess:  i have never walked into a shoe store without buying less than 5 pairs of shoes.  i know, it's crazy!

#2, i used almost half of my scholarship money when i was a freshman and bought $1200 worth of shoes and jewelry in one day.
please don't beat me.


have mercy. i. . . can't. . . help . . . . myself . . .  need. .   . . deliverance

never settle for a jealous man wth bad temper. it's not worth it

sexybabes, i understand ur concern. ur afraid this new guy may be like the old one becuz they are so similar. it's understandable.

i would say, try to concentrate on what is DIFFERENT about this new guy and not on what is similar.
let this new guy show u who HE is. let him lead u. don't put him on a comparison table. see him as brand new.

quote by Hoh-Dee:
« #22 on: Today at 08:57:15 AM »

i say again
Y shud u b hittin on a gurls @ a club when u nid a decent lady(y nat go vigil on friday nite,instead of takin ya stanky leg to a club),

true talk.

and yes, it was akata guy who called in radio station

quote by posakosa:
« #25 on: Today at 08:19:24 AM »


I love my body, I work hard at the gym and I flaunt it. I walk around naked in my apartment all the time,  

wheww, glad i'm not the only one!
i was beginning to think i'm weird.

someone still likes their ex!! 


don't worry, i still like mine. we're still best friends

no way

quote by Crazyman:
« #15 on: Yesterday at 08:12:10 PM »

I would definately monitor the way my girl dresses; because I can't picture myself going out with a girl that dresses like a LovePeddler. She definately has to put on something decent or I'm out.

crazyman, u don't understand the q.  here's what i'm saying, if she was dressing sexy when u met her and u liked it, why should she have to change now that she is ur gf??

 quote by theblessed:
« #3 on: Yesterday at 11:49:08 AM »

Yes, I accept the fact that the women agreed to marry him but under what condition Under duress! Yeah, POVERTY and HARDSHIP subdued these women thus, contributed to this.  For example, lack of food and health care, being widowed and left with a basket full of children to raise, lack of income, lack of skills, unemployment, abandonment and lack of general support from the state etc and many other examples of harsh realities of life led to this.  Thus, this guy obviously took advantage of it, ok!

i see what ur saying but, not all women in polygymous marriages are the stereotypical uneducated, desperate ones.
u have no idea who these women are.

quote by blessed
Except you, everyone knows, most women in the 3rd world end up in this kind of marriage because of the above circumstances and more.

u are stereotyping and using sweeping generalizations. MOST women in the 3rd world don't even "end up" like this.
u are viewing this with a western mentality. u have to see things they way they are seeing it.

3rd world? that is such an old, derogatory term. again, erase ur western mentality.

quote by theblessed]

In taking advantage of their circumstances, this man disrespected them for his own selfish gains.  He doesn't love them he just used them to make a point of how African women could be marginalised by their men (i.e. power) hence the media coverage.  Its also debatable if all the 4 women loves him I doubt!! It can not be and soon, the wind will blow and the chicken nyash would be seen as we get to read about it from the same MEDIA - Do not say I did not warn you hence, WATCH THIS SPACE!!!

And from this I  now know, that our culture is too bad.  A culture that still condone this kind of behaviour, is unfortunate!!

it's not unfortunate. it's just different. different does not always equal bad. maybe the women are perfectly FINE with this. the western culture is not the RIGHT culture. there is no RIGHT culture.
maybe the guy is very much attracted to each one of them and wanted them all. we don't know so we can't judge.   

quote by igwe:
« #8 on: Today at 02:56:27 PM »

@ Topic,
It depends, the guy could just be a heaven sent.
Dont judge the book by its cover.
Dalu. Smiley

so the guy sent by heaven can dictate his GFs attire?

vinegar makes ur hair super shiny and cleans dandruff. i sometime mix it in with my shampoo if i feel my scalp is dry or flaky.

it seems like guys can't stand the idea of their GF showing even her legs in public, esp. if she has nice legs. but she was exposing legs b4 the relationship.

finally, an interesting thread on this virgin topic!

quote by y me:
« #2 on: Yesterday at 10:38:38 AM »

what else am i suppose to say than thank him for making me a woman Tongue

womanhood aint about having sex.

LOL.

and nollywood actresses have completely worn out the belt on the waist trend.

she's probably just shy or insecure

ok, sophistated sexy. what do u think?

i heard this guy on the radio saying that he doesn't want his girlfriend (who he's been dating for just 2 weeks) to wear sexy clothes outside or go to clubs anymore. (even though he met her in a club!)dozens of women and some men called the radio station saying the guy is being stupid, overprotective, and jealous.

but, i've seen ladies LET THEMSELVES GO after they catch a BF (not a husband, just BF). why
i mean, if she was wearing sexy clothes when you met her, should she stop looking good just becuz she now has a bf?

guys, what do you think? ladies welcome too 

^^^ i think its expensive becos of the delicate lace. and it's real french lace.

hey salsera, you don't have to cut off sisterlocks. i know a couple of ladies who removed it with no problem. they just conditioned it like 6 days straight.

tpia u are 2 funny.

@ poster, i agree. even off the camera, nollywood stars look SUPER TACKY! genevieve is the only one who is up to par.
the rest, they just, i don't know. the short skirts sqeezing the fat scarred up thighs, the crazy lipstick colors, the froo froo hair, wrinkled blouses, need i go on

Swiss,
alicia, way toooo overrated

quote by lax89
« #23 on: Today at 05:43:23 PM »

@africhika

I was talking about real classy gals.

u OBVIOUSLY didn't read my post correctly.

traumatic.


sheltered.