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coogar: lmao @ this is africa
when the men treat you like african women should be treated, why do you then compare yourselves to women of the developed nations and start screaming marital abuse and infidelity?

I guess Ʊ av A̶̲̥̅̊ prob wit ur sight, if not, I wonder y Ʊ wud respond to my post when it was specifically meant for sisi_kills, wonder what type of person Ʊ are, in africa, we can someone like you amebo, aproko,
Abeg, make some people just keep quiet here jare, make I hear word.. Some believe NL is where they come to act scripts or something, dey say A̶̲̥̅̊ totally different thing from what they will do, haba, hypocrites.

Some peeps make it look as if marital abuse and infidelity do not happen in developed nations, abegi, which part of the developed nation do Ʊ live sef,

Proud to be an african woman and love being dat

The mentality and manner of expression of lazy, irresponsible and poor men dey different sha, dey complain about everything, haba, can see so many of dem on dis forum

@op, if Ʊ marry A̶̲̥̅̊ man with A̶̲̥̅̊ poor mans' mentality, huh.

I laugh in yoruba while reading some of the responses here,pls let's b real. Like I always say, I will prefer to av 1000 broken relationships dan A̶̲̥̅̊ single broken marriage,it is really bad. First, I can't marry someone am not sexually attracted to, what, no electric current mere seeing him, haba I no fit, many divorces or extramarital affairs today ar as A̶̲̥̅̊ result of probs in se.x,take it or leave it.
Also,, at 30, yeah I understand,da pressure is dia, I know of A̶̲̥̅̊ lady whose dad told her that if she can't find A̶̲̥̅̊ hubby, maybe he shud talk to one of his friends to marry her, it can b dat bad but come to think of it,no one will live wit Ʊ,Ʊ will b in  marriage alone,so don't rush cos of ur age,pray for urs to come.
@sisi_kills, I stand to b corrected but I must tell Ʊ dat the moment A̶̲̥̅̊ man sees the qualities of A̶̲̥̅̊ wife he wants in Ʊ,he starts to see Ʊ as his responsibility. A̶̲̥̅̊ man who wants to marry Ʊ and Ʊ have never cooked for him once whether in his house or urs, everytime he says let's eat,Ʊ say let's go out and eat, what do Ʊ think the man would think,am I sure dis lady will make A̶̲̥̅̊ good wife, yet, we kknow wife is not just meant to b A̶̲̥̅̊ cook. Dia ar ways to test sense of responsibility in A̶̲̥̅̊ man/woman, while I was still dating my hubby, every month, he gives me A̶̲̥̅̊ certain amount of money to get anything for myself, ofcourse, he knows how much I collect as salry,he knows I don't even spend half of my salary in A̶̲̥̅̊ month but he showed me that while courting that he can provide for me in his own little way,dis is africa. And do Ʊ think I don't reciprocate too, I did, I made sure I got him boxers, singlet, powder etc, does things I know may easily skip his mind every month, dat is how I feel A̶̲̥̅̊ courtship, not boyfriend/girlfriend relationship should be..
@op, if Ʊ feel within ur heart that he may not b what Ʊ really want in A̶̲̥̅̊ man, pls let him go, urs will come o. God is never too late,just pray but pls bear in mind, dia is no perfect man outthere o, Ʊ make out the perfection in him.

Congrats ajiboma, welcome to d club officially, laughs

Ow did Ʊ know A̶̲̥̅̊ driver is not present? Ʊ don't need to format ur system just cos of driver, drivers are available online for download

Congrats maran, welcome to the world our beautiful baby

I voluntarily kneel for my husband whenever I wanna ask him something I know may be difficult to release, but he always object, he says he is not God, and he will not allow me say anything until I sit, that is what I call a man, a complete responsible christian husband,
I dont ee where it is stated in the bible that kneeling connotes obedience o,

Mendheart

I bought mine , almost 2 years ago at LG showroom, Bode Thomas, surulere, it' 5Kg and cost like #30,800.

Yes, I use it with geberatir. At first I was using it wit the small gen (I pass my neighbour), I use it with the big gen now(2.2KVA), power consumption is very low except when Ʊ are spinning the clothes

Women are possesive in nature, my mum was always complaining abt my brothers' wife cos he is the only son, btu we the ladies in the house were the ones that curbed that, we told her emphatically that she should allow our brother run his family, she faced a similar challenge with her MIL,( my grandma) and for that cycle to be broken, we had to stop her, now, they are cool, no more compalins, any complaints comes to us and we always lie to her that we do even worse to our hubbies, case closed. My MIL is authoritative, at first I took it personal and wud always complain to my hubby but later I discovered she does that even with her children, so what the heck, I had to accept her for whom she is, we all have our shortcomings, afterall, we dont live together and we only see once in a while.

Advise to DIL, accept them for whom they are and only make ur complaint known to ur hubby, dont confront ur MIL, she is old enough to be ur mum, no matter what she does, pretend it didnt hurt u, afterall, final decision is still urs and ur hubby. Like my hubby would say, we decide the way we run our homes no matter the advise or suggestions people bring, it is our home, there are ways to say NO to things without being confrontational.
Someone said MIL comes into dia room, in that case, what I will do whenever she is around is to always lock my hubby room when we are having private times, when she knocks, hubby will have to answer, let him be the one to face himm by going out to her, I wont leave the room myself.

I use this too, just in addition to what blank said, asides the fact that u have to set the sieve-like plastic well, the clothes must also be properly placed one at a time, if not, it may not work. At times, I feel it is spoilt until I rearrange the cloths, but it works well, prefer it to washing with ma hands, it is easier to operate and you can multitask while using it

I find it very disgusting when people ask for opinions and the next thing u see is email addresses or phone numbers of some scammers for biz ideas or eooks, smh

Which areas are u talking about, power supply in my area is nothing to talk about

Wetin ma eye dey read for nairaland self, space and privacy for marriage, the moment u say I do, dat one don go, except u wan say I no do again, I have my room but its trictly for my shoes and clothes, my room and the guest room are both for guests, except that the kind of guest will determine if u will b in my room or my guest room cos of my valuables in my room, but still I have some of my clothes and shoes even in my hubby's room. Let ma hubb build a mansion and decide to use a small cubicle as master bedroom, we will both be sleeping there, as long as we both love each other, there is no space to be given. Talking about meeting deadlines, study or doing assignment, back in school where we had roommates, do we tell them to leave the room because we want to read, mba, what God has joined together, let no bed or room put asunder

Will like to know, who pays the phcn bills, fuel the gen, pay for internet subscription, buy papers etc

Going to the chemist shop is not the best option, rather go to the hospital and get tested, let the doctor after the lab test prescribe the most effective cure for the fungi or whatever it is

THinking of d same thing but I guess I may consider retails store, the only fear I hae is the rent and oda required things, possibly one shud just budget the 500K for goods alone

As odd as this may sound, my dear, you dont need his money, asking him for money at the expense of your aunt's marriage is even worse than cheating on her, I remember back then while I was still looking for job, a boyfriend of my sister, who haens to be a aptain usually gives me money every now and then, then when I started noticing some strange and suspicious moves, I stopped collecting money from him, it was then he realised I cant be bought, collecting money from someone who is already a part of ur famil(by marriage) is tellin him WE CAN DO ANYTHING FOR MONEY IN MY FAMILY, hope you have a copy of the chat, keep it, show it to an educated and matured person in your family, and if you are able to confirm he is actually planning a divorce with ur aunt, then tell her,
just my one kobo o, we still dey spend kobo for naija?

So for ur mind, the only criteria for a marriageble lady is that she must be working, are u working sir?

To attend medical tests likes pregnancy test if you are a lady, hiv status etc

Hello preggies in the house, just wanna ask if it is advisable o learn driving in pregnancy, huby wats me to start using the second car at home efore the baby comes, what do u thik?

My friend, my friend, u didnt tell me money don plenty o, make I come chop small money now, lol

@bigfat, did Ʊ say A̶̲̥̅̊ mini website, dis product is A̶̲̥̅̊ product from A̶̲̥̅̊ big coy in PH which handles several jobs for big schools in PH, we have 3 websites dedicated to this alone, but the prob is Lagos office is still kind of new and Ʊ know Lag is highly competitive, it is A̶̲̥̅̊ very good product, that I can attest to but most of our youths dis days just prefer the short cut. Shey Ʊ understand. Thanks

Hello peeps, am A̶̲̥̅̊ christian, so don't say maybe am A̶̲̥̅̊ muslim, but really their is A̶̲̥̅̊ very small church on my street, they hold sevrices almost everyday, at least once A̶̲̥̅̊ day, though on saturdays at times, they hold twice, and they hold vigils almost every sunday, I wonder if the members have any job. The real issue I have with them is the fact that they have their speakers outside and dis is constituting noise in the arra, they wae us as early as 6 at times, pls which body or agency should we report to. Thx

It may b hard to get A̶̲̥̅̊ contact here , why don't Ʊ try going to yaba and mae enquiries, I know av seen A̶̲̥̅̊ couple of people who says they buy bales in yaba, popoola street

It may b hard to get A̶̲̥̅̊ contact here , why don't Ʊ try going to yaba and mae enquiries, I know av seen A̶̲̥̅̊ couple of people who says they buy bales from yaba

How much does it cost for acura RL, 1998 model

@jim, search on google, Ʊ will see a lot of formats and samples

@spicyv, thx for ur contribution, really appreciate.I must confess have done some of the things Ʊ said, like getting names of schools, contacts of principals and/or proprietor as the case may be, sent emails and sms but guess I will need to do them again.

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Hello all, pls I need marketing ideas or contacts of proprietors/decision makers of schools to enable me sell our product. My company deals in educational software, though employed to handle technical challenges, no sales are forth coming in since many prefer examination runs to reading, hence pressure is on us to bring in sales. Am seriously thinking of resigning cos I hate marketin but need to secure A̶̲̥̅̊ second option first. Please if Ʊ have any marketing idea that can boost my sales or contacts in private secondary schools, pls assist. Thanks.

@genbuhari, for A̶̲̥̅̊ while, av been short of words, av been reading all the posts but couldn't find any word(s) to use to console Ʊ but deep down in me, I know A̶̲̥̅̊ greater miracle is coming. Sorry dear, God will prove himself in ur life again and dis time, it will be permanent.

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