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SexyStrawberry:
divorce came into this coz of the way u are sounding, as far as i am concerned, there is nothing beneficial about being with a cheating husband. I still hold on to my point that it can only be love that can make her stay with him, ur reasons hold no water to me coz she can achieve whatever she wants without him, kids or no kids, money or no money, he's totally useless whether he's there with her or not.

Lol. We were talking about women who decided not to divorce their cheating husbands. So I was surprised that you still presented divorce as an option.

Anyway, all I'm saying is that you should not expect a man to endure and stay married to his cheating wife just because many married women endure cheating.

Why are you making a case for the woman sef? Are you cheating on your hubby?

Good morning.

SexyStrawberry:
I hope the word "divorce " is still in ur dictionary? Many women are readily opting for it just in case you've not noticed, and as for financial support, helloooooo! don't u have eyes to see that most women are standing their own grounds without their husband's support? I've personally seen lots of marriages where the wife is the breadwinner of her home and no one knows about it unless u are extremely close to the family to notice the difference, my dear it's only d undying love she has for her husband that can make her stay, millions of kids are being raised in a broken home, don't forget that, so i see no tangible reason whatsoever for her to be obliged to remain with a cheating husband.

How did "divorce" creep into this? I sincerely doubt we are on the same page. You intended to remind me that some women remain with their cheating husbands despite the hurt. I consequently explained why those women chose to stay. I most definitely didn't say that all wives would remain with cheating husbands. I also did not imply that those women who remain are unaware of the option of divorce. So, "divorce" is totally besides the point.

I would like to reiterate that many of those who stay on do so for practical reasons (that benefit them) and not the fairytale reason called "love".

She slept with his BROTHER? Aaah!!! His own blood. Well, it is still a crime to hit her.

But come to think of it, I have never dated or even wooed any babe because of this. I've only admired them.

SexyStrawberry:
if u can feel the pain like this, coz from ur words, i can understand how u must be hurting to find out ur lovely pretty wife is unfaithful to u, then imagine the excruciating pain women go through on a daily basis when their husbands cheat on them, and it's not like it's a one time thing, he does it over and over and over again! Yet they have the big heart to forgive and still remain with him no matter what! U will claim ur human, ain't she human as well? The heart of a man.......................... U can help me and complete it.

"Man" in that context refers to "humankind". Well, of course you'd know that. You just want to colour the meaning to suit your sentiment.

Why should I consider those women?

If other men cheat on their longsuffering wives, how does that rob me of the right to be hurt or even indignant should my wife cheat? Should I knowingly torment myself because of a lofty notion?

Many of those "noble" women remain in such homes because of finance. Some others would consider the pleas of family members and remain in that marriage so that they won't be tagged stubborn. Some just don't want their children to grow up with separated parents. I believe they all have their various practical reasons for staying but love (for the husband) is not one of them.

So please don't preach this message to me. I cannor gree.... At least for now.

gcode123:
Spoken like othello d moor.

Lol. I got carried away there. I get too melancholic sometimes especially on issues regarding loyalty.

But out of that fresh booty comes the nasty stinky. Beware, before you receive mess that can damage your sense of smell forever.

You have been warned.

I will forgive for the sake of my own sanity and peace of mind. And by forgiveness, I mean I would not take or even consider revenge any more and I'd try not to refer to the incident whenever other arguments come up.

However, she needs to leave that house. I won't hate her but it would be sheer torment to be reminded of her unfaithfulness whenever I see her lovely face - the face of a cheat. The mind will never forget such incidences.

Visit indeed. They are yet to make a public statement concerning his matter. Well, who would openly support a terrorist? Certainly not the UK.

The last name... She really needs deliverance.

We may need to determine if your head is correct or you're just empty like the porcelain pieces on my shelves.

Did he make a move on you? His body responded to stimulus but kept his act together yet you have the audacity to call his mind a cesspit.

If a guy whom you find attractive walks up to you and does something that arouses you, does that make your mind a cesspit? You harassed him sexually and you are still saying nonsense.

Mature people trolling.... Endtime

All these "refurbished" members sef. New member indeed.

Lol. Another guy pretending to be female.

So Buhari killed or ordered the death of "1000" Shiites? So he boasted about it? Do you people realize what "1000" is? Is it this same Nigeria or another?

Honestly, who is this small fry that's begging for attention? If you want to be a matyr so bad kindly go and protest in North Korea. Nobody has your time here. That's how Fayose and his boys claimed that the lawmaker was dead until he "resurrected" for the world to see.

I believe the DSS have better issues to sort out than the rants of an unknown youth. Fayose come and console your brother.

If you are the passenger, kindly offer the front seat to your friend's babe. If na ur car, jokingly ask your babe to come and join you in front. Your buddy won't mind. Guys no get wahala.

The real problem in this kind of situation is when you have to choose between your beloved sister and your babe.

Bro, whatever you do, be modest and prudent about it. This is not the time for expensive gifts. That will come during traditional marriage.

ChappyChase:
And watin do our 'Minister of Petroleum

This is not a ceremonial post like the president of OPEC. Kachikwu would need to resign from public office to go for this position.

Barkindo is a former GMD of NNPC. He is capable. Unless he gives in to Naija sharp practices.

It is time for you to unveil Plan B. Working guys have no business dating students. Find a lady who knows what it feels like to earn money.

Bro, you should have told her no if you weren't feeling too generous. Giving your word and then breaking it is not cool.

I won't be surprised though if the babe get even more attracted to this guy despite the rudeness and needless cruelty. Ladies love guys that treat them like crap.

The truth is such women actually don't want equality. They want preferential treatment. Equality says you should pull your own weight but women want men to help every time; to do their manly part.

"Be a man now, help me put on the generator..."
"We can't split the bill na, shebi you're the man"
"Help me change the tyre"
"Oga don't rush me, oya help me park the car"
"It's locked tight. Help me open it"
"I don't know what I clicked o, help me fix it"
"Call your brother to change the bulb"
"Be a gentleman now, don't watch me struggle through this"
- Rubbish.

I remember my uni days when I grew tired and decided to treat ladies just like my male colleagues for a time; no undeserved favours. I was called "wicked", "heartbreaker", "jerk", "weird", "ungentlemanly", etc.

If gender equality were legit, then all men accused of rape would be treated innocent (esp on social media) until proven guilty. But this is not the case. I remember being punished as a kid in primary school for hitting back at girls who assaulted me. Both male and female teachers refused to consider the fact that those girls drew first blood and it was hard for me to accept this injustice at such a young age. .

The privileges of the status quo are just too juicy for feminists to forfeit if they actually want to realize the conceit called Gender equality.

They should go and sleep abeg. They can't handle equality.

Put "graphic content" na.

Lol. LIRS does not collect tax for DISCOs. Why lump them together?

Lol, stomach infrastructure.

Ladies before you people start screaming murder here, remember you love him and there is a thing called "forgive and forget".

Can't stop laughing... Sorry bro.

This woman is wrong. She knows what she is doing and she doesn't give a damn about his feelings. Her baby is 5 months old. Good. Some of you insist that she is not ready to resume. Okay, no wahala. Now tell me how would she sleep on the same bed with her husband for 30 nights and not notice anything strange about her man?

My bet is that she knows how frustrating it is for him but she cannot be bothered to pacify him with words. She is allowing the anger settle in because it affords her the peace and privacy she wants. Nonsense.

Selfish women everywhere. Call her out bro. Then forgive her. She's your wife after all.

Please put "graphic pic".

She didn't even wear a G-String. Looks like she came prepared for a quickie.