₦airaland Forum

InSanety:
He was not so drunk that he did not recognise that she was high.

He has the sense of self enough to admit she was high at the party, so, he is definitely not as drunk as you want him to be.

He was the one mixing drinks for her before the party, he recognised that she was drunk at the party, openly admitted it. Lucy has asked him why he gave her so much alcohol.

You pump a girl with alcohol, so, you can do her as you like at a party, then come back in, and accuse another man of an attempt to take advantage of her.

Man must be a bloody hypocrite. With Laycon's words, he has admitted that he had the presence of mind to know she was high, so, he was the responsible party

See, I no read law, but I don see enough law proceedings to know say if e carry this him talk go court for country wey dem get sense, he go cast himself.

The reason he will likely lose in court is his gender. His drunkenness will be downplayed because a woman is accusing him. When two drunk adults misbehave, the man takes the fall.


That’s why I said he was careless. You should run away from women like Erica. They will set you up and you will dance into the snare.

Nobody cuts you some slack as a man. The expectations are always high for you even when you’re high.

When the clip of kiddwaya touching Erica’s boob surfaced, woke people were gearing up for a campaign to cancel him. It is on hold now that they have a romantic arrangement going on. If she gets out of the house and decides to pursue the matter, Kidd will face a backlash like never before. It’s a weapon waiting for the right day.

Laycon messed up tonight because he has given fans like you a handle on him. You people will always wield this as a weapon against him.


He didn’t take advantage of her. If there’s a victim here, it is Laycon - a gullible victim of an ensnaring manipulative woman.

InSanety:
How are her deeds clear?

Laycon knew she was drunk, and was still indulging her.

How can you call the deeds of a drunken person clear? That she intended to get drunk and cause Laycon to indulge her in her dancing? Is that a clear deed to you?

Please, stay one place and stop talking nonsense.


Is Laycon the first guy to handle a drunk girl?

Go and watch BBA The Chase, Melvin was the Designated Friend for drunken women. Even when Selly tried to kiss him in her drunk state, he moved away from her. At no point, did Melvin indulge Selly

That is how a man should behave when he knows a woman Is drunk. No be say you go dey kiss her for neck, for chest, grab bumbum finish, only to come inside house and be shouting, " I don't want Kiddi to take advantage of her"

This night, Laycon has taken advantage of Erica, more than Kiddi has. I am not taking anything away from his sudden burst of heroism, but this your narrative will not fly.

Perhaps Laycon was sober to you? Lol.

This is exactly what I was talking about.

Man and woman get tipsy. Only man can be held accountable for actions taken. Men are always at risk of being accused of sexual harassment when women get drunk around them, because the inebriation of men is always conveniently ignored.




If you had always maintained that she didn’t like Laycon then this sudden affinity for him at the party is suspect and most likely premeditated. It is designed to yield a couple of results. One of which is jealousy on the part of Kiddwaya. Erica is manipulative.

You’re probably a fan of hers. Don’t be offended.

This party is the definition of provocation.

Egungun crossed the express blindfolded.

Men should be careful these days.

Nobody cares if you’re drunk and a drunk babe is grinding on you. If she wakes up tomorrow to say she was violated, nobody would give a hoot about the fact you were drunk as well.


Laycon was careless tonight.


Erica was determined to cause trouble using Laycon as a pawn and the poor idîot didn’t even stop to wonder where this strange attention was coming from.

I really don’t want to believe she planned all of this but I cannot argue with the facts. Her deeds are clear.

That Erica is manipulative. And Laycon needs to evaluate himself. If something is too good to be true then it probably is.

Erica is the last person on Earth he should be trying to “protect”. He should protect himself instead.

Kidd has shown some level of restraint so far. Kudos.

Colourism.

Even before opening the link on FP, I knew she’d be light-skinned. That’s the yardstick for beauty among too many Africans.

This is an eternal question. As long as humans exist, people would always ask this question.

Meedon:
Okay.


I think I'll heed to this advice.


I'm so bleeped up even from my childhood.


My only pain now is my mom.


Will I make heaven?

Ignore that guy. He doesn’t know how hard this life can be. He doesn’t understand what despair really means. That’s why he wrote nonsense.

Those who have hit rock bottom or have a loved one who has reached their limit know how it feels.

The fact that you would grasp any opportunity to restore balance in your affairs shows that you are fighting it. That’s good! Don’t give up.

Meedon:
Thanks

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Meedon:
Definitely.

I love your answer. If you need someone to talk to, send these guys a DM on twitter. @MentallyAwareNG

They help people who face anxiety and depression.

Meedon, I have a question for you.

If you were presented with an opportunity to solve the issues overwhelming you, would you take that chance?

Shugavee:
ehnnnn , that’s why I will never help any man ,, come to me when u hv enough money. Cause u lots ain’t worth it

Nobody expects your money. You are a woman. The prevalent trend is you marry a man who takes care of you financially. If you keep your money to yourself, it wouldn’t surprise anyone.

Palema007:
Very easy to type this when the Guy isn't the one who will bear the brunt.He isn't the one to face the stigma that comes with single motherhood, he can easily find another lady and get married to her but the lady he impregnated will go extra miles,have to do a lot to prove herself worthy to get hooked. And the child? She will be responsible for him or her, answer questions pertaining to why Daddy left, cry her eyes out when asked where the father is. She will bear the "after one" shame, have an illegitimate child, have to be father and mother to her child alone. And the betrayal? Now tell me, if that isn't a broken crate of egg, what is it? Or if she isn't a damaged fruit, what is she?
Y'all will downplay scenarios like this to vindicate a Man but will be the first to cast aspersions on single mothers. That's very selfish!

And there is something called Responsibility! If a Man is responsible enough to nut in a woman, engage her then he should be ready to marry her. He chose to lay his bed with an unattractive Woman so he should lay on it!

Nobody said he would not be responsible for the child. He didn’t even insinuate it. It is a basic duty of every father.

He shouldn’t be forced into marriage with her. Marriage is not the same thing as duty.

You say it’s easy for a single father to marry, but I doubt you’d be glad to marry one, given the fact that he would always be in his child’s life and that means interfacing with and sending money to the mother.

Marriage is not punishment/reward for pregnancy. Even if you can coerce him into marriage, you cannot force him to love her.

Palema007:
I was going to add the DNA thing though but I thought Op doesn't need that much to do the right thing.

True that.

Palema007:
I wonder what will happen you get married to her and you are transferred to another state for work or business. Anyone who can not respect your presence in your absence is not worth keeping. She's very unreliable, don't waste your time or emotions.


That said, be careful with women, sometimes what they call Love is merely Gratitude. Your lady only remember to be good,loyal and truthful whenever she's with you hence why she confesses her transgressions and ask for forgiveness, the moment you are out of sight, she hunts for another. That isn't love. Please let her go, for your own good.

I completely agree. OP, run for your life.


Some pastors will tell you that girl has a marine spirit. If you marry her, just be prepared to set aside money for DNA test every time she gives birth.

He shouldn’t marry her yet. Let them hold on.

Marriage is not a punishment for a man who impregnates a woman. Why do women want to force a pregnant lady on her boyfriend? Is she a basket of fruit that he destroyed or what? Or a crate of broken eggs that he must pay for because he tipped it? As you don give am belle, just dey carry am go. For what?

If that guy marries her without being attracted, he will cheat. And if he doesn’t cheat because of his respect for her, he will still be unhappy. And she will feel the unhappiness in that marriage.

Let him take time to sort things out emotionally.

idahme:
Do what your wife would have done if it was your brother......

Omo! This put things is perspective. The sister needs to go.

OP how can you even be hôrny when your in-law is right there with you guys in the room? Na wa for you and your wife o. Help her rent a place please. She is not enjoying the show. I pity her.

I just wonder why she cannot return to her parent’s house.

Hallenjay:
AS seen on twitter
If Laycon is from England - FrankLaycon
Brazil - Laycondinho
Russia- Layconov
China - Layconzhang
Croatia - Laycondric
Holand - Icons Van der Laycon
Saudi Arabia- Al-laycon
Portugal- Layconaldo
Mexico- Don santo laycon
Korea- Ju se-jong laycon......Add urs
#LayconIsMe
#BBNajia

this is nice.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Pussy asss Moda fuckkking niggarrr


Your boyfriend must be a real niggarrr...I owe him a parcel of weed and some bottles....
if that is what "engagement" is all about.....then let me light up my weed and come up with a definition for "introduction"

Okay this is it .....introduction is the method ladies use in telling thier family that this the man banging the hell out of my pussy for God knows how long

Oh.....weeeed...I love my weed.....may there always be light at the end of my weed

It’s still morning and you’re already high Guy why?

Heartlessbanker:
but bro,what's the main reason why Nigerians think if you don't enter university at age 16,17,18 or 19;they think you are late or won't succeed?

I feel it’s the age of retirement which is set at 60. 23 is still a good age to start life. I feel, if you can start your career before 30, you have a good chance at becoming an authority in that chosen field.

23 is still very very young. Some people didn’t even get admission to study medicine before 23 and now they are doctors chopping money in the UK and US.

There’s hope o.


Don’t give up. You have a whole life ahead of you to enjoy.

Cc: YoungandDepress

oluwamile:
We just live in a lawless country where politicians, celebrities,musicians take everything for Granted
Truth be told,if naira Marley had tried this in London where he came from,he will be arrested and prosecuted

Thank you.

stanisbaratheon:
Aside games and with all humility, I never see that babe wey go make me behave the way Leycon dey behave.



This is terrible for a guy that came into the house with so much confidence in himself. I'm gutted.

I feel it’s no longer affection. This reeks of obsession. I may be wrong. She doesn’t even have big yansh and he’s allowing her to mess with his head. What is wrong with that guy?

Anyway, Kidd is doing a great job keeping her on her toes. Unpredictable playa.

See threat. How about executing them for the countless murders they have committed?

Are the lives of the victims worthless?

Why are you pardoning and rewarding terrorists? If these Boko Haram members were not Hausa/Fulani, would they be spared?

TheCork:
I drive BMW & I go to London any how & I been to south Africa, Ghana legos, Paris,Kenya, Malawi, amerika& newyok & germany & I have moiney. Please can I give u 500 naira cash to be with u please? I always pay cash please?. Be nice?

Mr Cork! So you still dey Nairaland.

RTSC:
The men are not acting like men, that is why the women are playing them.

If girl Don too dey show herself like Nengi, free am.

Kidwaya is the only one with a clue in that house. It's just a shame I dislike him.

Guy you deserve a bottle from me. No need to dislike Kidd though. He is doing da lord’s work. Those ladies that think they are skilled manipulators should see how one of their members will lose for trying to play two men with her small yansh.

Collect

zicoraads:
Erica has serious trust issues. Even to the viewers outside, it is clear Kiddwaya made efforts and actually became better after that night. This is just Week 3; you don't honestly expect a man to start naming babies after some weeks of knowing you.

Kiddwaya did good yesterday. I also loved his reaction to that conversation they had. My only hope is that he actually gives her space and mingle much more with the other ladies.

He is absolutely loved regardless. His focus and tenacity in tasks is unrivaled. He is jovial and hardly ever engages in side-talks.

It's the last day of voting people, please throw some votes his way.

Send VOTE Kiddwaya to 32052.

God bless you and bless your day.

government magic. Dem turn red into blue. Dem turn electric to candle.

Fans will be fans. They will defend anything! They have painted Kidd like an angel. I hail. Kidd is a heartbreaker and I like him for that. Some girls need to encounter him to learn to stop trying to manipulate men.

Akshow:
There's a thing called grace and it's with Laycon who will eventually be the winner of BBN 5 on day 71. If you follow all the shenanigans and bigoted posts of nairalanders you will not know the true state of things. Laycon trends easily and daily on tweeter. Laycon tops any poll even most handsome and miss Nigeria polls on tweeter. Laycon fans shouldn't banter with these nairalander twerps honestly. Your guy is loved most and winning this hands down. One million streams already for his song. Street ti take over!

I observed that too. I’m glad you hit the nail on it’s head.

A good number of Laycon’s haters on this thread are bigots. It’s so amusing to see them rant.

What they don’t know is his fans are not on Nairaland arguing. They are busy voting and streaming his music so that he would come out to meet a stronger brand.

Eating food is now sexualised because of woke people.


The people who should apologise for sexualising a child are the ones forcing Audi to apologise. Wahala dey o.

Palema007:
Very Apt!

Thank you.

Look at the calibre of people in that protest. They wouldn’t dare arrest them.

If leaders of the main opposition (PDP) decided to protest, they also wouldn’t be chased away like nobodies.

Revolution now is a protest organised and attended by young activists that’s why the government believes they can bully them.

aduntemi:
You dey vex o

Many angry people on this thread.

EwuGambia:
Omo!! Eric Buharia jnr. don tear sleep for chair as others dey rehearse.... which kyn pikin be this nah...

Unah sure say no be "Milo last kid standing" or "jeun ko ku" competition e wan register for, but e do mistake enter bbnaija site... cause this nigger looks more clueless than the president ....

This thread is full of sharp mouths. I don laugh tire.