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Hi all

welcome to the newbies
@shilo, i agree with hebrew woman it sounds like a chemical pregnancy and miscarrige to me they say this happens very often. Dont worry mommy something gonna stick real soon

sorry ooo about your pain. i have no suggestions just wanted to send a word of comfort

Well has her family spoken to this man? Look he married a woman a wife and not a punching bag. Can she go somewhere for some time a safe house? Look its important that she knows that she is not the problem and her husband has anger management issues and he needs help or in this country he needs talking to or preferably a beatdown himself .

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Johndoe100: It always amuses me when I see the internet Nigerians comingon here to pretend as if we live and operate in the same cultural enviroment, and of course this is without question the whiteman's culture. What is the Nigerian perspective on this issue, not what is right in Australia or America or Europe. How does a woman in the north, a devout muslim see all this? Why can't any of these issues be real, yes real. Do Nigerians consider women and men equal? Or is it Australians and Americans that live in Nigeria?
I think that it is safe to conclude that by culture and religion and practice, here in Nigeria women are NOT equal to men. Does that mean they are not appreciated, cannot achieve what they want? No, just that men are MEN and women are their second in command.

well said most insightful post on the thread

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I didnt read through this thread because its tooo long, anyways at teh end of the day you should help pay, in western world both men and women pay for the wedding day, so i dont see the big deal in this.

see a doctor and get medication for the problem, also cut out salt in their diet

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Well I am totally lost for words here. Is the niraland charity gonna set something up so people can donate if they can?

Yes it is. We re currently doing ultrasound scan for now.

yes its true breastfeeding stops women from having their period.

great thread, ill be lloking for a radiographer int he near future as we introduce xray into our clinic

happy ever after to them

@ OP look fwd to your update

why not try Ebay? To me its the safest, most sellers if they are genuine and real will be on ebay, do your research so you dont loose oo.

please go to your doctor and have it checked out.

@pamperme i will add you to the front, safe delivery to your partner

Hello,

Try this thread it great for people ttc, great advice and wonderful support. https://www.nairaland.com/318334/trying-conceive-child-ttc

interesting

maclatunji: It is up to each single person to shine his/her eyes very well before marrying jor.

So true

@ Op please listen to what Ify has advised. Look forward to your update.

hes a good actor very handsome man

PrettyCindy: I was quite unlucky that i ended up with a cruel human as husband (now ex). 3 months after marriage when i didn't take in, he threatened to impregnate another woman soon. Well i finally got pregnant 6 months after marriage and i saw hell. I have never told anyone about this experience cos am a bit ashamed of it. He wasn't that happy over the news cos he already has a son from his ex fiancee (she ran away due to constant battery and i got to know late). My pregnancy was quite tough in the first 2months with the vomiting and all. He never showed concern when i was throwing up, weak, coughing, sick etc. We were married and living together but i was alone, terribly lonely. I still did all the chores, i mean every single thing including working 8am to 6pm daily. At a time i had severe cough, catarrh, nausea, vomiting and fever, this man opened up his mouth one night i just finished throwing up and said that "God was punishing me for my sins", that i wasn't sick cos of pregnancy but it was all punishment from God. I told him the only reason i was sick was because i was pregnant meaning that the sin i committed was sleeping with him as my husband. A day later he told me i was the most unimportant person in his life! Anyway long story short we seperated when i was about two months pregnant. He told me to get rid of the pregnancy since we were seperating and he proved his point by refusing to give me money for ante natal and by trying to kill the baby in my womb when he battered me but he didn't succeed. With the help of God i was able to carry my baby perfectly fine and put to bed safely. He is about 5months old now and indeed a blessing to my life and i love him with my with my life. If i had stayed with that man, i would have either lost the pregnancy or committee suicide cos of frustration or would have been pushed to the wall to do the unthinkable.

ooo my you really went through a hard time. I know what its like when these men become real mean during pregnancy. I had it all during my last pregnancy but thrust me thats another thread altogether. Some men just loose it really, i think pregnancy it can go either way either they real good or real bad. thank g-d you and baby survived and you are moving on to a brighter future.

I would have to listen to my people, mother, sister etc.