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@ Op where are you located? Well the truth of the matter here OP it sounds like a flirt to me althought it is inappropriate. @ least your hubby apologize, some men would not do that and thye might even go as far as to insult their wives. Look no one is perfect everybody makes mistakes, I think you should just forgive him and move on. You should not make this a major deal in your marriage befor you drive him into her waiting, adulterous arms.

Your hubby seems like a nice person and sometimes men just get so comforteble in their marriage they want to feel like they still got some appeal with the ladies, thats what this scenario sounds like to me.So please forgive and move on since this is the first time you have caught him flirting.

aare07: The only solution to Boko Haram insurgency, is for the president to drop his second term agenda. He should the hausa to rule.

how would that solve the problem?

@JUmie what pelvic test did he ask you to do is it an abdominal pelvic exam or ultrasound? If its ultrasound that's normal to see how the baby is developing.
@diamond stay strong, i hope this nausea and vomitting passes soon ((hugs))

i think it can work, with good understanding between the two

@ Op ask him about it and go get tested at teh same time also insist he test simultaneously.

uwani: @diamondlove, try and hold on dear it will soon be over.
@Agiboma and all, i sort of noticed last week that i have black hairs all over my stomach, while googling i found out it's due to an increase in the level of testosterone in the body which is also an indication that i might be expecting a boy. Pls is there anyone that experienced such and had a girl? I and dh really want our first child to be a girl,but at the same time we dont mind having a boy.

I also had the same thing happen to me and I got a beautiful boy to show for it, but I think its a folklore, also the hairs never went away , so im always shaving

Run really really fast you base case scenario here is the title of baby mama #4

MSTIA: heyyyyyyyy, Shiloh dear, It is well, Nevertheless, We thank God for everything,we must win. It may tarry, but must come to an end.
collected my HSG result yesterday and it states thus:A slightly bulky uterine cavity demonstrated. Both Fallopian tubes are outlined with free peritoneal spillage of contrast. confirming tubal patency. . Am yet to get to my doc on this. @ all sprinkling baby dust everywhere.

Wow congrats Mystia, g-d is wonderful

diamondlove: Oh God
Dese past days were terrible 4 me
Took injection and it affected my leg, still throwin up, cldnt eat, drink nor do anyth, 2 worsen d case, I cldnt walk, well I woke up on d hospital bed, dey said I passed out, thnk God, I feel beta now
14th week countin and I am still weak
God I nid strength

Ohh my goodness, my heart really goes out to you diamond stay strong my sister, i will pray and meditate for you

ronkebp: hubby can be kneeling, having you kneel too on all fours with one of your legs on his shoulder, and one hand holding on to his waste too.....ladies need real flexibilty for that one

now the one with the hubby lying flat and one is humping away is a good one, you can add a twist to it, intead of having to kneel, you can squat, wiith knees not touching the ground and your hands over his shoulder, or when hunping instaed of going up and down alone, go front and back also, it helps reach every corner of the v-jay,jays.....so it would be up-down, front-back in that order and keep repeating it, not forgetting to do the kegel on every chance you get, they will always like that one.

Professor Ronke lawd its enough for now ooo, information overload, for my simple mind

ronkebp: Lol.....Agiboma, ok since you are flexible, positioning is another issue, forget about dog-style, and the missionary oooo though you can get more positions for those two, talk more of the rest, i really like the positioning in the "main-thing" because it helps the lady to last longer than the man, while those turning and twisting helps the man to enjoy it, and it really turns him on so much that he will be quick to letting the whole thing pour, then in that you have an upper hand, next-time he will want to beat you to it, saying "we will see who will last longer", digest this first and i will tell you how to twist and turn during the two i have mentioned above, and that is just the beginning, more to come , i hope i am not spoiling people here ooooo, i am a good girl oooo,

LOL ohh lawd this thread has become the best thing on NL oooo, my poor INNOCENT mind

Let her cook for herself you are not her maid. You got enough to do on your hands. If she dont want to cook, let her LEARN to manag the food the you cook with pepper. I would not go out of my way to please her.

Outstrip: Actually both of them should stay together. He is no better honestly. He is also scum. Why should they separate and then go and be other peoples wahala.

lol I agree

ronkebp: Noooo naaa, you have to be kpekusing every-every naa, the thing is, it would take you that long to perfect flexibility, and that is only if you are not flexible enough as you would want it, if you are by pass that one....i always start from that, only because your man, should be able to turn you wich ever way, you can bend to any position and don't feel any cramps afterwards that in itself prolongs sexual duration. Now you are talking about 20 mins of real action minus the warm-up and cool down

ooooo lawd (scribbling frantically) almost getting information overload on this thread oooo
Ronke Im physically fit already ooo, i do yoga and palates 4 times a week already, so speed up the process with the next lesson ooo

chaircover: Lesson 4

Have a long leisurely soak in the bath (you know the type you have and your hands go all wrinkly LOL) Go for something with a Lavender aroma. I dont know why, but lavender seems to be a relaxant and aphrodisiac of some sort. Please please please this is not the time to rub those strong smelling moisturizers on your body after your bath, because its too strong and masks the delicate lavender scent. If you must rub anything at all, just a very light sheen of something like baby oil.

Go to bed nakeed, but make sure that you arrange yourself innocently in such a way that MrX wont be able to control himself and before you can say Jack Robinson he is . . . . .

lol I will try this one tommorrow, but where in N9ja am i gonna get Lavender

@cuteruth I am not sure about those drugs they could have different names where i am from so im not familiar, but the paracetamol is ok the other one im not sure
@bolseas congrats on the pregnancy and welcome
@IB i think its hard everywhere oo, only differnce is the quality of care and availability of good equipment and medical facilities.
@Camery when i had ginger i thought i was gonna meet my maker omg it burn my throat so bad, i guess different strokes for different folks, im glad it works for you though.

blank: They probably arrested the guy cos he was refusing to accept the kids. So the money was for bail and to do the naming ceremony.

Ahhh, I am really not being sacastic here but can they actually "arrest someone for not accepting their child" in this Nigeria . OMG pardon my ignorance I just wanted to know if such things happen?

i hate these stories throw his ARSE in jail

Yess ooo, i have entered the class room, (sitting comforteble @ my students desk, pen and paper in hand ready to take notes) waiting for professor Ronke or CC to enter with todays lecture

maclatunji: However, as Agiboma will say, divorce in Nigeria is not such a straightforward thing. She should calm down and slowly initiate the process of sorting-out the details. Where will she live? Who will be responsible for the kids? Can she cope without becoming somebody else's mistress herself?

Ohh my am i that predictable lol, well said Mac took the words out of my mouth.

taryour: yess o,i no go lie i too like dat tin oo, d broom i use sef no chase dem comot finish so i used cutlass. No mind dem jare,dem wan begin to dey chop wetin big madams dey chop..... Anyways i don tell dem to wait for their turn abi wetin u tink agiboma n ronkus

lol madame i am supporting you oooo

chaircover: . . . and to think that my daughter has been bothering me to join NL

Anyway to the Adult education students of milking 101 class. If you want the keys to a new car and a signed blank cheque, attempt to do ***** after gargling with very very cold water or just eating a few spoons of icecream . . .BTW you didn't hear Prim and proper CC say any of this and I will deny all knowledge

lol CC i now know why you are poster of the year

lol @ op thats what im saying her pic everywhere

I usually try to avoid this area of NL cause it gets me into real trouble . But yes i think the church or religion in general messes people up. Look religion to me should be banned it has caused more wars, and division among people than anything else. The church today is more of a business than anything else. I left the church a few years ago my mother thought i became an atheist, but once i explained to her my new views the woman is asking for the same books i read and she herself is asking questions. The truth of the matter is that most of these so called pastors aka businessmen need more prayers for themselves than the members of their congregation. Look I dont go to church and never will again, i choose to use meditation and prayer in my own home to connect to the infinite light of the g-d the creator. Am i an atheist certainly not, I love g-d, but i discovered i dont need the church to justify and measure my level of love and commitment to g-d. Since leaving the church i have grow closer to g-d. You dont need to call yourself a Christian or any other religion to beleive and follow g-d. He lives in your heart, soul and mind. Keep doing good and forget about this church thing.

I can wash the car, but i wont do it.

@ OP where did you go please come back and give us some more of your insight ooo

chaircover: Roki please dont be scared. I was really pampered & if not that I have high risk pregnancies I wouldn't mind being pregnant every year

The way that man treated me during pregnancy has paid upfront for every single "misbehavior or misbehavement" that he can ever do to me. He is indeed a gem.

With my last, every morning before he set off for work, he would cook me yam and eggs and every evening it was Amala and okro. When he gets back in the evening, He would run me a bath, massage my back and my feet. I used to have the most weird cravings and most evenings he will stop by ASDA to pick up my latest request. I wanted my mum to stay with me to look after me but he said no; he got me pregnant and it was his responsibility to look after me.

I suffered from severe Hyperemesis gravidarum during both pregnancies with a quite a number of admissions in hospital for dehydration. I also suffered from painful PGP, however He was always at my side and he attended every single ante natal & physio appointment with me. I had more appointments than normal due to my medical condition, and he soon became a well known face in the maternity unit

I was a most grouchy, tearful & difficult pregnant woman but he never once lost his temper. No smells were allowed in the house, because it made me feel even more sick so he was not allowed to use any strong aftershave etc but he never complained and I remember the day he decided to add flavor to the okro and added locust beans I nearly committed murder that day.

The guy really tried and I still sometimes feel guilty at the way I behaved but it wasn't my fault sha . . . it was the hormones.

What a treat, does he have any brothers i got a younger sister, and we are complete opposites

cuteruth: Gudmorning, pls what can I do to stop dis constant Headache. My Head aches seriously, I am in my 20th week now, went for antenatal on tuesday n wen I complained to the doctor he gave me 3 tablets of Malaria drugs n told me to use it at once and some paracetamols, I used them bt I am not relieved yet, Pls What can I do?

I also suffered for sever headaches from 12 weeks to 20 weeks i mean they where so bad i thought i was having a stroke and so did my doctor. Did they check your bp and urine. Please let me know so i can further advise. Thanks

@Avatur, things are great today we saw a woman she had high bp prior to pregnancy, she should have been 9 weeks pregnant but the baby died in her womb, so she was having a miscarriage. What I am going to say now may sound mean, but she already has a few kids and I think that should console her. The medications she is on is not working to control the bp as it is still very very high. When the sonographer told me the baby was dead i thought to myself this is the best thing that could have happen to this woman please dont get me wrong. The last woman i know that had hypertension prior to pregnancy was going into heart failure at 12 weeks gestation she manage to hold on till 28 weeks when they finally delivered her little girl. This woman was taking 64 pills a day to stay alive and prevent her heart from shutting down. Now she was in the UK so that is why her and baby are alive today. But i am afraid this is not available in Nigeria. For this woman i dont think she should chance it again just enjoy the 4 lovely kids she already has. This blood pressure and pregnancy is a serious thing and people just dont take it as such and they really should. For me its a topic that is all to personal and close to my heart. . What would you tell this woman? Do you think my assumptions are to harsh?

@ op i dont want to be rude, but i am still confused as to what you are asking in your original post. Try to explain better so those that want to help can do so.

Thank you BB and it was actually about 5 months ago, i originally posted, how time goes by quickly. BB you truly understand me. (((hugs)))

dayokanu: OP,
Don't mind these people, I think he is having an affair

Watch him when he is sleeping, If he has an erection, He might be having an affair with another woman in his dream

OMG wow i have nothing else to say.
@OP this reply makes as much sense to me as your original post.