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Hmmmm, I'm the first born of 7, our dad died 15 years ago. I remembered when I told my mother to stop giving birth after her 5 Child, she was shocked as I was 14 years at that time but all my warning fell on deaf hear. Now she is left with training of my siblings which I am deeply involved cause she lost her job two years ago.
Each time I remembered how I spent on my siblings, I shed tears. Yet to marry but with heavy responsibility like a married man.
During our last year meeting, I have to tell them that I can't kill myself moreover I wasn't there when they (my parents) took their vows, so, every one should stand up for his/her responsibilities. I can only support with the little I have.
I need to save myself first as I drop dead today, their lives ll surely move on.

TRUSTEDGUY:


Police!!!

The more illiterate the more ruthless
The poorer the more wicked
The more stupid the more brutal

Make she count herself lucky the one know law and get sense for her mind she be James Bond the day e go try am with those nusience way no go school l swear if she see police and I run you no say leg dey pain am

When I saw ASP, I said this one don go school at least.

nony43:
Umahi is the best performing Governor in the SE

That's the beauty when technocrats are the leaders.

Butterfly, I think is relatively good both in quality and price. It should be from 40-45k depending on ur bargaining power and market fluctuation.

Weren't sure

Hey op, where and how d connection can be done?

toffyz:
Useless bank

Are they the only one affected by the lockdown.

And this useless bank donated millions of naira to FG recently

No be million bro na billion oo

kponkedenge:
Not countries actually, but places...yeah.

A few years ago, an American evangelist was going by boat to a remote part of India where the locals don't welcome outsiders, in fact they kill anyone they see. There is no civilization or nothing over there, the American evangelist was eventually killed.
I think it was everywhere on the news, CNN also carried it when it happened.
So I still doubt those people have heard about Jesus till date.
The president of India did nothing about it and said that the locals should be left alone.
So I guess that's that.

The name of the American evangelist is John Allen Chau, 26 in a remote Indian tribe of North Sentinel Island.

sweetmelanin:
I think you are the shallow one here who has clearly refused to reason!

1. Why is Bill Gates (a college dropout with no medical background) suddenly the spokesperson for global health?
2. Why is the vaccine (which we have no idea of it's long term effect) being pushed to be mandatory?
3. Why is Bill Gates pushing for digital identification of those who have been vaccinated (ID2020)?

Which one U don proffer that is better than the above
Suggest ur solutions when U critic besides dem no force U to collect am

FeliciaOja:
Again this is what my dad told me, and he has been handling patients with stroke for years..
Don't shoot the messenger

It should be partial stroke I guess

kestolove95:
Divorce d modafucka nd move on with ur life, get a young guy as a sec toy...no time men are stupeed

Just d way ur mother divorced ur father d stupeed man.

Both d death and recovery, we don't get to see them. Is this thing really true?

Please if U can afford the surgery d earlier the better because is a clear case of glaucoma. She needs U now, even if U didn't marry her eventually, at least U play a great role in her life.goodluck

bason007:
. I can't steal or beg on the street,I have honor. Donating my body part is a risk I am willing to take and get back on my feet. Do you know what friends and family have done to me?

Sorry bro, what makes U think selling ur body part ll get U back to ur feet? Don't be so sure and isn't d best option. Please keep doing what know how to do best, if isn't working try other skills and forget to involve ur creator, he surely answer U.
My two cents

bason007:
. Are you happy sending this to me thanks

Sorry for that but U need a word that ll hit U so hard to take U to factory settings.

Blogfarms:
What's the assurance?
Complications do happen during abortions,
Hope you know?

I had two experience. One concerning me and d other a friend of mine and all the same pattern.
Mine, I dated a girl that had abortion for her ex. Y she did d abortion was that, she never wanted but d guy couldn't take up the responsibility of the pregnancy, so at the fifth month she did the abortion. After we started dating, d guy came back and won't allow her be. She started developing feelings for guy d cause of blood of d baby that have already bonded them together. She finally dumped me and move on with him.
D second was a sister of my friend that after having several abortion for her ex, finally got married to an innocent man that up till date no child since 2012. I learnt that her ex still dey nag this girl even after married to another man.
D choice is urs.

Next is ur brain U ll put on sale. U think u re d only passing through that phase of life?

heniford2:
Have prayed fasted been active in church activities been kind to people all am asking its there someone going through this same thing seen hardship cause i want to know if am cursed or what i just don't understand who i offended

I can understand, I have been there before or still there cause still with my uncle. I'm 33 still feels yet to discover myself but I'm not lamenting. What U need do is get urself busy, start by working ways to get ur certificate follow by laying ur hands on skills that can keep U busy.
Don't just sit down and pity urself. Get ur hands dirty.

bestabigaelever:
Your sister is old enough
Don't fight her battle
She can decide or fight for herself

...... and this is coming from a lady?
So, U gonna shoot up ur brother when ur husband is abusing u?
I have slap and beat my aunt's husband d last time he beat her. Warned him when ever he try again

Lipscomb:
Imagine this bastard that want to rule Nigeria. He can't even manage his company. Useless man.

All this company shall be confiscate Because its belong to federal republic of Nigeria.

How many have you successfully managed uhh.
Even better than all the past leaders.
Stop d hate, he isn't ur source of poverty.

TheFacelessMan:
Lol. I am neutral in this, but the same Ganduje you call dull has successfully caged 2 powerful enemies - Sanusi and Kwankwaso.

You guys equate looks with intelligence... not necessarily true.

Gand$ was stupid to have been caught redhanded but his actions thus far ...

Lets wait for his ending, is too early to be shout praises. Hope U know Adams was once in his position?

I just find it difficult to study English, the more reason my grammatical mistakes.
I have tried but not just possible.

philip0906:
She will clearly avoid that or come up with the "he was patient" crap.

Which man will stay 1 year without sex? She'll probably avoid the fact or maybe her mother did not tell her that her father had concubines or even married an extra wife.

No mind her. She thinks every one ll buy into that lies

Richy4:
I guess you are 20 now.. So it's time to get hold of your future and do something about it career wise..

If I'm that your uncle, it will take a very long time for me to look "your way.." WHO gave you the Boldness, the guts, the temerity, the ordercity, the effrontery to raise your hands and slap my spouse @ 17 for whatever reasons, Abi U chop juju? ...
In my opinion, it's like you have made your bed, unfortunately u have to lie on it for now till further notice.. I'm even surprised u said u wanted to go home, which home? The home of a barren woman?

Any one telling u here that u have to be forgiven just like that because u were 17 is not being realistic.. Yes u will be forgiven but things will not be the same anymore... I still insist that you try and dust yourself up.. the mistake has already been made, so move on and make something out of it.. Some thing useful that your aunt might be proud of even if she wants to forgive.. Playing emotional card/ blackmail doesn't work anymore for some people.

That's just it, let her face life and be productive

izzou:
[color=royalblue]She was 17. Raised up without proper parenting, and you expect her to make the right decisions at that age?

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Forget that think bro, she just spent 4 years with biological mum and d remaining 13 heart with aunt. At 17 she should have known who is real to her and loves to give her a good life.

This is what we avoid when we closed all paths that ll lead us to ex. Avoid emotional entanglement from your ex if like continue.

I ll be 33 by June not married, just managing with a salary of 65k after tax and U expect me get married,? Somethings are just beyond explanation. I wish I had a child long before now.
Waiting for this money of a thing to come before marriage isn't for all guys. I swear, na my experience.

Deep thoughts. More wisdom.

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That us why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

U said ur mother taught you, did you care to hear ur father side of it? How did he managed to stay for that long period if is true ur mum stayed for that period?