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Fab21:
Sincerely, you've said it all.

If you don't know people (potential destiny helpers) in this country; one will suffer like a church rat.

It's not easy for Nigerian graduates...

Apparently, Job hunting in Nigeria is about connection, knowing the right people; it's not about carrying cv and trekking from one office to the other.

It can be frustrating and tiring!

May God just help someone...


Congrats!!

I beg to differ. I work in a multinational and I can loudly say to your hearing that I didn't know nobody to land the job. God came through for me.

In this life God moves in mysterious ways when he wants to bless a man, either he uses familiar people or total strangers. The latter is usually the case.

The OP is ascribing the glory due to God to another man. God used someone familiar to upgrade him, after all there are those who know connected people but yet they are still struggling.

He might be assassinated on that very day in that very venue.

ifinger:
Hahaha I can relate lol 😂 they been fkn Ur boss and when u become a boss urself u will slit a mini skirt on gwod ! Ask my secretary who gives me her bwess every week day to suck right in the office even though I don't have the power to promote how much if I can!🖕🌽🌽🤡😂

Shame on you. See what you are proud typing on here. Super Simp!!

Ok

turmacs:
Later now if him enter the house and beat the hell out of the woman, shebi they'll start to call the man a wicked woman beater? some women just don't have sense.. I'll always treat my man with love no matter how stupid he gets, because I know they can get stupid at times and I know how to handle men like that. Marry who you can deal with when he gets crazy.

Na so you go sound nice now but when you marry you go begin show the man shege. No be woman you be again!!

This morning I woke up to a text from presidential transition council (PTC). It read in part "presidential transition council (PTC) - let's maintain unity as one people and one nation. Let's support the new administration..."

The message got me wondering if there is heightened tension in some political quarters and someone or some persons are jittery and perhaps apprenehsive about the big event on May 29.

200k is on the high side. Make it say 50k and we have a deal. Deal?

bigcal4rea:
Yes, Must be within Lagos

well, I am not resident in Lagos.

kinibigdeal:
Why not do it in Nigeria, and go for Msc abroad?

I Wan use the opportunity japa.

Hello everyone. Good morning.

A quick question. Please does anyone know of universities in the United States where I can do HND to BSC top-up?

Expecting helpful responses. Thanks.

Hotwest:
my online classes are mostly nights or weekends according to your convenient time

How do I enrol?

Hotwest:


Currently speaking Chinese in Nigeria is hot cake. As we owe them loan and the government there is finding way yo reduce the population load ..Their president Xi Jinping through the Chinese ministry of commerce is disbursing money to many crafts and business men to go invest in Africa and most of these men can't speak basic English...so many sort for personal assistant.

I teach it for free but only charge a commitment fee of 2k atleast for my data and sense of commitment on both parties.

They disturb me daily to find who speak like me!

That's the whole package. But If anyone wants to also learn for fun. Im still available but my priority is to link you with them for a job

I am interested but my full time job chokes my time. Can one learn at his convenient time?

Akalia was here

Hmmm.

sukkot:
See at this point I don't understand most Nigerians anymore. Every time I offer a helping hand to Nigerians they turn to your enemy. I don't understand the dynamics behind it. The whole interaction just gets very awkward after that . It's like they hate you for " humbling " them. It never fails.

But the ones who have a pure friendly relationship with you? Are the ones you haven't given anything yet. So in my everyday life person to person I try to do charity because charity covers a multitude of sins and givers never lack.

So this is a recent case study. This young guy , a security guard was sent by the company to guard the house I stay. I would say about 19 years old. One night I went grocery shopping and I was going through the gate he runs over from across the street and told me he was hungry. So I said what does he eat ? He said he likes indomie . So I went to my place and brought out like 5 indomie and 3 soft drinks and 2 sardines and gave it to him. He thanked me.

Every 2 days when I go out I would do small grocery shopping for him. Indomie and biscuits and soft drinks sardine or bread. A few times when I go out to get bottled palmwine for myself I would get him palmwine or orijin beer he likes. But I started noticing his entitlement behaviour like on the days when I don't buy him anything he would time when I Am coming home and sit beside my door when he sees me carrying my own groceries and he would be looking at me like he is depressed. And he would Always be watching me to see if I am going grocery shopping and he would hang around the car to see if I would come out with grocery.

Let's just say this guy got ridiculously stalkerish and so I called him up 4 days ago and asked him has his salary being paid yet? He said yes. Because am thinking all these things he is doing because he is new on the job and has no money and is hungry so I put up with it for like a month.

But once he told me yes that he had being paid, I in a roundabout way told him I don't tolerate the stalking. That he doesn't need to be following me or waiting on me. Anyway since that day this guy just turned into an enemy. Someone who I have been buying groceries for for almost a whole month just turned hostile like that. Now all that time I was buying him grocery he would do ass kissing stuff like when I drop my black trash bag outside my door he would take it to the bin outside for me but since that day the guy just bone my trash bags lol.

Anyway the point here is this ? You create an enemy unknowingly out of those you help - not family members- because I think it is humiliating for them and they despise you for it, so if you are going to offer charity don't offer it to people you have to see on a daily basis. Just find a beggar in the street that you would never see again. Nigerians are funny, they beg you for money but they hate you for giving them that money especially if it is not a life changing amount.

It's like a guy I gave 5000 naira one time and he thought it was an insult, just a regular guy who I don't even know like that, God is my witness, which 5000 is no money but it was just for him to buy beer for the weekend, you can get 15 beers with 5000 when I gave it to him.

So out here on these streets you have to be savage. No more mr nice guy ooo lol. basically if you are not offering guys over 100k just forget it cuz they would hate you. look for a real beggar who would appreciate 5000 or 1000.

Givers never lack. Don't drop your good habit of giving alms to the needy.

Jammey6551:


One drunk man is more sensible than five women with PHDs.

Please can you elucidate. I want to learn more.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Tecnno is a pussy ass phone..


Not for real niggars who wanna install nord vpn, grindr, pof....
If you are niggar and you know all those apps then you must be a real niggar

hmmmm

RevenuesBoost:
I posted this on purpose.
Many couples lack spice in their relationship
They wake up in the morning go to work, come back eat and sleep and put it on replay daily, so marriage becomes boring for them.
No special outings, no weekend relaxation routines, just regular boring daily activities and will complain that their partners are boring or cheats. It's simply because you are not ready to make your marriage your heaven.


I was one of those that believed that clubbing is one bad thing and is meant for prostitutes but I was totally wrong.
The first day my husband took me to a club, I saw people drinking and dancing. I was shocked to also see soft drinks, I was like, so one can get soft drinks in a club, that people have already labeled as a bad place.
I also saw an aged married couple, I was wowed, I loved the fact that they still make themselves feel young as grown parents.


Alcohol is a choice, being an alcoholic is bad but you don't have to judge people by their lifestyles.
I know most food we digest contains alcohol but what one must avoid is excessive intake of it.
I'm not an alcoholic and I don't know what alcohol drink taste like and I don't wish to know but I can't condemn those that love it.


The people who own clubs - did that with the intention of making people happy, believe me, a club is a happy place.
So much smiles, laughter and dancing.

It's a Shame that I don't know how to dance, I surely need dance classes 😄

You sound like someone who lacks exposure. Kini big deal about clubbing?

IyaebeTheGreat:
See the kind of men we have these days. Truly men are scarce, all we have are nothing to write home about, it's either they are druggie, alcohol addicts, bet addicts, brothel addicts and others. If you are a man and do not indulge in any of these may God bless you abundantly , you are the real alpha male and kings every good woman desires. God bless you

What about men that are quick tempered but hard and smart working, reserved, and responsible?

KiNg0G:
Will you blame me? Just this year alone I have slept with 28 girls all prostitute and I did it raw with some of them.

It started last 2week lymph node appeared at the back of my head. While streaming on TikTok they say it's the early signs of HIV. Since Thursday I have been feeling fiverish.. with muscle pain it keeps recurring. I got discharged on Saturday but ran back to the hospital this early morning because I couldn't sleep at night. The doctor was forced to do a general test on me, at first I wanted to insist because I know my yansh will open because have already concluded I'm HIV positive with all this symptoms but I had no choice.. I'm still here in the hospital fixed on drip and the test results just came in to my surprise the nurse said my sugar level is good and I'm HIV negative

This is the same status I have been avoiding
to check because I have made up my mind I'm infected.
I have been thinking how to go for HIV program and the antiviral drug

But how do you manage to get prostitutes to do you raw,I thought they insist on condom use?

Rubyjade:

surprised?

Nazgul:
Siblings don't just fall apart for no reason. Possible reasons why they do include...

1. Polygamy.

2. Poverty.

3. Divorce of parents.

4. Loss of one or both parents.

Your friend's who's elder sister maltreated her, if you dig deep into their family, you'll discover that they fall under one of the reasons I mentioned above.

Your comment is the most spot on. Since both my parents died, I and my siblings are like sworn enemies.

Is it just me, I think the judgment is quite harsh. It does not seem to match the gravity of their offence but what do I know sef!!
This is the law in the UK speaking. I hope every person in the corridor of power in Nigeria will learn from this.

Oh yes. Don't give up. Keep applying.

Lymetsaucer:
Every job should make you earn or Learn.

If you don't Gerrit...

smart talk

I like my job but I need a better one.

1nigeriamyfoot:
My monthly savings is more than your 5yrs salaries

poor boy. Bleep off!

1nigeriamyfoot:
Factory worker sef dey feel special

Carry Ur tribal war go meet your fellow kiddo

Imu re lo n si bii t'obuko, onimu ru'kamo

Do you even have a job if I may ask??

Omawumi17:
Come and join me 💕

I don't like Yoruba cuisine because I find everything about it nauseating, from preparation, to smell, and taste. Igbo cuisine is the best in Nigeria. Proudly Igbo.
I lived in SW for a year and the whole time I never ate in any yoruba restaurant.

sprints1:
Na Una sabi but wait which body will burn in hell. Abi na my spirit wey ascend that will burn. The body is physical how can spirit feel pain without the body wey the nerves

The truth is.. Na this your body wey go go hell or heaven depending on how you take live your life here on earth.

This your ethereal body will transform into an indestructible material that will last for all eternity.

When the transformation is complete only then can the body be able to withstand the intense temperature in the burning chambers of hell without total degradation. On the hand only after the transformation, the body will be fit to enter the realm of heavenly paradise where Jehovah abodes.

No single processed food is entirely health safe for consumption.