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The nightmare of so many ladies that are rip for marriage but her man has not made any move regarding taking her down the aisle has been, how can i make him see reasons why he should marry me.

Carefully go down the article and discover what to you should do to make him marry you.
1) Do what he asks you to do, without question. If a man asks you for a favor, and you question him and say “why”…he will instantly feel like you just don’t want to do it. If you have to ask him why, it sounds like you need him to CONVINCE you to do it. If he has to convince you to do things, do you really understand him?

2) Maintain yourself. Men are visual, which means if you let yourself go, he will lose interest. He doesn’t want to commit to a woman who is only going to get worse. Maintain yourself physically and health wise, to prove you are willing to be the best you can be for him.

3) Trust him. Don’t be scared that he’s going to run off with some other woman, or that he’s lying to you about everything.

4) Regularly give him space. Every guy wants time alone for himself. We all need our personal space, and it’s better if you can give that to him without him having to ask for it or beg you. Do it naturally, and he will appreciate you and think you are marriage material.

5) Be there for him, even if he says nothing about the problem. Show you are supportive of him, by BEING there; WITHOUT questioning him on the problem that is facing him.

6) Be financially dependent. It can help a man to know that you aren’t going to take every last penny he has. Some men fear marriage, because they are afraid of losing all of their money (in a divorce, or even just because of a wife’s spending).

7) Compliment him always, it makes him to believe that you like him and you admire him.
Learn his insecurities. It’s not something people walk around talking about, but sometimes a man hints that he is insecure about something, so that you can avoid the topic or avoid hurting him in the future.

9) Don’t act out toward your man. If he says something that hurts your feelings, or if he does something you disagree with, be Matured in dealing with the issue. Most women’s first reactions would be to become dramatic and emotional and nagging the guy. Don’t do this…because it tells him that you are a nightmare to be married to, because instead of remaining calm and allowing him some room to improve, you are just lashing out at him.

10) Accept responsibility in a fight. Every relationship has its moments where they are disagreements and fights (I don't mean physical asualts). The difference between a healthy relationship that encourages a man to marry you, and an unhealthy marriage that pushes a man away is blame or responsibility.
11) Learn to take a joke, even if its personal. Joke with him, give him the chance as well to joke with you, it creates bound of love between you guys.

12) Learn to accept his criticism. Men criticize to see improvement, and they do it in order to try to help you see things in a different light. They also criticize to try and show you a solution or a better way to do something, if they see you are struggling and this is why you should learn how to take criticism, because if you freak out every time he criticizes you, you tell him that you won’t be able to improve in the future.

13) Be serious where it’s necessary. There’s nothing more discouraging, or annoying to a man, for a woman who does not take SERIOUS issues seriously. A serious issue is something that he considers to be important, and if you can’t take it seriously, he thinks that you don’t take HIM or yourself seriously.

14) Keep your promises. Don't promise what you can not do for, to also force him to do something is not willing or ready to do for you. Anything you should promise, should be something you are 100% sure that you will do within short time.
15) Don’t use excuses. Excuses has destroyed so many marriages, it has destroyed so many relationships that was built to last because one of the parties allowed it.

16) Be comfortable around him. He wants to grab your love handles, and suddenly you are pulling away, asking him if he thinks you are fat. You also become insecure when he wants to make love to you or you just struggle to open up to him. All of these things tell him that you are not comfortable around him, it makes him feel insecure, and also makes him question the point of marrying you.

17) Show love with action. Sure, you said you love him but words only get you so far. He wants to see you showing it with your actions.
18) Don’t be afraid to draw the lines. Give him that attention, he wants it, give him the line of your love for him, and watch him follow you.

19) Show appreciation. Appreciate everything he is doing for the good of both of you. Appreciating him will give him the courage to do more for you.
20) Encourage him to succeed daily. Be a motivator for him and not someone who discourages him in so many angle.

21) Take his problem solving advice. When he advise you on how to tackle a problem, endeavor to accept it. Go with it, don't reject it even if you think it may not go as supposed.
22) Be calm when he is stressed. When a man is stressed it can be a HUGE problem, because he acts out of character, is unpredictable, may lash out at you, and may... https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/41-things-woman-should-do-to-get-her.html

Are you guys saying that all women cheat?

Sex during pregnancy is good for both you and your baby: It can help you sleep better, lower your blood pressure during pregnancy, and even make you happier!
Some people think that if you have sex during pregnancy, the semen will spill on the baby and might kill it OR the penis might be hitting the baby's head and affect it OR contractions from an orgasm might cause miscarriage. Well, these are misconceptions.
When you're pregnant the cervix position is firm, long and closed until the third trimester.
Some doctors believe that prostaglandins in semen may induce labor in a full-term or past-due pregnancy, since the gel used to "ripen" the cervix and induce labor also contains prostaglandins.
However, the only exception to sex during pregnancy is if your doctor or midwife has advised you specifically that it might be a problem due to vaginal bleeding, recurrent miscarriage, cervical incompetence or anything else that poses a risk.

Now lets talk about the benefits of having sex when you are pregnant.

1) Sex during pregnancy is a form of exercise. It can help you stay active and healthy. You burn out up to 50 calories in just half an hour and this is good for both you and your baby.
2) Sex is a great way to prevent high blood pressure during pregnancy. It can reduce the risk of preeclampsia. Sperm contains a special protein that increases the chances for a successful pregnancy.

3) Sex reduces pain and discomfort. This is because of the feel-good hormone (oxytocin) which is released when you have an orgasm. Oxytocin can increase your tolerance for pain. After sex, you may notice you don’t even feel that achy back or crampy leg anymore.

4) Sex can boost your immunity. Pregnant women are usually more vulnerable to illnesses BUT researches have shown that the Oxytocin released during orgasm can boost your immune system and defend your body against infections and illnesses.

5) During pregnancy, sex offers the couple or partners the opportunity to explore certain sex positions they may not have tried before. You may even later prefer those positions as your favorites even after delivery.

6) Sex creates a bond between the partners as the two people do not have to sexually starve for over 9 months. When sex continuous during pregnancy it doesn't break the bond between them.

7) Pregnancy can be an emotional roller coaster, as you might sometimes find yourself feeling anxious, weepy or stressed, but sex can be a great way to decompress and just be in the moment.

Sex is even more enjoyable during pregnancy especially for the woman because the blood flow in her vulva.

9) Sex can help you feel more relaxed. So you might find yourself tossing and turning a little less afterwards. The rocking can even calm your baby to sleep, which could mean fewer kicks while you’re trying to doze off.

10) Sex during pregnancy can make delivery easier, this is because the sperm is rich in hormone known as prostaglandins which helps in uterus contractions.

Take note that you should not feel compelled to have sex. Every woman’s body is different. Not every pregnant woman feels like having sex. If you feel you like it and you’re comfortable with it, go ahead.
Sex during pregnancy is not harmful and can continue throughout the nine months of pregnancy unless doctor has said otherwise...
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/08/the-untold-health-benefit-of-having-sex.html?m=1

If you Help her in domestic work, next time she would expect you to sweep the compound in the morning.
If you Suprise her and prepare a nice meal, next option you will be the one to dish food for your self.
If you help her to Take water for her to the bathroom when she is sick and she wont bath again till you take it there for her and If you want to resist any of this she would say after all you use to do them before.

If you Help her in the kitchen everyday she would stick you do it so.
Ask her opinion in decision making she will say i dont have any thing to say, and when you make decision without her consent she will say you are ruling her.
If you Tell her the truth when things go wrong she will cry every day and think her life to death and try to cover up because of her feelings, you will become a liar.
If you Do things that please her and you will be the best man on earth but offend her in the next minute you will become the worst man on earth.
If you Help her Arrange the bed and next time she will ask why the pillow is without case.
If you Eat and help her take the plates to the kitchen next time if she eats with you she will leave the dining table before you so that you will pack the plate.

If you touch her in the midnight she Will say you are disturbing her and when you learn to sleep on your own she will say you don't care at night again.

If you Bleep her hard she'll say you are fucking her as if she is your girlfriend or harlots (ashawo) but try Bleep her soft she will insult you of performing poor...
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There's still no agreement for Amotekun.
Please which way, Naija?

AnanseK:
So PDP paid for Oyo, Sokoto, Bauchi and Benue Elections since the won their cases at the Supreme Court.

If you ask me, nah who I go ask!

There is no judiciary in naija.
Your money is your judiciary.

So many times ladies has been complaining that men are bad, that men are wicked that after dating a man with so much commitments he will go and marry another lady when he wants to marry.

But the fact is that ladies are the major reasons why there's much break up with them.
Here's the reasons why your man has not proposed to marry unless you do something about it...
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/here-is-reasons-why-your-man-has-not.html

How sure are you that this will not be soon polluted.?
I wish it will really stay.

The normal menstrual cycle ranges from 21 days 28 days to 35 days. A period is considered irregular if it occurs less than 21 days or more than 35 days apart.
So if the number of days between stopping and starting your period is significantly different each month, your period is irregular.

1. CHRONIC STRESS
Stress can affect a woman’s hormone balance which can cause irregular periods. Seek ways to reduce stress and relax better.

2. BIRTH CONTROL PILLS
Going on and off birth control pills can affect menstruation. Going on a pill can cause a woman to miss periods or have less or more frequent periods. Some women have irregular or missed periods for up to six months after discontinuing birth control pills.

3. EXTREME EXERCISE
Exercise is good for everyone as it helps keep us healthy but extreme exercise can cause women to have irregular periods.

4. GAINING OR LOSING A SIGNIFICANT AMOUNT OF WEIGHT
Gaining or losing a significant amount of weight can cause irregular periods. Being underweight, whether from dieting or illness can also cause irregular period.

5. PELVIC INFLAMMATORY DISEASE
Pelvic Inflammatory disease (PID) is a bacterial infection that can cause irregular periods. The bacteria causing PID can be gotten through sex, abortion or childbirth.

6. POLYCYSTIC OVARY SYNDROME (PCOS)/HORMONAL IMBALANCE
PCOS is a medical condition that causes cysts to form on ovaries, which can prevent eggs from maturing, and so ovulation may not take place consistently. Women with PCOS usually have a history of irregular periods.
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Please someone should help me with the best App for web development.

The worst security agency in the world has killed someone he is supposed to be protecting and be fighting for.
What a shame.

Most picture doesn't need compliment.
Just pass silently

Please ooooo
When this jubilation turn to tears please don't forget to come and announce it to the public.

When judiciary is dead, law becomes useless

God please avenge the blood of the innocent, Amen

Will she turn the judgement made against her father?
Please talk to me

I heard that the judiciary has been privatized, please who bought it?
Naija is finished.

In relationship there are things you must drop behind you, that is if you re truly ready to have a sustainable relationship with anyone

1: Avoid self: me me has killed so many relationship, its made of pride, egocentric, drama proud, pomposity etc holding on to who you are, into marriage will make you not to have a successful marriage/
relationship because it breeds lack of respect and value to other.
Even your parents are zillionaires you must decide to leave let go of what they are or what you think you have.
No man would want to have a woman who is full of pride or ready to compete with a woman he call his wife.

2) Avoid Anger:
Anger is a fugitive, it does not build relationship rather a destroyer. Anger is a serious a mental sickness that is capable of destroying what you have build. Fool are control by anger.
Avoid malice: malice breeds unforgiven spirit that is capable of destroying your spiritual.

3) Malice in a relationship is a self bondage, malice is a murder, anyone that keeps evil in his or her is a murderer. Malice is hatred, when you allow hatred into your relationship/ marriage your relationship won't grow. Forgiveness is the medicine, learn to forgive for your heart sake or for the sake of the penitent which Godly.
4) Avoid the spirit of incorrigibility: the spirit of incorrigibility tells you that you are the perfectionist and nobody is better off except you.
The spirit of incorrigibility will make you refuse to order from your superiors in the office let alone husband. Spirit of incorrigibility tells you that everyone is wrong you that one that is right. If you don't avoid it, learn to have someone you can hear from and take order from it shows that you accountable and knowing that you are accountable to someone will build you and install fear in you that there will be judgement.
5) Avoid lies: lies is like fuel, its spreads faster, engulfs quicker and spreads like cancer. He who build a relationship/
marriage on lies is building in shallow grounds. Lies has only few days to stand, whence a lie is told anywhere you will need other ten lies to cover and protect just one lie.
6) Avoid it, learn to build in truth which is a symbol of the solid ground.
Avoid over expectations:
No man on earth can give 70% of what you want, no not at all, only God can offer you 200% of all you want.
Therefore, I encourage you to know that marriage is a team work,
Marriage is not a temporary estate where you can park in today and park out tomorrow,
Marriage is like a pack of sugar if which if its not properly covered many ant will be interested to have it.
Marriage/relationship gives you what you give it.
Let's build in love, in free mind, in a cheerful heart and...
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/20-essential-skills-every-relationship.html?m=1

ItooWorWor:
Why is it that Shia muslims and Sunni muslims kills and bomb eachother on daily bases and i have never seen Catholic and Pentecostal Christians do such why why

This one weak me oo

These essential relationship skills are needed in every relationship. I expect you take a hard look at yourself after reading this article and find out the essential skills lacking in your relationship.

1) YOU TAKE AN INTEREST IN WHAT’S IMPORTANT TO YOUR PARTNER.
You need this essential skill in your relationship if you want to make it work. It’s important you take an interest in what’s important to your partner.

2) SEE THINGS FROM YOUR PARTNER’S PERSPECTIVE.
Another important relationship skill you need to have is the ability to see things from your partner’s perspective. When you see things from your partner’s point of view, so many issues would be averted in your relationship.

3) YOU TOUCH YOUR PARTNER AFFECTIONATELY.
You need to express love for your partner through touch. Do you hold your partner’s hand when out in public? Do you always seek to give your partner a hug? Ability to express your love through touch is another essential skill you need to have a successful relationship.

4) YOU SEEK WAYS TO SETTLE ARGUMENTS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP QUICKLY.
Arguments whether major or minor are bound to happen in every relationship. The ability to settle arguments quickly in your relationship in a healthy way is really important in every relationship.

5) KNOWING WHEN YOUR PARTNER NEEDS SOME TLC.
Picking up on your partner’s cues when your partner needs some TLC is a very important relationship skill you need.

6) ABILITY TO HAVE FUN WITH YOUR PARTNER.
Do you always create out time to have good fun with your partner? Having fun in your relationship is really important. You need to make an effort to do the things that you and your partner enjoy doing together.

7) ABILITY TO EXPRESS LOVE VERBALLY.
Expressing love verbally in your relationship is very important. When was the last time you told your partner you love him or her? Do not underestimate the power of expressing love verbally in your relationship.

ABILITY TO BE THERE FOR YOUR PARTNER DURING TOUGH TIMES.
You shouldn’t just be with your partner during good times, your partner also expects you to be there during tough times too. The ability to genuinely care for your partner during tough times is a relationship ability you need.

9) YOU SPLIT THE TASKS AND DO YOUR FAIR SHARE.
This tip is really important for the men. Men have this attitude of thinking all they have to do is watch TV while the lady cleans up and cook his meals. If you desire a ... https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/20-essential-skills-every-relationship.html?m=1

Maturity is in the brain and that's what you have displayed here.
That's good for her.

Why is that Nigeria Christian's are always against themselves?
Catholic Church doesn't believe that Pentecostal church worship God in the good way likewise the Pentecostal church.
Why?

Is he proud of himself?
Is he happy that the man is humiliated out of governor's office?

Tomorrow she will lie for one innocent man that she's a virgin.

Talking about the various sex positions that exist won’t make you know her really well. Here are the deep questions you should ask your girlfriend or boyfriend if you really want to know him or her

1. Where is your favourite place to escape to? This might come in handy in future.

2. What are you afraid of the most? Asking her about her deepest fears will help you understand deep things about her.

3. What clothing brand do you love the most? This information will be useful when you need to get a gift.

4. If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be? This will help you understand the things about herself she sees as a flaw.

5. What are you passionate about? Knowing what she’s passionate about is important if you want a successful relationship.

6. How much public display of affection (PDA) is acceptable to you? Every woman has an acceptable level of PDA she can handle and it’s important to know how much is acceptable to her.

7. What quality do you cherish the most in a friend? This will give you a clue of the qualities she expects you to have.

8. Where do you see yourself in ten (10) years? This question will help you understand her ambitions in her life?

9. Who is your favourite author? Knowing the kind of books she enjoys reading can reveal a lot about her personality to you.

10. What do you like best about yourself? This question will help you understand the things about her she considers as her strengths.

11. Have you ever loved someone and do you believe in love? This question will help you understand how she sees love.

12. What’s your favourite food? The way to a woman’s heart is also through her stomach so cooking her favourite food will wow her.

13. What makes you fall in love with someone? This will reveal the traits she expects from a romantic partner.

14. What would you do different if you could turn back time? This will help you understand the thing she regrets the most.

15. How do you enjoy spending your weekends? This will give you a clue about the things you can do to make her weekend memorable.

16. What’s the one thing you’d love to learn more about? Helping her achieve this will definitely strengthen the bond you both share.

17. What is the hardest lesson you had to learn in life? This will reveal important lessons she learned that helped shape her life.

18. If you had a million dollars, what will you do with it? This question will help you reveal how she sees money.

19. Do you plan your life or live for the moment?
20. What’s the one thing you can’t take from your partner? This will reveal the things you need to avoid doing while dating her and...
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/8-reasons-your-wife-will-cheat-on-you.html

Benmen:
yeah trying to keep myself for single lady but my gf prefer using condom

Maybe you should keep trying different brand of condom until your penis accept one.

There's nothing wrong with her giving you this styles.
Don't forget that social media can do some many things.
Do you know of groups and pages she is following on Facebook and Twitter that teaches about bed activities.
In a bid to make you happy in bed she might have searched the internet so another Woman will not take you away from her while she is for you.
If you can, lovely and romantically ask her where she got all the style, I believe she can tell you.

Your penis hate condom so you better keep yourself for one lady who is clean and then you should be doing withdrawal whenever you are about to ejaculate if you don't want to father a child.

He is lusting after her.
Seeing someone in the church for the first time you start telling her that you love her and you think she will give in immediately just like that.