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Youths panel beated a hungry man because the economy is tough, what has youths done to those stealing our money in billions with their biro.

This is very bad.
A married woman that is having sex with another, probably another Woman's husband, what is she enjoying that can't enjoy with her husband.
If her husband doesn't drill her well, let her give her the idea on how to do it than getting it outside

Why is it that 90% of the celebrities don't get married and those that married got divorced?

Good lesson for those are really "brother wey mumu"
You fought for her, you got your head bathered with blood, her appreciation is to take selfish photo with you.

Who else can do what this guy did?
Please raise your hand .

Sex is one of the lifewire of both Marriage and Relationships.
Erectile dysfunction can be taken care of, if only the victim is ready to deal with it.
No woman can stand the test of no sex in a Marriage, even those that are Rev. They will tell you that is not easy.
We are all human being so pretending that you will be in a Marriage without sex, it's a lie.

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Mr100Dollars:
I just get to know one little girl my ex introduced to me as her younger sister, is actually her daughter from another guy, and i have been giving her head which is forbidden to me when it comes to sex. Now i'm feeling so stupid. How can i forgive myself, and i feel so sorry for my mouth and lips.

You said you just discovered, which means you don't until now.
You don't have to kill yourself because of that.
It has happened, you should also thank God that you are not dating her when you discovered it. My just forgive yourself and move on with your life.

How many of Nigeria university is listed among the best in Africa and in the world? Why not upgrade our universities and then add the department of transportation to all of them.
Do we have good road where the knowledge gotten in this University of transportation will be practice?
Is all our Airports in order?
How many good and standard international airport do we have in Nigeria?
Argue with your keyboard

I don't see anything bad here.
She a human being, she's a woman, she has hormones that response to stimulus.
So is clear that she will have sexual desires like every other woman out there.
She deserves the respect of a woman too.

Invitation for free sex because is black Friday

May her Soul Rest in Peace, Amen.
Please women, always examine your breasts especially before going to bed every night.
This is because it will help you to identify the signal on time.
Again, give your man the opportunity to suck your breasts, is one of the best way you can be saved from the danger of breast cancer.

It's annoying. It could be ambiguous. It's inevitable too.
So as far as obligations go, you have to pay tax.
Just follow me closely.

Taxes in Nigeria are of 2 categories:
Federal taxes such as Companies Income Tax, Value Added Tax, Education Tax, etc.
And
State taxes which includes Personal Income Tax, Business Premises Tax, Development levy, etc.

But, yours truly, CEROBOOKS, is all about the Small and Medium businesses so I'll be talking about the taxes most relevant to startups and small businesses.
Shall we?

Companies Income Tax (CIT): This is a 30% annual tax on profits of resident and non-resident companies incorporated in Nigeria.
However, small businesses in the manufacturing sector, as well as those that are export-oriented, with a turnover of less than ₦1,000,000, pay 20% instead. To file, audited financial statements are required.
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Value Added Tax (VAT): This is a 5% tax imposed on the supply of goods and services. Companies do not pay VAT but are mandated to collect it from customers and remit all collections to the Federal Inland Revenue Service (FIRS) before the 21st day of the succeeding month.
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Personal Income Tax (PIT): This is a tax on all working individuals in Nigeria, be it, a farmer, tailor, civil servant, lawyer and even members of the armed forces. The rate varies and is dependent on the taxable income.
The taxable income is what remains from the annual gross income (total salaries and allowances earned each year) after you deduct:
✔️Contribution to the Nigerian Pension Fund (8% of income);
✔️Contribution to the National Health Insurance Scheme (5% of income);
✔️Contribution to the National Housing Fund (2.5% of income);
✔️Consolidated relief allowance (1% of gross income or ₦200,000+1% of earned income);
✔️Gratuities; life assurance payments; rent and business expenses; bad debt recovered; and...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/11/here-ia-what-nobody-has-told-you-about.html?m=1

In Nigeria, witches and wizard are not doing their job well.
They should be talking about removing any bad leader out of office, whether president, State Governor, Local government chairman or a minister.

Bobrisky, you are one of the reasons why God regretted why he created human being.

"But refuse profane and old wives' fables, and exercise thyself rather unto godliness. For bodily exercise profiteth little: but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come." 1 Timothy 4:7-8

MESSAGE
Godliness is a way of living that manifests the character of God. Man was created in the image of God and it is expected that man should possess the character of God. Paul warned Timothy that in the later days many who claimed to be the Children of God shall depart from the faith and pay attention to seducing spirits and strange teachings involving devilish acts and practices. He encouraged Timothy to hold fast to godliness (1 Timothy 6:11) and to develop a true respect and love for God.

Some people are seen to be professional Christians, that is, they claim to be Christians by mouth but they refused to put to practice their Christianity. Many others are practicing a form of godliness but denied of divine power; they appear to be religious but their understanding and worship of God has little or no effect on their lives.

True godliness, however, is a great gain. It is important in the whole of our lives because it has a promise that covers our present life and also the life to come. Godliness brings protection (1 Samuel 24:1-22); long life (Psalm 91:14-16); promotion (Genesis 37:23-28); prosperity (Joshua 1: etc.

Let us endeavour, in all aspects of our lives on earth, to exercise ourselves unto godliness for it is profitable.

ACTION POINT
� Learn to be a practical Christian.

SCRIPTURE READING
Psalm 34:12-15; 1 Timothy 4:15; 2 Peter 1:5-6.

PRAYER POINTS
1. Lord Jesus, teach me your ways;

2. O Lord God, give me the grace to be a doer of The Word in the name of Jesus.

3. Lord, take away every act of ungodliness from me in the name of Jesus.

THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
2 Chronicles 21-22; Ezekiel 40; John 17
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That's the power of sex

Imagine looking for a free ticket to have sex with your husband's friend.
And you think it will work.

He is not supposed to be called a father.
How can he bring his profession into his home, is he insane.

showafrica:
Na only a good guy man can do this... The op na woman wrapper. Simply tell ur wife say make she dey tell her sister to inform her before coming. Say the other, you thought she is the one bathing and mistakenly open bathroom door. That you apologized to her simple. If the idiotic sister go tell am say you enter, deny am sharperly. But at least no more black mailing

And the wife sister will know that the guy is not a mugu

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Raw sex is only good if is someone you are married to or someone you can
tell at least 80% of her lifestyle.
Say no for raw sex.

DenreleDave:
Riele, I sight you but as a lady and wife to be, what can we offer men in a relationship?
Is there anytin like helping a man set up a business, get a job, build a career at all?
Is it only our honeypot that is used as a thank you for all the help and assistance we get from men.


Share your opinions, ladies Pls come

Cc: Riele RedCreme21 funmisticqueen Funmmyastic
chenzen (original woman wrapper chenzen), NaijaOlosho

Any lady that has sex as the only thing she will offer her man in their relationship is better she
is not created because she is a liability to both the guy and her parents as well.
Apart from sex, there are so many thing a lady can give her man,
1) Support him financially as you are able to. It could be in his business, school, house rent and so on.
2) Buy him gifts. The best gifts you can give your man is when you buy something that he
needs but he either doesn't have the cash or he doesn't have the chance to go get the thing.
A good man that loves and cherish you, can not take it for granted.
3) Support him emotionally, spiritually and mentally. Pray for his jobs or business, pray for him
to have wisdom - remember no one is perfect. Advise him when the need arises, he will always value
your opinion if you truly give him good advise.
4) Take him out on a date, sponsor the bills, is not a crime, neither will you lose value if you do it.
It will make him to believe that you are not just after his money but in a situation where he
insisted that he want to pay for the expenses, that is a different case than you
not showing concern.
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spymasters0984:
Good morning all,

I had to register this account because I need advice from matured minds. I got married to my wife three years ago and she has a younger Sister who was two years younger. They both look alike, same body build, voice and face. I actually thought they were twins when I first saw them together. She do come to our house for weekends or the holiday as she and my wife were so close. She knows where we keep our house keys. We are yet to have kids and sometimes I appreciate her presence as she keeps my wife company.

Last month, I went to watch a late premiership match at a bar not far from the house and I took some few drinks like I always do with the guys. I wasn't drunk, just a bit light headed. I drove home immediately after the match around 8pm and opened the door with my key. PHCN took the light as soon as I entered and Everywhere was dark. I heard the shower running and thought my wife was in the bathroom. Normally, I and my wife love spontaneous sex as it spice up our relationship. So I decide to get naughty and have sex. So, I stripped and opened the bathroom and said, Honey, let's have a quickie". Without waiting for reply, I pushed her to the wall and penetrated from behind.

One thing, I first noticed was that my thing went inside so smoothly without any resistance. My wife was a virgin when we met and even till now, she still complain of me being big for her. I thought it was the shower water that made it so frictionless so I kept thrusting. The next thing ,I heard was "Uncle Dele(not my real name), please harder, yes, hit me well, I love your dick inside me". That was when I realized it wasn't my wife. Immediately, my eyes cleared and I pulled out. I started apologizing to her that I thought it was her Sister, my wife. I quickly dashed out of the bathroom, ran to the room, put my clothes, grabbed my phone and put on the phone torch. She had also left for the other room so I went to knock and started apologizing again. She had put on her clothes also. She said I ought not to apologize as I clearly thought she was my wife and it was a case of mistaken identity. We were still talking when we heard the door being opened and I dashed to my room.

We acted like normal when her sister came in and didn't say a word to each other. Though, I felt so guilty as I had never cheated on my wife since we got married. Even my wife was surprised her sister was around as she didn't tell her she was coming. What happened was my wife went to the superstore to get some things, that was why she wasn't at home as I left her at home when I was going to watch match. My in-law left the following day.

I met with my sister-in-law three days later and I apologize again and we both agreed to keep it as a secret between us as it would hurt my wife so much. She has had two miscarriages since we got married. Her sister also agreed to keep quite, but she made a statement that made me nervous. She said "Uncle Dele, you are so big o. Is that what my sister has been enjoying". I was a bit angry, but I didn't want to make an issue out of it so I smiled and let it pass.

Fast forward to last week, She called me that she needed 50k to get something and if I can help her. In the past, I do give her money but always through my wife. 5k, 10k or thereabout but nothing like the 50k she's asking for now. So I informed my wife of the request and she was angry on why she should be demanding for such amount and called her to tell her what she feels. Only for her to call me and sounding angry on why I had to tell my wife she's asking money from me. I calmly told her that my wife knows about all my finances and it is not new that I am informing my wife of such request. However in order for peace to reign, I convinced my wife and we sent 20k to her, which she never called back to say thank you.

Yesterday, she called me again asking for 30k to do something, which she didn't say what it was. I was at work so I told her, I will call her back later. I never had the chance to call her until she called me later in the evening sounding so angry that I didn't call her back and she needed the money unfailingly before Saturday. I politely told her, I don't have any money and will have to inform my wife about it, which she told me not to tell her. Actually, I am in a fix as one thing I hate is someone blackmailing me, though she hasn't said she will tell my wife about what transpired between us. Her tone and attitude towards me is suggesting she's trying to take advantage of me.

I don't know if I should confess to my wife as I don't want to be someone maga. However, I don't want my wife to go through any stress as we just discovered she's pregnant again and don't want any issue again. Please , I need advice as I don't want to give her any money by weekend. Thanks

I don't believe in accidental sex or sex by mistake.
Is either the two people involve planned it or one of them planned it just to take advantage of the
other person.
You know how it all happened, instead of becoming "brother wey mumu" for her.
Kindly tell your wife everything and sincerely apologize to her.
If you don't do this now, by the time your wife hears it from her sister or from someone else, she
can never believe that you have not been cheating on her all this while.

Most folks, especially Nigerian men, do feel they are doing women favor when they marry them as single mothers, but it's a paradox and a social myth that must be educated.
In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go to buy.
Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE; some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.

1) Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.

2) If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3) Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

4) Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.
5) If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget; see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.

6) If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the biological father.

7) Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that child's educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively when they play together. If the father supports good, but if he does not be ready to train the....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/11/the-untold-life-of-single-mothers.html

When you are in love with someone and probably the person doesn't know yet that you are in love with him despite some efforts you have made to show it to him or he is aware that you love but you have you to prove it to him.
Here are the things you should do.
1) Say It out to the person.
Once you know you have falling in love with someone, voice it out, don’t keep the feeling to yourself. It feel good to tell someone you love him or her and you would want to have intimate relationship with him, it proves you are matured and romantic as well. You can say it via voice message if you want or through text messages or social media chats.
2) You will always be honest with him. Always be open with them in everything you do, whether for him specifically or for anything that involves him.
3) Give him attention. One of the major ways you can show someone that you love him is the quality of attention you give to him. Create out time for him so you can hang out together, gist together, look each other in the eyes, appreciate each other's beauty and handsomeness, tell him how special he is to you and that is why you chooses him over others, tell love stories, tell him how you missed him during the day. Invite him to your house as well - even if is not weekly, entertain him as much as you can.
4) Assist him or her. You show love to someone by assisting them, that necessarily doesn't mean that they are incapable of doing that thing but because you want to relief him of the stress if he is doing it alone and also because by being on his side, he will be happy. Also by assisting him, you are showing him that you are happy when he is happy. Assistance can be in the form of money -paying of bills, food and doing domestic work etc.
5) Buying gifts for him. One of the best ways to express love is by gifts and one of the best gifts is the one the person needs but could not be able to afford it within that time. It could be shoes, shirt, boxer, phone, bag or computer. It will make the...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/11/when-you-are-inlove-with-someone-and.html

Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago,to cut long story short she told me that she is in a relationship.i respected the fact that she have a guy And I stopped making advance as a gentleman. but I call as much as possible just to check on her.
then one night her boyfriend chatted me up on whatsap and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend. I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.
II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to,she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. she was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend"

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people relationship.

the girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..
I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind off confused to chose between her guy and me.I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.
few days ago, the girl said she want to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

please nairalanders, what should I do.

If she break up with her boyfriend because of you, she will break up with you because of another guy.
Also, Don't create enemity between you and her boyfriend, give up on her even though I know is not easy but you can do it.
Go for another girl is better than being the cause of another man's sadness.

They kicked her out for the sake of the person next to her before the person will die because of suffocation.
Have you imagine been in a bus with this kind of person? It will be better you board another bus because of your safety.

That was the topic of my sermon in the vigil last night..
Our focus was on Gen 49:1-3.
I discovered this that, many high flying destiny carriers are reduced to nothing because of a careless utterance from parents to their children, particularly when they offend them. "You're not a serious child", "Your head is not correct" "You're an irresponsible child" You're mad". "Your children will do same to you". Just few....
A man who is supposed to be a world class medical doctor is a herbal medicine doctor in the village, A great engineer is reduced to a blacksmith, producing knives and hole in the village". You can not stay in one marriage, You have tried all the business in this world yet you can't just settle down. You get good jobs, but you can't stay or you get sacked for no reason.... All because your mother or father angrily said something and the devil quickly stamped it.. Reuben suffered it for years, though he caused it, but yet, the father would have punished him and spare his destiny. THANK GOD FOR MOSES WHO CAME IN POSITION OF SPIRITUAL FATHER AND REVERSED THE CURSE. Hear me beloved, Maybe, some of the things happening around you, is as a result of a word or words uttered on you by your parents, honestly, they never meant it or knew the aftermath results, yet you're already a victim. Or you're a parent and you've carelessly said something to your children, pls call them and lay hands on them or bless them. WHATEVER IS THE CASE, I STAND IN POSITION OF A SPIRITUAL FATHER AND I PROPHESY NOW, EVERY NEGATIVE CURSE ON YOUR DESTINY, BINDING YOU FROM PROGRESSING, BY FIRE, I REVERSE IT IN JESUS NAME, Amen .
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internationalman:
I'd rather eat a fellow human being than eat a snake

O my goodness.
This snake in particular is very sweet o.
I rather eat it every month than eating human being o.

niaralandtopuser:
what will be the use of the offering when you will be having sex the next minute? you think God hungry ? I blame all these so-called men of god that focus all their energy on gathering wealth on earth ignoring the most important things

You got it.
Is even better that the guy didn't come to to church that day.