1) Listen to him when he talks. Your husband wants you to listen attentively to him when he talks. He want you to listen the way a good student will listen to the teacher. He doesn’t want you to be distracted when he is talking to you, especially when he is telling you about his vision, plans, job, exploits, etc. If you fail to do this, he will lose interest in talking to you and look for somebody else

2) Eye contact. Don’t just listen to him, make eye contact with him and let him know you are interested.

3) React to what he is saying. Shake your head, smile, frown, shout, hail him, praise, and add something as the case may be. This will make him happy and encourage him to talk to you the more and give you his attention.

4) Enter into his world. You can’t get your husband if you fail to reason like a man. You must allow what thrills him thrill you. You may wonder what thrills him about football. That is a man for you, enter into his world!

5) Attend to him at the table. Don’t just serve his food and go away. Eat with him, or stay with him as he eats his food. Give him your attention at the dining table.

6) Give him domestic solution. Attend to his needs at home, make sure the home is conducive for him. Make water and food ready and keep the house clean and sparkling.

7) Put him ahead of your job and children. Make him a top of priority. Love him more than you love your children and let him know you do.

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Jeremih1:
Hello nairalanders, I want to know if there is any remedy for a small manhood, or any perfect pill that increases a small penis. Thank u

How do you is small?
What is the length when you have erection?
The length of the penis during erection will tell how it's.

horpigee1:
she is coming to my place tomorrow and i don't want to miss this great chance.
.
my brain has been working like a clock since she agreed to come to my house tomorrow. what I'm planning now is how to panaku her toto.
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dudes in the house, pls how do I initiate her into love making.

You have to be romantic.
Start caressing her body, you can start from her laps.
Sit close to her, look straight into her eyes and she will be tempted to kiss you.
From the kissing, your hand will start the rest of the job in her breasts.

Please don't press the breasts as if you are pressing satchet water, you just have to romance the nipples and she will be wet after some minutes and then beg you to enter her Hot pot.

Romance her into the realm.

Thegeneralqueen:
Why not......why would a guy ask you sex in a relationship when he's not your husband

What about after getting married to him it happens that he is impotent?
Or that his penis doesn't get erection?
Or that he has a micro-penis .

What will be your reaction?

Are you tired of being repulsive to men? Do they just date you and then dump you? Here are things you can do to make a man fall in love with you, propose to you, get married to you and stick to you forever...

1) RESPECT HIM: Learn-to respect men from the bottom of your heart. No man can resist a woman who shows him respect, it's a huge turn on.

2) SHOW GRATITUDE: learn to appreciate every good thing men do for you. A woman who knows how to appreciate a man has him at her beck and call.

3) ADMIRE HIM: men love to be admired. His intelligence, achievement, good looks and career means a lot to him.

4) PRAISE HIM: each time he does something extra ordinary, lavish praise on him. Don't flatter him though, men hate flattery, it's a big turn off.

5) DON'T COME CHEAP: Don't be too desperate to get married. Men can smell it afar off and keep off. No one wants a desperate woman.

6) HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE : One sure fire proof way to make a man pursue you is to have self confidence. Confident women turn men on. You make your self a grand prize that requires extra effort to be won. Men like to win. Your confidence makes him wants to "win" you.

7) GET A LIFE: have a career, business, vision, goals, great dreams. Men love women who do something worth while with their lives not a sleeping beauty waiting for some Prince Charming to rescue her from the doldrums of poverty. No one wants to marry a liability.

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The Scripture tells us that the Father is in heaven and the Son is at His right hand (Matthew 6:9; 23:9; Romans 8:34). But where is the Holy Spirit? Can we assign Him a location?

As God, the Holy Spirit is omnipresent. At the same time, He is present in a special way in God’s people. According to 1 Corinthians 6:19–20, the Holy Spirit dwells within every believer in Jesus Christ. The bodies of Christians are His temple (1 Corinthians 3:16).

We know that the Holy Spirit was sent by the Father. Jesus comforted His followers before He was crucified by saying, “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you” (John 14:26); and, “I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever” (John 14:16). Jesus’ promise was fulfilled in Acts 2, when the Holy Spirit indwelled and empowered the disciples in Jerusalem.

The Holy Spirit did not always indwell God’s people. The Holy Spirit appeared only sporadically in the Old Testament. Rather than dwell within the hearts of people as He would do after the ministry of Christ, the Holy Spirit temporarily came upon certain men in the Old Testament to enable them to carry out God’s plan. He came upon Moses and then upon the seventy leaders Moses chose to help him (Numbers 11:16–17, 25). He came upon King Saul (1 Samuel 10:6; 19:23). He came upon David when Samuel anointed him as the next king (1 Samuel 16:13). He came upon Balaam to give him a prophecy (Numbers 24:2).

In the Old Testament, the Holy Spirit would come and go. After God’s work had been accomplished on a specific occasion, or when people began to disobey the Lord, the Spirit would depart. He departed from Saul (1 Samuel 16:14). He departed from Samson (Judges 16:20). His filling, empowering presence was not permanent in any individual at that time; rather, the Spirit “rested on” or “came upon” individuals who had a divine task to accomplish. God worked differently with humanity before the coming of His Son, Jesus (John 3:16–18). When God had an earthly temple, that was the place where His Spirit dwelt among His people (Exodus 25:8; 2 Chronicles 7:16). But when Jesus died, the veil in the temple was torn in two (Mark 15:38). God ushered in a new “temple” for His Spirit—the body and soul of every believer who receives Jesus as Lord and Savior (John 1:12; Romans 10:9–10).

Because He dwells in us, the Holy Spirit helps us pray (Romans 8:26). He comforts us (Psalm 34:18; 2 Corinthians 1:4). And He gives us words to say when we speak on His behalf (Luke 12:12). The Holy Spirit is everywhere that believers go. That’s one reason Christians must remain aware of their actions and attitudes. Because He lives in us, we are warned not to grieve or quench Him (Ephesians 4:30; 1 Thessalonians 5:19). We take Him with us wherever we go, and He is a part of everything we are doing. We develop a healthy fear of the Lord when we live with the continual awareness that the Holy Spirit is watching and evaluating everything we think, say, and do (Job 28:28; Proverbs 9:10; 16:6).

If you want to be a confident woman, there are certain qualities you should possess.

1) Confident women knows that no one is perfect and they admit their flaws.

2) Confident women go for quality and not quantity when choosing friends. Because she knows that her type of friends will affect her life positively or negatively so she choose them and they don't choose her.

3) Confident women don’t make false promises. They say no when it’s necessary and yes when it's necessary.

4) Confident women don’t take things personally. They understand everyone is entitled to their opinion and they have the freedom to express it.

5) Confident women love themselves and don’t try to be someone else.

6) Confident women listen to their instincts.

7) Confident women don’t succumb to peer pressure. They do things because they want to do them and not because they were forced to do them.

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kmst:
So i was having doggy sex with my girlfriend
She is slim ,her ass not big since she has small body and she didnt shave too and i was feeling bruising pain but also at some point i felt like i was going against bony structure which caused sharp pain anytime i thrust in .
After i went back home my dick skin was bruised
Took about 5days to heal now am afraid of trying dogyy again with her since she likes it ,that was the very first time we did doggy.I told her i bruised myself maybe due to the friction with hair but didn't tell of the other thing
I like to know if anybody here has had such an experience, any solutions or explanation that may help me

The cause of it is because she didn't shave her VG.
So the hairs is responsible for the bruise.
Let her shave the hair and you guys will enjoy it Weller.

You are giving her money because you are father Christmas or because you print money or because she's your sister or your sister in-law or is she handicapped or is she a begger or is she a domestic staff to you?

I guess your STORY is not complete.

She wasn't serious.
She would have removed the bra if she was serious.

marvelck:
I used to like a girl, but the first time I saw her not wearing a bra, my interest in her dropped instantly.

A lot of naija girls are used to scamming guys with their packaging. Imagine, using bra to push up your boobs and yet, they wont allow you to enter the place or touch until the wedding night.

This is a big scam!

Firm breasts and saggy breasts doesn't determine good woman that will make good Marriage.
Every breasts will surely fall.

As a man, there are ways you can you flirt with your wife which will automatically increase the love she has for you in the Marriage.

Here are the secrets you should know.

1) Be romantic. That comes easier for some of us than others. This simply means caring for her emotional, physical and mental feelings as much as you care for yours.
At least once in a month give her breakfast in bed unexpectedly with her favorite meal. Buy her surprise gifts, join her in the kitchen to cook even when she didn't ask for it. It could be frying of plantain or cooking stew, to slicing of onions, or blending food items.
It must not to be done on daily basis but doing it at least once in a month will play a big role in your Marriage or Relationship and the love she has for you.

2) Attractiveness. Another way a man can flirt with his wife is by being attractive to her. Be neat at all times. While going out in the morning to the office, give her the chance to button up your shirt and applaud you.
At night in the bedroom, wear a night gown that reveals your genital organ. It pleases women to see it dangling in between the legs of her man.
While sleeping, cuddle her, let her feel the warmness of your body and your genital organ. Women enjoys it so much especially with someone she love.

3) Good morning kiss and test messages. Give her unexpected and unannounced kiss in the morning. I usually do mine while she is still in the bed, my deep kiss wakes her up for me in the morning.
Once you are about to start your day in the office, give her a call to appreciate her love for you, if calling her is not possible due to tight schedules, give her quick message either on Whatsapp or Facebook still appreciating her love and how you are already missing her. 99% of women are moved by this attention which makes her to love her man more.

4) Be a leader and a prayerfully man. As you make efforts to please her, keep your relationship with God intact as well. Pray for her while praying together during morning Prayers or night Prayers. Protect her spiritually, you can do your part and God will handle the rest for you. It will give her more confidence to trust her feelings to you.

5) Compliment your wife. Make her feel special, tell her how beautiful she is and how happy you are to have her in your life as wife and the mother of your kids.

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Ladies, your vagina is a delicate part of your body that should be handled with care.

1) Don't wear a tight underwear all the time as it increases the risk of yeast infections which seriously affect the health of the vagina.

2) I have read stories of women inserting fruits and vegetables into their vagina with the aim of tightening the vagina due to its lose in the cause of child birth and this is wrong.

3) Never sleep in your underwear. Your vagina needs to receive air. Wearing your underpants to bed creates the perfect breeding ground for yeast infections.

4) Don't self-medicate if you notice something wrong with your vagina. Always consult your gynaecologist who will reveal what’s exactly wrong with you and provide the best way to fix it. Self Medicare can cause you harm instead of fixing the problem you intended to resolve.

5) Don't use Vaseline as a form of lubricant during intimacy with your man because petroleum jelly can be a source for infection in the vagina, Olive oil or virgin coconut oil is preferable.

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mamaafrik:
type islam and Relationship to the moons and stars on Google ,read and enjoy

What!!!! ���

Who among them is wearing pad
The results will tell

Nigerians must not adopt foreign culture of same-sex marriage.
We have our own way of life.
And if you think is the best,then give us 1000 reasons why you want it in Nigeria

mamaafrik:
we don't worship the same God,my God is not Moon

Now I got it.
They are worshipping moon?

We said we worship the same God and still turn back to fight each other in different ways.
I wonder if we know the true God we worship.

Women tend to flirt with their partners when dating and in a relationship, but surprisingly, they get married and forget about flirting with that man.

Flirting with your husband is a good thing and will help your marriage more than you can imagine. Many couples start acting too serious with themselves once they get married.
Flirting with your husband could be fun and romantic, and these tips will show you just how to do it.

1) Give him a 10 second kiss when he least expects. This surely will stir him to take the kiss further.

2) Smile and wink at him for no reason.
3) Prepare a candlelight dinner just to celebrate being married to him and be your romantic self.

4) Let him choose your panties or your bra for you sometimes; this will definitely turn him on.

5) Compliment him; let him know when he’s looking more handsome due to what he's wearing. This will boost his ego and make him always want you by his side.

6) Look very attractive when you are going out with him. The fact that people admire you will make him value you more.

7) Be your playful self when you are out with him. You make him feel alive when he sees you in such mood.

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When a woman doesn't have a man in her life, that's when you will see her online showcasing her assets to the world because that's the only way to advertise herself.

100 years from now will be the year 2119. By then, every single reader of this piece will be underground, our bodies having become part of the soil. During that time, our fate in respect to paradise or hell would have been made known to us.

Meanwhile above the soil, our houses that were left behind would have become either homes for others or demolished for better structures. Our clothes would have become destroyed or rags for others and replaced by more recent trends; our cars will be on display as historical artifacts by others or recycled for more advanced technology. But for us, we will be, for the most part, never thought about by anyone again. Think of it, how often do you think about your great grandfather? How often does your great grandmother cross your mind?. You see!

Our presence here on earth today, that presence that we make so much noise about and shed so many tears for, was preceded by countless generations before us and shall be followed by countless generations after us Jesus tarries. Every generation that passes through this world barely finds the time to take a glance at the world, before needing to bid it farewell and handing over the baton, having not fulfilled even a fraction of their ambitions. Our lives are, in reality, far shorter than we imagine.

In 2119, every one of us will realise from within the grave just how worthless this world actually was, and how trivial those dreams were that we centred on.

In 2119, every one of us will be wishing that we had dedicated our lives to great matters of GOD, doing His bid, and devoted ourselves to doing good deeds, particularly those that continue to benefit us after our death.

In 2119, some reading this piece will be screaming out, but in vain:

“Lord return me! Give me another chance, so that I may have another opportunity to live for you .”

The response to this request, however, shall be:

“No! and behind them is now a barrier until that Great Day."

In 2119, many will be in regret, saying:
“I wish that I had prepared for life after my journey on earth.”

Let us reappraise ourselves*, for surely what happened to those we talk of, heard of and read of will surely happen to us. Let us take advantage of today while it is called TODAY. Tomorrow is not yours yet until it comes. Accepting the sacrifice of Jesus and keeping our faith in Him, is the ONLY way out. I hereby humbly appeal to u to use this opportunity to share this important message to your contacts as part of your personal EVANGELISM. and live your life on this planet earth wisely, May the Almighty God help us, in Jesus' name.

WE WILL ALL DIE Someday. Death is inevitable and an exit to eternal life.
Compliment of the season to us all and much love

1. Before you start a relationship with a lady, you must think carefully about what you are about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle lightly.

2. Are you ready for a relationship with her? Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to meet her needs?

3. Being sexually attracted to her means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your hormones messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that?

4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it? She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams without being intimidated and becoming jealous?

5. She already had a life before she met you. Can you fit into and help improve her life?

6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to commit your life to helping her grow and become all that she can be, by God’s grace?

7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the accomplishment of her dream?
Are you ready to pour your resources into making her all the Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready, don’t just bother.

8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness.

A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’. She needs your commitment. If you are not ready to make that commitment that will lead to marriage, please leave her alone in peace and stop wasting her time and resources.

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Do you know of a specific location where it has happened or happening?
Were you given this information from a reliable source?
Have you tasted such meats?
Can you tell us how it taste and how it looks like?
Or
You just want to cause panic to the public especially most of us that buy food when we go to work.
Are you giving this information based on imagination?
Please let's always verify before allowing it to go viral.

eduman365:
Bloggers and lies be like 5 & 6...
Everything Nigerian this, Nigerian that. Always denting the county's image because of cheap fake stories...

All bloggers don't lie.
Check https://allsinglesandmarried..com
For Marriage and Relationships.
Then come here to tell us if there are lies there.

1) Choose to Get Rid of Baggage.
I want to help you understand some of the relationship patterns you may have brought into your marriage from your childhood and your previous relationships. With knowledge of these patterns, you can learn positive strategies and stop using ineffective ones. Learning to change old patterns involves recognizing where you are in the process and getting out of it.

The patterns from the past, whether they come from your childhood or previous relationships, were successful and useful when you developed them. These behaviors and patterns helped you cope with the challenges you faced at those times. However, they may no longer be effective if the reasons you used them do not exist in your current marriage.

I want to share what I believe is a very helpful skill to creating a healthy process of handling conflict in your marriage. One of the most effective parenting interventions is the time-out. When a child’s behavior gets out of control or parents need to change the direction of a child’s behavior, they have the child take a time-out. The same principle can work wonders for your marital relationship. The goal is to learn how to work together to effectively disengage when your interactions are not healthy.

Either one of you can call for a time-out, but you both need to commit to honoring the request when it is made. Additionally, you both agree to let go of your desire to win the fight and trust that taking a break is best for both parties. Simply agreeing to table the fight for the time being is far better than saying or doing hurtful things. The important thing here is not to use the time-out to run away from the conflict. The partner who asks for the time-out should let the other partner know when they think it might be okay to talk about the issue again. I cannot overstate the importance of learning to take these time-outs.

By considering the baggage you both bring to the relationship from your families of origin and past relationships, you’ll understand why some of the patterns in your relationship occur. Something as simple (but not easy) as taking a time-out is a learned tool that provides clear steps for changing hurtful patterns within your marriage.

Honor your spouse when they ask for a time-out in the middle of an argument. How did that feel to put their need to ‘pause’ ahead of your need to continue with the argument?

2) Choose to Challenge Unspoken Truths.
Some of the most insidious and destructive elements of a marriage are the assumptions spouses make about each other. Assumptions are sometimes based on previous experiences that have been interpreted and at other times are based on minimal factual information. They are beliefs that have been adopted that later become a part of the reality of the relationship.

The problem with assumptions is that they become what I call “unspoken truths.” These are assumptions, which may or may not be true, that are accepted as truth in a marriage. Once accepted, partners give up trying to change these beliefs. These “unspoken truths” form the basis for how spouses act toward each other and drive much of what happens in the relationship. Once spouses begin to accept these beliefs as givens in the relationship, they become the building blocks for their understanding of each other.

Can you identify with any of the “unspoken truths” below?

1) He cares more about his work than he does about me.
2) She changed when we had kids; they have always been more important than me.
3) He won’t ever change that’s just who he is.
4) No matter what I do, she will never really love me.
5) He says he works all those hours for us, but I think it’s really to prove something to himself.
6) I think he likes the idea of marriage but just not the reality of being married to me.

I have seen couples find hope in the transformation that happens when they are willing to do the work of exposing “unspoken truths” in their marriages. Something powerful happens when spouses are willing to risk vulnerability with one another, speak their hurt, and put the other partner first in their marriage. The same can be true for you in your marriage.

If you will begin to identify the assumptions in your relationship and honestly share these “unspoken truths” with each other, you can make a clear choice to live your life together differently.

So many couples discover that they allow their entire marriage to be based on assumptions and beliefs, most of which are not true at all. When we make the brave choice to challenge these “unspoken truths” and no longer believe them, our relationship changes drastically. It may be overwhelming at first, but eventually this choice leads to healing and truth.

3) Choose To Trust.
Trust is one of the biggest challenges many couples face. Some of you have experienced betrayal in your marriage due to infidelity, lying, or other conflicts. Here is the thing about trust. It takes a long time to build, but it can be destroyed in an instant. Trust is the bedrock of every marriage relationship.

In my work with couples, I have discovered four primary conditions under which trust can grow and flourish in a marriage. First, trust starts with honesty. Some of you may lie to protect someone’s feelings, out of guilt, to avoid a conflict, or to prevent others from seeing the real you. But you probably lie most often because you are worried about what will happen if you tell the truth.

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This is the worst calamity of the year 2019.
Fact has it that she is been mislead by someone else.
This girl will surely come back to beg you to forgive.
But by then if is me, i will tell her that i don't know her.

IyaTola:
Can build and at the same time destroy you. From Adam to Samson to Abacha but to mention a few.

You got.
I really understand you