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Romance / 6 Lies Every Lady Must Have Told Her Man by Allsingles: 5:48pm On Jan 17, 2020
Lies are not uncommon as far as relationships are concerned. There are some simple lies almost every lady must have told at a point in time; probably to a man she’s dating or to a man that’s asking her out.

You would hardly see a lady that hasn’t told a lie while growing up or even till present. Some are simple white lies while others are not too simple.

This promises to be fun; read on as the ladies little lies get exposed.

1) I’M ON MY PERIOD.
I don’t think there isn’t a lady that hasn’t told this lie; using period as a reason not to have sex is common among ladies. It could be because she isn’t probably in the mood or she’s angry with her man or maybe because she suspects the guy just wants to take advantage of her; there are so many scenarios where this happens but almost every lady most have told this lie.

2) I’D BE READY IN A MINUTE.
That one minute might lead to an hour. This is one white lie every lady tells; we know you want to look good, we know you need to have your makeup spot on, we know it isn’t something that you can rush up within seconds, but come on; it’s quite frustrating when we have to go through this time after time.

3) I DON’T HAVE A PHONE.
I think every lady must have told this lie at a point in time. There was a period when this lie was the quickest lie every lady had to tell to a guy she really doesn’t like; it’s not as common as it used to be but every lady must have told this lie at one point in time.

4) I’M NOT ANGRY.
This is also another lie that holds sway to this day. You can feel the anger boiling through her, you can see the expression on her face, yet she tells you that she isn’t angry. This is one lie that would forever remain.

5) I DIDN’T HEAR MY PHONE RING.
When a lady is getting tired of her man or when she’s avoiding a guy she doesn’t like, this is one lie and one action she takes to frustrate him. Most times, she heard those calls but probably didn’t want to pick; sometimes it could be genuine though, but I wouldn’t always bet on that.

6) I’M NOT READY FOR A MAN YET.
This is one subtle way of telling you, I don’t want to date you. She might come up with flimsy excuses like she doesn’t need men trouble right now or she just needs a break but those are just words she uses to soften the effect of her telling you “I don’t want you Mr”. If a lady is single and she wants you, she would always take that chance of being with you – no matter what.

So fellas, there you have it; I’m pretty sure every guy must have been told this lie and every lady must have told at least four of these lies.
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Romance / 12 Signs Of Matured Man For Marriage And Relationships by Allsingles: 2:34pm On Jan 17, 2020
Mature men have a different mindset in their relationships that make them stand out from other men.
When a woman is dating a mature man, she would notice some super qualities in him that makes him a better man than other men; though it would also take a mature woman to even understand that she has a mature man.

These are some things mature men have outgrown and don’t do in their relationships.

1) THEY DON’T FACE A RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM WITH ANGER.
A mature man isn’t the type that would quickly vent his anger when his lady confronts him with an issue in their relationship. He wouldn’t get quickly angry just to cover up the issue, and he also knows how to manage his anger.

2) THEY DON’T HIT THEIR WOMAN.
Any man who still hits his woman is immature. If he feels he’s so tough, he should go for a career in boxing; I believe he won’t last a round.
A mature man doesn’t hit his woman, no matter how angry he gets.

3) THEY DON’T RUN AWAY FROM RELATIONSHIP ISSUES.
Mature men aren’t scared of facing their relationship issues; they know too well that the best way to solve a .. https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/12-signs-of-matured-man-for-marriage.html

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Romance / 8 Reasons Your Wife Will Cheat On You by Allsingles: 1:14pm On Jan 15, 2020
To all those honest men out there that only want an honest relationship from their jewel; this piece is for you. There are a thousand and one reasons women cheat but I bring you just 8 reasons women cheat.
1) SHE IS NOT FEELING WANTED
You really have to make a lady feel wanted always; the moment she feels anything less than that, doubts creep in. Such doubts can lead to misery and misery they say needs company. A shoulder to lean on can lead to so many things (coughs). Always make your woman feel wanted, brothers.
Men stop turning your back on that woman, for there are experiences that are not better better experienced in any relationship.
2) THE NEXT MAN SHOWS HER LOVE.
A lot of women are too fragile, easy to deceive and very emotional. This is not really applicable to all women because many women are strong-willed but the fragile ones easily fall for this; once they see a little care from another man, their fragile nature becomes exploited.
3) YOU ALWAYS COMPLAIN ABOUT HER.
If you always complain about her, it means you don’t value her and if you don’t value her, someone else will. Easy does it. Women need to be shown care, not you acting like you don’t care. Less shouts, more attention, more pampering would do a lot of magic yea, thank me later.
4) LOW COMMITMENT.
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Romance / Re: Amaka Preaches Against Premarital Sex On Twitter by Allsingles: 5:36pm On Jan 14, 2020
Pls what happened at last, did they knack, who was the winner.
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead To Marry A Single Mom With Two Kids? by Allsingles: 1:25pm On Jan 14, 2020
In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go to buy.
Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE; some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.

1) Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.

2) If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3) Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

4) Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.
5) If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget; see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.
6) If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the.....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/11/the-untold-life-of-single-mothers.html

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Romance / 7 Things You Must Prepare For Before Getting Married by Allsingles: 1:22pm On Jan 14, 2020
When someone wants to become a medical doctor or a lawyer, he spends time, energy and resources for 6 to 10 years studying and preparing in order to be qualified to practice effectively.
These individuals comes out qualified and also succeeds in his practice because overtime, he had prepared well for it. We succeed in those things we prepare for.
But we have many people entering into marriage without a single preparation yet they want to succeed. It's not possible. We fail in those things we don't prepare for.
Marital success and fulfillment is not by accident, chance or luck, it is a product of solid preparation. If you want to succeed in marriage, then you have got to prepare for it just like you go to school to get trained and prepared for a particular course.
The importance of preparation to the success of anything is non-negotiable.
Below are 7 preparations you need to make before you marry.
1) Spiritual Preparation.
God is the Inventor of marriage and if you want to succeed in it, then you must be close to the Inventor.
Many marriages have crashed because they lack divine coverage. When your marriage is not under God's watch and authority, the devil can do anything he wants with it. So, get prepared spiritually by making sure you are a true child of God and that you have a divine coverage over your marriage.
2) Emotional Preparation.
This is another important preparation you must make if you must succeed in marriage. Many people have ended their marriages because of their inability to control and manage their emotions. Some have destroyed properties, others have turned their partners to punching bags.
Therefore, before you marry learn how to control and manage your emotions. Read books on emotional intelligence, anger management and emotional outburst.
3) Character Development.
Cultivating good character now is another good preparation you need to make before you marry. Bad character destroys marriage. Character will either make you enjoy your Marriage or make you get a divorce in your marriage.
Eliminate every bad character that can destroy your marriage. Accept selfless life, it's for greatness. Unpleasant words to your partner should stop because it leads to regret in Marriage. Your character either shortens or..https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/01/7-things-you-must-prepare-for-before.html
Romance / Re: Genotype Wants To Ruin Me, But I Am Fighting Back by Allsingles: 1:20pm On Jan 14, 2020
In so many Relationships and Marriages today, many of the couples are facing challenges they created by themselves, either knowingly or not.
Before you fully accept to marry your partner, is very crucial that you found out the following from him or her.
1) Genotype and Blood Group. Have you taking it into seriousness to ask your partner about his or her Genotype and Blood Group?
You may think that is too early to know this in the first month in the relationship, what if eventually pregnancy get involved in the relationship and it happens that you and your significant other is both AS?
Nobody prays for such scandal and that's why is very crucial to deal with it on time because for AS to marry AS, their children will not be happy with them.
2) Fertility Test. So many Marriage Relationship has broken because the man is impotent, this they discovered after so many years of marriage, after blaming someone else in their family for being responsible for their childless Marriage. While in the Relationship, while the Relationship is getting more serious between the both of you, go for fertility test to be sure that one lifestyle or the other did not destroy anything in your body system. (Infection can also destroy the organ responsibile for Fertility thereby making couples to be in a childless Marriage.
The fertility test will also help you to know the food and fruits you should be taking which will help to boast your Fertility.
3) Family background.
Make inquiry about his or her family background to know if he or she is from a fetish family, to know there Relationship with God, to know how he or she is trained regarding their relationship with the opposite gender.
In Marriage or Relationship you should not forget that you guys came from different family background, you were brought up in different family Norm and..https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/10/the-7-secrets-your-partner-may-have.html

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Romance / Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Allsingles: 1:15pm On Jan 14, 2020
This how my neighbor took sxx concoction that made his penis to be erect for 24 hours.
Please if you know you can't come don't just promise that you will come before you kill sombori pickin oo
Health / 18 Tremendous Health Benefits Of Penieapple Leaves by Allsingles: 1:11pm On Jan 14, 2020
Nature has it all but mankind is yet to discover how blessed they are with fruits and vegetables around their environment. Pineapple leaves is nature's pharmacy. It's a good remedy for body pains.
Pineapple leaves have a lot of nutrients that are very good for your health. There are various interesting innovations around processed foods made from pineapple leaves, including pineapple leaf crackers,pineapple leave teas, pineapple leaves cookies etc . In addition, pineapple leaves can also be used as a handicraft material, a lot of pineapple leaf craftsmen are currently growing rapidly all over the world. Pineapple leaves tea has worked on various illnesses over the years with amazing healing effects.
1) �Heal Nosebleeds.
For those of you who have a habit or symptoms of nosebleeds when you are too tired or had a stress, you can cure it by drinking boiled water pineapple leaves regularly. To add flavor, you can add it with honey. Just cut some pineapple leaves and clean them properly. Boil in a pot to make tea and drink 2 cups daily.
2) �Cure TB Disease.
Pineapple leaves are also very useful for those of you who have a history of glandular tuberculosis. With the help of pineapple leaf and its beneficial content, there is a chance for your health to be improved and you can heal more effectively.
3) �Heal the Vomiting.
Vomiting is one of the diseases caused by bacteria and viruses, to cure it you can use pineapple leaves. There is also some other herbal plant that has similar effect of curing such as
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Family / Avoid These 29 Mistakes In Your Marriage Relationship by Allsingles: 11:42am On Jan 13, 2020
Let us start from the biggest and perhaps the most important mistake. The reason we decided to get married! Unfortunately we marry for all the wrong reasons and that is why almost 50% of marriages end up in divorce.

1) Pressure from our environment. The pressures from our environment because we have reached an age close to or more than thirty and we have not yet married.

2) Insecurity. Feelings of insecurity that if we do not get married with the person we are together we will not be able to find another person who wants to marry us.

3) Sudden conditions. A sudden pregnancy, which leaves us with no other options.

4) Sudden love. A sudden love that ends in 6 months after marriage.

5) Immaturity. We are not mature enough to realize that marriage is a ‘life choice’ and takes a lot of thought and a lot of effort in order not to make us unhappy.

6) Wellness: The economic comfort has now become a key criterion when selecting a spouse in today’s society. Think of someone that must add value to your well-being and not just someone that will be benefiting from you alone. it has t be 50/50 or 60% from the for being the head.

7) Non-logical thinking: The young age that can lead to hasty decisions without any logical thinking!

cool Your words. This is one of the marriage principles that people fail to follow. What happens in most cases is that most people don't wash what they...
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Romance / Re: What Do You Dislike On A First Date? by Allsingles: 2:36pm On Jan 12, 2020
AVOID THIS THINGS ON YOUR FIRST DATE.

1) Avoid talking too much.
First date is not a time to start talking about your generational history or all you have passed through in life. Allow the discussion to be mutual and be what affects the both of you or something common. On this note, it is not advisable to go on a date without being current or know what's trending, it will make you go blank and look unintelligent immature as well.

2) Don't be too conservative or reserved.
In as much as you are expected not to talk too much, talking too little or being reserved won't be a good alternative.
Avoid giving a one word answer like "Yes", "No". Ensure you elaborate on your answers it has a lot to do with your intelligence.

3) Don't be boring.
Don't let it be as if it is the duty of the other person to bring up what to discuss. Be initiative in your discussion. Act smart and intelligent.

4) Indiscriminate chewing of gum.
If you must chew a gum, chew it gently in a mature manner not like a slut sitting in a bar to attract attention.

5) Don't go on a date in a lonely and dark place.
Never attend a date that will be prolonged into the night, neither should it be in a secluded and dark place in other to avoid stories that touches the heart.
Make sure you inform one or two persons in your family or closets friends and give them the contact of the person you are going on a date with. Make your ..
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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Demands Sex Every Day by Allsingles: 2:30pm On Jan 12, 2020
You can conquer her request.
Eat good food,
Drink enough water.
Eat vegetables in all your meal.
Eat fruit such as watermelon, cucumber, penieapples.
Take advantage of Ginger and Garlic. You can blend it together and filter the juice or you can chew it raw or add them in your meal.
Do this or watch another man screw her for you one day.

From;
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Romance / Re: My Friend Is Still In 'shock'.his Girlfriend Gave Birth To Twins Lastweek. by Allsingles: 2:23pm On Jan 12, 2020
Are you saying that he's regretting why he pregnanted his wife?
Romance / 10 Signs That Someone Truly Loves You. by Allsingles: 6:51am On Jan 12, 2020
When someone truly loves you, there are signs and pointers that shows that and when the person doesn't loves you, there are signs and pointers too that shows it.

Love is a strong feeling you have towards someone or that someone has towards you. Love has to do with feelings, affection. Now, this feeling or affection expresses itself in words and actions.

Maybe you are in a relationship right now with someone and you're in doubt or confused whether or not the person truly loves you, this article is for you. Read on.

1) ATTENTION.
Does the person gives you attention or you are the one always asking and demanding for attention?
We give attention to something or someone that interests us. We don't waste our time in someone or something we are not interested in. So, when someone often gives you his or her attention, it's a sign of interest or love he or she has in you.
That guy that has been eyeing you, always looking for your attention, that lady showing green light is a sign of love too.

2) CARING.
Another word for care is maintenance, upkeep or treatment. So, when someone loves you, the person will show care. He will take you as his responsibility. He will show concern about your well-being.
Someone that has nothing for you, doesn't care, they just want to eat you and go but someone that cares, will provide you with things necessary for your maintenance, upkeep and treatment. He or she will provide to the best of his or her ability.

3) RESPECT.
Respect means to have or show regard for someone, his personality, opinion and decisions.
Does your partner respects you, does he show regard for your personality, opinion and decisions? Does He treats you anyhow? Respect or lack of it is a sign that you are loved.

4) GIVING.
Giving is also a sign. The Bible said that God so loved the world and He gave His only Son, Jesus.
When someone loves you, he will give you something worth it, something valued and precious to them as you are precious to them. He will give you his money, gifts, time, company and even himself because you worth it.

5) SACRIFICE.
Sacrifice has always been the true mark of true love. Love is selfless. Love spends itself at the expanse of the person loved.
How often does he go out of his way because of you. How often does he or she sacrifices his comfort because of you? Now that you are still struggling to start life as a guy, can she endure and build life with you. So, check it. Sacrifice is a sign of love.

6) PROTECTION.
We protect our own. We protect someone or something we consider important to us. Does he protect you from harm, his unruly family members, friends?
When there's love, there will be protection. God protects us from the unkindness of the devil because He loves us.

7) JEALOUSY.
Jealousy is a sign as well. When guys are coming around you as a lady wanting to be in a relationship with you, how does your guy react? Does he show concern that someone may take you from him or he doesn't care about it?
When someone loves you, he will guard and protect you from being taken away by someone else. He will react and fight to win you over. Vice versa.

cool FORGIVENESS.
Forgiveness means to release the anger, hatred and resentment you have against someone because of what he did to you which you considered unkindness.
Forgiveness is not easy especially when you did nothing wrong before the person wronged you, like cheating on you when you have been faithful to him.
When someone easily forgives you despite your wrong doing, it's a sign of love. Don't take it for ..
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Crime / Re: Corper Princess Motunrayo Bolufemi Commits Suicide In Kogi (Suicide Note) by Allsingles: 2:49am On Jan 12, 2020
Smartchoiice:

See her suicide note... Meanwhile one Nairaland Akure local girl decided to house a stranger for one week alone in her house just because of free sexx

What!!!
How many times do they have sex in a day.
Religion / Re: Prophetess Success Oni Onwueze Poisoned To Death By Her Pastors (obituary) by Allsingles: 2:43am On Jan 12, 2020
She was poisoned but how come that she didn't spiritually see it when it was coming?
How come?
God doesn't disappoint those that trust in him.
In the book of Isaiah 49, there he said, "I will fight whoever that fight against you".
Please which God does she serve that she could die of poison.
Romance / Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Allsingles: 10:35am On Jan 11, 2020
Your charger is not working well like that guy's charger.
Romance / Re: Why Are Most Guys Scared Of Marrying Owerri Girls (picture)? by Allsingles: 10:18am On Jan 11, 2020
ScotMisile:


If you like don't control your dick. . Akwuna nwoke

Now you are talking, so you are a big akwuna. You should say this before nah and save my time.

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Romance / Re: Why Are Most Guys Scared Of Marrying Owerri Girls (picture)? by Allsingles: 9:58pm On Jan 10, 2020
ScotMisile:

Keep kwayet.... You got what you deserved illmannered African

Go and amend it otherwise go and kill yourself.
Coward
Romance / Re: Why Are Most Guys Scared Of Marrying Owerri Girls (picture)? by Allsingles: 12:43pm On Jan 10, 2020
ScotMisile:

Just like your mother was sold to your father

You are a coward.
If what I said is painful to you, then go and kill yourself.

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Romance / Re: Why Are Most Guys Scared Of Marrying Owerri Girls (picture)? by Allsingles: 5:18am On Jan 10, 2020
Their Bride price is unimaginable.
Is just like when you used your life savings to open multi million supermarket.
So they are selling their daughters instead of giving her out for Marriage
Romance / 10 Signs Of A Matured Woman For Marriage And Relationship. by Allsingles: 5:14am On Jan 10, 2020
There comes a time in a man’s life, where he would look beyond the superficial things, and long to date a woman with value and one he can build up something special with.

When a man reaches a certain point in his life, he would seek for a mature relationship — one with values, and he knows that he can’t find this with every lady out there.

These are some signs you are dating a real woman.

1) SHE’S INTERESTED IN YOUR GROWTH AS A PERSON.
While a girl is usually carried away by superficial things, a woman needs more than that; she’s interested in your growth financially, spiritually, career-wise and all other aspects of life. She just wants the best for her man.

2) SHE COMMUNICATES.
Girls want to be communicated to, they want to be understood, but are unwilling to make a move towards that; they tend to expect the man to just understand and communicate with them. But a woman communicates; she reaches out to you, she holds meaningful conversations, she explains her feelings and seeks to understand yours.

3) SHE MAKES THE RELATIONSHIP BETTER.
A girl might expect you to pamper her all the time; she might want unlimited attention and affection, but she wouldn’t really put in efforts to make the relationship work. A woman has grown past all these; yes, she might want the attention and affection (all women do), but she’s also interested in building her relationship too.

4)SHE’S GENUINE.
A girl might live a life of pretence or even fake her feelings for you, but a woman is genuine; she is original, she lives her life without pretence and her love for you cannot be disputed.

5) SHE’S HONEST AND TRUSTWORTHY.
Girls easily pop out the lie, and conveniently too, but a woman understands the importance of truthfulness; she’s honest and truthful, and she’s a trustworthy person.

6) SHE BUILDS SUCCESS WITH YOU.
The average girl looks for a successful man to be with, but a woman builds success with you; she recognises your goals, ambitions, passion and drive — and she helps build success with you.

7) SHE’S WILLING TO LEARN.
She’s willing to learn, she’s open to communicate, she understands that there’s room for improvement, she listens and she interacts. These acts help her learn more; she isn’t stuck with what she knows – and only a woman can have these traits.

cool SHE BUILDS HER INNER BEAUTY.
While most girls are focused on their outer beauty, a woman builds her inner beauty too. She understands that the inner beauty is way more important than the outer; she takes care of her outer beauty and then builds her character and person from within.

9) SHE HANDLES SITUATION MATUREDLY.
A woman handles situation better; she doesn’t freak out when there is an understanding, she doesn’t put the whole blame on you either. She’s mature enough to accept her share of the blame, learn from it and ...
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Romance / 10 Things You Should Avoid On A First Date In Your Relationship. by Allsingles: 9:28am On Jan 08, 2020
A date is "a form of romantic courtship typically between two individuals with the aim of assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. The result of dating may at any time lead to friendship, any level of intimate relationship, marriage, or no relation".
Dating is fast becoming a norm in most society, although, there are some reservations and cautions that needed to be employed while embarking on a date.
Dating is not a necessity, as it is not compulsory for you to date or be in a relationship if you are not ready for marriage.

If you must date, the following are what you should avoid on your first date.

1) Avoid been carried away with your phone.
You went for a face to face discussion, so it's not an avenue to get busy operating your mobile phone. Operating your phone in the presence of your significant other will either signify a lack of respect or interest in what he or she is discussing with you. In order to avoid embarrassment, don't make your mobile phone a priority.

2) Shying away from eye contact.
Although, many African traditions raise children not to maintain an eye contact especially when talking to elders, but avoiding eye contact on a first date might rob you of the avenue to read the mind and words of the person you are on a date with.
Only a few people can say a different thing from what their facial expressions says. So maintaining an eye contact will give you an ample opportunity to decipher the person's intentions.

3) Don't ask unnecessary questions.
You need to avoid unnecessary and unintelligent questions such as how much do you earn? How many guy or girl have you dated? When last did you had Intimacy and with who did you had it with? These are unintelligent questions that shouldn't come up on a first date, if they must be asked, reserve them for some other times but it's preferably when you guys are already in a relationship.

4) Don't eat like a hungry hyena.
If you are hungry, endeavor to eat before leaving your house, don't go on a date and start eating like a hungry hyena, you will end up sending a wrong impression about yourself to your significant other. Let moderation be your watchword, after all, you have been eating in your house all these while before embarking on a date. Also avoid the temptation to place high and expensive orders on the menu, it says alot about you.

5) Avoid going on a date with your friends.
If you must go on a date with your friends, ensure you inform your date prior to the time, so that he or she can be prepared to host them if possible, better still be prepared to foot their bills.
This reminds me of a story I read of a guy who invited a girl for ..
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Business / Making Money Made Easy In 2020. by Allsingles: 4:10pm On Jan 07, 2020
So many times, we wonder why our efforts are not giving us results as we wished or thought it would have been.
The simple reasons is because you have not done what you should have done, the steps you are supposed to have taken, the decision you should have taken.
You must do something different from your normal activities if you want to see different results from your efforts.

You have the mindset for it but once you didn't push forward with the actions required you will not achieve the results expected.
Your profession doesn't matter. You may be a carpenter or you are a commercial bus driver, you can still be engaged in any other legitimate way of making money that will not distabilise your current means of income.

Alhaji Aliko Dangote for instance has at least 64 means of income. That's how he arose to the Richest man in Africa.

Think outside the box. One means of income can't make you reach. Which other business can you comfortably do together with your current job or business? It doesn't necessarily mean that you must be there 24/7. You can have a representative or a sales person in there, then you monitor and supervise the activities. You can collaborate with someone of like mind. (Someone that has the same mindset of greatness with you, someone that is trust worthy, someone that is reliable.

CHANGE LINE OF BUSINESS.
Before you started your current business, did you conducted a survey in that environment, if you did, what was your results and if you didn't, you should do it.
You can't sale baby clothes in environment where in the market where food items are sold. On the other hand, someone that is Hawking clothes from street to street will face a challenge of selling it in credit which is dangerous for the growth of her business.

Change the line of business to Hawking of moimoi or Beans cake or egg rolls or buns or foods which is affordable for all and will definitely not be bought on credit by the potential customers due to it price.

Keep records of your daily sales. Your sales day book must not be played with. That's the record you will use for the tracking of your business success and failure and also that is one of your tools to access loan from financial institution because that gives details of how your business has been in operation for years and months.

PERSONAL DAILY SAVINGS.
We have 365 days in a year. You can save every day but depending on how you want and can comfortably do it without omitting any day which will reduce your money. Any day omitted is disadvantage to your savings.

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Romance / 10 Signs That Shows You Are Pregnant. by Allsingles: 11:21am On Jan 07, 2020
Pregnancy, also known as gestation, is the time during which one or more offspring develops inside a woman. A multiple pregnancy involves more than one offspring, such as with twins. An embryo is the developing offspring during the first eight weeks following fertilization, after which, the term fetus is used until birth.
Symptoms of early pregnancy may include missed periods, tender breasts, nausea and vomiting, hunger, and frequent urination. Pregnancy may be confirmed with a pregnancy test.

You may have an inkling that you are pregnant soon after you have conceived, when the fertilised egg attaches itself to the wall of your uterus (womb). This usually happens within about 10 days of conception.

Or you may be unaware of any changes for weeks, only wondering if you are pregnant when you miss your period.

Here are the signs that shows you are pregnant.

1) Prickling, tingling nipples
As pregnancy hormones increase the blood supply to your breasts, you may feel a tingling sensation around your nipples. This can be one of the earliest signs of pregnancy, and is sometimes noticeable within a week or so of conception.

Once your body gets used to the hormone surge, this sensation will subside.

2) Spotting and cramping.
It's common to have some spotting at the time when you'd usually have your period. You may notice a slight pink or brown-coloured stain in your knickers, or when you wee, or feel slight cramping. Experts aren't sure why spotting in very early pregnancy happens, but it's thought to either be caused by the egg implanting in your uterus, or more likely, the hormones that control your periods kicking in.

3) Feeling sick.
If you are lucky, you will escape this completely. However, morning sickness is a common symptom of early pregnancy. It often starts when you're about six weeks pregnant, though it can start as early as four weeks. You may feel sick and queasy, or even vomit. Despite the name, morning sickness can affect you at any time of the day, or night.

4) Tender, swollen breasts.
Once you are about six weeks pregnant, your breasts may become increasingly tender to the touch. It’s similar to how they feel before you have a period, but more so.

You may notice that your breasts are larger and swollen, with blue veins visible just below the skin. Tenderness tends to be most common in the first trimester, easing as pregnancy progresses.

5) Feeling tired and
Exhausted.
You may find yourself diving for your duvet as your body cranks up to support your baby, right from the early stages of pregnancy. Pregnancy hormones in your body are to blame, as these can make you feel tired, upset and emotional.

Though fatigue is not a sure-fire symptom on its own, it's a common pregnancy symptom. You may find that tiredness wipes you out the most in your first trimester and third trimester.

6) Needing to urinate frequently.
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Romance / 31 Intimacy Mistakes Women Make In Marriage Relationship by Allsingles: 10:12am On Jan 05, 2020
If you use fast to deprive of your body for forty days, four hundred days of fasting may not win him back later.

1) NEVER USE INTIMACY AS A PUNISHMENT.
Intimacy is not one way to punish him for his offences. Your body is not yours, it belongs to him according to the Bible. You cannot deny him what is rightly his because you are angry. It is not right.

2) NEVER USE INTIMACY AS A MEANS OF EXCHANGE.
You are also not permitted to use Intimacy as a tool for bargaining. It is very wrong to use it in order to get something from your husband. You are not a prostitute, don't insist on being paid or do something for you before you give him the chance to have your body. If you do that, he may not see the reason why he can't also pay for it outside.

3) NEVER FAIL TO INVOLVE INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Intimacy is not just about your husband, don't fail to be involved in it, initiate it often. Be involved during the pre-intimacy and be very active during the actual intimacy performance, don't be dry and drab at home. Be his lover girl.

4) NEVER SAY: IS IT FOOD?
Avoid asking your husband 'is it food.' It will make him look like a sex maniac. As a man, his demand will naturally be stronger than your own. Your husband's demand is not strange. Plan to fit into his physiological makeup.

5) DON'T MAKE CALENDAR FOR INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
Don't be a calendar wife, don't make calendar for intimacy in your marriage. Some calendar wives will say it can only take place on Friday or other days fixed by them. Let it happen spontaneously in your marriage.

6 DON'T FORGET INTIMACY IS PARAMOUNT TO YOUR HUSBAND'S WELLBEING.
Intimacy is paramount to your husband's needs. The first thing he needs is respect, the second thing is intimacy. Give him your best and make him happy. To a man, intimacy is not just part of marriage it is the real deal. Be wise and handle this wisely.

7) NEVER FAIL TO BE A GENEROUS WIFE.
For a man to say his wife is a very, very good wife, she must have been generous in the bedroom. Go the extra mile in satisfying your husband in the bedroom.

cool NEVER BE AN ANALOG WIFE TO A DIGITAL HUSBAND.
Study your husband and give him what he wants; the way he wants it. Don't be an analogue wife to a digital husband. Study when his desire for intimacy is high and stand up to the task.

9) NEVER BECOME UNROMANTIC AND UNINTERESTING WIFE.
Don't lose your flavour. Don't become uninteresting to him. It is very dangerous for your marriage.

10) NEVER FAIL TO REMEMBER THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS BORN AGAIN BUT HE IS NOT BLIND AGAIN.
Dress very well, be fashionable but not immoral. Don't take your husband for granted with your dressing because he is born again. Every man desires a very tantalizing lady around him. If your husband is born again he is not blind again; dress very well to attract him.

11) NEVER FAIL TO PURSUE YOUR HUSBAND.
Don't just wait for him to pursue you, be inviting, be interesting, excite him at times by being seductive to him. Invite him to sleep with you or better still, seduce him. He is your husband and you are doing the right thing, no sin committed.

12) NEVER FAIL TO UNDERSTAND YOUR HUSBAND'S INTIMACY NEEDS AND MEET THEM.
Study your husband as if you will write a book on him. Carefully observe him and meet his needs.

13) NEVER FORGET THAT OUTING DRESSES ARE DIFFERENT FROM BEDROOM DRESSES.
The clothes for going to events are not the same as bedroom clothes. Dress up when you are going out; dress down when you come to bed. Don't take that jeans knicker to bed, it is not bedroom compliment. Get good night wears, the one they call 'open heaven'; 'the more you look the more you see.' Put on this one when you are alone with your darling husband and turn your ...
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Romance / 10 Ways You Have Direspected Your Partner by Allsingles: 7:41am On Jan 04, 2020
Respect is an important part of marriage, and if missing, the marriage can never go right.

A lot of men display certain characters, attitudes and lifestyle that end up being disrespectful to their wives.
A marriage can’t be successful when disrespect is present, and the mistake a lot of men tend to make is that they tend to impose respect and not earn it.

These are some of those disrespectful things men tend to do:

1) DISHONESTY AND CHEATING.
When you lie to that woman whom you’ve sworn to love and cherish till death do you part, you have disrespected her. She deserves to know the truth and anything otherwise is disrespectful. Cheating on her is also a huge betrayal of trust and you also disrespect her when you cheat.

2) FLIRTING.
Flirting with other women in the presence of your wife is very disrespectful. A lot of men tend to do this without knowing that they are hurting the feelings of that woman.

3) SAYING HARSH THINGS TO HER.
A lot of men to talk to their wife harshly; even if you didn’t insult her, the fact you talked to her harshly is disrespectful. A woman needs to be loved and cared for, not to be treated like a slave but a queen. That’s the essence of marrying her, to make her your queen.

4) Talking bad about her to other people.

5) RIDICULING HER IN PRESENCE OF YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
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