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Dee7874:
Please doctors in the house I need help.....!!

I have noticed this unusually stain of blood in my boxers every time I come back home from work but I thought it was nothing until I went to use the restroom one day when i observed this redness in my urine. After the urine, comes a think long red worm-like thing coming out followed by blood. Jeez!

Next day, I rushed to General hospital to see a doctor, he suspect schistosomes/fluke worm. He recommended some tests 1) M/S/U or M/C/S,( 2) FCBY (3) E/U/C . All came out negative.

Wrote some drugs which I have taken for almost a week now. The blood stopped 4 days and came back again on the 5th day that I am supposed to take the last dosage.

When I sleep at night now, my boxers gets wet again with the lond red worm....

NB: Doctor keep asking if I come from Ondo state, and when last I visited village, I work closely around water.
I am married with kids......
Doctors in the house I need help....
Anyone with similar issue in the past please help with how you went about it....
I have visited herbal woman... she called it atosi eleje.... meaning Blood or dry gonohea which I doubt...

If you must insult me, also proffer solution. Thank you....

Specifically go to the hospital and tell them that you want to do test for STI or STD and also test for Kidney infection. After the results, you will then know if you should fight it spiritual or not.

AmuDimpka:
A 40-year-old Las Vegas hotel cleaner won a child support battle against a 28-year-old millionaire who she never slept with.

Jane was 36 when she stole a used condom from a then 24-year-old tech millionaire’s hotel garbage can.

https://etimes.com.ng/hotel-cleaner-who-stole-sperm-from-a-used-condom-won-child-support-battle/

They are supporting her for stealing somebody's baby

SMART9797:
My friend once complained that during love making, his wife usually touches his head round, insert her fingers into his two ears and afterwards he will forget things to be done in the family and will careless of sensitive issues even in his work place. He said this happen anytime there having sex. please advise him.

That's romantic.
What if the wife doesn't care about touching him during sex.
The touching is what makes the sex sweet

fireback:
Since you don't want to post it here. I will continue the story for you...
So, one night kayode called yemisi and said there's something I want to tell you. Yemisi said "please continue am all ears". Then kayode began to cry, he cried so tay yemisi join him they both cried their eyes out. Guess what, unknown to kayode yemisi was already two months pregnant. After the cry, kayode managed to pour out his mind and said "I don't know how you will feel but I must say what I want to say" you already know my condition and I don't want to loose. Please I don't want you to feel bad, I simply want you have a baby from any of my family members, my brother especially. Then his wife yemisi gave him the shock of his life. She told him that she's already pregnant, although not for him but...
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If you want me to continue. Let me hear you say hi.

So who is responsible for the pregnancy?

oghale23:
I am in My mid twenties, and lately I have been struggling with terrible lust. I just want to have sex. I have been resisting it because I am a Christian and have been warned since childhood that sex is not meant for the unmarried, so I have been careful about it, but if you check my last topic, I almost slept with our househelp b4 we parted ways.

I have prayed and fasted about it but it keeps getting stronger. I discovered masturbation by mistake, my parents didn't lecture me on it. I was watching pornography and as I was imitating the actors, I released and it felt good and since then I have not been able to stop. I have confessed and done all, but the more I try to stop the more I desire to have sex.

The internet, media, television is not helping at all, it has been overtaken by sexual immorality and perversion and nudity. It fuels people more to have sex. Likewise most women, I have seen too much tight fitted clothes that exposes all the contour and shapes on the street etc..

What can be done to escape this? Must I have sex to be satisfied? I have read that it is addictive, and know it wastes time, energy and money. I know and believe all the consequences of engaging in pre-marital sex, but I feel pain and burn resisting sex.

For those who are not married and are still virgins and those who were virgins till they got married, how do you and did you do it?

You have not really made up your mind to stop masturbating, be determined to stop and God will assist you with his grace.
You are destroying your soul and your destiny.
Masturbation is responsible for spirit spouse, having sex in the dream and swimming in the dream.
Again, stay away from those site where you wash pornography.
Getting a girlfriend is not bad but she must be a Matured lady so she can help you deal with the challenge.

BrownieT:
A lady in enugu state .dies of abortion by bleeding to death after the abortion went wrong..the hospital where she was found by a good samaritan that rushed her to the hospital.need the help of anyone who can recognize the body..please anyone looking for missing person should immediately come to unth enugu..text messages was found on her phone by the man who impregnated her..police are on it to help justice prevail..and to stop irresponsible men from roaming the streets..

This is one of the danger of Premarital sex.
If you must have sex outside Marriage, be ready to face the drum when it will start beating.

Vick4rill:
She is in the same faculty with me, we have been communicating well and l jokingly ask her to visit me. now she is interested and has been calling me since then. my major issue is the bad state of my room. the room is not furnish at all and is not a room l like inviting my male friend talk more of a girl l want to propose to. what do l do Nairalanders?

You shouldn't panic, if she really loves you, she will not reject you because of the present look of your room.
Don't take because you want to please a lady and put yourself under pressure or start living beyond your financial for now.

justmide:
Or better still, no of sex partners?

Pls advice with reasons

He knows you are not a virgin and you are not a saint either.
Telling him will make him think you have been sleeping with men before you met him.

Now that he committed suicide, who is still loosing?
He death doesn't make the loser to be a winner.

The cause of this is,
Big dick and he can Bleep well too, he also has money and can spend extravagantly.

Disasterious.
This is why many Marriage and Relationships today is nothing to write home about.
Some men behave like TV under remote control.

Its obvious that he's no longer part of the government.
He is just being controlled like the lay man in the street.

merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....

I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..

I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Is not late to be reading love books and Relationships and Marriage
site like https://allsinglesandmarried..com
Attending Marriage seminars as well.
On the alternative, by now I believe you have known what your man like very well and what he dislike, his favorite fruits and meals as well.
Is he the type of person that like sex?
What is his lifestyle like?
What about his Relationship with God?

Let's discuss

Ugmama:
I will ask and get back at you

Thank you for replying

With what caused the misunderstanding, the matter can be handled in a good way

Ugmama:
** MARRIAGE LESSON 101 **
Please when a young couple have misunderstanding / fight for a minor reason and the husband packs out of his house leaving his wife and two children. What does it imply ? What should the wife do ?

What is really the cause of the misunderstanding, is the wife abusing him of cheating?
There's a reason for it, before judging him of parking out of his house.

Let's discuss.

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Research shows that the more orgasms you have, the longer you can expect to live. Being bad was never so good! Aim for orgasm It’s not just the amount of sex you are having that counts but also the quality of sex when it comes to adding years to your lifespan. A study discovered that a powerful orgasm is equivalent to a shot of Valium, a drug that relieves bodily stress, and works as a good relaxant. It can also increase the body infection fighting cells by up to 20%

Several studies have shown that having regular orgasms make men twice likely to live into old age as those who don’t have sex, and women to live up to eight years longer.

Also women who have two orgasms a week are up to 30% less likely to develop heart diseases. So, make the most of it and boost your orgasm potential by investing in a good sexual intercourse.

2) Sex Reduces Prostate Cancer Risk:
There are male specific health benefits of sex, One study showed that men who had frequent ejaculations, as high as 21 times a month or more, were less likely to develop prostate cancer than those who had fewer ejaculations. It did not matter if the ejaculations occurred through intercourse, masturbation, or nocturnal emissions. Of course, there's more to prostate cancer risk than frequency of ejaculations, but this was one interesting finding of how regular sex can help reduce prostate cancer.

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Are you saying that borna has fela Blood,
Ayam asking

Read more of Relationships and Marriage articles that will spice up your love life.
https://allsinglesandmarried..com

1) YOU TRY TO CHANGE YOUR MAN.
This is another huge mistake a lot of women make; they try to change their man and they don’t even accept him for who he is. A lot of women even make it worse by trying to change their man from the things he really wants in life.
2) TRYING TO CONTROL THE RELATIONSHIP.
With some women, it’s a battle for supremacy; they seek control of the relationship, and they even want their will to be done at all times. This isn’t just wrong, but it would also make your man feel emasculated.
3) YOU COMPARE YOUR MAN TO ANOTHER MAN.
No man would want to be compared to another, but many women make the mistake of comparing their man to another man they probably don’t know his flaws. Comparing your man with another wouldn’t help your relationship in any way.
4) YOU WANT A PERFECT MAN.
Is there really a perfect man? I doubt it. But a lot of women want the perfect man and put their man under pressure to be perfect, without accepting his flaws and imperfections.
5) YOU DON’T RESPECT HIM ENOUGH.
Another mistake a lot of women make is by not respecting their man enough. You ought to respect your man, his decisions (even when you don’t agree), his space, his goals and what he wants in life.
Not respecting him enough is a...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/08/11-big-mistakes-women-make-in-their.html

There are young ladies outside there that are really looking for who will oil her engine.
Please if she has retired, look for someone that is ready to play in your team.
Life continues

Naanlong01:
I recently turned 29 and i have never felt the reality of settling down like am feeling now. A brief introduction about myself: am the only male child of 3children, my mum almost singlehandedly raised us, though dad is alive and kicking but doesn't really care. I became an entrepreneur a year ago after NYSC.

Current monthly saving is less than 30k after tithe. I have the potential of doubling it before end of next year.

Note: i am not under any pressure to marry and am not even dating (not until i'm ready for marriage ) but i plan to marry when i turn 31 in 2021 after settling my mum and sisters, i believe they must be financially free especially my mum before i can settle for marriage. Now here comes the question, if you live in a 12k5 single room like me, pays 12k annual shop rent and 2bedroom flat apartment goes for 50k max (future marriage consideration) how much do you think its ok as a monthly saving before marriage. And if you are married, how much was your monthly saving then.

Expand your dream or your current business by investing more in it, set a target for yourself every
month, for instance you always make 30k for a month, put more efforts, dedicate more time,
more energy, it will improve your income.
Enroll in business school, attend business workshops where experts will expose their
secrets to you, apply them in your business and see yourself going higher.
Also, think of how to locate to another environment that has high demand of your goods,
location of business matters

Will this favor the economy of Nigeria?

AnthCunny:
Good day Family

I've been thinking and have decided to share my thoughts here.

What does it really take to forgive someone? Let's say someone offends you and the person is fully aware. Now the person refuses to apologise. After days or weeks of being hurt, you decided to 'forgive' the person. Will you call that forgiveness? Personally, I don't think you have forgiven the person.

I think there is a thin line between 'letting go' or 'not holding grudges' and forgiveness. What you simply did was 'letting go' and not forgiveness. You simply decided not to hold grudges; not to let your heart heavy.

I think the offender MUST apologise or show remorse in one way or the other before forgiveness can take place.

What do you think?

We all need forgiveness and we all need to extend that same forgiveness to others not just today, but every day.
IT’S TIME TO FORGIVE.
Do you struggle with forgiving people when they wound you emotionally? If so, please you shouldn't.
Spend some time with your friends, your spouse and family members today and ask him/her if you have wounded them emotionally and then sincerely apologize for hurting them.

THE BENEFITS OF FORGIVENESS.
When you Forgive anyone that offended you, you will feel relieved and free from emotional truama too.
A woman of God, Joyice Meyer; says and i quote
"Do yourself a favor and Forgive"
So you are actually doing something awesome to yourself emotionally when you Forgive anyone that offended you.
Forgiveness is not a must do but it's compulsory and very crucial that you do it and....
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/07/i-will-never-forgive-you.html

The REAL reason why Women live longer than Men is because they dont have Wives.
Ask yourself why Monks live longer than other Men

That's fact.
Thinking of how to resolve so many issues is really weighing a man down

Queenlovely:
my mother is an igala, traditionally we are given tribal mark that looks like cat whiskers. but my mother decided to give me the fulani tribal markings. a lot of people mistake of for a fulani. i am tired.
Somebody Refered me to a baba at lugbe, abuja. Baba want To Marry Me before he Would Wipe my Tribal mark. I am tired what Do I Do. Nairalanders help

Does it really mean that nobody has ever felled in
love with you before now?
If yes, then why are you killing yourself for no reason?
If you no, does it mean you are the ugliest in your environment
that no one want to be with you because of tribal mark?
Is it after taking advantage of your sweet melon and Hot pot
he will tell you that he can't help you again?

Congratulations to him,
hope the university will because of this be the best in Africa

Made in nigeria is more nutritious than the chemicalized
rice we all eat in the name of imported rice.

Say goodbye to car wash,
Wake up in the morning, dust your car
and drive away