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THIS IS THE BEST NEWS I HAVE HEARD SINCE BEGINNING OF 2020.


GOD BLESS THOSE FLOGGERS.

THE INIATIATOR OF THIS FLOGGING WILL LIVE LONG.


HUMAN BEINGS ARE NOW GOING MAD BECAUSE OF SOCIAL MEDIA

Goalnaldo:
See challenge small ass ladies will now be feeling depressed

Like me.

I'm already depressed right now.


I'm just waiting for big breast challenge

I WILL DIVIDE THE COUNTRY ALONG ETHNIC LINE

CHIOMA IS ALREADY THINKING SUCIDE.


ANYONE THAT KNOWS HER SHOULD BE TALK TO HER AND OBSERVE HER WELL.


HER WORSD NOW ARE LIKE THAT OF WHITNEY HAUSTION

MuchAdo:
Nnamdi Kanu is a luunatic!

Obasanjo can NEVER be aware of such things and be quiet. He it was who told Yar'Adua to resign being the only person privileged to see him in his terrible health condition...

Baba is very old now.

And this government is really tough on BABA

And they sent CHAD military back to their country. Reasons known to them

Legitdimple:
Yes. Dude said he was divorced,oya what happened? "Sorry I don't want to talk about it my mood will spoil"
I insisted he still refused to talk about it,I sha carry one eye dey look am.

Since he wanted something serious,oya let me know your house oga said no his mother stays with him.

I followed my instincts and didnt take him serious just few dates in an open bar.
Until boom! I heard he lost his wife to cancer and she's been leaving with him all that time,I felt for the poor woman even though she's resting now.

I felt bad because he lied about having just a daughter even though he has 3kids,the last being 2yrs. Seriously who lies to that extent?
I dey my own jeje when he came to ask me out and I can't remember telling him I was desperate for marriage.

Ahhhhhh� wife don turn to mama.

God go punish that man

Bola146:
Yes especially on this nairaland, I met a guy, he lied that he is a single father of one, until i found out that he has 4 daughters

That a why. Most of them die untimely.

While God will crown the wife with long life

Leezah:
Honestly ladies have seen hell, this is what girls must pass through before ending up been Mrs ?? But its well.

You will never notice they're married because there's nothing suspicious even in their home.

First one.... The wife was far from him where she's working, and his home looks so much like bachelor's home and I find out through my friend who saw his pictures on my phone one day. I confronted him,he denied it till date.

Second one, The man even promised to marry me not knowing he's already engaged. I found out through his ex gf whom I suspected he was cheating on me with on Facebook. The good aunty revealed everything to me. The funny part is he never posted his so called wife on social media, nor have her pics on phone. He's also single on social media. The ex told me he married the lady because of her money and only go to visit her once in a while because he's still living in his bachelor's house.

Third one, His brother he introduced to me one day started developing feelings for me ooo. Even went to the extent of revealing his brother's secret of being married to one village girl with a kid so I should leave his brother and come to him. I confronted his brother and he didn't even deny it just and also told me that he wish he meet me before the girl and that he's ready to leave her for me. Mehnnnnn I gave up on men since those experience. It really hurts

All of this three are still looking fresh and young. U will never suspect them being engaged let alone married. May God help we ladies oooo

SELFISH MEN, THEY WILL LOOK YOUNG AND FRESH WHILE THEIR WIVES WILL BE LOOKING LIKE HOUSEHELPS.


NO FEELINGS FOR THE WIFE ANY MORE.

WHEN THEY COME BACK HOME THEIR DICK WILL BE LIKE OVER RIPPED AGRIC BOLE /PLANTAIN

Infact na drinking garri na my main food this time.

I can't wait to resume

THIS IS WHAT ALMOST ALL THE HOUSE HELP DO

BabaD94:
If a 65 year old man can still perform; Banky W still get hope.

What of the Oba?

PLEASE DAVIDO AND CHIOMA ROWLAND .

SOMBODY AMONGS THEM NEED THIS HOT WATER

CJAI
Chioma, this kind shame. Ehh

Let this not be true o


Because If it is true.

It means hat chioma has sacrificed her youthful life for money.


I just pray its not true

THIS LIFE IS FULL OF LIES AND DECEIT.

NOW THAT EVERYBODY IS ON THE STREET PROTESTING, BOTH BLACK AND WHITE.

NOW LET ME ASK .

WHO IS NOW THE RACIST?


IS IT TRUMP ?
IS TRUMP WORKING IN ALL THE ORGANIZATION S IN USA?


OR ARE THEY AIMING ANOTHER THING.

NO PRIVACY IN THIS LIFE.

WHY WOULD YOU PRETEND U SISNT SEE ANYTHING.

There's nothing private about about this life.

ONCE WE DIE ANYBODY CAN SEE OUR unclothedness.
SO TELL ME WHAT IS PRIVATE ABOUT LIFE.


PLEASE CALL HER AND CAUTION HER ABOUT USING OFFICE PHONE FOR HER PRIVATE STUFF.

AND ALSO DISCUSS WHAT YOU SAW ON HER FACEBOOK MGS.

AND ADVISE HER PLEASE.


YOU ARE EVEN A DISCIPLINE MAN, SOME PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM WOULD HAVE TURNED HER INTO SEX OBJECT SINNNNCE

Don't worry .

I just hope that what happened to Nigeria will not happen to USA

Trump will soon eave the seat

Olalan:
As much as I condemn cheating by men or women.....the video shows how much of a weakling the man is......a wife slapping the husband not once not twice.....
BTW I wouldn't be surprised if the woman's nasty and troublesome character pushed the man out to find love elsewhere

I know that will be you " chronic cheaters" conclusion.


Now let me ask.
IS THERE ANY REASON FOR FAILURE IN LIFE?


THERES NO WAY YOUR WILL NOT TURN HER TO A NAGGING WIFE IF YOU CANNOT RESPECT HER FEELINGS/EMOTIONS.

DID YOU OPEN UP TO INFORM HER THAT YOU ARE GIING TO HAVE A SIDE CHICK DURING YOUR MARITAL LIFE?

THIS IS A BRIGD OF AGREEMENT

WHAT YOU SOW IS WHAT YOU REAP.

IF U SOW CASSAVA YOU WILL REAP CASAVA

Most women are worthless

charlesELIKIBA:
HELLP NAIRALANDERS

I will be brief with my writeup as much as possible so I can explain my connection with this lady.

My single mom gave me away at a tender age of 5 to her elder brother (financial difficulties i assume), this ''aunty'' happens to be the wife of this my mother's elder brother.

Aready they had 4 children, all boys.

The home was a tough upbringing with strict rules about socialising, we weren't allowed to bring friends home or go to friends places. It was pretty strict and my uncles wife i would say was the mastermind of it all, she was strict and mean maybe because it was a house of 5 boys.

Growing up in my uncles home, I wouldn't say I was treated diffrently because I always got matching outfits with my uncle's children during christmas, gifts during christmas, same portions of food BUT IN ALL I was always scared of doing somethings my cousins would do. I didn't feel free growing up, i felt diffrent from them. In some cases they attended the best schools than I (but I never attended a govt. school or a bad private school).

It's like if their school fees was 1m naira per term, mine would be 150,000 per term.

I lived with them until I was about 16 or 17 and one morning I woke up and they said i was going back to my mother at 15 or 16 like any kid, you would start to develop conscience (sense), maybe breaking some rules and being stubborn just like their own kids. This I assume was why they wanted to send me back to my mother OTHERWISE I CAN THINK OF NOTHING ELSE I DID WRONG OR DIFFRENT.

In all of these years living with them, I saw my mother as a strange person. I had no motherly connection with her. My anty to me, was my real mother. Whenever we went visiting my mother in very rare occasions, it was always awkward.

Well long story short, I found myself back in my mother's arms, to a new environment i knew nothing about and starting to learn to live with a woman called my mother. I was naive, had no choice but to accept realities on ground. Do you know that feeling of living in a pouch house and wake up next morning in a 1 room surrounded by thick bushes. Yes that was the change.

I was enrolled into a school, my uncle was repeatedly forced to send/ pay my schoolfees until i was in ss3 and i called him to inform him about waec enrolment. He told me on the phone ''all the exams i have been writing, how many have i passed'' and that was it. He never sent a dime anymore meanwhile at this point his children, my cousins were already miles ahead of me suddenly in education. When i left the home, the eldest son went to canada to school, the second who is my agemate was already in a private uni in Nigeria and the 3rd who i am senior to with a year is preparing to go to ukraine for school and years later the last born who i spoonfed and chewed meat for attended uni in Ghana.

Well long story short, since my uncle had failed me. My mother said it was time i go to my father. My father was old retired pensioner. My mother took me to him, as expected awkward encounter. I have never known this man, no memory of him. Well he said he would find my enrolment money and he did, he later passed on a year or two later.

I enrolled waec and pased in one sitting, thanks to miracle centres.

PS: i must say i was never an intelligent student. i wasn't even average but i wasn't the poorest and neither of my uncles children were better. We were all poor educationally.

Long story short another uncle sprang up and paid for my university diploma which i later acquiried.


YEARS LATER my uncle and aunty decided to move back to our home town, please note the home my mother stayed in was this my uncles home. It was the boy quarters, the main house was not even in sight as at the time i was returned to my mother. We did series of bush clearing and snakes killing lol. well my uncle returned home town after retirement and setup the main structure ( a 5 bed room duplex) and thats were they lived while i and my mother lived in the BQ.

I WAS very angry with myself that i happened to still live with them AGAIN, i needed to get out of their sight, my condition was bad. i was a mere teacher to some rickety school. In all of this my uncle's wife always ensured she knew what i was upto and she derived satisfaction when she knew i wasn't doing better than her kids who were all abroad. i turned to their errand boy again after years of neglect. i was very angry with myself and needed to save to get out of the house.

Well i did manage to save up and leave the house and i promised myself never to return to that house. i felt neglected, i felt they sent me away because the goodthings were coming and they couldn't bear to see me share in them because to me they were my parents.


YEARS LATER, my aunty was sick with cancer
please note before i left the home, my uncle and aunty always sent me to travel journeys to get them medicines from a monastry. i attended such trips severally and ran other seperate errands but i never dared to drive their car talkless ask for the key. i always washed their car in the mornings, i would never also dare to see myself in the living room of the duplex with the remote in hand. when they moved back to the hometown, that fear in my childhood started again but this time i was mature enough to know i would never m amount to anything in life if i continued this again hence the reason i needed to move out.

So my aunty sickness grew worse, the husband flew her to india and back but the sickness grew worse. in all of this cancer times i never went back to the house to see her. I only heard of her conditions from my siblings (my half siblings, my mother was married to 3 men in diffrent years and she had only me for my father, another for another man and 3 for another man, i was the lastborn of all).

Then my aunty died. The day she died, i saw her in my dreams and she was crying saying ''she forgave me''. A day or two later i went to my sisters store and she told me of my aunty death, i went to my rented apartment and cried profusely. i later summouned courage and maybe sympathy and went to my uncles house and i cried before my uncle and told him to forgive me too for all abandoning them all this while.

NOW ABOUT MY AUNTY SAYING SHE FORGAVE ME IN THE DREAM: i did not do her any wrong neither did i wish death on her. All her life her greatest fear was maybe i would become greater than her children. She loved these comparisms, i was never wicked to her, i never cursed her, i was never rude to her unless i some instances when she sends me errands and i tell her i have other things to do.... Otherwise i never was negative to her instead she is the one nobody likes, by nobody i mean my uncles family. Nobody talks good of her, they say she controls my uncle and also squandered his money but in all of this i never spoke of my experiences living with them and somethings they did wrong that made me feel diffrent, i did not even tell you guys neither have i told my mother ever. i don't see them as anything that would stop my growth in life. i hate to talk about the bad in people.

WELL BACK TO REASON THE TOPIC WAS CREATED, why do i keep repeatedly seeing her in my dreams even after her death and its always on a negative role. its either in the dream she still plays mother, or she is gossip about me in the dream or she is against me in the dream, just think of anything negative in a dream and she will be the mastermind. This is really beginning to worry me. Why is she still attached to me in the dreams?

After she died, her husband, my uncle started his own sickness but has been sick for years now, he is bed ridden. The family has repeatedly asked him if there is anything he and his late wife did in the past to amount such sickness were he is living in pain but refused to die and he would not answer. One time they said, he said ''it was out of ignorance'' and thats all he ever said about anything.

It will also be good to note that of all my 4 cousin brothers and i today, i am the most successful by far.

i just finished my house (a 3bedroom, 2 bedroom, 1 bedrrom bungalow)
january this year i bought my 3rd car.
i travel round the world effortlessly.
YES I DID TURN OUT FAR BETTER THAN MY COUSINS WHO YOU KNOW HAD THE BEST EDUCATION.

I don't want to talk of their conditions, lets concentrate on me.


So this is my much writeup... I had to skip many things so you can bear to read but please be free to ask me questions.

Why do I repeatedly see my aunty in my dreams.... just before this writeup, i had just woken up from another dream she was present in, she was whispering to the ears of a very good friend of mine and then the friends turned to me and was like '' ah cahrles na so you be''?...and i was angry and was like '' how can you believe something someone you just met told you against i your best friends word'' and minutes later dream ended and i woke up.

At this point i am thinking of going spiritual to know why this is happening but this will be a first in my life. There are two popular places i have never being in my life until lately last year... One is a shrine and the other is a police station. Last year was my first time to be in a police station.
I was driving my unregistered car. That was my offence.

M@bye she was truly against your progress in life

HE HAS NOT FINISH PAYING YOU WSHAT HE HAS USED OUT OF YOUR LIFE

I wish I'm still a child

See Mumu crying because of dog.

sapientia:
God knows I will never watch the video.

Cultists are products of a failed Nation.

CULTIST ARE PRODUCT OF BAD PARENTING.

MOST OF THEM ARE CHILDREN BORN 8N A POLYGAMOUS HOME AND CHILDREN BORN OUT OF MARRIAGE

I don't want that luck.

Please FEMI Should take the luck with him

vastolord4:
Someone asked me to ask you if you were paid for this awareness on your Twitter account! Cos we all confused bro!

I'm confused now

RuddyFusion:
Stella looked elegant and lovely

But still she wasn't contented.


When you control your throat, you will live long and healthier life.

At a stage in life you mustn't be eating like your teen or toddler child and expect to be healthy and in good shape.

Discipline, exercise and embracing sometimes determine s how long you will live.

"DISCIPLINE"

Donbabaj:
From my observations I dont think she is, she claimed not to. She has had only one heart break in the past where a guy jilted her and she told me. I have had cause to investigate from a friend in her office but they all said she is just a tough lady but very hard to get. Guys have tried her but couldn't get her.

Just make her bear children her body go come down.

Maybe there something you pretended to be of which she found you are not.
Hence her trust and love drops



Also, such a lady needs more of peting.

Just try to pet her more . get her pregnant and once she drops, her ego will drop more.

Although , we.need to hear her own version of the story.

I CAN SEE LEADERSHIP HAS CHANGED HAND AT THE TOP.

NA U SABI

BEFORE ANYONE COMMENTS HERE , REMEMBER YOU HAVE EITHER A DAUGHTER OR SIBLINGS WHO ARE FEMALES.


YOU KNOW WHEN YOU LOOSES INTEREST IN A WOMAN IT SHOWS. THE OTHER PARTY WILL SUFFER,
So instead of doing that just bring in the person where your interest is currently in , so you can stylishly release the other person, so she doesn't continue to expect so much from you, while you will not meet up with