₦airaland Forum

osato45:
is it possible that two females grinding their pussy together during the act can transmitt std to the other lady?

YES! when two women are scissoring, there's an exchange of fluids from their Jerichos. Fluids are where bacteria and viruses thrive.

KingAzubuike:
If I was fatoyinbo, I'd sue that idiot for defamation and blackmail. These women can be very devilish. They wait for you to be successful and popular before telling the whole world of a rape case that happened in 1945. There's no single evidence yet but see how people are already against an innocent fatoyinbo. God will fight for him.

You Sir, deserve a warm hug.

How much is this baby going for? But the rear bumper, wheels, rear lights and the Formica inside are still those of 2008 Camry but I'm interested in the care. very clean car it is.

And the Government thinks that by placing a ban on Snipper that the number of suicide would drop. Depression, Poverty, Lack of Love and Guilt all happen to top the reasons for suicide in Nigeria.

This woman still stands as one of the best entertainers Nigeria has ever had. I greatly enjoyed her music back in the day.

God rest her soul. This is so touching.

Jasen1:
Thought they said Benz can't hang 4 legs up

Usually, that is the case with BMW Products. Most times, no matter how many times a BMW Product Summersaults, it lands on all four.

That's not a Toyota Product but a Mercedes ML. May the Lord help us at all times.

kennygee:
Hmmn. One man's food is another man's poison.

Me that want low budget wedding and I'm prepared to offend a lot of people in the process self.

Do it coded, go for honeymoon, buy a land and start building it small small.

If you do big wedding, there are still people that will have something negative to say so use the money for more productive things.

This is so smart. it would be nice if a lot of women thought this way.

Not being judgemental, but what drove you to have anything to do with the guy you cheated on your husband with? You cheated on your husband which is bad enough, but with a man who has no love, feelings, respect and empathy? I'm sure your regrets aren't just cos you cheated but with whom you cheated with. Cheating in a relationship or marriage should never be encouraged. You have 2 beautiful Children and a husband and yet you threw it all away, for what? Your husband doubts the paternity of the kids and wants a divorce, can you blame him? Men HARDLY forgive cheating partners.

saasala:
Well...

I know she was the one throwing herself on the said actor, and that made her a bimbo. Their type actually end up single for a very long time or forever. Babymamaism might be her last calling.

But next time, please try to make a move for sex. I know what I am saying. It will boost your ego somehow, especially when the lady is pretty. It's nature bro, dont fight it. You were with her for 5 freaking days mahn!

The celebrity guy she wanted got married 3 years ago and now has a son and another child on the way. I could care less about her anyway. I don't force myself on people neither do I force things to happen. I appreciate your advice. Thank you very much.

saasala:
I respect your decision to avoid having sex with her considering that the three points I previously highlighted are not to go with.

But do you know that sex is a great tool to make someone fall completely for you? Sometimes when the two parties try to play holy and cultured and miss the sex part, everything they try to build scatters in a flash. I believe you should have tried to nyansh the bill board model, you would be surprised that she too might have been longing for your touch. I sometimes don't have sex for the enjoyment, I do because I want to make her crazy about me. Good sex has kept people together forever.

So how is the relationship now?

The relationship didn't work, not because of sex but because of individual differences. She wanted a particular celebrity that was her friend to date and marry so I had to bounce and I can I assure you, till date, she's still single.

lilwetdick:
The high rate of sex obsession among Nigerian young men is alarming, night and day, all you will hear these men talking about sex, how they knack one girl and the other like it an achievement, everything you hear about them talk about is sex, sex, nkechi, sex, Bleep, em sweet, her pussy tight, her pussy no tight, i suck breast and all sort of nonsense talk that adds no value to human civilization, the energy they invest in talking about sex makes it seems like sex is the solution to poverty alleviation or a means to prosperity and a strategy for survival in this country.

The reality is this, a sex-obsessed man can never make anything good out of life. men build society not get obsessed about sex, sex is good but shouldn't be your main focus of existence, why waste your time and energy when you can build and have a good life with the youthful energy you are using to Bleep all the girls in the town, why dont you use it to lay a foundation for your future success so that when you are in your mid 30s-40s you wont be part of the losers shouting how Nigeria is the worst place to live.

Truth be told, most poor men of the future from this genertion will be men who used all their energy, time and thought to get sex rather than to build up their lives.

Take this Fist bump. What a lovely write up.

Sunnymatey:
Really? So its u? Spent 5 days with my fiancee in a hotel room.
Bros be sincere if ur fiancee did same with another guy will u be please with her to the extent of proposing marriage to her?
She told me u guys spent jst a night together (Valentine's Day) meanwhile its 5 whole nights.
Fear women

Lol. Nah, it wasn't Valentine. it was actually in the Month of March in 2014. She is my ex. I had travelled down to Uyo to meet with her. She was serving her Fatherland there at that time. I never had sex with her when I visited but enjoyed her company so much (she's a Nerd). We kept exchanging ideas on Technology.....

sunkieisland:
This is the most unbiased, matured comment I have read on relationship matters in recent weeks.

Nice one

Thank you very much. I really appreciate the comments.

saasala:
@bolded

One or more of these 3 things:
1) She is ugly as fvck
2) You are ugly and broke
3) Either or both of you is gay

That's where you got it wrong. No 1, she is very beautiful and as a matter of fact, she's a billboard Model. No2. I am Handsome and doing very great Financially. No3. She and I are both straight. Sex isn't everything and everything isn't sex. I had travelled to meet with her for the very first time. we needed to get to know each other. it isn't everyone that is sex-driven. I don't rush to have sex with a lady when I meet one. You'd have plenty of time for that when the right time comes.

lonelygem:
But do u know that if it had been the other way round, I mean if she had caught you or even smell it that you attempted cheating on her she wouldn't have forgiven you? And all these family and friends asking you to forgive and forget would have been the one to support her never to forgive you?

One of those lessons you need to learn is 'what you are always pitiful about and wouldn't want to do to a woman, she would do a hundred folds to you without looking back. Sadly the society believe men to be harsh and irrational when it comes to hurtful act but labelled women as fragile hearted and compassionate. Their is no greater evil and sabotage against men than this.

Please, wake up. You are gradually loosing control of the relationship and subjecting your sense of decisions to her parents and relatives for reason best known to u alone.

If u don't want to hurt her, how about hurting yourself in the long run? If by chance you try to take back the full control in future, how would you feel if she eventually tells you you cant introduce something new but keep to how you both had been rolling all along. Some of those things we overlook often come to hunt our affection in future.

Think like a man and don't fall cheap for some unguarded emotions. Marriage is a lifetime contract. So many are already in it to discover they've lost the control, but the shame and stigma of broken marriage makes majority to remain subtle and continue even when the content and credence are long gone.

You, I must say, are full of Wisdom and your words, very plain and simple.

ikemesit4477:
5 days in a hotel with a woman, nothing happens! Abi where you guy's doing Bible studies!

Lol. Sex isn't everything and everything isn't Sex. A lot of people attach so much importance to sex. Get to know someone very well before initiating and introducing sex.

My brother, from what you've written, I could easily deduce that you want to marry her. Can you marry someone who cheated on you in the past? Can you stay married and never have to worry about being cheated in again by your wife? Can you stay married to her without ever having to remind her of her dirty past? Would you go in with the relationship just because her mom is begging or because you still love her? The above questions are questions you should ask yourself and answer as well. Relationships are not for the weak and you need to be ready for whatever results you might get. Secondly, I've spent 5days with a woman In a Hotel in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State and nothing happened between us! About her spending the night in a hotel with another again and nothing happened, she might just be saying the truth. Don't be in a relationship with someone out of pity or reward for what ever reason but because you love the person and want to get your life improved and equally improve the other party. You seem to even be in the relationship because of her parents and not because you love her. Find out what you love about her and if that drives you, stay but if negative, then take your leave. Don't force it.

What in the World do we make of the frequent news of people taking there own lives? If only one could have a reason to hold on and never give up on themselves. Nothing in this World is worth dying for, absolutely nothing.

Such breathtaking views.

casspersteve:
I don't have a lady in my life though, but I believe in months time I should.
I can't even have visitors or answer calls from my female friends.

Brother, as a human being first and then as a man, this is the last thing you need in your life right now. You're looking at going into a relationship in a couple of months, do you seriously think this Lady would let you do that? Do you think she'd watch another lady who's not related to you have your heart? She could try something stupid if you ever try getting into a relationship. Please call it quits now that you both haven't gone far in it. You can't have visitor and can't take calls from females and you think the said Lady isn't a Psycho? Please do something noe before it is too late.

My brother, let's say this your story is true, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, would you want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks or assumes they "own" you? How happy do you really think you'd be in that relationship? you have a Lady in your life and she has a guy in her life, what in the World is wrong with you two? send her away from your life so she doesn't pose a threat to your life if/when both of you have issues....most ladies like this are usually suicidal when a man wants to leave them. Stay faithful to your Lady and if she doesn't want to stay faithful to the man in her life, let that be her problem and not yours. Would you have your girlfriend cheat on you? If you answer yes to that question, then there is a big problem but if no is your answer, then smartly and hastily put the said lady away. Stop the "whatever" you both have been doing in the secret and let her go. Goodluck, Bro.

I cried as I read this story. I suffered the same fate while growing just that mine was more critical and tormenting. I am so proud of you my brother for putting up a good fight. congratulations my dear brother.

Hopillas:
This is a wrong post,you do not know this people.You are speaking to wrong person.
Always double check before you post any untrue message .

Before you start advising me, ask whether or not I know them and not jump into conclusion. I live opposite the church and the church sits side -by - side their school. My Sister -in -law teaches in their School. Don't just attack people without carrying out investigation. Till date, their lesson is still owed them.

And yet they would gladly and unapologetically owe the staff working for them at their schools. How dwelleth the love of God in them

And yet they would gladly and unapologetically owe the staff working for them at their schools. How dwelleth the love of God in them?

GavelSlam:
Let's not even talk about Brazil.

Talking about Brazil would be 'opening a can of worms'. It is nauseating how they make Africa look like the devil's zone meanwhile, they're the one's hatching demons.

One would think the US is a very safe Haven until you watch CBS Reality, Foxlife and some other documentaries on US. Even having a chat with some people living in the US would make you realise these guys hide a lit of their bad sides and make Africa and the Middle East look like the unsafe places to be on Earth. I always wonder to what end their deceit is. Nigeria may have a lot of issues but I have yet to see a country that hasn't issues it is battling. I'm glad that we don't have some random guys opening fire on students every now and then as is always recorded in the US. It is time the US told the World who they really are.